Alexandra Dilworth

Alex isn't buying Vawn's open relationship policy, nor does she think Africa has claims on him after only one date.

on Oct 8, 20130

But Vawn does not help the situation. None of this is new to me. . .or anyone (except Africa). Vawn is perpetuating the single black male stereotype -- a player. Too many men approach women and think that just because they are honest and open about their sexual lives that they can sleep with whomever they choose and that the girl should be OK with that. But that's just not true. Just because you are honest about your sexual transgressions, doesn't mean that you're not hurting someone. Honesty doesn't make you innocent, and I think that sometimes men use it to free themselves of guilt. I'm not sure if the scene came out the way he intended it to, but Vawn does do a better job of explaining himself in his new book! So read it! I'm glad that Tribble brought it up though! I keep learning more and more about this guy, and he really does seem like a true southern gentleman.

I think its interesting that Emily said that she would knock out a chick who is talking to a guy that she went on ONE date with!?! You two seem like y'all are very jealous women! No wonder both of you are single! Y'all are scaring all of the men away with your clinginess! Guys like to chase. Vawn chilled a bowl of strawberries and now she is going all around town acting like she is married to Vawn! Come on girl. You are too old to be behaving like this.

After seeing the way Africa and Emily acted at the party, I knew this was my chance to put my psychology degree to work! Vawn ditch the boring African Safari and come join the exciting circus. Safaris are often dangerous but at the circus, dreams come true and you are always guaranteed to have the time of your life! Vawn baby, this act is dedicated to you! Muah!

36 comments
P8ntgrl
P8ntgrl

What a hot mess you are. Go away

CreoleRed504
CreoleRed504

YOU my darling are a mean girl, and a horrible friend.  I find it hard to believe that you were ever a genuine friend to Africa.  You should always, regardless of the current state of the friendship, remain loyal and respectful.  Loyal in keeping the secrets they entrusted you with, and not kicking dirt in their face.  You have waged an all out war against Africa over what- The fact that she felt some kind of way about your half ass apology?!?! SERIOUSLY!!!! You have A Lot of growing up to do.  I pray to God your mother, whom you aspire so much to be like, is watching.  I hope she advises you that the manner in which you are acting is UNLADYLIKE and HORRIFIC.  I imagine that you are a really pretty girl, but I can't get past your attitude and sense of entitlement to tell.  You talk about how old Africa is, but remember little girl- one day (God willing) you will see that same age. You really should feel shame, but the sad reality is- you don't.

Blossomthyme
Blossomthyme

You do not have any home training at all.  You are embarrassing yourself and your family and you are quickly becoming very unpopular with the audience.  You were wrong in countless ways in the way you followed and tried to bully Africa.  I know you won't be ashamed of yourself because you do not have any class nor are you capable of editing your actions.  You probably don't even know what I'm saying and I understand that.  Hopefully, you'll be able to "GROW" with a little intervention and self-reflection.    

SuzyQ888
SuzyQ888

I think the threads below sum it up.  You seem to have self-dislike and it manifest outwardly in the way you behave.  Yet another A.American woman giving others a bad name..PLEASE BRAVO Depict norm black women..with Alex you putting us down..smh

vcpitts
vcpitts

If you want that dawg Vawn, go for it.  You two will be happy together until you start hating each other.  But leave Africa out of your antics because she is WAY above you in character and charisma.  Keep crawling around with the other vermin; you'll have a lot of company.

Dreid123
Dreid123

That HAIR!!!!!!! What are you thinking???? Let me help you. 1- Relaxer- your edges are ridiculous 2- Wig- Human or Synthetic hair that hasn't been in a fire 3- Make up artist- they can contour the nose or Plastic surgeon which ever you prefer. A good one! 4- Therapist- you clearly have issues 5- A new friend- that little rat you hang with is making you look worse. You can't afford that because you're looking pretty bad right now. Let's try these five things first and you will see things changing in your life! Go on now! Get!!! WIG FIRST!!!!

Turtle012
Turtle012

OMG! I can't believe how ethnocentric, arrogant and mean you are! For someone who has a degree you show very little open mindedness, the sheer inability to debate and express your ideas without street fighting and street talking, the lowest level of etiquette I have seen in someone who is an "owning bitch".  I sure hope you find the man who will make you his trophy because that is your only road to survival.  Didn't they teach you the basics of networking in school? 

Ktaylor251
Ktaylor251

Alex you are so ugly have you looked at your nose in the mirror? You look like a pig!!

Fay_AZ
Fay_AZ

You're so desperate to be famous...it's pretty gross. You all are, but your obvious personality disorder makes you act more viciously than the others. Get some psychiatric help and maybe you won't be so inclined to be the catty, yuck person you seem to be.

O_so_Real
O_so_Real

Your whole existence seems fake. I don't agree at all with what you said. Regardless of friendship you obviously have it out for Africa because Vawn was checking for her and not you. Spend more energy on figuring yourself out and fixing that tired weave.

falina_c
falina_c

Try to be the woman you would like to see in others.  It's a good start.

falina_c
falina_c

You have called out Vawn for being the typical single black man:  a player.  Now have some self-awareness and don't perpetuate the "aggressive angry black woman"

Glamourpuss
Glamourpuss

Once again, I actually agree with your assessments on much of these situations and people's behavior (especially Vawn's), however, you also need to realize that neither you nor Africa should be feeding his ego and you shouldn't be playing the stereotypical, catty female either. If you claim to know the game (especially Vawn's), then don't humor him or play into it, and also try to actually be a bigger person and grown woman for once and don't tastelessly and disrespectfully flirt with him in front of Africa....that's not cool either whether or not they're serious isn't quite the point. All you're doing is making yourself look bad and like an easy target for Vawn and feeding his already overly inflated ego. He obviously doesn't respect you or take you seriously either because if you two had really been friends for so many years, and he's never tried to date you, but propositions sleeping with you, then all you are to him is a cheap and easy piece of ass. 

nvt
nvt

I would hope you would use your degree to help you examine your own behavior." Mean girl "is definitely a personality disorder.

dashbe
dashbe

Vawn is the problem, Alex did nothing more than what Vawn allowed. And if he is single and claims and champions her actions - in front of Africa - where should our issues be?

blackblondie2001
blackblondie2001

Girl girl girl it shows that blondes do have more fun starting with you i  tried to be team Africa but I rather be on your team Go Girl team alex can wait till next week!

li_kim
li_kim

You're a hot as mess...proof money doesn't buy you everything!

kimmy2009
kimmy2009

You are very tacky!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!  Grow up!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EHMakeup
EHMakeup

I think everyone missed the point that night at the V-day party. It's a common problem among women, that we view one another as competition, and draw satisfaction in winning the competition. If I meet a guy at a bar (friend or not), who came there with another women, I have enough respect for all women, not to flirt with that guy. I don't care if that girl and I are mortal enemies, I would never intentionally, and be overly dramatic about it, just because I can. It demonstrates immaturity, callousness and disregard for anyone other then yourself. 

 

Why can't women champion each other, rather then trying to 'steal their man', just because they can? I'm all for women have multiple partners and dating around, but are you so desperate that you can't even wait for another girl to be done with him first? How impatient and sad. Hoping to see some maturity in coming episodes, but I remain cautiously optimistic. 

LuvDeBar
LuvDeBar

From what I gathered Africa wasn't the one having the issues...her friends were.  She seems to understand they are just starting out...not in a full relationship.  However, your immaturity showed and it was not attractive.

jperry45
jperry45

First of all your comment that you made about cuffing men for one date, you as a woman should respect your friend if she is or was your friend when she is out with Vawn whether you were friends or not, you would not like it if you were out on a date and some woman did the same as you were doing flirting or now, show some respect, you have a lot to learn and do something with your hair it looks a mess.

Dreid123
Dreid123

@Ktaylor251 I wanted to say that but I kept it to myself so, thank you! She needs a hair stylist and a plastic surgeon ASAP!!! That nose needs WORK! And that poor animal on her head is hurt! She looks like a fool! If her attitude was better then we wouldn't focus on these things. Ugly on the inside you're ugly on the outside. And she has the nerve to wear CONTACTS!!! I can't ! Alex, have SEVERAL seats!!! Make the first one at the beauty salon! With a seat belt! You are BUSTED as hell!!!

srstafford
srstafford

 @Glamourpuss Well said. My grandmother always told me, "what a man will do with you, he (Vawn) will do to you (Alex)."

 

EHMakeup
EHMakeup

 @dashbe I'm curious on this, shouldn't Alex have enough respect for other women, not to physically flirt with a guy who came to that event with another women? That's really my only issue. Alex seems to enjoy competing with women and draws satisfaction in 'stealing her man'. Vawn's gonna do what Vawn's gonna do, but why do the women play into it?

VikkiP
VikkiP

 @jperry45

 Spot on.  It's not about Vawn being in a committed relationship with Africa or not.  It's about respecting a friend and not being shady. 

southern_goddess
southern_goddess

 @Dreid123  @Ktaylor251

 Alex, a.k.a. "The Lion King," is tore up from the floor up, beat up from the feet up, and decked up from the neck up!  The most hilarious thing is, she thinks she hotter than any girl on the show!  Thanks for the laugh Alex!  True beauty comes from within, but when you're ugly on the inside, your outter flaws are much easier to see! 

Dreid123
Dreid123

@srstafford @Glamourpuss I like that saying! Go grandma! Love it!

dashbe
dashbe

 @EHMakeup  I find that thought process belittling to men. Vawn has a mind. Why is it he gets to "do what he does" and Alex has to have enough respect for "women". No most women do not have respect for an enemy. But even the ones that do that is grace and more respect for self. It just bothers me that women are okay with letting a "man be a man" and its another woman not in that relationship that has to be the gatekeeper to his pants? 

Sonc
Sonc

 @EHMakeup  @dashbe  Alex doesn't even respect herself, how in the  heck is she gonna respect someone else?

Sonc
Sonc

 @VikkiP  @jperry45 Alex would first have to be a friend and respect herself first, which isn't likely to happen ANYtime soon!