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Hello Kandi,
My deepest sympathy goes out to you and AJ family. You are a strong-minded sister, but also a delicate rose in a glass. On the show, you proved it to all single mothers in the world that "THEY CAN DO IT JUST HAVE FAITH". Thats awesome to me, seeing that I am a single mother and loving every moment of it with my daughter. I'm looking forward of listening to your CD. Because I know your songs would be my motivation to keep it moving and let the haters talk. Especially the uuuugly looking ones. Ha! Ha! Keep God first while your holding your daughter hand and He will hold the other one.

God Bless,

I'm sooooo happy to see one of God's angels. My prayers goes out to you and your family. You were the only one on the show you who was truly down to earth. When I saw you on "The Monique Show". I was impress of how much class you have and how much of a postive energy you set off for our millennium sisters. HANDS UP TO KANDI! Keep your head up and God first because he has a beautiful journey for one of his EARTH ANGEL.

I think you are so beautiful inside and out Kandi, I hope you keep striving for the top:)

i hope you all the best keep your head up and God in your life and give thanks to him. just know that everything happens for a reason.

Hello Kandi, #1 as a real women I just want to commend you for you being you. 2nd you are an great person and you are the reason why I tuned in more to the show. I have thought that you and Aj looked so good together, also I'm a single mother with two beautiful girls and it's hard to find someone who loves you for you. I felt for you when your mother could not accept the man of your life. As long as your child and you are happy your mother should of been happy for you. You remind me of myself in so many ways,except you have the money and a great life. I have a great life and my girls and some day I will have the freedom of financial stability, until then we will meet in a later time. Take care and You will survive and come above all the hater's.

HI KANDI I MOSTLY WANT TO SAY IM VERY SORRY ABOUT THE LOSE OF AJ MY PRAY'S AND CONDOLENCE'S GO OUT TO YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.IF IS VERY HARD TO LOSE SOMEONE CLOSE TO YOU.YOU ARE A VERY STRONG WOMEN YOU ARE MY FAVORITE HOUSE WIFE.

GOD BLESS

kandi; I really enjoyed the reunion especialy when you song fly above all the drama I love that song its going all the way to the top number 1, that's a good title for new song, all the way to the top LOL. GOD bless you and your family and AJ.family.

Hello Kandi,
My prayers are with you and your family along with the family of A.J. I am so sorry to hear of his passing. I have been a fan of yours since my early college years when I first heard Xscape. You have an amazing gift and I hope that you receive back in your life the gift that your music has given us. I can't wait for the new CD! Best wishes!

I would like to start off by saying hello,Kadi you where a breath of fresh air to the show this season.I writng you because from everything I've seen and read you are a genuine person that cares about others.So I would like to ask you to come join me in Beaufort SC to talk to and with the teenage kids in my commuity on teen safety.As you may know teen violence and accidents are on the rise.I would like to bring more awareness to this problem in my community with your help. I long with the help from other adults started a program that will be ran by teens with the guidance of adults to promote teen sfety in our community. OTS (Operation Teen Safety) is the name of our program and we would like to have something at the high school before they get out on Christmas break Dec.18th. I know that this may be late notice but highly needed. Please feel free to contact me for more info (essenceofblack71@yahoo.com)

Kandi,
You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. I cannot begin to understand or imagine such a great loss. The only positive notion I can give is that he is now in a place where he can always look over and protect you. Be strong and each day will get a little easier.

Your Texas Fan,
Amalia Dawn

I Hope You See This! You are a inspiration to me and you are very blessed. Remeber dat ma! God is listening to your prayers and you will overcome.Keep your head to the sky no matter what!!!!! 1Luv Mrz...100

Hey Kandi. i fell so sad right now, i can't imagine what you are going through. I prayed and asked god to give you the strength to go through this. You are a very strong woman and i know you will get through eventually. I am a Tarus so i know that there is nothing that you cant handle. It will take some time and strength but be strong and use the positive moments that you had with AJ to carry you through this difficult time. I have not seen the show since October 9th because i moved back in Jamaica but i tuned in on the blog all the time. I will continue to pray for you.

Kandi, Hope this messages finds you on a good day,After we lose someone we love those type of days take a while to come around.But I hope you feel the peace and presence of Gods love all around you in days to come.I heard a very interresting quote the other day and it said I ask myself what I need to be in this life and Brave was the only word I could come up with.(Sandra Bullock). If you have one of those mornings where you wake up and just want to pull the covers back over your head maybe this little quote I found will come to your mind, It has gotten me threw some pretty rough times in my life. To me all the women on the show are just like the rest of us women out here living life and doing what we do to survive.After all I think that there is a little bit of NeNe, Kim, Lisa and Kandi,Sheree in all of us.Keep the Faith and Music alive in your life.

Hey Kandie,

How are you doing ? I just wanted to say that Im sorry for your lost my grandmother used to tell me that they are in a better place and we all miss you, And I was very happy the fact that your mom finally mashed that issue with Aj because I could it was hurting you and Im sure was stuck in a weird position I would be if I was you, but girl keep your head up and please keep doing your thing because Im sur Aj is happy for you because he knows that your a strong woman . love ya and dont worry about Nee Nee i think she means well but doesnt always know how to go about it . and I just love Kim

I would just like to say i think that you are a strong and powerful woman and i admire your strength and courage. Love the new song and i know your album will be great. MY prayers are with you and will GOD all things are possible. Keep your head up Ma and fly above all the haters.

J Bella

I know it hurts but just remember that he loves you. I too lost my fiance (and sweetheart of 7 years) suddenly a little over a year ago and I am sorry that you have to experience this. Life is crazy right now so I'll pray for you that God will hold on to you and help you find a way. It's hard to get thru it, trying to put the pieces back together, but sometimes it helps to know that you're not alone. I'm praying you thru my sister..

Khandi, Ive been a fan of your since your first XSCAPE single! I was sooo excited to hear that you were joining the cast.I am sooooo sorry Khandi for your lost. You guys were a truely beautiful couple.Although I dont know either of you personally, you seemed so happy. You would glow when you were around him and when you spoke of him. I was behind you 100% when it came to your relationship because despite the issue, you were happy. Thats all that counted.Khandi you are such a kind hearted and real women. My whole family sends thier condolences. Be strong girl, I know your going to have your hard days, but you will get through them. Your a blessed woman and hes in a better place watching over you. Times will get better, just keep being blessed Khandi!

Hey Kandi. It's me again. By the way. I think you should cover Teena marie's "Irons In The Fire". I think you would knock it out of the park! :)

Kandi, there are few words to express how very special of a person you are. I have watched you grow from your childhood being one of my favorite singers, to one of the most sought after, talented, and captivating women I have ever seen. I am so sorry for your loss, and I to understand the feelings that you endure everyday. Keep in mind, you have a very health and happy life with you, your daughter, and the rest of your family. And with God at your side you will shine high above all the rest. Do what you do, and don't stop for anything except a nice bowl of creole gumbo, lol, your completion is only a step away. Look at the stones that make you stumble, they are only the things you get over to find the better path.

Much Love!

Kandi, just wanted to give my condolense to You and A.J.'s family. I think you are a real person and want to thank you for being so for real on the show and friends like you are hard to find. Wish we were friends. Take care and good luck. Your voice and music is so amazing, keep up the good work and look forward to hear more of you. PSS your daughter is a doll. vera

hay this dillon i feal bad for you still got u in pray

Kandi, My prayers and love go out to you girl. I feel so sorry about AJ's passing. Another great man gone before his time. I hope you find comfort in knowing that you have so much support out here. We all wish you and AJ's family the best always. May you find the strength and solice of our Lord Jesus Christ and move on knowing that AJ is shining his heavenly smile down upon you. Be strong girl and take each day as it comes. Love all you know and find peace in the days ahead. Love and peace to you Kandi! John in Fort Lauderdale.....

HI Kandi, You and Kim are my favorite on the show Ive been watching every housewife show but they don't come close to yours. Its the best one. I'm happy that your putting a new album out i cant wait to go get it i loved you in xscape i played those cds out lol. Take care luv ya

Hey Kandi girl, first I would like to say that you and your family are in my prayers during this tragic loss. Despite your differences or the things that you and AJ were going through you two really complimented each other. He seems to know how to make you smile when you were down. I loved seeing you both together, just know he is still with you but in a better place.

On another note, Housewives of ATL is my number show right now...you are my fave on the show because of your realness, you are family oriented, down2earth and your a God-fearing woman. You have been blessed with so many talents and are using them like u should...I see alot of me in you, so does my husband..he just laughs... Your new song is Hot "I Fly above all the Haters" and that is my Anthem right now....Keep doing ya thing girl and I will be checking ur boutique "TAGS" out when I come back to ATL in January...You know u be wearing those shoes girrrrl....God Bless...Luv ya!!!

Hi Kandi-
I'm a fan of all the housewives show- As far as Atlanta, I like most of the ladies- However, You have definintly become my favorite- you have class, you don't take anyones BS- And you have class- I am so sorry that you lost A.J- I know how hard it is to lose someone you love- most of all when they are taken from u too soon. It's hard to make sense of it but God works in mysterious ways. A.J will always be with you and his children. Although he is gone- he Will never truly be gone.. I have a question, which I dont know if I'll be able to get the answer. I wanted to know how your Mom felt when he passed- Because Of her overwhelming love for you, she did not want you and A.J to be with one another- I know that she would never wish him harm- So I wonder if your Mom felt any guilt for not liking him- I really want to know how she dealt with his passing? Did you feel any resentment towards her for trying to keep you apart- and than he dies- You are a good lady with a heart of gold- I wish you all the happiness and success in your life.

First my condolences on your loss. Second congrats on your success in your life thusfar. Third I think that your mother is a wise woman and mothers' can see farther than their daughters at most times. I think the show has shown a side of you that isn't appropriate. I feel that you did NeNe wrong on the show when you took up so called friendship with Kim. You probably should have left well enough alone. I feel that you should have not been on the single record at all, not even as a back-up singer. If the whole idea was NENES'. I feel that Kim should have went it alone. I think that it was wrong and vinditive. You are a beautiful young lady and you should keep it that away. You see Tiny and Tonya is just keeping it real.

Kandi,
I commend you, with the strength you have been given i don't know what it is like to lose someone you are in love with i do know what it feels like to lose someone you love, my mom passed away about 2 yrs ago, and boy it is still a battle, but we know god give us only what we can bare, he calls all the shots, i beleive he has plans for AJ, you look so good, you truly are keeping it together, just want you to know that you are one of my favorites out of all the housewives, you got class and a style of your own, one day Kandi i hope my daughters and i run into you some where in Atlanta, they would love to meet you, me too! stay strong and keep doing what you do, keeping the drama down some people thrive on that life is precious and too short for everyday mess!!!!!

first and formost i wanna say iam sorry for your lost. and you and your family are in my prayers.and i also wanted to say i loved that song you performed (i fly above) beauitful just beauitful thats gone be a hot one..i can relate to that song.cant wait for your cd to come out because i know its gonna be hot..godbless

Yes, you fly above all the haters.Look forward to seeing you in other endeavors,including more hits!Stay humble.

My condolences to you and your family.
I really enjoyed you & your family this season. It was refreshing to see a woman in ATL making their money honestly without depending on a male. Last season, one aspect of the show that I didn't like is most of the women were married to athletes. Which is a big difference that the other Housewives Shows. I'm glad you decided to join the cast.

candi i think you are a accent to the housewifes of atlanta i see during the reunion everyone acted like ladies candi yu are a lady and i like you most. god bless yu and it is awesome you have dedicated your new single to aj he is up above looking down and smiling on you god bless you and your daughter and family

I want to first want to say that i am so sorry for what happened to AJ and I hope the kids and his family well we all know that this is a very tough moment for you all but we all know that god does all for a reason, and kandi i just wanted to let you know that you are the only reason i watched the show you made it the best you was real and up front not like some of the others and i hope to be listening to your cd soon.

Dear Kandi, sorry about your lose, my heart go's out to u and his fam. but u are a strong person I love u, your work and ever thing you do keep your head up

I can relate you to you like so much when I found that aj passed away I just couldn't believe it I was in shock for a couple of minutes. You 2 made a beautiful couple and you were always together everywhere you all went. God will heal your soul and my prayers go out to his family and chidren and for riley also.

Hi kandi my name is rujean I wanna start off by saying im sooo sorry 4 your loss. You and A.J. Waz a cute couple and in times like this you must keep ya head up and be that strong woman that you r 4 your daughter and your mom. Now as far as the other ladies on da show girl in a word you are the best.so hope to see you on the show or better yet in stores cause your voice is still da bomb so keep up da faith and God bless. Rujean

Kandi

I am so sorry to hear about AJ and your uncle. What a difficult time it must be for you. Sending you and your family prayers and positive thoughts of healing.

Hi Kandi,

I just wanted to start by saying how sorry I am for your loss. You were such an inspiration to me this season, because I am actually going through the same situation you were. My boyfriend has 3 kids and my mother disapproves for the same reasons your mother did. I love him so much, like the way I could see you loved AJ. I also love my mother. Its just so difficult. Is there any advice you could give me based on your experience and now your tragic loss? It just seems to be such a shame because it was obvious you two did love one another, but all others could see were flaws and doubt. Thats just like my situation. If you could maybe email me and we could chat, I would deeply appreciate it because your story touched me and saddened me in many ways.

Thank you,
Jennifer

Hey Kandi I love you SO SO SO MUCH!! Im so sorry for the lost of Aj. I made you a video to your "Fly Above" song this is for a great show and keeping us in your hearts thanks so much!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xq2x6Y0tQhA

I love the way that you've stayed grounded and humble through your fame and fortune. Like a lot of people, you were my favorite on the show. I was telling someone that you're the only one with their own money. The rest of them married into money or getting it from someone else. I loved you in escape and it was nice to see that you're still blessed. Just keep the faith and everything will be alright.

Thank you for the sharing that it means alot. I wish you and your beautiful daughter the best and my all your days be blessed. Kandi (Fly Above) girl you and A.J did that lol YOU already know that's a hit. I feel you on NENE girlfriend done changed she watching these tapes to lol GOOD LUCK GOD BLESS

You are my Housewives favorite! Our family's prayers and thoughts are with you as your heart continues to heal and mourn the loss of AJ. You bought class to this season of the ATL Housewives. Thank you for just keeping it real for the cameras and for being so down to earth. It was truly refreshing! Peace, blessings and best wishes as you continue your music. Looking forward to supporting your EP on Itunes.

Kandi,

Just wanna say that I will keep you in my prayers. Life is so precious and we all have to remember that. Never take anything for granted. Never waste a moment. I recently had a cousin that was killed tragically in Trinidad. He never saw it coming and leaves behind two kids. Life sometimes does not seem fair sometimes. Now I cherish my family and close friends even more.

Keep on making great music.

Only love is real

A

Kandi - You are too talented and too good for this show!

God bless you during this difficult time.

Hello Kandi,
I am very sorry for your loss. I just wanted to say that the Atlanta Housewives were my favorite of all the Real Housewives shows (sad it is over already). Further, out of all the wives you are the most real, the most compassionate, and you have the most class by far! I wish you all the luck in the world with your career. You are a very gifted young woman.

I do think it is a good idea to utilize Kim as much as you can. People don't like her, however, she is very fun to watch. Anyway, I am hoping for a season 3 with you girls, and please take care. Stay real!!

Sincerely and respectively,
T

Kandi
Sorry for your lost, but time does heal all wounds...We love you and believe that in time that Nene will realize that she owes you an apology, until then just keep doin you "Boo"!!

Saw you on the reunion. Glad you are staying busy and will continue to pray for you in your loss. You reallty helped Kim's voice. Just do not get tooo close to her. She is changeable.

Kandi I want you to know that out of all the women in the series I feel that you are the most stable. You have a good head on your shoulders. The other wives need to be in "therapy" seriously!....Please continue to stay focused and I'm sure that you will attract the right person to you. I wish you all the happiness, and keep listening to your Mom. She has your best interest at heart.

kandie im so very sorry 4 your lost i know first hand what your going threw i just lost my older big brother march 7th 2009 and i hurts like a ton of bricks i hope your wounds heals fast and your memorys last a life time. so just keep making him proud and do what he would have wanted you to and fly above the drama and haters.

Kandi- I just wanted to tell you that I too, am sorry for your loss. Don't worry about not saying "everything" that you wanted to say to A.J. He knew how much you loved him and how much he ment to you. A person can tell that just by watching episodes of the show. A person can also tell just how much he loved you as well. What you both shared was something very special and he knew that. I hope that your pain from this loss is getting better with each new day. You seem like such a wonderful person and I am so sorry that this had to happen. Take care and I hope your days get better. Keep smiling :)

My condolences to you. Never change your ways. You are strong, beautiful, smart, talented, and most of all the sweetest lady.

I think you are an amazing artist. Although I am sorry about AJ, I truly think God has given you a gift, and I think God has a plan for you. I pray you only find someone who loves you even more and someone you love, of course!!

I am so sorry for your loss. Blessed Be Kandi.

First, I am so sorry for your loss. I have recently started watching your show. I have to say, you are my favorite of all the women. You seem so real, down to earth and I enjoy the show when you are on it. I love your music also and wish you the best with the new album. My daughter Kallie who is 17, is into country music and wants so bad to make it, and she is really great. She is a great kid and a honor roll student, she realizes how difficult it can be and of course, has a back up plan. I think what you did for Kim was great and I only hope and pray something or someone like you will come into my daughter's life. She so deserves it, she has a rough childhood and has risen above all of the difficult times. Best wishes, Leslie\

Kandi - I am so sorry for your loss - I say the same as many here...my heart goes out to you. And YOU are my favorite housewife. What you did for Kim was very nice, you have loads of class and you truly are a fabulous woman. I admire your strength and I LOVE YOUR MUSIC. Keep jammin' it lady and I wish you the best!!

Kandi - please please read this...
hope that you see this message..you are the sweetest lady gorgeous talented smart - you should be so proud of yourself - you are classy... we are very very sorry for your loss - it was so sad to hear of this and you didnt deserve it...we wish you love and luck in your future - dont pay attention to any negativity you are above that...we love you!!!!!!!!!!! xoxoxoxoxoxoox

I am so so sorry to hear about your loss I can only imagine the pain...My prayers are with you. you are one of the nicest and down to earth on the show I like everyone but for some reason you are my favorite you just seem so very kind and with your mom I could see the pain and how bad you were hurt over your mom not wanting you to marry AJ she was just looking out for your best intrest.It was just nice to see that you cared very much about your mom's opinion.I wish you all the best,the best is on it's way I think you have many blessings coming your way.

Kandi you brought class to the Real Housewives of Atlanta and you were the only "real" person on the show as far as I am concerned. You have made a name for yourself have an incredible talent and yet you can see that you have not let any of the success you have achieved go to your head. Unlike the other women involved in the show, you can see that just the tiny glimpse of celebrity the other women have gotten from being on the show, has given them GIGANTIC heads! I am sorry for your loss with your Uncle and AJ, your Uncle cannot be replaced and neither can AJ. But just remember that God has a plan and someone in store for you that neither you or your mother will be able to resist! Peace!

I love you. I love you. You are a classy woman. Great role model. So sorry for your lost. You represent ATL well. Stay away from Nene, Lisa & Sheman.

Kandi, you are the BEST housewife ever!!! You are so sincere, so real, you are really above all of them !!! Much luck with your life !!!

Kandi i believe that you are the realist person on the show and in real time. you don't need my advice you show that you are a balanced human being. You are the most attractive and the most sanely of them all. I give my condolence to your fiance and uncle. All i can say is that you are a good example of how a woman should conduct herself in the publics eye...

Kandi, keep doing the damn thang. I don't care what the haters have to say....it only an opinion. I think that you are such a strong beautiful woman with an awesome attitude. Much Love, R.I.P. AJ

Yeah, everyoned picked up that there was something between Kandi and NeNe. Kandi, you were the new kid on the block. You had to stand back and check out everyone. What else are you suppose to do? Keep your head up girl. Forget these people talking about you crying. I would rather see you cry then you to hold it end and it cause some health problems because it will. You are a strong black one. You haven't made it as far as you have for the heck of it. I am looking forward to seeing more of you. You are my favorite. I hope you and Kim become the best of friends.

kandi i feel your hurt i lost my husband in july 16.09 we was almost to our first year of marriage we was talking he had a massive heart attack at our house his mother blames me because he and her didn't get along he died in our room in front of me and his kids after that week i lost my grandmother i cry everyday the pain hurts. i feel your pain i prayed for you and his kids and riley keep your head up and talk to god and be strong i dont know you just from your group put i feel your pain love your songs girl i will be praying for you.

Hi Kandi you are awesome ... and I adore you for being on the show ... You are the reason that I watch ... You keep me grounded ... I had my mother pass away around the same time AJ did.... I have been feeling lost ever since .. but if you can do it .. then I can do it .. Although mother and fiance are different .. its still someone you love .. and still seems unreal.... if you can please email me back .. That would put a smile on my face...........thank you for your inspiration .. also just fyi---- I seen Tiny and Toya show .. and I thought It was really nice also tell her I said hi ...

Thanks alot .. your friends since exscape

hey khandi
i do love you but if you give me a chance we will make a difference. i am not the same i hate the spotlight but i like you so hit my email and i promise to show you a rare talent, please try if i dont approve then move on

Kandi you are the truth, classy & a good mom. Being a good mom and respecting your mom so much on the show, really impressed me, because I know sometimes mom's can be overbearing but you listened and did not disrespect her. You are what Kim needed this season, because personally I think last season the girls were too hard on Kim and she got a bad rap. You were my fave and Kim second. You made her a better person, you'll were each others allies. My condolences for your loss. Keep doing what u doing girl and I am waiting for that cd to drop. Stay strong mama cause you doing the damn thing!

Yes my heart goes out to you and your daughter.
I know that you are a strong women and you will get over this in due time. The lord let you go through things and just like he let you handle so much. I will be praying for you and god blessed....

Hi Kandi,

I must say that you are my favorite out of all the ATL Housewives. I was saddened for you when I heard about A.J. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

I heard that you're not coming back for season 3? If that's the case, I may not watch the show anymore. You keep it real and the only one who has some sense!! I enjoy watching your scenes.

I am waiting for your CD to drop, you are HOT and I love your raspy voice. Owwww!

i am soooooo sorry Kandi !!!!!! I have been a fan of yours for a long time and I know u will be alright but the hurt never gose away!! I know because i have felt that hurt b4 tooo !!! I read your post and saw you on watch what happens and I could feel your pain. I could feel your lost !!! I just wanted you to know that I saw how happy he made you. I wanted you to know that your fans know who you are they know whats in your heart !!!
Kandi you are a good person and the lorad is on your side. He only gives us what we can handle !!!!
I KNOW THAT YOU WILL be OK
MUCH, MUCH, MUCH LOVE GIRL
AND LOTS OF HUGS, KISSES for you baby and mom
LUV U GIrl

hey kandi,
girl you remind me of my aunt
your real strong and keep things real and shes just like that...
also you are such a wonderful woman with a bright fututre ahead of you.....
Your VOICE OMG so talented...and the music you write is good
i wish i could meet you some day, your like my idol and everytime i watch the show i find something diffrent and unique about you!
RILEY tell her i said hi...you got a beatiful daughter
and SORRY for the lost of AJ hope things are getting better
ALL MY PRAYERS GO OUT TO YOU && THE FAMILY
love ya girl cant wait till the album drops
IMA SUPPORT YOU AND BUY IT
keep ya head upp!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

Kandi,

I think you are a wonderful addition to the show. You are my favorite housewife and I hope you will be back next season. I wish you nothing but success in your future endeavors.

I NEVER WRITE ON BLOGS OR TAKE SHOW'S TO HEART BUT I DO HAVE TO SAY YOU ARE A BLESSING TO THE SHOW !!!!!!!! I REALLY MEAN THAT
YOU KNOW KANDI YOUR JUST A BLESSING PERIOD !!!!!!!
just wanted to say that
GOD BLESS

I'm surprised you said that Nene was your favorite from Season One. It sure didn't look that way when watching your first meeting with each other.

You are a kind and gentle spirit. It's refreshing to see that you are uncomfortable with conflict and have a positive outlook on life. I saw the episode where you were rehearsing and coming up with songs. You are so very talented. Wish you all the best!!
California

Kandi... You are one of the main reasons I love to watch the show. I just can't get enough of you. I just watched the Reunion Special. You are pushing your album back. I can't wait to buy it. Please tour in Seattle. I am really sorry about A.J.

God Bless You and I can't wait to see you next season!

Kandi as so many have already expressed, I would like to addd my condolences for the sudden shocking loss of AJ, your song is a wonderful tribute to him. It is refreshing to have you on the show as a less diva-esque member who helps to level out the group. I hope you find continued success w/ ur music career and on the show (even though not technically a "housewife").It is none the less refreshing to see a single career woman, making on her own merits only, in a world that all too often, especially in the south, recognizes those from, or of,a part of a "couple". May the wind always be at your back (or under your wings).Take care.

Kandi, I just want to say, you are one classy young lady, with a smile that is megawatts,in it's brightness. I wish you continued success with your career and family life.
DEG

hey there kandi....i usually don't get into writing on blogs or anything like that but i couldn't help myself. first, im soo sorry for your loss and you are in my prayers. secondly, watching the show this season i really learned alot about myself and how important it is to "fly above" EVERYTHING that brings me and my family down. i'm tired of letting people control my thoughts and actions by their "opinions". so lastly, i am feeling you and your attitude on life, my new theme now is also "fly above". it makes me breathe a little easier and gives me motivation to keep on going.......no matter what anyone else thinks!

thanks for being you! and keep on going....

Kandi u r an amazingly talented and beautiful strong woman! Loved u tonite it was awesome! Our prayers r with u! I wish u continued success!!

Fly Above

Out of all the wives you are my fav. you seem so honest, real and down to earth. A real person who just happens to have money. We could all use a friend like you.
I'm so sorry about AJ. you are in my thoughts.
This is one country girl who will be first in line to buy your new cd. keep em comming!

You are truely a beautiful person inside and out. Your great at what u do. You totally stole the show this season. Stay real. Stay strong. Stay YOU. Wish you the very best!

U hold on because God is only going to give u what u can handle . So be strong and hold on .

U WAS THE BEST ONE ON THE SHOW! I AM SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOST KEEP YOUR HEAD UP. I LOVE YOUR SONGS VERY MUCH.U WAS THE RIGHT ONE THEY CAN PUT ON THE SHOW FOR NENE BYE MUCH LUV TOO U

Kandi, I just want say that I enjoyed seeing you on the show. At the start of the season I pulled up YouTube and introduced my daughters to some of your music and beginnings with Xscape. We sat here my computer for the longest listening to your songs. They want Ipods for christmas and they want most yours songs old and new in their Ipods.

Just wanted you to know that your are still influencing your girls.

DO WHAT YOU DO KANDI!!!!!!!!

Kandi, I am so sorry for your loss. My grandmother, Naomi Stevens, passed-on last Monday (10/26). She raised me; she was my mother, father (I dont' know him), my grandfather (passed away in 2000 but they were separated & talking about getting back together before be died), and my grandmother. She lived with me until Dec. of 2007 (I'm 33) when she had a stroke and I woke to her on the floor. After the stroke she had a fear of falling, which meant that she was going to have to start using a wheelchair nad live in a nursing home. She was my everything. Ever since she couldn't live with me any longer, I was with her every night while she was in the nursing home. Every night I stayed with her until she started to fall asleep. Though I understand how fortunate I am for the time we had, I ask of you to share how you coped with the loss of AJ. My grandmother was who my life was surrounded around and now she's gone. How did you cope? How did you grieve? I'm struggling and hope that you can add some insight. Thank you for your time and I think that you are an amazing strong woman.

kandi i loved your preformance on the reunion show i fly above is the sh... and i love it and can relate to it, that was sweet and humble for you to dedicate that to aj i know he is so proud of you and smiling from above , i cant wait for your cd to drop, i always have love you since your early days, and still listen to the old music, may god bless and please place houston on your tour route,i will be there in the front row.

Khandi,

I am so sorry for your loss. Just by watching the show I could tell that AJ was a good and caring person and I know that it has to be so hard for you at this time. Stay strong my sista just feel blessed that you were able to spend time with a great person that cared about you and your beautiful daughter. Cherish the time that you were blessed to have with him. It is so hard to find good people these days but count your blessings that you were a part of his life. I cant wait for your album to drop you are such a talented artist and songwriter, God bless you and I miss you much sucess in your future.

Kandi,

Can't wait for your album to come out...I even have a cassette from your old group girl! Can't wait to see what you bring to the next season. Prayers for you girl..stay strong and know you are an inspiration.

i like you - i think you are a good person and ill keep you and riley in my prayers ....

I am so sorry about AJ..I was rooting for him during the season. I cannot believe this happened; I only found out during the reunion. God bless you!