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Vawn Is Pickier Than You Think

Vawn shares how he feels about Alex, Africa, and about their "self-defense" fight in the bathroom.

Watching this episode was cool. Alex came by my house to talk to me about something. I was taken back a little bit when she said we could be a power couple. I feel like she tells everyone that so I need more time to see if she’s really sincere about it or not. I guess it’s flattering though.

Everyone in the world probably doesn’t think I’m a picky guy and don’t have any values but you’re wrong! Just because someone shows interest in you doesn’t mean you have to take it. Just so you know I’m picky about a lot of values. I have more values than you think I do. . .LOL. But that’s fine because everyone doesn’t get it until they get it.

On to the date with Africa: It was fun, cool, and playful like we always do. One thing I hope you learned is that everything I said on the previous episode, I did. Meaning I was extremely honest and upfront with her.

You can commend Africa on being a woman who knows how to ask the right questions. Most women don’t know to ask the right questions before they get their feelings so involved in a man. And men need to learn how to tell the truth when women ask these questions -- before sex and before they get what they want. I’m not ready to be in a relationship and if you want to know why, then go to TheManUAall.com to buy my book. It will inform you on everything you want to know.

Now let’s talk about this fight. The fight was NOT about me! Even though the world wants to think that it was, it really wasn’t. I don’t condone two women fighting over any man. I’m not attracted to that at all. It started out as a witty conversation then it became aggressive. I’m not really mad at anyone because I’m not here to judge. But I don’t understand why Alex would push Africa to that level. Africa was only doing what anybody else would do, which is stand up for herself. It’s called self-defense, not fighting over a man. I just wanted to clear it up to everyone that it didn’t have anything to do with me.

In the episode, I also saw Emily trying to tell Africa what Tribble told her about my philosophy on women -- which wasn’t the truth. Africa knows the entire story and the way I think -- which is why she wasn’t surprised when she was talking to Emily. I’m not pushing for intimacy nor sex (even though I think she’s sexy), but my actions are always going to be building our friendship. I want to make sure I don’t take advantage of our friendship because that’s way more important to me.

Have a great day and embrace your own honesty.

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