I think you were wrong for the way you approached things at Alex's party. Even if I thought it was ridiculous I would have enough sense to wait until later to put in my two cents. You didn't know her well enough and it kind of messed up her party. What works for one person may not make sense for another but it's a free country and being a housewife/trophy wife is what she prefers. So why did it matter so much to you? You both come off as a bit immature. Africa stands out in this group as the one with the most class and decency.