Kim gets points for not doing the equivalent of blackface at the photoshoot.

i love kim thats all im saying

The more I read your blogs the more I take a liking to you!! You are reading them (Lisa, Sheree and Nene) their rights on this one girlfriend. Keep your head up and continue to be fun!

Kim,
You have the same b-day MALCOLM X had when he walked this earth. Girl, there's got to be some Fire in you somewhere?! It's in there! You gotta pull it out! Frankly, it should have came out when Sheree pulled your hair. If that were me, damn the cameras!--I wouldda mopped Sheree's ass all up & down the street! Your kids gotta watch this cramp on TV...as do their cruel classmates?? I don't want those sweet girls getting teased in school. I'm not advocating violence...but a catty bitch can yap all she wants--just as long as she keeps her hands to herself. Physicality always changes the game.

Kim, don't you know kids, & some adults, are be bullied all over the world--they are rooting for you! You gotta rep for them--your strength 'll be theirs' too! It'll inspire them to staNd-Up too!

In every circle there's always someone the clan 'll choose as the 'whipping girl' or 'whipping boy.' And unfortunately in your Housewives of ATL circle: w/one loud-mouth talentless cow, one disingenuous wannabedesigner, NO, two disingenuous wannabedesigners; only one is uglier than the other & one is far more serpent-like; they've chosen "you" to hold that dubious role...for "whipping."

Instead of you blowing Papa's $$$ on jewels & fashion, you need to sign up for some martial arts lessons...boxing classes...something! Next time any one of 'em, anybody, period, gets physical... LAY THAT BITCH OUT!

On a lighter note... I didn't believe you said anything of the sort with which they accused you. First off "he-said-she-said" is so Juvenile! I know some drama is required, sadly, to net high ratings... But, dag! It was like they started "pulling bullshit out their ass" (no pun) to accuse you of. You strong, Kim (I know some may see you as weak)..to have withstood all of that unwarranted madness. My heart & prayers go out to you.

**Kandi is Genuine! She knows who she is (think of Brand Nubians song when Puba opens with: "I don't dis nobody to be somebody...)...that's why she doesn't have to berate you to make herself feel better. Being in her company, you're in the company of a true woman..a true sista. Those other 3? "Females," not women. Most only Age-Up...never Grow-Up...there's no evolution to their being at all. Feel pity for them vs. anger.

*Your voice: Don't sweat that! Madonna & Britney Spears can't sing either...and look at the levels they've reached. Take voice lessons...stop smoking, don't eat dairy, drink tea w/honey often...lemon soothes too. And study the metaphysics...delve into spirituality..it'll protect you. Buddah is nice..chant, yoga..heal your soul and fuck everybody that don't care about you! They are a waste of energy. See them as the non-entity that they are.

Visit ayeshagrice.com click on prayers...print, frame and post in your home...it'll aid in healing...

Love & Light,

P.P.

P.S. What you wrote above...yeah, those bags did look empty. LOL>.... What else struck me as odd: They were suppose be out there to have a good time celebrate 'family.' Why were you even on their mind in that moment? That's the bigger question. Lisa brought you up...she, oddly, always brings you up. She's sneaky...serpent. She's pretty--but a safe-pretty...nothing remarkable about her looks. You've one face like hers' you've seen a millions.

Kim and Kandi love you both! Kim you really represent a "real housewife" . I love your attitude and your taste in clothes and shoes. The short grey dress which swagged up and over your right shoulder was Fab..you looked great!
That's why NeNe and LIsa hate you! Candi is real and so TALENTED! Good luck with your business adventure!

Kim and Kandi.......haters are EVERYWHERE......but without them, we wouldn't be who we are in a since.....lol!!! You both make it great as friends.

ONE MORE THING.......KEEP KANDI AS YOUR FRIEND!!! SHE IS AS REALL AS WHAT YOU WILL FIND IN THAT WHOLE GROUP!!! THAT'S RIGHT..... I SAID IT!!! LOL

One more thing I forgot to say. I did not care for your alter-ego picture. I think NeNe did this on purpose. Shame on her! She made you look frumpy in the old housewife picture. That hairstyle she had them do for you was awful. You are a gorgeous and your pictures could have been so much better>

Kim-

You say know your limits, but you don't even have a source of income. You depend on Big Poppa to take care of you. How can you talk about the other wives when you spend like there is no tomorrow?

KIMMMMMM IJUST LOVE YOUU!!!!! YOU ARE THE BEST REAL HOUSEWIVE AND THE MORE FASHION OF ALL THAT GIRLS MAYBE THATS WHY ARE SO MEAN TO YOU!!!!!

Kim, I must say I totally agree with you about the "shopping spree" scene. I thought to myself, "those bags are empty as hell"...lmao.

Sheree really needs a reality check. For her to even THINK that she should be adorned in Tiffany and to travel in a Maybach is beyond my comprehension. You said it best, "know your limits"!! Keep doing you Kim and continue to be who you are. Take care!

Kim me and u have the same B-day May 19th in the house

i am a 22 year old male and you were my fav in da first season but now i dont c da same kim i love how u defend urself but for a while u weren't doing a good job at protecting ur image however im happy to c dat u building urself back up n trying to do something to keep it together

I have to say that (I live within my means)is one of the smartest things you've said. I recently started watching the show and think you are 1 of the 2 reasons why people should watch "housewives" the other is Nene, you guys are a trip to watch.

Kim,What I am having a hard time understanding is how do you pay for your life? Where is the money coming from and why do you need an assistant? You have no job all you seem to do all day is shop and go out to eat. You need to focus on something and start setting a better example for your daughters.

KIM... I understand you want to get something going for yourself in the business world.. but u dont know nothing you cant sing or even hold a note.. also you want to start a wig line.. dammit u didnt even know what a track look like... my advice to you is stop all that dayum shopping and stop being a lable hoe and get on the internet and browse and figure out what in the hell you good at..

Kim:

You constantly want to complain that the other girls say this about you and say that about you but then you actually have the audacity to write down the dumb stuff that you think up inside of your head. Why would you take the time to say that your heart went out to lisa but not too much farther down, make comments about her and Ne-Ne not having anything in the bags they were carrying. If you noticed Ne-Ne took the high road and didn't say that much about you but then you go on the defensive and start slamming her, she is the only one who half way deals with you and now you are sucking up to the new chick Khandi till she does something or doesn't do something you want then she'll be like the other chicks on the show, fodder for your ridiculous personality. I really can't believe you are even on the show because you definately are nobody's housewife, you are not respected enough to be a wife..............just a mistress and by the way your townhouse maybe be yours but if you spent more money on it vs. having items you bought shipped it would look much better. Finally stop swearing on your kids they are definately lacking in many areas and need enough help as it is with you as a mother why make things harder.

Kim, this blog was funny. I am middle class therefore I have no idea about shopping at high end stores.

Empty bags or buying one thing, that is funny. Some people have it, some people do not!

Kim I have 2 say u stick up for self very well and I hope your wig thing gets off the ground and Im happy 4 u as far as nene girl dont even trip cause at least your tryn 2 do something with your life u kani lisa and shree r tryn 2 do something nene hahahahahha girl get over her

Kim,
Don't listen too all the garbage! And by the way, you look great with brunette hair. It really makes your eyes pop! I am seriously thinking about going back brunette all because of you! As a previous chemo patient who lost all her hair, I know how devastating that can be, and I applaud you for going forth with a wig line! Good luck to you! I may buy one!

Girl the hell with what the say...Cause every thing is KIM>>KIM>>KIM...What is wrong with nene?...She so two faced I can't believe she got the nerve to talk about you.... You need to let her know that at least you spend time with your kids she NEVER does...AND she can't have a conversation with out your name in it... SHE MAKES ME SICK WITH HER FAKE ASS

Kim,

I just heard Tardy for the Party...it was cute....not Country...but cute.

You live within your means? Maybe you should shop that way. Stop giving these women bad advice about how to spend their money, home wrecker.

You are soo funny those bags did look EMPTY!!!!!!

Kim,

I think they are always picking on you! It's so annoying because NeNe says shes not "ghetto" or from the "projects" but the way she acts seems like it! I am not a hater but they just keep picking on you! I don't know why they want to look better than you when it just shows that money doesn't buy CLASS! LOL Kim keep doing what your doing and if they hate on you and tell lies, the truth will come out!

I would love to know where you bought the heart lariat necklace I've seen you wearing a few times. I would love to buy it but I'm sure it's out of my range. Please let me know where it was bought. Thank you so much!!!

I agree with the viewer that said Kim should have a jewelry line on Hsn. Kim you are so fashionable so I say go for it now as far as all the drama between you and the other girls I think they are childish for always attacking you. Lisa, Sheree', and Nene are always talking about you behind your back and Im sorry I dont think Nene is a real friend because every chance she gets she clowns you are if one of the other housewives are talking trash about you she doesnt hesitate to join in. If she was a real friend she would say something to these people trying to throw dirt on your name. I think you need to kick your distance from all the girls except KANDI. You seem to be everyones favorite puching bag and whats interesting is Lisa is clowing Sheree on her clothing line lets she Ms Big Bad Sheree try to pull on Lisa's hair, she wont because she knows better, now that would be a fight worth watching anywhoo good luck on the singing career and there are lots of celebrity that cant sing worth of damn prime ex. are Jennifer Lopez and Janet Jackson.

Kim when you have the oppertunity give compliments and don't hate. This will KILL Nene! Plus it will make you look better,and when you look better..you feel better!

My mistake I meant Nene not Kim!

Kim,

I do like you; although you are a little nutty. I think that is what is endearing about you. I however wish that you would drop it with Lisa. I do not know if you said those things about her being a crack hoe or whatever. She is obviously not, but I also agree she needs to let it go. Sherre on the other hand is my least favorite she talks crap about everyone. I also love Nene, but she needs to chill on talking smack about people. I wish you would think before you say anything about anyone and be the bigger person and let it go. Show your girls how to let things go. I am not saying let people walk all over you, but pick your battles wisely. Best of Luck!

Kim,
IM SO TIRED OF YOU BEING THE BLAME FOR EVERYTHING!!!!! These ladies need to put on their big girl panties and admit that they are just plain messy! I feel that there has been so much betrayal and no one wants to accept responsibility for anything. Everyone would be in a better place if they would just except the fact that maybe they dont know how to be true friends and how to hold what someone tells them in confidence. Always remember trash can have money too!

Kim I felt that you not wanting to play a black girl was offensive to black women and made me and I'm sure alot of other african american women feel you thought you were to good to play the role. I never ever would want to be white but if the situation presented itself to do so I would and I would have fun w/it. You need to learn to let loose and be able to get out of your confort zone. I also notice the only thing you were comfortable with in the photo shoot was the role of the mistress is that because that's who you are and that's all you know. Step out of your little box and learn to be more adventureous. P.S Loosen up.

Kim keep your head up girl you are the only real person on the show. They're angry with you about talking about them, when all of you talk about each other expecially NeNe. She is not a friend to any of you, she is really jealous of you and anyone else who has more than she has.

Oh Kim Z.
lol girl I love you. You are my favorite along with Kandi. You have my personality down pat. I just commented on Kandi's blog and I have to tell you the same thing i told her... HATERS HELP MAKE YOU FAMOUS! Let Nene, Lisa, and Sheree keep talking. It seems to me that they are jealous. They seem to only speak poorly of you when they are with eachother. But you sure get calls enough to make the public feel otherwise. Keep it up and dont change. Stick with Kandi... she is a down girl and yall will make great friends.

-OH AND PS GIRLS THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH DATING SOMEONE WHO HAPPENS TO BE IN A MARRIAGE THAT ISNT WHAT IT USED TO BE. CLEAN UP YOUR OWN LIVES AND FORCLOSURES BEFORE YOU JUDGE SOMEONE WHO IS ACTUALLY GAINFULL AND HAPPY!

-JAkE

its nice to have ur kinda means when all u have to do is spread em. thats a hard days work 4 u. at least lisa and nene arent homewrekers

Hi KIm, you are my absolute favorite. I'm an african american woman and I too am glad you refused to do the "Black Girl" photo shoot. You stood your grown and heck no!! it doesn't mean you're racist! I think that Nene, Sheree and Lisa are jealous of you if you ask me. I never see you backstab or treat anyone bad, unless they do it to you first. They attack you for no reason. They talk about you being with Big Poppa and all, but your house hasn't gone in foreclosure, and you're not renting. I can't say that for the rest of the girls. Any who god bless you and your beautiful daughters.

Kim..You Are A Beautiful Woman. Keep Your Head Up High! Those Haters Would Love To See You Down! You And Kandi Are My Favorite This Season! I Swear NeNe Is Nothing But A Drama Queen! You Can ull Through Anything And The Others Are Jealous Of That!

Kim,

I cannot believe how jealous you are of Lisa AND Nene. The shopping bags were light because they were probably only for "show". No one walks around Beverly Hills with shopping bags. And who goes to Beverly Hills from Atlanta or any major city and finds something that they have to have shipped home?...come on Kim, that is such a Nouve Riche' comment...but I understand...money is new to me also. The show was about Nene and Lisa going to Lisa's hometown for her grandmother's birthday and to see her brother's grave. And they did a little shopping...the focus WASN'T shopping. On the one hand you said you would have shown them how to shop and then in the next breath you said you live within your means...and they don't? which makes me think you did say that Nene's husband was broke. How do you know she's not living within her means?

Kim you should get a Twitter account... It would be nice to "follow you":) Stay strong!

Love the song Kim! Just bought it! Hell to the Yea! We need a very hot video for the song...of you stepping out of limos to go to all the hot spots in Atlanta, of course with you blinged out and sexy as usual......that would be so hot.

Keep your head up girl!

Kim,
Write a book, I would buy it!
Love you girl,keep it classy!

Kim, I am an African American woman, and I am not sure about the gossip you are accused of starting, but you are not the worse on the show. You carry yourself well enough. I think you are being made the scapegoat of this. I think you should get what you can, and get out. No you can't sing, but you can learn a lot about the business from Khandi. You were right not to the Sista photo. Nene was trying to make fun of you, and being in the South you were going to catch hell. There would be an assumption that you think you are black or you are making fun of black women. Stay neutral with all that stuff. I believe the show's producers have tapped NeNe, because she is a big loud, low class woman. Everytime I see her or hear voice. It is like scatching a chalk board. You are a white woman among black women, and they are going to eat you for breakfast, and make you look bad. If you are talking or gossiping about the women, I would stop that. Think about your career, and not be made a fool of on this show. NeNe has no class at all. I am so embarrassed whenever I hear her voice.

Kim,

I am so happy u refused to the black girl... That has given me more respect for you... Thank you for standing up for yourself...I'm a African American woman and honey I know how rough it can get with us so keep calm and just don't allow anyone of them to take you down from who you are stay strong.

Much respect.

They said you grew up in the trailor park but, um where did they grow up and why does that matter! Lisa was probably a gangbanger and she pretends to be so sophosticated! You are doing you and that is all that matters! They are hating so bad. Nene and Lisa were joking about your only interest being shopping....and!!! Don't they wish they had the same problem!!

Kim,

I have to say that I really do enjoy you this season, and last, and that you just have to keep on being strong. You are a strong and beautiful mother who knows how to be fun, sexy, and entertaining. One piece of warning though, watch out for Sheree. I've watched her and I can say that she is just JEALOUS of you and all she can do is copy what other people say. Have you noticed that all her insults are VERBATIM what Lisa said? I think that woman needs a lesson in etiquette. She is just another ignorant trashy woman who tried to cover up her failed marriage with money she did not earn.

Lots of Love!!!
XOXO

I don't understand why you need a nanny and assistant. I only see you walking around drinking wine. You have two beautiful daugthers whom you are setting a bad example for. You should teach them how to be strong, independent young ladies. You made a comment about how Lisa should pick a field. What is your field? Are you a call girl? You talk plenty of trash about the other ladies so don't be upset when they give back to you. Stop paying people to blog nice things about you.

I think you should be a guest DJ or MC at the Cheetah or the Pony. Lots of dudes in Atlanta would come see you. I would like the opportunity to get in a picture with you so my girlfriend would realize that I'm the baddest dude inside the perimeter....Can you feel me? HOLLA!

Kim I do like you in this season. Just stay away from Lisa and Sheree cause they are just dragging you down. Dont trust anyone.

Kim,
Keep doing you....everybody wants to trip on you when you talk a little smack BUT nothing is said when the other ladies are talking crap about you or to you. However you got your money is YOUR business...in any other housewife show, you dating a married guy wouldn't be that big of a deal. Just seems to me the other ladies are mad bc they couldn't make it work for them.
I also applaud you for not doing the "black woman" alterego. As an African-American I found it offensive and I also saw the set-up coming: had you done it then it would have been more fodder for the haters, led by NeNe, to trash you. It could have gotten really ugly fast, so kudos to you.
I'd like to see Bravo bring in another white woman to offer some balance-wouldn't have to be one of your friends, but just to balance it a little.

I think you take a bad rap for crap the other chicks do as well: gossip, wear bad weaves, and go after men with money!

Do you! Just one bit of advice...on the wigs, find a mono-skin base, stay away from synthetic, and cut the top and crown and layers. Then it's not as obvious that its a wig. And please tell NeNe to get rid of that tired quickweave/wig!!