Jevon 'Vawn' Sims

Vawn shares how he feels about Alex, Africa, and about their "self-defense" fight in the bathroom.

on Oct 15, 20130

Watching this episode was cool. Alex came by my house to talk to me about something. I was taken back a little bit when she said we could be a power couple. I feel like she tells everyone that so I need more time to see if she’s really sincere about it or not. I guess it’s flattering though.

Everyone in the world probably doesn’t think I’m a picky guy and don’t have any values but you’re wrong! Just because someone shows interest in you doesn’t mean you have to take it. Just so you know I’m picky about a lot of values. I have more values than you think I do. . .LOL. But that’s fine because everyone doesn’t get it until they get it.

On to the date with Africa: It was fun, cool, and playful like we always do. One thing I hope you learned is that everything I said on the previous episode, I did. Meaning I was extremely honest and upfront with her.

You can commend Africa on being a woman who knows how to ask the right questions. Most women don’t know to ask the right questions before they get their feelings so involved in a man. And men need to learn how to tell the truth when women ask these questions -- before sex and before they get what they want. I’m not ready to be in a relationship and if you want to know why, then go to TheManUAall.com to buy my book. It will inform you on everything you want to know.

101 comments
mavieenrose
mavieenrose

Men who cheat do so because they have low testosterone levels and need constant stimulation (i.e. "newness') to be aroused. Real men, in every sense of the word, can appreciate ONE woman, feel fulfilled by ONE woman, feel fully attracted to ONE woman, and don't need to go sniffing else where to find stimulation. Vawn is a disgusting loser, and I feel bad for any woman that doesn't see that.

margnotsimpson519
margnotsimpson519

Vawn you can "try" to detach yourself from that fight all you want - the real truth is -  you knew from the gate that Africa has feelings for you. You also know that Alex flirts and wants to have sex with you.  This is an ego stroke that you enjoy very much; it's quite obvious. Don't flatter yourself

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

To answer the question about the 3 superstar singers.  I give a HUGE edge to Janet Jackson.  

 

1. Playing Penny on "good times" still outweighs anything that Mariah or Beyounce has ever done or did.  I remember Penny getting burned by that hot iron but couldn't tell you what Beyoncé had on at the Superbowl.

 

2. Janet came from being a child star to a woman. We saw her grow up.  

 

3. Janet Jackson's "Pleasure Principal" video still to this day beats anything that the other two have done.   I also like that Janet didn't have to sell out to the hip hop scene like Mariah did.  Ms csrey went from SANGING to looking like a hip hop video queen making trash music.

 

4. It's also nice that she didn't sell herself out and turn her hair into that Euro looking blonde. She stayed to her natural ROOTS.

taniasveta
taniasveta

if you where honest...you would not not end up having a son and not living with a mother of the son. Only shows that you put yourself first...always and always. You don't have emotional capacity to need more from life then just a sexual satisfaction and a pretend of playfulness to get a woman to fall for you. It is playing into your ego. If women falls for you...you feel validated. She may never guess that your soul is empty and you have no need to feel for anybody but yourself.  Music for you is just a way to make a living. Your empty emotion-tank is the very ingredient you need to make it music world...your sexual escapades are just that. 

mon.martin.7
mon.martin.7

So you Want to sell your book about this ground breaking new philosophy you have regarding sleeping around and doing whatever you want so long as you answer the questions you are asked honestly. News break, this is not new and this doesnt take a genius. Bottom line is that you hurt people who care about you and you excuse yourself by saying that you are honest about the way that you are. You take all the romance out of getting to know someone by ditching her for a booty call on tv. Way to go some winner you are, your mother must be proud.

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

Vawn I'm sure you know that you are NOT responsible for making a woman happy and emotionally stable.  Stay strong because a lot of insecure people MEN and WOMAN can't handle a REAL TRUE MAN like yourself!!!  I commend you for living your life FOR YOU and not for others!  You did nothing wrong in any of the episodes!  You went to a party alone and single it's your right to leave with whoever you want to leave with! Only real confident and secure and NON JUDGEMENTAL people know this.  I'm so sick of black woman putting black men down because of their own insecurities and emotional issues!  Its not your fault that she got emotionally involved with you KNOWING that you were not looking for that!  Now we know that she can't handle it.  Yet that's her problem! You are a free man and don't owe her any explanation at all!  It grates my nerve how people are lashing and bashing you but REFUSE to see the TRUTH! The truth is you're a strong man and you will never be responsible for another human's happiness.  You have no gf or wife!! So continue to do you and have fun!   STAY STRONG AND REMEMBER THERE ARE PLENTY OF PEOPLE OUT HERE WHO UNDERSTAND YOU!   

TJSLIDE
TJSLIDE

Sir, most of us out here watching at first thought.. WOW what a guy.  but now you have blown it.

the only girls your gonna end up with are exactly like Alex... drama, drama, drama

and as long as you act the way you are and feel the way you do, you will never ever get (in the future) a woman like Africa that as you said yourself "".. i would take her to meet my parents""

too bad that you couldnt listen to your friend Tribble and too bad that you couldnt see that most of your buddies at that party where you discussed this with the men in your life, were simply laughing at you and thinking.. OK GREAT! THAT LEAVES THE GREAT WOMEN FOR ME :)

they just grinned and laughed and i can see why

 

I WOULD LOVE TO SEE YOU TAKE A WOMAN LIKE ALEX HOME

 

hahhahah now THAT would be a show!

jA1
jA1

Hello Vawn,

 

Mariah Carey is MY fave because she is classy and she stayed tough when the "big dogs" in the industry tried to bring her down. She literally forged her path right to the throne she sits on today. Janet had protectors and Beyoncé also has been guarded and shielded all the way to her gilded glory.

NOW I don't know when HONESTY got to the point where you can talk sexy t o each piece of ass that walks and talks in front of you if they are to your standards.  Come on dude you look really bad even if your mind is deep and your looks are lovely.

vfmcc
vfmcc

You are so sleezy.    Africa has too much class to be dealing with a brother like you. She would be better off with Tribble, or anyone else besides you.   It’s ok being honest about dating other women, but very classless to talk to another woman while you are with someone. 

Consciousness
Consciousness

Vawn is her a few books that you can read Eckhart Tolle, A new earth awakening to your Life Purpose this book is about the Ego and Psycho-Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz this book is about Self Image. I hope you think about this wishing you all the best my brother, I say my brother because we are all connected. Take care!

Consciousness
Consciousness

Vawn, I have a lot of compassion for you because you really think that it is OK to manipulation and disrespect woman but the sad part is that this is about how you feel about yourself and the woman that are on your frequency doesn't feel good about themselves either this is why they are attracted to you. Life is about experiences and it is my sincerest desire for you to learn from your experiences so that you can get to the Real Self just planting a seed take it or leave! I SEND THIS MESSAGE WITH MY LOVE & LIGHT!

tobey
tobey

As long as you can handle the truth of what you dish out, I think that is what is important here. If you are going to go on being as you say, with other women and honest about it then any woman you are with or dating can also be with other men and be true and honest about it too. 

daniebaby
daniebaby

From what ive seen on the show you to seem to be keeping it real. And you know women are emotional so even when youre "saying" one thing we can read into your actions much more. Women! Ive seen you repeatedly say in your words that youre single but i guess these women want more? I dont care what they say i like how you keeping it real!

spiritoflaughter
spiritoflaughter

You are far from picky.  Any woman that walks and seems enamored about the pig you are, you just take them home.  I am so sorry that also included Africa, I wish she had been smarter than that.

makaylaaaa16
makaylaaaa16

I wonder how you are going to explain leaving with another girl when you were with Africa on tomorrows episode.

biancashines
biancashines

I think that you are a gentleman.  A true gentleman, and there is no larger compliment that I can bestow.  And don't take this the wrong way (if they even post it) I don't really like black guys, even thou funnily enough , I am black.  As i said, my brother, it emanates thru the TV, that are the full package.    !  keep your head up homie 

matchboxpatty
matchboxpatty

Vawn, Africa has class, Alex is trash!  Plain & simple.

p.s. you are really hot looking but don't let it go to your head..... too much.

 

Keka
Keka

Being a Douchebag its a pre requisite for any reality show, but a boring one? Dude you make people yawn, at least update your look Or come out already..

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

VAWN YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON ON THE SHOW THAT IS REALLY REPRESNTING THE "NEW"ATLANTA!!!!

You are spot on about the  men's AND REAL WOMANS outlook.   I am so tired of woman tearing down our good black men because they themselves have no self control and run with their emions. YOU ARE NOT A LIAR!  IT'S NOT UP TO YOU TO PROVIDE EMOTIONAL SUPPORT TO ANY WOMAN. YOU ARE SINGLE AND FREE.  YOU KNOW WHAT YOU WANT IN YOUR LIFE AND IF A FEMALE WANTS MORE THAN YOU CAN GIVE THAT IS NOT YOUR PROBLEM.   ITS UP TO THEM TO MOVE ON TO A MAN THAT WILL GIVE THEM WHAT THEY NEED.

 

I THINK YOU'RE FANTASTIC AND I LOVE HOW HONEST YOU ARE WITH THESE EMOTIONAL WOMAN.   SO GO ON ND CONTINUE TO ENJOY YOUR LIFE AS A SINGLE MAN.   THERE ARE MANY GORGEOUS AND GREAT PERSONALITIES OUT THERE TO EXPLORE.   A LOT OF WOMAN UNDERSTAND YOU. 

 

YOU EXCUDE CLASS,SEXINESS,HONESTY.

 

lisarc
lisarc

Oh hell no I wouldn't buy your book for anything...ur just like every other loser boy out there who thinks hes all that. U try to hard it makes you look stupid. Like your a 19 man child who just needs another piece of booty. U don't care about women or their feeling. You are out for you. Sad to see good women cant see past ur bs

piperbeau
piperbeau

I really hope Africa wakes up and realizes who you really are, a shady douche kabob!!! You are so obvious! Look at your picture for this blog, you look like your trying to make love to the camera!! LMFAO!!! Just try being your self for once!  Mature women can see right through your facade! I'm not buying your act for the cameras!! You seem way to contrived and phony! Almost like you came on the show with an agenda and your sticking to it... Right now your looking extremely shallow! There has got to be more to you?!! Please don't turn out to be like Stevie J from Love and Hip Hop?!! He really grosses me out...  I don't think you realize that your facade is a definite turn off for a confident self assured woman! It actually surprises me that Africa is interested...

flaviacaval
flaviacaval

OH one more thing, you talk to much.

randrew
randrew

Anything to sale your book huh... no thank you, not buying it... or you.

gibsontara34
gibsontara34

umm, you are disgusting .... and that's all I have to say about that

brandy666
brandy666

It takes more of a man to keep a good woman than to get a woman..You are not man enough to keep a good one. Africa is smarter then you and the low class chicks you hang with..

TallCaliGal
TallCaliGal

YAWN, no, I was addressing you dear.......

Kim20
Kim20

Vawn,

 

Thank you so much for being you.  Ladies, this man is providing a window into the hearts and minds of the perpetual peter-pans out there of all socio-economic strata, and races.

 -these men expect the benefits of a committed relationship, but treat commitment like kryptonite;

-these men don't date, they hook-up, after all inviting someone to a bar or someone else's party is less expensive than dinner;

- these men offer episodic sexual events, not love-making which is a physical manifestation of love;

-these men are similar to ameba's, they bounce from woman to woman leaving their detritus; 

-these men think only of themselves and will never put your needs first;

-these men are willing to take the hearts and soul of women who place very little value on themselves;

 

Lastly,

-these are the same men who women are inclined to infect with disease, because they too would like to reciprocate the indifference that has been afforded to them. 

bai970
bai970

I don't mind you or your thoughts about relationships but you put so much work into being "you".  The coolness clearly doesn't come naturally because it takes so much effort.  

 

jperry45
jperry45

Vawn dear you are a player and a no good man, it's OK to be honest and have good values and you have none why don't you just tell the ladies that you're not interested in settling down you just want to date every woman that will go out with you and you're probably telling them all the same DAM thing, Africa is too good for you anyway and I think neither one of you knows how to explain your feelings, she is more interested in you than just a friend and is she was just a friend she wouldn't care who you dated but that is not the case, so you need to set the record straight and tell both women that you're only intersted in taking as many women to bed as you can and that's it sucm bag.

Moverlin
Moverlin

People that always wear sunglasses inside HAVE to because it's ALWAYS sunny in Doucheville.

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

 @TJSLIDE

 HOW DID HE BLOW IT?  OK SO AFRICA IS A GOOD PERSON.  DOES THAT MEAN HE HAS TO STAY WITH HER AT THE PARTY?  HE DIDNT COME WITH HER SO HE DOESNT HAVE TO LEAVE WITH HER???  MAYBE HE WANTED A DIFFERENT WOMAN THAT NIGHT??? HE OWES NOBODY ANY EXPLAINATION??  HE'S NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR AFRICA'S EMOTIONAL WELL BEING?   ONLY AFRICA IS.  SO IF SHE FEELS THAT SHE IS CATHING FEELINGS FOR A MAN WHO "CHOOSES" TO BE SINGLE THAN THAT IS FOR HER TO DEAL WITH NOT HIM!!

 

VAWN IS CONFIDENT AND SEXY! HE IS A MAN WHO KNOWS WHAT HE WANTS AND DOESNT WANT!

 

taniasveta
taniasveta

 @vfmcc and disrespect Africa by walking in front of her with another woman...all this talk about respect...ha? you don't know what respect means. 

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

 @Consciousness

Vawn is not a manipulator.   That is for those people who LEAD people on with hope.  Vawn is straight up about what he wants right now.  People are bashing him when he is doing nothing wrong.  You would think he's Obama and you guys are CONGRESS.  Enough of the bs. 

If Africa left the party with a man she wouldn't be bashed or hated on like this.   

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

 @tobey

  They sure can!  I'm just like Vawn! I choose to be single! I don't owe anyone anything! Im up front and if they can't handle that then its up to them to take care of their own mindset!!  its call PERSONAL ACCOUNTABLITY!!

 

DawnMarie12
DawnMarie12

 @makaylaaaa16

really? you're wondering what he will say??  HOW ABOUT YOU ARE NOT MY WIFE NOR GURL SO SQAUSH IT.   NOR DID WE COME TOGETHER!!!  VAWN IS NOT AFRICA'S SLAVE!!

 

mavieenrose
mavieenrose

 @biancashines A true gentleman doesn't stare at a woman's butt like she is some type of animal, right in front of another woman who has feelings for him, and then leaves to go have sex with the first. 

lizl-a
lizl-a

@matchboxpatty Too late it did go to his head and he is not not not hot his demeanor makes him soooo ugly.

Fysl
Fysl

 @KekaYour response tells me everything.  Stupidity breeds stupidity...

 

pink29
pink29

 @DawnMarie12 Sure !!! are you freaking kidding me you girls are applauding him because he is a player , and like to play with women feelings, he wants to sleep with as many women as possible but wait " he is a good guy because he is being honest" He is far away from a honest respectful man that deserves a classy respectful woman. GIRLS WAKE UP FOR GOD SAKE

lizl-a
lizl-a

WTH ??? Go back to Mars!

prettygurl2469
prettygurl2469

 @lisarc How you gonna call him a loser? You don't know that man. He has been on the show for like 5 minutes. you can't know someone's character from a reality show.  I bought the book and it's actually very informative. It's kind of like that Steve Harvey book. Tells you how men look at things and there a while bunch of other people in there, not just Vawn.

loveitleslie
loveitleslie

 @randrew  You have to try to succeed any way you can. I applaud Vawn for taking this opportunity to hustle and make the most of his 15 minutes of fame. A lot of people don't get that opportunity. Support a Black man trying to do something other than sports and rapping.

prettygreeneyes
prettygreeneyes

 @randrew  You have to try to succeed any way you can. I applaud Vawn for taking this opportunity to hustle and make the most of his 15 minutes of fame.

prettygreeneyes
prettygreeneyes

 @Kim20 What are are you talking about? It sounds like you are lumping up all your bad experiences with men and dumping them on Vawn. To take it all the way to spreading disease is too much.  Someone must have fooled you and given you a disease or something, whew!   You have to be not smart and not use protection to get diseases. It's every woman's right to demand safe sex regardless of the circumstance.   A dishonest man will spread disease not and honest one. I would not buy your book cause you sound single, miserable and scorned. 

flaviacaval
flaviacaval

 @Kim20

 WOW BRAVO , I am applauding you till now. YOU HAVE TO WRITE A BOOK I WILL BUY IT :)

nina.goertz.9
nina.goertz.9

 @loveitleslie  @randrew

 Nice try, Vawn, but renaming yourself something that starts with pretty and making ignorant comments to defend yourself and your pitiful efforts is laughable.