To be honest, I really didn't feel like writing a blog this week. So all I really have to say is ... ZZZZzzzzz ZZZZzzzz. Can somebody wake me up for next week!? That episode was SO BORING! I know we can't have dramatic, action packed episodes every week, but damnnn. Sorry, but I have to be truthful.
Well on a side note the song "Fly Above" will be on my album releasing this November. The first day I met Kim she was telling me about how everyone talks about her and dogs her out and that she was so ABOVE the drama and over it. Well, I too have been the subject of negative talk and "HATERation" many times so the next day when I went into the studio I wrote "Fly Above." Thanks for the inspiration Kim! I'm posting a snippet of the song on my Myspace.com/Kandionline. Check it out, and whenever you're having one of those moments where people are trying to bring you down, intimidate you, or stop your progress, take a listen and maybe it can help you "Fly Above." That's my new theme song ... :-)
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Girl I thought I was the only one falling asleep on that last episode. It was all about NeNe and Lisa. It was nice seeing Lisa return to her family in Cali and heart felt about her brother. Look forward to hearing your new CD, I will definately support it. The song will be an anthem for all the people with haters in their life. Love you girl, keep representing real women with real lives.
You are my new favorite Housewife....Everyone else on that show seems like they are acting. You are the only one that is keeping real and being yourself.
Kandi, I am sooooo proud of you. You just keep doing you and leave those back biting, wanna be more than they really are, HATA'S alone. They are all full of it. Also, don't get too caught up with Kim either because although I think she was targeted by the other girls she does talk behind peoples backs as well.
Hi Kandi, I love the song and can't wait til it comes out...I find myself sing the hook around the house and my kids just laugh at me. But sometimes you really do just have to "Fly Above" all the drama & hateration! I love it...."I Fly Above"
Kandi, you are quickly becoming my favorite housewife. You are cool, mild-mannered and are not quick to judge...like so many of your castmates. I LOVE the fact that EVEN YOU thought last weeks episode was boring because GIRL I fell asleep watching it...for real! I like Lisa, but her storyline is boring. You and Kim keep me laughing, as does Nene! Keep being real Kandi!!!
Kandi, please listen to your Mom. I know it's hard to find a "Good Man", but they are out there and without all the "Drama". Give yourself some time. Six to ten months is not a lot of time. All of his funds will be going to child-support and once you are married to him, most likely, some of your funds will be too. If you were my daughter, I'd be against it also. You are a good woman for even thinking you can handle all this, but why would you? LOVE? Honey, you are old enough to know that a good relationship is not all about LOVE. By the way, have you talked to the mothers? Did he marry any of them? If not, Why Not? Maybe they didn't want marriage. You know we all have two sides to us. Do you know the other side.It would be interesting to have some of the mothers on the show and see what is really going on with your man.
You're my favorite housewife! That is a cute song! You're blessed to be so talented. I wish you much continued success!!
I love the vibe you bring to the show! I agree with you that lastweeks episode was quite boring, but that is to be expected from time to time. We needed a week to relax while watching the show.
With all that said...you are the REALEST, HOTTEST, and CLASSIEST housewife! Keep doing what you do!
Kandi, I have always loved you, since before Housewives. I to have been criticized for being with a man with 4 kids by three different women, but i love him and he loves me and thats all that counts, Its your decision no anyone elses. GOD BLESS YOU.
kandi, dont worry about what people say, they just made because you still got it. my dad always tells me if you gonna worry dont pray but if your gonna pray dont worry...dont get invovled with all that non sense.
I agree, this episode was kind of boring. It seems like people are gonna hate on you if you hang with Kim, but oh well I'm sure you don't care about what anyone thinks! I'm starting to think you are my fav on this season, you seem to be the most down to earth, doing your own thing. I'll enjoy watching you in future episodes!
Kandi...your right, last weeks show was a snoze fest. Seemed so staged. Hoping this weeks is more entertaining. You and Kim are by far my favorites. The other so called ladies are nothing but haters and drama makers. I am not feeling all their diva like behavior this season. Pretending to be way more than they are and be called out on their lies through court records makes you wonder. At least you and Kim actually write and say something on your blogs and are who you say you are. Keep it real chick and good luck with the new album.
Hey Kandi, I agree. Last weeks' episode was a snoozer.... I do wish ppl on the blogs stop offering unsolicited advice about what u should do in your life. Despite what is shown on tv the truth of the matter is that we do not know you, your family, or friends.. Good luck Kandi.. Much luv from New Orleans!!!!
Kandi's last hit song was in "U and Dat" with Tpain and E40 wasn't it.. there was a funny commercial to go with it!
Kandi, I would like to take a bow to you because you are so talented. The song “I Fly Above” is HOT!!! There are so many HATERS in this world but this song should cause them to step back and think about the things they murmur. They should realize that they are talented as well, and stop taking down on those who are actually putting their gifts to use. Stay up Kandi Girl!!!! Lyn
Kandi, Pleeeeezzzz tell me you didn't marry that man yet!!!! You are WAY too good for him - don't do it!!!! He is NOT for you - you focus on you, your daughter, and your career - then you will attract the right person into your life. Don't give up - but DO NOT settle for less!! He will come when the time is right. :)
Last week I wrote a blog and part of said how your mom's not going to except AJ just to keep you from marrying him. I was reading other blogs and I didn't know that your man had different baby-mamas! I didn't remember hearing that in the show! Oh my gosh! Those women will be a part of your life too not just the children. I thought my daugher's man with his personality issues was bad but, who doesn't have a personality issue of some sort?
Baby-mama drama is a "red flag" - just be aware of what's going on or lack there of. I would curious why he has so many baby-mama! It would be very intresting to hear what they would have to say about him. All of us are good men/women but soon after we get married the REAL "us" comes out.
Kandi You are quickly becoming my favorite housewife. I love your no drama attitude and how you were nice to Kim regardless of what you had heard from others. "Fly Above" has a awesome message, there are too many haters in the world, forget about them and their negativity. I adored NeNe last year but it seems she has been somewhat of a drama instigator this season (still love ya NeNe, just how I see it) I also heard what you did with Kim's song "Tardy for the Party" and honey you sure are talented, it's a catchy song!!
Hi candy, I do enjoy you on the show you are a lot more entertaining then that bore Deshawn, that's right i said it. The only thing i would like to say to you is your grown act like it you make your own money an pay your bills. It seems to me that you want a strong man an i'm pretty sure he's going to want a strong women. I appreciate you considering your mom feelings but what about his and yours. The one person that's suppose to be with u threw everything is your mom and all do respect she's a little rude. Ill take AJ kids baby mommas in all he probably got the business that's why he got all them kids it's not his fault....
You are truly gifted! Not only are you talented and accomplished, but you're a nice person as well. I loved watching the creative process after visit with mom, whose not buying into your marriage.
Maybe 'we' --others-- can see something you cannot. Look for an accomplished man who will come with no baggage--someone in the music business. Jamie Foxx? Someone who really "gets" what you're about. You may be a little naive when it comes to relationship. Sit back and think it over with your mind... I'm rooting for you! Best.
kandi, luv everything about you...however i can see how your mom is in disagreement with your decision...as a father of young ladies...i am guilty of what your mom is doing:) nine or ten months is a short time along with all the children but the decision is ultimately yours and you have to live with it...you seem like a smart woman and given time mom may come around...if not, you have to live your life for you....
Kim, I thought AJ did not put any effort to communicate with your mom.He went over ther and did a half ass acknowledgement to her and moved on.At the King Tut party ,he came in the door rude with his cell phone banging constantly and not getting involved in a beautiful evening.He was rude and I think he probably was afraid of Dwight knowing him out in the streets.I thought last week was nice with Lisa in Calf. and you and Kim eating out and in the studio.Sheeree, was Hollywood with so many demands without a job was really a joke.You probably was bored because you were only in the company of KIm and your Photog session.
Kandi, I just love your flavor, you just mind your own business and keep it stepping. Your daughter is so cute!! Love your song, fly above. I think it is gonna be my new year's resolution for 2010. No one can tell you what to do about your relationship, in the end it comes down to that feeling deep down inside of you. With u being on tv everybody is gonna have something to say.I think you really want your daughter to have what you didnt have, a father. I grew up without a father and I dont think less of myself because of it. I appreciate my mother even more. You are a wonderful mom and I know you just want to find the right man, dont we all!! If its AJ, all your doubts will go away but if that niggly feeling persists, let him go!! love ya girl
Kandi, you seem to be a very sweet lady ( Yes Lady not ghetto like Sheree, Lisa and NeNe) Keep your head up girl, I know your mom is giving you the what for over your boyfriend and I know you want to make mom happy. I think your very smart and have had him checked out trust your instict. Remember the Bible says when you marry you are to put that person above everyone else but God. You are a strong beautiful Lady and it shows. I hope your new cd is a chart topper. Stay real and true to youself listen to God and all will be fine.
Always in my prayers
Kandi, I have NEVER commented on the show but am a huge fan. I like your swagg but I am so uncomfortable with AJ. Girl, I know you love him and I don't know you or AJ from a can of paint but I feel your issue. I am 38 and my husband only has one baby's mom but I am his 3rd wife. My first husband died young and unexpectedly so there is no baby daddy drama with me. I was blown away with my first experience with the baby mama drama. Yeah, the man says "I want my kids with me; I want them to be a part of my life!" That's cool until you get serious. Then the phone calls at all hours to the house to "check on the kid". And then disrespect from her because I seem weak because I was cool and confident in who I am, so no problem with you "checking on the kid". My only advice would be to check where AJ stands in between you and the babies' mothers. If he shields you and makes sure that the communication is with him and the mother directly and you don't have to deal with it, then he's trying to do it right. The minute he gets sloppy and you have to deal with them directly (if you do it by choice cool) and there is tension, step back and KNOW that your first priority is your beautiful little girl. He has to earn your trust and rarely does that happen in a few months. He has to lay it down for you. I mean everything and withold nothing. Take your time and pray about. Money ain't everything.
I love your voice. In addition you are a nice and decent woman who demonstrates that you have values. Your deep respect for your Mom, your public deportment, emphasis on raising your daughter, etc. are all admirable. What in the world are you doing on this show??>....you far outclass the other housewives!
I luv how ur blog was full of class.............u didn't say much or 2 little.....that shows a lot about u....
wish u the best in everything u do...
Kandi, If you and Kim want to try to be friends, then go for it. Continue to take the high road, and let the other immiture two year olds find a way to get over it. It's true, that an even number of women can get along, but an odd number cannot; the even number always gangs up on the odd one out!
Hey kandi first i wonna say love ur song i think u have a great voice but any way i dont think u should marry aj because he has 6 kids and trust me u gon have baby mama drama it always happen ur mama rite bout him but its ur choice tho but i think u shouldnt marry him.
KANDI, YOU ARE AN ATTRACTIVE YOUNG LADY, HOWEVER WHY ARE U RUSHING TO MARRY SOMEONE U JUST MET 7 MONTHS AGO. I THINK YOU SHOULD KNOW BETTER THAN THAT AND 4 BABY MAMAS DRAMMMMMMMMMMA!
You are the most CLASSIEST housewife. Thank you for not participating in all the drama. As far as I'm concerned, keep "flying above" all the haters, trash talkers, and CLASSLESS housewives and their followers. Nobody has the right to judge you, your fiance, or your relationship. Nobody can tell you who to love. Nobody knows your relationship better than you do; television never tells the whole story. Stay true to what you feel in your heart. You're a very talented and beautiful woman, inside and out. Stay strong, stay positive. I wish you all the best!
Kandi i'm watching your show right now, the boring episode, but your scenes are not boring. It was nice to see Lisa's family, Kim better watch out, Lisa might have a blackbelt. You are very smart and I hope everything works out for you and AJ. After difficulty comes ease and this too shall pass.
Hey Kandi, YOU ARE MY ABSOLUTE FAVORITE!!!! The fact that you are so grown and mature about everything that surrounds you is amazing to me. I am the same way so I can definitely understand how you have no time or patience for the drama and "hateration". If you surround yourself with positive people you will always manage to stay away from the pointless drama. You are an amazing woman and deserve all the blessings in the world. Another thing that I would like to comment on is you and your fiancee. I really think that you two are happy together and i do think that you two love one another BUT...PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE give it a little more time. At least six more months. Hey girl it's your life and in the end you know what's best for you so GOD BLESS and please continue to stay real.♥
Kandi, you are a grown woman. You need to make up your own mind about your boyfriend. No matter how much we love our mothers, we can listen to their opinions and that's that. good luck.
Kandi, I didn't think the episode was all that boring. I really felt for you at the photo shoot with your Mother! With the good Lords help I will always remain loyal to my daughter no matter what. I may not always think her choices are the best for her but all I can do is share my thoughts and then support her decision....thats what unconditional love is all about isn't it? It's got to be hard to watch what we may think are big mistakes take place in our childrens lives....but it is their path the good the bad and the ugly. What-ever choice you make will be the "right" choice the path you are ment to walk with all the joy and all the tears! Bless you on your journey!
Hi Kandi, I love the song Fly Away and I think you are talented. I like how you talked to Kim for only a few minutes and came up with a song. I am the same way. I currently write poetry, but some I wrote as songs. I am interested in turning more into songs. I can't hold a note, but I would love to write for someone who can. I have 2 books published and I've completed a 3rd this year. Can you give me some advice/direction?
I just wanted to say that you are my favorite housewife. I love the fact you hate "haters" so I do. I can't wait to hear you new album. I'm so proud of you. "You go girl"!!!!!!!!!!!
I love you Kandi and you're so talented, I wish your career much success and I will be buying your new CD when it comes out. But on a more serious note I do think you should listen to your mother about the AJ situation...mothers a lot of times do know best. And if my mom didn't like a man I brought to her door step there wouldn't be a further relationship with him..men come and go but you only have one mother. Plus who would want to deal with all of the drama from the baby mamas, that's to much on yourself but more importantly on your child. And by his distant actions at the King Tut event with him always being on his cell phone and not interacting with YOU his woman, that's a HUGE red flag, who was so much more important then you that he had to be off in the corner playing on his cell phone? Just think about it please...and I pray that you make the right decision for you and your child.
Kandi, I love watching you on the show. You are a class act!. I know it's difficult for your mother to accept AJ. It's a lot to take in with 6 children. Pray and follow you heart.
kandi i'm glad to see your still doing your thang, I love the hair. and your mom is right to an extent, about your realationship; But you have to deal with those baby moma's so if you love him you only live life once so live it girl don't waste it live is too short some of us die to soon.and plus it's hard to find a real man, so if you got one hold on to him love,and cherrish the time you have together. Lov ya sista girl.
Oh yeah I think it would be a really bad idea to produce that track with KIM and NE NE. I mean Ne Ne has a nice voice but Kim ..... now thats a different story. Besides who the heck wants to hear a country song about being late to the party. I'm pretty sure you make that song a hit but I just don't think its something you should get involved with
What was so boring about the show? Was it that you were not seen much in this espisode? I thougt it was refreshing to not see all the drama.
It was good to see Lisa side of the family and her visiting her brothers grave. It was also nice to see NeNe and Lisa enjoy their trip.
I feel since you say you don't like drama, you sure didnt stop Kim from talking about Nene and Lisa, you thought it was funny.
I also don't understand how people are saying you are their favorite housewife. Don't you have to be married to be a housewife? Being you have never been married what make you everyone favorite housewife?
You are becoming my favorite Housewife. Your awesome talent truly legitimizes you. I believe that the Bravo venue will bring you a whole new audience for your music.
I love your new song. I love your old songs as well. I hope that "Fly Above" will find as much success as "Scrubs.
Kandi!Your the class act on the show.I really believe NeNe is the one that starts most of the fights,Lisa is a close second to that.Sheree has a few issues and Lisa is a follower.I hope you rub off on all of them.Stay yourself and dont get caught up in the drama.Esp with NeNe.Love and luck to you.Irene