I will have your baby. My husband and I own a real estate company together and he has made our life all work no play no family. We have been married 11 years and I keep thinking if I work harder we will get to a point we can start a family. So far no hope. It is a pivotal point. Work should NEVER come before family. Nothing is more important than your baby.
I have tried complaining and it does not work. If you have any hope I suggest you try to win her over with compliments and acknowledge her accomplishments while assuring her you are not trying to sabatoge her career but add fullfillment to her life. You can structure you life for work and family. If that does not work leave. At some point your partner has to respect and honor what you want and not just what they want.