Hey, Ms. Kandi. I want to start off by telling you how such a wonderful person you are. I love when a woman is doing something positive. Sorry about A.J. Keep your head up and keep showing that great smile.

I wish you condolences for your lost, Kandi. Just want you to know that you are my FAVORITE housewife. Out of all of them on the show, you are self-made. I admire you so much for being strong enough to get your own. I wish that once you move past this pain, you truly find someone who can fill that void and your life. You deserve it girl. Until then, stay strong!

Kandi, you are truly a beautiful & talented individual! I've been a fan since "just kickin it"! I think your voice is so unique & you've always been my favorite from the group! My heart goes out to you & the family for your loss. There is so much more to gain! Weeping may endure for a night, but joy arrives in the morning! Some things take place in life that we're unable to understand at the moment, but eventually we realize that *GOD* allow these obstacles to not only make us stronger but to also help someone else in the process! I believe that you're a voice for this generation; a generation that truly needs such inspiration! Keep your head held high my beautiful, black sista! You've inspired me to fly above... Much love from Arkansas***

WE LOVE YOU- GOD BLESS

kandi, u r a very special young lady and deserve the best- in time all will heal - have patience, pray, there is still a rainbow on the other side of the clouds. p.s. u bought class and realness to that show- keep up the good work- hope to see u next season.

Kandi, may the Lord strengthen you during these times in your life. My prayers go out to you, your family and AJ'S family. Please keep your relationship with God. Jesus is the one that will rebuild you, restore you and uplift you. Your mother needs to let you be who God created you to be.She didn't care for your choice and in the future you must rely on your own judgement. Put your mother in God's hands and watch God; work on your behalf. Let the Lord choose your mate and take this time to let Jesus heal you. Be Blessed My Sister

Kandi you are such a strong real black women you ARE above all your haters!!!!!!

hi kandi

sweet sweet kandi im so so sorry about your lost so sorry i wish i could give u a big strong hug. i know ur hurting but i wish u nothing but the best 4 u n ur family i was so so shock to learn about aj it was such a pointless death; i know its seems like everything is just coming down on u so fast but hang in there girl i know u will because ur so strong. i love u girl n may god bless u may he watch over u for alwayssss! love number 1 dana!

I am interested in a comment Kandi made during a show filmed in her back yard. She was sitting with Lisa and mentioned that she bought the house when she was 19. I thought WOW! How impressive! I remembered djuring the season intro, it was stated that Kandi had been in the music industry for years and very sucessfull. So is that when she started, as a young teen? I have to add I admire Kandi, she is fast becoming my fav. Nene seems to be a bit angry on most shows these days. Lisa and Dwight still capture my interest,( just as they did last season) but Nene intrigued me the most.

hello kandi i hope that your doing well i know its hard and very difficult right now my prayers are with u its going to take time to heal keep your head up and stay prayed up god will always take care of you remember that alot of things can be taken away but always always keep your faith and it will be ok I LOVE YOU!(im glad your back)

Kandi,

I'm sorry for your loss, I felt so sad after the fact that your mother had finally come to terms and had accepted him in your life that was heartbreaking for me to watch......... I'm so sorry for your loss... my prayers and condolences to you Kandi....... a new fan forever Maria

kandi i am a big fan and ii want to send all my love out 2 u and AJs family

i love u hope urok hes in a better place he loves u

I am so sorry about your loss. Thank you for being the only sane housewife on the show!

Kandi, You are strong, beautiful and TALENTED! you are heading for success! Keep the good attitude, and "Fly above...." you are an inspiration, the Artemis of today!

Love ya!

Izu

kandi i jsut wanted to say im sorry about your loss of aj. i know its hard bevcause i feel thw same way i lst my grandpa oct.16th of this year i was suppose to go on a curise with my best friend on the 18th but i stayed home to be with family ans to say good bye to my grandpa. when i was the reuion show i wished i could of gave you ahug i felt soo sad for you. i feel the same way as you. try to keep busy and be strong. your in my prayers.stay strong and keep the faith. im your biggest fan! and im so sorry that u are hurting.

kandi,i know it is hard on you to loose two people that you love ,i am sorry for your lost,but one thing you got to keep in mind that everyone has a number.keep god first,i am glad you came to atlanta housewife,because you are real and you know your game can't say that about the others,keep your head up and stay strong and don't let the ladies on the show bring out the real kandi

i was sorry to hear about AJ..i saw the reunion, & my heart went out to you...also, i'd like to say you're the only one, out of that whole Atlanta clan, that's got any kind of sense at all!....never change; stay the way you are...stay real:>)

Kandi, I just want to say that you are a GREAT role modle for everyone. You always take into consideration everyones thoughts and feelings, you dont drink or use harsh language and always remain classy. You truely fly above all the haters. Take care

Kandi, You are truely amazing. You turned into my favorite housewife this season. I admire your strength, your ability to be humble, and classy in any situation. You know how to walk away from meaningless conversations, stay in control, and defend yourself by saying less. That's a real woman. While I am sorry for your loss with A.J., I know that oneday, you will make some man very, very happy with your loving, caring, kind, and giving heart. I have a lot of respect for you, and I hope to see your album along with songs that you write for others, fly to the top of the charts.

Hey Kandi. Im a big fan of urs because i feel u represent us females in a very strong way. U have been through mad shit during this season and through all in all u still kept ur head up and that is waz up. I respect the way u get dowm as far as ur music writing and just the influence u have been in music. I think everyone that u have written for or even ur own work have played some kind of part in my life as far as music. Listen to cut it short I respect u and i respect ur music. Let me know whenever u do a cd album signing in NYC. I will be buying ur album in NOv. and i cant wait to hear the rest of ur cd.

One LOve. Karina

God Bless you and your family, this is the time when you realize how precious memories are. I'm sure that you have plenty good ones of you and AJ so hold on to that as you heal.

BPT,CT

Kandi,

I posted condolences on this blog as soon as I heard about AJ's passing. On the reunion show, I can see that you are dealing with it, one day at a time. I really like you and wish you and your daughter better things to come

Khandi, you are a strong independent woman. I applaude you and what you have accomplished in your life. I worked in the music industry behind the scenes for 25 years, and it was tough in that arena. You take care of yourself. Mom is just doing what she does best, trying to look out for you. However, it is hard when you have a girl. Mom has to know when to let go. And you have to assert yourself to let her know that you love her no matter what, but somethings you have to make decisions on your won.

Jerrie

Love your music, you are so talented...now just do as your song says and it's time to "fly above all the haters". My heart goes out to you and AJ's family and I know that God will help you all get through this. Stay away from all of the drama and you will see who your "real" friends are.

Hi Kandi, I just want to say soory for your lost and God bless you and your daughter and his children. The way that you deal with this is in your own way no one can tell you how to deal with this . Just keep God with you in all that you do and say and it will be alright.

Let's see if this makes it through. I'm sorry for your loss Kandi. This comment is based on your response and comments on Andy Cohen's show. It was in regards to Nene and Kim not revealing too much drama about what happened between them. Why would want to see it? I applaud them for not creating tension and drama and reconciling. It was a breath of fresh air to see this especially when life is too short, you never know how long you have on this earth.

HI,KANDI SORRY FOR YOUR LOST EACH DAY WILL BE BETTER THIS I KNOW I LOST A MATE BEFORE AND MY MOTHER AND SISTER IT HAS BEEN HARD BUT IT HAS BEEN GOOD I LOVE THE GOOD TIMES! AND THERE WILL BE GREAT ONES AHEAD! BE PEACEFUL A GREAT FAN FROM CHI-TOWN PAM

To Ms. Kandi I am so sorry that you are going through so much at this time. Hold on to God unchanging hand. God will provide the strenght that you need with the help of family and friends. You are a beautiful person who deserves so much more. God Bless you and your Family

i sorry a bout aj but you are the bomd and i like your show you and kim is the best friends love ya

Hi Kandi

I hope your doing much better now it was nice seeing you on TV. Out of all the housewives your the my favorite housewive now that you created less drama out of all of theme . May God Bless you and your family and I look forwared to seeing you again on the next session of the real housewives .

Hi Kandi

I hope your doing much better now it was nice seeing you on TV. Out of all the housewives your the my favorite housewive now that you created less drama out of all of theme . May God Bless you and your family and I look forwared to seeing you again on the next session of the real housewives .

Hi Kandi! I have to say that you are my favorite HW/ATL!! If you weren't on this season I can honestly say that I may not have watched it. You were basically the only one who kept it real-and as Bravo can see, we still tuned in and I think you were a lot of the viewer's favorite. Please watch out for Kim though and that's all I'ma say about that. Kandi you have a great sense of style and you are gonna go far in life because you are a "stand up" girl as they say :). I do have to admit that I was on your mother's side when it came to AJ. And even though you guys were close and you yourself say that your mom had valid points. As you saw in the last days/weeks his actions just weren't worthy of you. I just think you need someone who has more in line with you and your goals. I thought he was trying, don't get me wrong but maybe just not the man for you. And I'm not even gon mention all them babies and babies momma's. Take care Kandi, I wish you and Riley ALL the success in the world because I truly think you deserve it.

Dear Kandi,first I want you to know that me and my husband love you dearly and sorry for your loss, May God bless you and give you the strength and comfort you need because no one can do it but the Good Lord.My husband (kelvin) knows every xscape song there is.He always bring up when he went on his senior trip in Orlando, Florida in 1994 and you all performed.Since you been on housewives of ATL I always tell him that some kind of way I was going to get him to your studio so that you can hear him sing.He has a beautiful voice (and I'm not sayin that becuase he's my husband)lol-but really he does.He tells me that will make his day,not for you to only hear him sing,but just to meet you.He deserves it he's been a great husband to me for 10 years and great father to our two girls so its worth the try..Oh can't wait to check out your new store Tags..LOVE AlWAYS

I KNOW HOW IT FEELS TO LOSE SOMEONE THAT YOU WAS JUST TALKING TO JUST DAYS/NIGHTS BEFORE. IT REAL WASN'T HIS TIME TO GO. I GIVE ALL MY SYMPHONY TO ALL THE PEOPLE THAT KNEWS HIM.

Kandi, my prayers are with you. Last season Ne Ne was my favorite, but you are now.

Khandi,

Love you my beatiful black sister. You are a wonderful person. You have your life together and you are very humble. I would love to meet you in person one day. I would love to see what it is like to be a singer. I sing at home but would love to see what i sound like in a studio.

You are loved by God family friends and fans, you will never be alone in what every you go through your genuine smile and personality has brung you so far and has many more miles to take you. stay strong as you always have and were wating on you to give us some hits.

You are a very humble person and I enjoyed you on the show. Stay keepn' it real...

Kandi you are my favorite then Dewihgt, Kym yes I said Kym this is about you...You keep it real and got it going on I soo admire you and so does my family meaning aunt, cousins...It's evident by all the blogs that you have verses the other women. Plus you are use to having and you have a cool swagg lol...Kiss Riley your in our prayers cant wait to support your music..

GOD WILL CONTINUE TO BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. JUST STAY THE SAME COOL PERSON THAT YOU WERE ON THE SHOW.I LIKED YOU OUT OF ALL OF THE GURLS YOU WERE THE MOST REAL AND DOWN AND EARTH PERSON.

I think you new that your friend ship with Kim would rub the other house wive the wrong way, come on I sure you seen the first season where Kim has put everybody down,and it seems as if she does not like to be around a lot of black people, she did'nt even come to your show. I think you like the attention that her friendship brings. My question is why would you said someone is cool if they put down all the other cast members. why is it that you dislike Nene which she acts in the same way kim does and don't Nene. you want to cause drama grow up. I'm not saying not love them but stop the drama and keep it real for all. I'm to hear that A.J is know longer with us he was the real deal. I loved you A.J

By all means, God is truely the source of each and every one of our lives, I was in a similar situation. I lost my first love, the one I was going to marry as well, but, thanks be to God He came into my life and showered me with so, much peace which is what enable me to go on, because people said my life was over,so I say to you keep your hand in Gods hands never let Him go, He will give you so much peace that will shadow you and it will bring you understanding and testing of why? you went through that storm, I'm telling you there's nothing like the peace of God, ask God to give you peace, peace with all understanding and you would start to fell day by day that you are able to move forward even in the quiet times, because those times will allow you to back track in the live you had with your loved ones who's are now in the hands of God and say, did I show love, did my love for them over shadow them like the love Christ have commanded of us to do, then if so you have done your part in the time you have spend with them, because loving someone and them knowing that you love them is all the words one can say to a person, but it's not enough to say, but showing love is what counts actions, takes place of all things.

hAAY kANDI i JUST HAD 2 REACH OUT 2 U AGAIN. bCUS I HEARD U SAY ON THE REUNION SHOW THAT UR JUST BASCIALLY JUMPING HEAD 1ST INTO UR MUSIC I GUESS 2 PASS THE TIME AND WHATEVER BASICALLY TO DISTRACRT U. WELL KANDI I JUST WANTED 2 TELL U MY BRO DIED LIKE 2 YRS AGO AT AGE 24. HE KILLED HISSELF AND UH I REMEBER I THINK I CRIED ONCE WHEN HE DIED AND THAT WAS IT, AND I HAD HIM 4 24 YEARS, WE WERE PRETTY TIGHT. AND BASICALLY I JUST DID THINGS FOR TIME 2 PASS BY AND GIRLLL WHEN I TELL U THAT MY EMOTIONS CAUGHT UP 2 ME A FEW MONTHS LATER LIKE AN RKELLY TAPE IT SURE DID.I CRIED, HATED THE WORLD AND DID ALL THAT. I THINK THAT I DIDN'T MOURN PROPERLY $ JUST WASN'T FACING WHAT I NEEDED 2 FACE PROPERLY. U EVEN WOSRT WITH ALL THESE DISTRACTIONS THE PUBLIC AND ALL ITS EVEN HARDER!! BUT I WOOD SUGGEST U DO KEEP UR SELF BUSY BUT NOT TO BUSY AND REMEMBERT HERE WAS ONLY 1 AJ, I KNOW IT SOUNDS CRAZY TELLING U THAT NOW BUT TRUST ME IT WILL HELP U LATER ON. :0. SOONER THAN LATER WHEN PPL BRING HIS NAME UP AND SAY "AWWW" U WON'T CRY U'LL SMILE TRUST ME. wELL U DON'T EVEN KNOW ME SO DON'T TRUST MY BTOWN ASS TRUST TIME. LUVIN YO SWAG GIRL FLYING ABOVE ALL THE HATERS JUS STRAIGHT UP TRADING THEM IN.

Please show the other ladies how to be business savvy..

Hey kandi.....I was so sad to hear of your loss of AJ!!! All i can say is that i will continue to pray for u and his family and friends, I know that sometimes u hear things over and over again about how to deal with death, and the reality of it is "stay in prayer". Why i say that is i own a tribal funeral home and i see death everyday and sometimes i take care of close family members or friends and its hard as hell to continue on but its a must. Keep doing what your doing.

What heck I saw Kandi on the Monique show and she said there is a clothing store however i am unable to locate it online....?????? Kandi or anyone have the website info??? Or is this just an ATL Thang????/ lol

Kandi - You are a strong role model for women. You and Dwight are my favorites. Keep real!

Kandi,

You are a strong black woman! My heart and prayers goes out to you and your family! Always remember to keep God first!

Kandi, I cant wait for you cd to come out..Contiune to be pretty, intelligent,prosperous young lady that you are..You and Dwight are my favorite I love his bold beautiful ties lol... God bless

Hello Kandi,

Just wanted to send my prayers and blessing to you the family and friends of A J . I wanted to let you know the I love love love the new hit FLY ABOVE , it's so real ! just like you . I really enjoyed seeing you on the show your a classy sista and I love you may the peace and favor of God bless you and your family always