Alexandra Dilworth

Alex isn't buying Vawn's open relationship policy, nor does she think Africa has claims on him after only one date.

on Oct 8, 2013

Hello again loves!

With Valentine's Day near, love was in the air. And Vawn had plenty to give. . .to Africa's dismay.

First of all, I did not realize that we were cuffing men after one date. Africa might have been a little overzealous in her assessment of her relationship with Vawn. Does she think that this was the first time that he microwaved a meal for someone? I've known Vawn for over four years. I've known him longer than I've known Africa and Emily. If I want to talk to my longtime friend, then I will. This isn't middle school.

Just because you go out on one date does not make a man off-limits to other women and it does not make him your boyfriend. At the time of the Valentine's Day party, Africa, Emily, and I were not on speaking terms. How was I supposed to know that Africa had gotten closer with Vawn? I went up to Vawn because he was a friendly face. Vawn and I flirt. We always have. That's us. I'm sorry that Africa got threatened so quickly. If she really were my friend, like she claims, then she would have known that Vawn and I already have a close friendship, and thus there was nothing to be jealous of.