Rodger, Rodger, Rodger.  Before you know it, you'll be watching your much loved son pointed at and laughed at because of the way he's dressed, talks, and the way he's smothered and mothered.  Use the voice I know you have and assume some influence over the way he's being raised.  Unless you believe a leopard can change it's spots, Rachel won't change, so it's up to you to insert a voice of reason and commonsense his life. 

I get such a kick out of you guys! As far as your sons wardrobe, let Rachel dress him as she likes now. Believe me the kids , get to point where they have much say in what they are wearing. There is no way your son will dress like that when he is in school. He will, rebel , and God know what he will put on! So , enjoying dressing him, while you can!

 I think Sky looks so cute in a pair of jeans and a tshirt. looks like your average BOY, not a gucci model. Dressing up for certain occasions is great but for every day wear, let Roger have some say, it's his son too.