Kim Zolciak

Kim Zolciak explains what she's learned from doing the show. And, would she do it all over again?

on Nov 20, 20080

I can't believe how quickly our season went! I must admit it was difficult to watch this episode. The ending of our show didn't really hit me until I watched it last night. There are so many things I want to clarify.

Let's talk about my two little girls. I cringed at the footage of me smoking in front of my daughters. I can't believe I did that. There is absolutely no more smoking in the house. I did quit for a period of time. I will continue to tackle it and I know with determination and prayer I will be a non-smoker soon.

Let's clarify on my relationship with Big Papa. We were together for three YEARS, not seven months, and we were in fact engaged. He is an incredible person and at this time only God knows what the future will hold for us. He is still my best friend and a part of my everyday life.

The dinner....

I have to be honest, I didn't really want to attend, It was the first time I had seen NeNe in quite sometime and with my girls being there I wasn't sure what to expect. I had a great time. It was great to see everyone.

17 comments
Rogaya
Rogaya

Girl you are one of the best thing on tv i cant wait until sundays come to see you i wish we were girl frenids not no funny way i would love that i like how you keep on moving on even when they come against you i am your biggest fan i live in lousiana and their or so many people that is your fan may god bless you and your children merry christmas and a happy new year

gigime1007
gigime1007

Kim hi i watch your program and you are a REAL WOMEN i love your attitude about every thing. Im trying to figure out how to enter to win a trip to see you. I lost my job as a Admin Asst after 2 yrs,I am in Savannah ga and the jobs are not here. Can i apply to be you Admin Asst. If you can help tell me i would love to be able to meet you. Ive lost my mom dad & brother Deseased. So i would love to get out there.

cm
cm

HI KIM I WATCH THE SHOW ALL THE TIME, I HAVE NEVER COMMENTED ON A SHOW BEFORE, SO GLAD YOU ARE ON THE SHOW, NENE NEED'S TO GO, ALL THE GIRL'S ARE JUST JEALOUS OF YOU. MY GRANDKIDS SING "DONT BE TARDY TO THE PARTY" KEEP DOING WHAT YOU DO, DON'T CHANGE A THING ABOUT YOU. IT WOULD BE NICE TO MEET YOU SOMETIME KNOWING THAT WILL NEVER HAPPEN I WILL CONTINUE TO WATCH THE SHOW NEXT SEASON IF THERE IS ONE. YOUR COURAGE TO FACE YOUR FEAR'S PD OFF FOR YOU, KEEP SINGING AND REMEMBER THIS YOU ARE A STRONG WOMEN AND NO ONE CAN BRING YOU DOWN. LOVE YOUR WIGS I ALSO WEAR THEM AND MY GRANDAUGHTER JUST GOT THE HANNA MONTANA WIG FOR CHRISTMAS. AS FAR AS MYSELF AND FRIENDS IN PA YOU ARE THE HIT OF THE SHOW.AND AS FAR AS BIG PAPA GOES IT'S YOUR LIFE. GIRL IF HE MAKES YOU HAPPY AND YOU WANT TO BE A PART OF YOUR LIFE GO FOR IT, FOLLOW YOUR HEART OTHERWISE YOU MAY REGRET IT FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. JUST WANTED TO DROP YOU A FEW LINES BUT WENT ON SORRY GIRL WE JUST LOVE YOU HERE. HAVE FUN WITH THE SHOW AND BE TRUE TO YOURSELF AND AT THE END OF THE DAY YOU WILL HAVE EVERYTHING IN LIFE YOU DESERVE.

Connie Cross
Connie Cross

Dear Kim, I do not know how to reach you other than this. I have enjoyed watching you, but, must say I missed some things because I was so mesmerized by your beauty. I'm vain and would love to have everything available done... reality is "that's not going to happen". I haven't felt pretty for a long time. I was just nearing my second youth, the kids were teenagers. My son 16 at the time dove into the backyard pool and was rendered a quadriplegic. I took care of him for 18yrs. I lost him last year and I think it's the hardest thing I will ever face. My husband left a few years after the injury. This is a sad reality to catastrophic injures. Trying to adjust to the loss of my son, I was diagnosed with colon cancer. I am receiving chemo and radiation, but, I'm losing my pretty long blond hair. I need a Kim wig. I wondered how a person can get one, or if I could even afford it. Could you or whomever reads this please contact me. I would apprciate it with all my heart. I would look really well in your wig. I would do it justice :). Again, I don't know how to reach you, so I'm hoping someone takes heart and gives this to you. Thank you for your time in advance. Sincerely, Connie Cross cancer patient, Kalamazoo, Michigan

bugs
bugs

Kim, Love You!! you are by far the best one on the show and i think the other cast members are mean to you. keep up the good work YOU GO GIRL!!!

Maria L Ehrhart
Maria L Ehrhart

Kim, You are the coolest! I wish I could be that way with my two boys. I too love them dearly. I would kill for them too. What do you do for a living? *I know Big Papa has been out of the picture for awhile. I to havenn't been working for about 6months, sucks! I am dealing with a bad back issue. Having surgery soon. Thank God!

NeNe, Lisa, and Sheree are just haten on you cause you just got it goin on. NeNe is the most hateful person I have ever met. I think the show has gone to are head. Does her head fit through the doorways anymore?

Keep haven fun and god bless u and ur girls I'll keep watching, Maria Ehrhart

Cashmere
Cashmere

The Housewives of ATL would be boring without your presence. I can tell viewers like the drama. THis is a good start for you to go into soap opera acting. The affairs and the lies all ties into a career in acting. AND Kim you play a great woman that the viewers love to hate.

CINDY
CINDY

KIM, HEY KIM, I LIVE IN VALLEY AL, NOT TOO FAR FROM ATL AND I WOULD LOVE TO MEET YOU IN PERSON.. I WATCH THE SHOW AS MUCH AS I CAN,AND I THINK YOU ARE A GREAT PERSON.. WHEN I FIRST STARTED WATCHIN I COULDNT STAND YOU, BUT AS TIME ROCKED ON I GOT TO KNOW YOU AND I FEEL LIKE YOU ARE ONE OF THE ONLY ONES THAT DONT JUST HAVE IT MADE, IF YA KNOW WHAT I MEAN!! YOU HAVE ALOT OF HATERS BUT YOURE A GREAT PERSON.. DONT LET ANYONE TELL YOU DIFFERENT. I CANT STAND IT WHEN THEY ALL GANG UP ON YOU AND TALK ABOUT YOU I WANNA COME THROUGH THAT TV SCREEN GIRL.. LOL. YOU JUST KEEP DOIN WHAT YOUR DOIN.I WISH ALL THE HAPPINESS IN THE WORLD YOU DESERVE IT KIM.. ND GOOD LUCK IN YOUR FUTURE ENDEAVORS..( UR WIG LINE, AND UR SINGING).. AND I THINK CANDI WILL BE A GOOD FRIEND TO YOU ..

conishkee
conishkee

Hi Kim, I feel like you handled yourself well at the dinner, despite Nene's, once again, antagonistic behavior. There's a time and a place for everything, and with the kids being there, she could have toned it down a bit, or not have gotten into "that" conversation at all at that time in the presence of EVERYONE. It goes to show that she had no respect for your childrens' presence, much less, the presence of the other children in the room. But that's Nene. She's going to have her say irregardless of who's there. I personally think that she's a selfish individual with no regards to being ladylike nor tactful where it counts. Nonetheless, it just amazes me that you continually put yourself in the position to be ridiculed. When will you learn? You should have known that you were entering the "lion's den" when you agreed to go to that dinner. Everyone has their limit, but only you'll know when you've had enough. I just hope it's not at a point when it's too late. Take care of you. I'm watching!

Viewer
Viewer

hello kim my name is myra and i am a big fan of yours i dont like the other girls because they are always hating on you do you and your daughters and don't let them get to you love omaira from connecticut

Ann
Ann

Hi love the show,I'm from London but now living in Spain, I would love to do Kim hair in Extensions.She would look like a million dollar and more.My clients pay for me to fly over to do there hair, my extensions looks so natural,I only specialize in European Hair. Trust me I won Best Hair Extensions in the Uk. I love a challenge!!! Trust me women like Kim worship me. I notice one thing with all my clients when I remove there extensions they get very depress, but once the new one are fitted is as if they can take on the world.Its amazing the Confidence you have with a good hair style.This is not a comment,please can you pass my details on to Kim or the production team. Kind Regards Ann

TJ
TJ

Love ya Kim! You kept your cool and was an outstanding Lady! Keep you head up! Let God lead you to where you are supposed to be in life. Give all your attention to your children and to becoming a great singer. Ignore all of those nasty comments and rude remarks from the other "housewives". They are just jealous!!!

luxious1
luxious1

kim, I've watched the show from the beginning. And when you are dealing with real people like nene, You have to be waiting truth in any situation she is going to tell the truth and I don't blame her. I would love to meet her. She can't be nothing but truthful, and if your were such a good friend of nenes',and you know her ways, then you shouldn't have gotten mad at her about some comment that were said, you know that is the type of person she is. And I hope that you are not playing with the cancer thing,Because I've just got through cancer treating myself. and it is not joke. but you said on the reunion that you had cancer, then you said you didn't. Now your hair is your bussiness who cares wear what you want on your head or your body. Thank that you are feeling better but you shouldn't even mention cancer if you know that you were never told that you did have it. Whatever you speak it you claim it. So don't let it roll off your tongue. I would rather have a honesty friend in my life than to have someone lying to me about something what i ask them a question...So you should have kept nene in your life.

Viewer
Viewer

Hello ,well NENE es na envidiosa esta demasiado gorda deveria de hacer dieta ya q esta en un show q la verdad no se ve nada nada bien nada le luce,lo escribo en espanol para q la NENE se mate buscando quien le tradusca es fea gorda y cae mal,Tu kim dejalas al fin tu sabes quien eres como persona y ser humana. chao chao.Osea BYE

Pink Panther
Pink Panther

this has been a long time coming, ...very difficult to write about!I know what you went through. I was told by the 1st clinic the lumps in my breast were suspect and sent to the university for tests(biopsy). While there getting biopsies the 1st cinic tried to reach me and tell me my pap came back active cancer cells. So when I got back from the capital area, I then had to deal with the pap tests. Lots went on there. Mustard type painting, freezing & scraping. During one of the visits the Doc looked at me and brushed his thumb on the side of my face near the temple and asked when did this appear? I said yesterday and out of nowhere. She sent me upstairs to have them carve and scrape my face down to the bone. Waiting for this report, waiting for that report, thinking I am going to die. During all this my weight came crashing down to climb back up to crash down again, My hair was on my pillow, in my sink on the floor. AND yet through all the hell and after all was said and done...I was told none of the 3 were actually full blown cancer. They said they caught all in there early stages and that gave them many options on how to make me well. My older sister and younger sister did not care. My older brother and younger brother did not care. My own mother ignored what I was going though. I wonder if they were afraid to be near me or even acknowlege what I was going though. This permenently damaged my relationship with them all. whenever they ask for money from me to help them out with someone or something before I would. After this I dragged my feet but still helped them out then I stopped giving them money and they turned on me. I left home at 18 and moved to another state. They all hung around the area. I have a life and it does not include them. Resently my mother told me infront of my youngest that I was adopted from a cousin just before she got pregnant with my younger sister. I have always felt disconnected now i know why. It still all hurts But I now know where you are coming from.