DeShawn Snow

DeShawn reflects on the Reunion.

on Nov 26, 20080

Hello! I am glad I am able to write to you one final time. As always, I will keep my comments to a minimum. I think the reunion special was very interesting! I feel that everyone had an opportunity to clear up any misconceptions, and to address any issues. Andy certainly caught me off guard when he asked me my thoughts on everything! I was trying to properly articulate my thoughts (LOL) and was at a lost of words. That shot of me was hilarious. At the end of the day, our lives will always be connected because of the show (as NeNe points out). I still think highly of each of the ladies and wish them much success on their endeavors. While we may not all hang out, we are all still cordial to one another.

I want to thank everyone for making our first season such a success! It couldn't have happened without you guys. This definitely has been a learning experience and I think I am a lot stronger because of it. I am encouraged by all of the positive responses I have received. A lot of great opportunities have come out of the show.

172 comments
Alxndra
Alxndra

u were too classy for this show which is why your no longer on it! thank your lucky stars that you got out when you did. I think ur a phenomenal women w/a lot to offer your community and your family. keep doing what you do

lol21
lol21

Bravo replace Sheree with DeShawn. She has interesting storyline unlike Sheree. Miss you alot!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Auth
Auth

Pleasing you sohlud think of something like that

Viewer in TN
Viewer in TN

I just love it in Season 1 when you say "I always knew I was destined for greatness". What does that mean exactly? and how great is it now to not have your chef and nanny and big house or husband to pay for it? You could stand to learn some humility. Think about it.

Ileana
Ileana

The Housewives of Atlanta need you back... Where are you? What are you up too?

chiny
chiny

Dear Deshawn you are truly a role model for young women.The lord is going to take you places .you are going to go higher .Just continue to be humble and let Jesus guide you in all your ways . I admire your dignity. stay focus on God and may God bless you and family. I miss you

T.M.
T.M.

Hi DeShawn I was a little surprised that you weren't there for Season 2 when they showed the first episode of the new season. I know we all have times where we need to step back from the lime light as seen with many different stars and celebrities. I was just wondering why you would since I would have thought you would have wanted to expose your new project in Africa, and maybe it would help to raise money to help those people in Africa. I hope to see you throughout the show with different lunches and meetings with the ladies. And I hope to see your answer on the blog.

I hope everything works out for you in Africa and best wishes, A big fan

wedding planner
wedding planner

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Snow, I too am a fan of Atlanta Housewives and truly miss you all. I thought your husband gave great advice. I also liked how he asked you to come to the other room to talk when he saw the set up for the fundraiser event. Nicely done. I'm glad to see him hosting a sports show and I like how you all stepped back from season 2 to make your family priority.

Maria Luisa
Maria Luisa

Hello I write from Venezuela, my name is Maria Luisa and I am 55 years old, I watched the first season where you appeared, I regret not seeing her in the second because I firmly believe is the only one who has his feet on the ground and knows what he wants, I very much hope that this email reaches you would like to know more about you, greetings from my country, a hug to yours Maria Luisa Lopez Mabuisa@cantv.net VENEZUELA

rchl
rchl

Loved the first Season but I do think you made the right decision to not come back. You are better than that and it shows!! Your just too classy I hope you do well on everything you do!! Rchl in MS

Vera Gomez
Vera Gomez

DeShawn

The show is not the same without you

Come Back!!!!!

Mrs. T
Mrs. T

Hey DeShawn,

I do miss you on the show. I think the mere fact that you didn't feed into all the drama is something that people still need to see. They need to see that not a black women act like that. I know you'll continue to do great things because you have Christ on your side. Oh.. and maybe you need to make a guest apperance like the other viewer said. What do you think about this season???? A mess right...hahahaaa

California DIVA
California DIVA

Although I miss you I completely understand why you did not come back the second season; because you are a TRUE CLASS ACT! You did not fit for all the right reasons. I admire you and I am glad that you gave America a short and sweet peek at a classy Black Woman. I haven't kept up with the second season so much, (the previews are quite enough). I am so glad that if even for a "minute" people got to see something other than a representation of the aweful stereotypes about Black Women. I want to say, "thank you!" May God continue to bless you and your Family.

Viewer
Viewer

Hi DeShawn I am so glad that you decided to study the word of God and minister to the masses. I like the way you run your home and your charities. Could you give the other ladies periodic counseling on how to be prayerful and less materialistic. You kept NeNe grounded last year she needs advice now. Maybe you can occasionaly contact Lisa or Kandi; the other housewives are so self-centered they don't think they need any instruction or prayers

That's So Raven
That's So Raven

Deshawn think you should make a guest appearance on season 2

Tiff
Tiff

HI Deshawn, I miss you being on the show, you are on of the classy woman who stayed away from all the drama. There should have been more woman like you on the show. Your attitude and personality is nothing like the others.

Maria angel
Maria angel

Hi De Shawn i was wondering why you did not return to the show, but after watching this season i understand. You are way too classy of a lady to be on this bravo drama crap. Nee Sherr Lisa Hateful awful people with no class. I live pay check to pay check, and i know i would rather be poor than on a bravo tv show. making a fool of myself.. Bravo you may want to rethink your shows.

Pamela
Pamela

DeShawn, You are a real classy lady!! I never saw you backstab, talk trash or anything about any of the girls. And when they did about each other you stayed very neutral. That takes alot of will power. I hope life is treating you well and you and your family are enjoying every moment together.

Viewer
Viewer

Deshawn I really wish u were still on the show to show the viewers that all black women are not ghetto ..u r a good role model for young blsck girls and i appreciate u..u r classy not trashy..much love to u and the fam!!!

Selma
Selma

Hello De Shawn, I really miss you on the show. You had so much class about yourself. As a wife, mother and business woman you always kept it together, everything about you was so well balanced. I am in hopes of you returning back to the show. De Shawn your return to the show will help other women see that you can continue a godly walk with god, no matter what kind of fame you have in your life. Please pray about this. What ever the answer let the viewer know, we all wish you and your family the very best. GOD BLESS YOU

LADY H
LADY H

DESHAWN---------------CAN YOU SAY CLASS??? BECAUSE THATS WHAT YOU EXCUDE ON THE SHOW. YOU ARE THE ONLY LADY ON THE SHOW!!!! ONE CLASS ACT!!!! STAY THAT WAY!!!!

Viewer
Viewer

You have more common sense them all of them.

Perceptive Pat
Perceptive Pat

DeShawn, like Kandi...you were "a butterfly amongst gnats." I don't blame you for not returning to the show. I heard Kandi may opt out of Season 3 too. Good for y'all.

eiliyah's mom
eiliyah's mom

omg i really missed you alot hope you return but i also understand why you backed away but just wanted you to know you and the family are still loved and always in my prayers

Viewer
Viewer

DeShawn, What happen...I was looking for you on the next season.Are you comng back?

bev -c
bev -c

Deshawn I am very proud of you, you handled your self as a real classy woman. I have much respect for you; your husband should be proud to have a woman like you for a wife. You did not allow yourself to fall into the foolishness and you are very humble and meek you kept things positive and you tried to be the peace maker just remember the pure at heart shall see God. I wish you much success in what ever you do and may God continue to bless you, your family and the Deshawn Snow Foundation.

GOD BLESS

shelly
shelly

so glad you left them petty women. you were the only one with class on the show. it's no amount of money that can make me disgrace myself in front of millions of viewers like that. good luck in all you do and GOD BLESS

Baby
Baby

Deshawn, I think you did the right thing by not returning to the show.I think some of the ladies on the show do not have respect for themselves some people do anything to make a little money.Miss you and stay sweet.

janice
janice

DeShawn, You're laid back, how did they ever pick you for a housewife. I think you really do hear crickets, but you're sweet and need to get out some.

pamie k
pamie k

DeShawn, Really miss having a grown-up on the show....I think that you are such a kind and giving person....You made the show more peaceful....We will all miss you....I hope Kandi makes it....she's alot like you but a little more outspoken... Lots of Love

Viewer
Viewer

DeShawn, although I don't understand WHY you NEED all the staff that you have, I definitely understand why you did not return for a 2nd season. You just did not fit it with the other ladies. You were the most reserved and the quietest, but it became very clear very early in the show that you are not into all that kind of mess. You portray yourself with dignity and respect and the show was just not your cup of tea. You deserve a classier show. Don't get me wrong, it's my favorite show and it's the most entertaining, but you just wasn't into all that drama and I respect you for that. Eric should be proud to have a wife like you who represents him so well.

Take care of yourself.

Qual.

Viewer-222
Viewer-222

DeShawn,

You were the BEST housewife on Atlanta and I miss you... however, I realize that you are "well above" all of the gossip and drama that the other girls are into. I wish you much luck and success but you don't really need my wishes of luck as I know you are going on to bigger and BETTER things. Much bigger and much better!

Love you, girl!! And wish we could see a civilized show with you in it....not all of this mixed up crazy drama that Bravo is noted for.

Viewer
Viewer

now this is the CLASSIEST housewife! im just being real!It seems as if people on some of these blogs can barely define class. you had no drama on the show but thats simply because you not putting all your business out there for people to see! So kudos to you and stay classy woman you already are!

Millie
Millie

DeShawn, please know that it is a real compliment to NOT be invited back onthe trashiest of all Real Housewives shows. Keep loving Eric and the boys.

E

Jameka
Jameka

i will miss you.

Shanda
Shanda

Hey Deshawn... i loved ya on the show when i took the Which Housewife are you ? quiz i was most compatible with you. I admire you and your husband's relationship i can tell that u both love each other very much and it's apparent that your not with him just for money because you was with him when he didn't have anything. so i wanna know what was the real reason why you didn't return for the second season.

Anna
Anna

Hi DeShawn,

I think you're awesome and really connected with you on the show. I wish you were back on. It was good to have a voice of reason in all of the crazy madness. And, you actually represent the typical affluent Atlanta housewife. I'm not sure why Bravo believes that affluent women need to be depicted fighting, cursing, pulling out hair weaves and the rest of the nonsense. Best to you.

Viewer
Viewer

Deshawn May the lord continue to provide for you and your family. You were the only mature woman on this show. You did not entertain the stupidity that the others demonstrated on the show. You are the only real house wife of Atlanta and I'm happy your no longer involved in the drama. Continue to stay strong by praying and trusting in God.I wish you the best.

Mile
Mile

You were Real woman, and classy...Im glad you ar out of this drama. Very good what you'r doing to help others....thumbs up! Wish you the best!

Viewer
Viewer

Deshawn, we miss you. I hope you come back to the show. You are wonderful and i enjoy the fact that you go to church.

Belle
Belle

I'm so sad that you're not on the show anymore but I'm SURE you're in a better place. It just takes all kinds to make a show and you were the good one. I love that you represented yourself and your family life with Christianity and that you didn't stoop to the level of the others. Best of luck to you, hon!

Candy Rose
Candy Rose

In reading the blogs, I learned that you are not on the show this season. I watched a viewing of ATL Housewives last week, and looked for you. I felt that you were somewhere else, and would appear on the very next presentation. I am most definitely disappointed that you are not appearing on the show this season. Your personality and persona is a delight, and I must watch this week to see how the show flows.

I know that God is watching over you, and you are being divinly guided. I know that you will soar as well!!!

Keep the faith and know that I shall remember you in my prayers!

Kizzie Sanders Power In Prayer Outreach Ministries San Antonio, Tx

Viewer
Viewer

Thank you for not returning to this mess of a show. You did not belong with the foolish. Keep your head on start and your eyes on God.

Viewer
Viewer

WE MISS YOU!!!! You are a class act and probably the only REAL Housewife with money and ambition. I love your relationship with your husband too, you guys just seem so genuine. I wish you all well...and it's probably best that you are not on this season, it's full of BS, everybody houses getting foreclosed and living beyond their means....and just downright childish with all of the he said, she said...Best of luck to you DeShawn!

Lena
Lena

Hello DeShawn: I just wanted to write and say that you are to much of a lady to sell yourself so cheap for this show 2nd season. It is so trashy. I don't know what these women are trying to protray (ladies is not the fitting word) and the producer's should be ashamed. When will it stop. I don't watch it as much as the first season. I probably will watch it less and less because it is just to negative and just plain trashy and ghetto in the sense of no class at all. I commend you DeShawn a lady with class and respect and love for our God. I love the scene's when you were in church. I knew they would not want you to come back or you chose not to.....it is sad that a good wholesome show is hard to find these days on the tubes. I just stick to Law and Order and my religious shows. Stick to you guns lady, the lord has something better in store. It would be nice to see a show about positive ladies doing positive things and not cursing and using the B word, referring to one another....It is so sad what one will do for money.....Dwights has the class - teach them something Dwight.......

Lannie
Lannie

You and your family are truely missed on 2nd season, does this mean you will get your own show? The 2nd season was it for me!!! Too trashy. Hope you and your family are healthy and happy, you look Great!

Terri
Terri

I am sooooo happy to see that one of you had the sense to get off the show. While it may be meant to be entertaining, it also has accomplished to keep the perception going that Black women can be loud and obnoxious.

TryHIM4Real
TryHIM4Real

DaShawn,

I'm not surprised you didn't return. You really didn't need that in your life. I think you fulfilled your purpose last season in getting your foundation out there. You were the glimpse of light on the show. I pray that one of the others wives get saved and allow God to use them to be a witness. I'm sure you planted the seed, God will send someone to water it. I hope things are well with you and your husband.

ViewerS&L
ViewerS&L

I really miss you DeShawn. You brought everything to the show that says I'm every woman. You are a class act and I believe that you are real. Its so sad that Bravo thought the show would be better without you,, or did you decide to leave the show, I would really like to know. Yes you were not as full of drama as the other two ladies (NeNe and Lisa are a class act also} but you brought the balance that the show needs. Women need to know that you don't have to swpend a married mans money or wait on a seven figure deal from your ex to be successful, and you brought that realness to the show. You are missed

Nan
Nan

Much success with your foundation and all that you are involved with. God bless. You are missed this season.