Kim Zolciak

Kim "cleans up the mess with the facts" about what really went down at the controversial alter ego photo shoot.

on Sep 4, 20090

Another week of all the ladies talking about ME in some form or fashion. Kim said this, Kim did that, don't trust Kim ... Kim, Kim, Kim, Kim, KIM! Give me a break already! I guess I'll do what I love to do first – clean up the MESS and insert the FACTS. The "Alter Ego" shoot was something that I agreed to do with NeNe because I had heard around town that Derek Blanks was an excellent photographer. NeNe first asked me to be a black girl named Kena, which would require me to be painted black, which is SO insensitive to the African-Americans, and NeNe is mad that I won't do something that would not only disrespect her, but an entire race of people?! Not happening.

And it was a SHOCK to find out that my alter ego was a "Stepford Wife" and "mistress" which is NOT what she told me when I agreed. It was supposed to be a "rich wife" and "Stepford Wife" which is why I was sexy and blinged out for the shoot. It's funny that I'm always called the liar when I was BLATANTLY lied to about what I was going to be in that shoot. Who in the hell would agree to be a mistress?? I wish these ladies would stop acting like I am the only one who has dated someone in a dissolving marriage. At least one of my cast mates has done the same.

Everybody looked great during the shoot ... Too bad NeNe looked like a damn linebacker while she was up on the stripper pole! Maybe she'll be trying out for the same football team as Sheree! LOL!

After the nanny nightmare, Myleik helped me find someone to replace "you’re going to hell" Tania. Our diets were terrible at the time, but I am proud to say that we have hired a chef and are eating at home more to work on getting healthier. We are all works in progress.

Until next week,
xoxo
Kim Z.

555 comments
Duda
Duda

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Happy New Year to you and yours. May you be blessed with health, prosperity and love.

With kind regards, Danijela Zeremsky

diane reyes
diane reyes

Kim I want to know where punches your beautiful bracelets and watch

Portia darville (Bahamas)
Portia darville (Bahamas)

Hi Kim I don't no what got into Nene on the bus, but it seems like she is very upset that she is not a part of your Song. Nene needs to get over it and sing her own song. I no she can came up with something, tell her to talk to kandi she seems like she can work magic with anyone's Voice. I Love the show. Kim, you and nene need to make up, friends always have disagreements and they make back up. I can't wait to see what's next, keep this show going girls.

Pondecka
Pondecka

Kim your bangles are beautiful , please tell me where you got them? I would to have a set.

mads mum
mads mum

ohmyword. can you please leave the show? please? i'd pay to see you leave....it's just ridiculous....you have no business being on tv....maybe if they had a Real Housewives of TRANSGENDERS...because you were born a man right? the wigs are too much, the make up is too much, the outfits...or should i say clown suits are too much...and your attitude and maturity level is just sad...your children are more mature then you! it's unfortunate you can't see yourself...grow up...quickly and leave the show...for all our sakes! thanks!

suki
suki

I'm curious to know, did you women know each other before the show, I mean how did you all get together to do this show? I doubt that you were friends before, because I have many friends and we NEVER treat each other like you guys treat each other, and we have been friends for years. Were you all just thrown together? I love the show and I love you all.

CassandraTV
CassandraTV

Kim, I am a transvestite, and I think you are such an inspiration. You do what you feel and that's all you can really do! You really can't worry about what other people are thinking. You have too do what you feel is right. I would love to wear one of your wig's if the line comes to fruition. You need too just be you baby! Although, I would love to see you smoke a VS120 or Capri 120 instead of those cork filter cigg's you like. Vamp it up girl! Long fingernails and a 120 for next season! You go girl!! Hugs, Cassandra

Deena
Deena

Kim, please tell us where you purchased your beautiful bangle bracelets and watch from? not that many of us can afford it just thought I'd ask.

Deena
Deena

Kim.

Please tell us where you got your beautiful bangle bracelets from and the watch, not that many of us can afford it, just curious.

annm
annm

KIM ,STICK WITH KANDI, SHE WILL BE A REAL FRIEND, LOVE U, AND TELL ALL YOUR HATER,S TO GET REAL, LOVE ,LOVE U

Eva
Eva

Hi Kim,

You are not my favorite either and I don't care for your way of life, but it seems you are the victim this season. I like your positive attitude towards all the negativity from the other women especially how Nene tries to hurt you. She is definitely not your friend and you should not try to salvage any relationship with her because she does not speak kind words about you. Be honest and stay positive. I think any relationship with Kandi would be a great influence for you. Good luck with your song (ignore Nene).

Viewer
Viewer

If I can't say anything else, I can say I love reading your blogs. You have a great sense of humor! Please consider wearing the shorter wigs. They make you look 10 times prettier!!

Professor X
Professor X

Kim, while I am not a fan of yours, I must thank you for not portraying a Black girl during the alter-ego photo shoot. It is sad to say, but NeNe tries hard to make a mockery of you. She is not your friend. I like how positive you try to remain. I like how beautiful you are. I like how you try to be peaceful. And I especially like how you are trying to start your own wig line. Much success!!

Viewer
Viewer

Kim u r my favorite housewife. I think the other women try to make u look bad because they r intimidated by u. I think they go out of their way 2 make u look bad. Nene needs to learn how to act like a lady. I think u and Kandi should stick together. She can be a positive influence in your life.

bunny
bunny

Kim,

Where do I start. You have a sweet personality, but you are lacking direction. You remind me of a child who wants to be mature and truly believes they are, but never had the guidance in early years to be that.

I congratulate you for your decision about being painted black. They dogged you for the BBQ chicken comment, imagine what they would have done with black paint. VERY mature decision.

Showing your beautiful girls that having married men support you, shopping, drinking and smoking in excess, NOT mature.

Showing them a go nowhere career in singing (thank Kandi for the one hit wonder), or starting a wig line with exorbitant prices to make a fast dollar when you have not acquired "real" education in the business world, NOT mature.

I pray you will take a good and true look in the mirror and see what you are projecting to others, especially your children. You still have a chance. May God bless you.

Ms. Liz
Ms. Liz

I should have read my comment before I sent it. Your comment about the short black wig was just as bad as portraying a black girl/woman.

Sorry!

tina jo
tina jo

holy moly you look like a prettier version of trisha yearwood in that pic! funny! i know the other girls are mean to you. but whatever you are the best and i hope the best for you and your girls! and i hope that you and big poppa work out you deserve to be treated like a wife and not what he has done! good luck girl!

tina jo minnesota

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I think NeNe looked great, as did everyone else. That! right there is your problem. You talk about everyone so much that you forget your own lies. It's obvious you can dish it, but can't take it. You are not a victim. You bring on a lot of your own drama with your mouth and your actions.

mickie g
mickie g

kim...i wish you the best ...i am a latina ..and even though you do talk alot about people...thats why we love the show ...all the drama ... its the best ...and i think you should make up with sheree...she is a great person ...But yea she should say sorry for pulling your hair .... the has the most class of all the them ..and you should be friends again...give the benefit of the doubt,,,,,

stephanie
stephanie

i didnt like the way Kim!...said the wig wuz worst than being a black girl!...the short black wig she tried on!....that she didnt like!!...

Miss Kee
Miss Kee

Kim wake the hell up, his marriage is so dissolving that he has not left his wife or his main mistress for you in 3 years!!! He's not leaving ever heard the expression "Why buy the Cow when you can Get the Milk for FREE.. He may pay bills and give you nice things but it's not hurting his account or his family at all. He throws money to you so that you stay away from him, now is that how you truely want to live. Trust me you're not the only one who has been there every woman has. Just wake up that's all.. Sooner or later you will understand that you deserve better!

Truth
Truth

okay, Yes NeNe took it way too far with Kim by forcing Friendships upon everyone. She should have been friends with everyone individually instead of trying to bring them together when they were not willing, but NOT to sound child like, Kim you will get whooped on by anyone of the housewives so stop talking garbage over a blog if you freeze up and stutter in their faces, NeNe needs to GROW UP, and chill out. Everyone needs to realize that life is more than a hair doo all of the time you guys gossip and hate you can be setting examples and giving back, and making A DAMN DIFFERENCE1

Viewer
Viewer

Kim as a black woman I appreciate you not putting on the black face (even before I read your blog), that would have been rude and then you would have had everyone talking about that, so good job!

I know what you meant about the comment of the black wig being as bad as being a black girl, you meant that you didn't want to put on "black-face" make-up just like you didn't want to wear a black wig.

I thought it was awfully rude of Nene trying to force you to be black. I would not want anyone FORCING me to be white (or any other race).

I also like that you are true to yourself and who you are. I didn't like your character at first (maybe because of how they portrayed you, and I was on team Nene (thought she was real), but I've started to appreciate you more.

Love Watching The Show In Colorado!
Love Watching The Show In Colorado!

Kim you are hilarious! My first impression was that you and Nene were the greatest and I would have liked for it to just have been the Kim & Nene show. However, it seems that in this 2nd season, Nene has let the fame go to her head and she is overbearing as she gets jealous, upset, etc... when she feels the attention is not on her. It is too bad that she has become so phony on the show - a total contrast to her image last season. It think that it is real weak and childish for the women to keep trying to team up against you! Stay strong - and I love TARDY FOR PARTY!!! Come to Colorado girlfriend and I'll treat you to a glass of wine!

Nicky
Nicky

One more thing, you are not a a racist. I am black and want to see you painted black.

Nicky BP
Nicky BP

Kim, I think you a great persona dn I wish nothing but the best for you. I think NeNe aand mini me LISA, are bored as hell and need to find someone ellse to talk about like themselves!!! the only think I can say that would make you look more normal is to not talk about anyone at all because they are looking for any reason they can find to pick on you. You go girl!! Last season I wasn't fond of you but his time I see some things about the other girls that arn't to pretty. Bravo bravo for pointing it out!!

Viewer
Viewer

Oh Please! Certain people need to back off on the whole "racist" card on kim, for those that are trying to lay it down on her, take a look at NeNe and Lisa- they have said previously and continuously about Kim being trailer trash over and over again;.... Kim is not one of my favorite housewives, Lisa is actually.... but trying to play the racist card is so pathetic...But i do applaud Kim for being strong!

nubi
nubi

Kim, I think that with all the negative comments that you have encountered, Just keep your head up!!! You can not let them make you feel as if you can't do it (the singing). Everyone has their own style and when Kandi touched your song... she blew it up... she is so talented, and its not even finished yet, so u know its going to blow up. I would not do that song with NeNe, she is a hater! All of them (NeNe, Lisa, Sheree') all two faced women and haters. YOU CAN DO IT, so dry your tears girl. You need to keep find you a new circle of "FRIENDS" Kandi seems to be the most down to earth person and most real.

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Viewer

KIM,I just want to say I believe you are a big liar, you talk about the ladies all the time, so why can't they talk about you. You not a friend so don't expect for them to be a friend to you. Just keep doing what you are doing lying, going with married men and playing the victim. All I know is you better be happy that the ladies have a lot to loose because if you was in the hood you would have been got your butt kicked along time ago.

Le-Le Houston Tx
Le-Le Houston Tx

Lmao..Kimm this blog was the truth & you are to funny..such a great sense of humor..you delivered plain truth..keep ya helmet on kim.. becuz in deed you are going 2 need it.. 2 fight the war with the she-by nothing & ne-ne... luv u much

OH2NV
OH2NV

Kim, Im glad you stood your ground and did not assume the identity of Kena.I wasnt keen on the ideal of stepford or mistress, and from your blog you werent either. the final product showed also that you werent comfortable. your blog states you were to be protrayed as a rich wife,etc, but show stated mistress/stepford, not a good look on series camera or your alter ego photo.

Angie Mac in DC
Angie Mac in DC

Dearest Kim,

Just scanning through the blogs and I hope you feel all the love from your fans (that you deserve) but don't get on the show. You are a sweetheart! and a bad b***ch I might add. Sometimes I want to come through the TV, hug you, and tell them all how mean they can be! I couldn't believe how insensitive everyone was about your injury. That was a real fall. Its a shame, the women want to find fault with you all the time. Nevertheless, you keep your head up and when the show is over, stick with your REAL friends.

Swanna
Swanna

TEAM KIM! YEA!! I have to say that you and Kandi are my favs....you're both real and funny. All the others just strike a nerve. ugh! Keep doing what you do and don't let them get you down. You have the potential to be a great singer, even if you do just want to be a one hit wonder. lol. and ps. you're girls are adorable :D if you are ever looking to adopt or hire a college graduate, let me know. I can add to your mix of ethnicity around the house.

Viewer
Viewer

They are always giving you a hard time I think screw them they look more stupid every episode you are fine!! You were bloody and bruised tonight and they said she is trying to get attention!!! Funny I never bleed for atention. They are jackasses accept for Kandi!!!

ms leo
ms leo

Hey Kim, I wish you all the luck with your singing career. I would like yo know what kind of dog you have that was on one episode when you and your girls were preparing for bed. It was a little black furry ball, the cutest I've ever seen. I would love to goggle it and get me one. Thanks

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Viewer

Kim,

I like you. Any time you can stand ground to some HOTLANTA chicks you are a friend of mine. Just do me a favor quit playing the victim. Be who you are. So they can hate you more. DOn't get me wrong NEE-NEE is my girl, but I see potential in you. DOnt give up and dont never let your guard down...

Barb

Viewer NY
Viewer NY

Kim, I think ur ok! It's obvious though that u talk about everyone, u should chill on that! as for the other females they corny and tacky!!! sharee is wack and needs to get a lyf fake designer lol and ne ne just to dam loud think she knows it all! I do lyk lisa and the new chick candii seems pretty cool! anyway keep it real and don't back down from none of the females!!!

mimitta
mimitta

You’re not my favorite housewife but you seem to be a nice girl. All I have to say is stop playing the victim and stop claiming that you don’t like drama because girl, you love drama. I had the proof of that at the Ellen show. Aside from that, your wig line looks good. Good job for that.

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Viewer

Kim

You’re not my favorite housewife but you seem to be a nice girl. All I have to say is stop playing the victim and stop claiming that you don’t like drama because girl, you love drama. I had the proof of that at the Ellen show. Aside from that, your wig line looks good. Good job for that.

Viewer
Viewer

Kim I think that you are really cool. But we see that you talk about EVERYBODY!! So please stop playing the VICTIM Honey!! What goes around comes around... Stay Sweet

New Haven Viewer
New Haven Viewer

I must say, as one who wears a wig because of chemo from cancer, I was pretty upset when Sheree tried to pull your wig off. That was the ultimate No-No! I lost a lot of respect for her when she did that.

I think you did the right thing when you refused to put on black face. We should all be who we are. As a black woman, if someone asked me to put on white face, I would be pretty upset.

When you do your wig line, I hope you keep black women in mind, as well.

God bless.

Viewer
Viewer

the alter ego was the truth though so why would it affend you if your all about the truth and keeping things "real"?????

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Viewer

IF WHAT U SAY IS TRUE DON'T WASTE THE TIME EXPLAINING YOURSELF PEOPLE WILL ALWAYS HATE AND TALK ABOUT OTHERS IN THE END WE ALL HAVE TO GO TO GOD FOR OURSELVES.

Mile
Mile

Kim: Nene is nooooooooooot your FRIEND!!!!!

Viewer456
Viewer456

Whoever is viewing the blogs on the other side and making their selections, sure are selecting quite a few from those who can't even spell correctly. I get the gist of what they're trying to communicate, but goodness gracious, why not try selecting some from those who write intelligently and can spell.

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Viewer

I lived the short wig!!!! Why do you where wigs?

viewer
viewer

kim im a bit confused because you said you were not racist,however when you had to put on the short black wig you responded by saying "first nene wanted me to be black,now she has me in this horrible wig this is just as bad.I as a black woman would like to know what you meant by that comment.You may want to listen to that!!!!!!!

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Viewer

I will say I do agree with Dwight about the darker hair for you it is a better look. You actually look younger with it and it brings out your face. Now I will say I did not care for the bob wig that you wore. but the darker hair works for you. just give it a try.

Plus do a lace front wig that way no one can just pull it off. And you need to get some more balls about your self. I mean if you said things you said it. every last one of you all talk about each other.

So why is it that you are always sitting at some I want to have a meeting with kim round table disscussion. Damn that. I would not be afraid to put who ever in their place. cause they damn sure talk about you behined your back to your face, in the same room. you maybe keep you name in stuff constantly but damn girl man up and stop letting them tell you they are gonna beat your ass flip you over a couch do this and that.

Best at All times
Best at All times

Hi Kim...I just wanted to let you know that I love you on the show.....you are truly a great a friend and I know you feel with all the mess that goes on and I sooo understand how you feel......I feel like I connect you when it comes to your friendship you open up alot and are real and in turn you get played. Anyway I love in jersey finished nursing school and I am thinkn about moving to Atlanta....maybe we can grab a bite to eat if that is ever possible lol....anyway love you on the show take care...oh ps I think you and Nene have a real friendship....later

Baby Luv
Baby Luv

Kim I like you on the show but do us all a favor and STOP PLAYING WITH YOU HAIR!!!! It brings attention to the fact that your are nervous when being confronted by the others!!!