Lisa Wu Hartwell

Lisa talks about her romantic birthday night and her rocky relationship with Kim.

on Aug 7, 20090

Wow, last night was heated in more ways than one.

I really appreciate and LOVE my wonderful husband. He's so damn sexy! He treats me like a queen, he is one of a kind and I am truly blessed.

My heart goes out to Kandi regarding the situation with her mom. I know that she's very close to her mom and doesn't want to upset her but she also loves her man. I pray everything works out for her.

Nene, Sheree and Kim

Wow! I wasn't there and I can't speak on what happened or what Kim did to either one of them. I do know that Kim has lied several times to me for no reason. I don't buy into the "I'm innocent and I didn't do or say anything" routine from Kim.

That line... "If I'm lying strike my kids dead right now." WTF?

It appears every time I have the opportunity I speak about Kim...I'm sorry it appears unwarranted. It is not. You're not able to see Kim in action when it comes to me and some of the things she has said behind the scenes. I do have a legitimate beef. LOL. If you stand for anything, stand for your family, your loved ones and your character.

Sorry Kim, if you had not said the things you said, we wouldn't be here would we?

I don't spend my time on trivial matters, or people that live for attention.

However, my family and loved ones? That's a no-no!

Until next week!

511 comments
TONY E
TONY E

THIS MESSAGE IS TO LISA WU- HARTWELL AND ED HARTWELL IF YOUR RELATIONSHIP IS REPAIRABLE REPAIR IT. THERE IS NOTHING GOING ON IN THE SINGLE WORLD THAT YOUR BOTH MISSING; SIMPLY PEOPLE WHO'S WAITING TO USE YOU FOR THEIR GOOD AN LATER DIVORCE YOU. LOVE IS SUPPOSE TO LAST FOREVER. SO PUSH YOUR PROUD TO THE SIDE AN PRAY THAT GOD RESTORE YOU ALL HEARTS BACK TO THAT LOVING PLACE IT ONCE WAS. IF IT HAPPENS PUT GOD FIRST IN YOU ALL LIFE, BECAUSE GOD WILL GIVE YOU BOTH FAVOR AND SHOW YOU HOW TO LOVE EACH OTHER AGAIN.

PEACE AND LOVE TO YOU

Squish23
Squish23

Lisa, I miss your smile every week. Take care of that beautiful family.

Squish23
Squish23

Mine too! Miss your Smile....Take care of your beautiful family

Lala101
Lala101

Hey, lisa dear. you are my favorite housewive of them all.

KeKe Hottt
KeKe Hottt

Hey girl how u doing? Hows the family. Just wondering have u and Ed had that second baby yet that u guys were working on? And im askin you just like i asked NeNe because on the show u too are the only ones i like......lol. when are you guys comin back on so i can watch Bravo cause i dont watch any other shows on here but urs.....lol. And hows the clothing line going? PLEASE hit back with info so that i can support you guys. Be Bless Stay Strong Love KeKe...... Ur #2 Fan

rach
rach

I would LOVE to know about the hat Lisa wore in the most recent episode. ( the one with NeNe's high heel race) Who was the hat by?

Viewer
Viewer

all blessings to u , I hope you have a baby girl!!!!!

aquarius singletonViewer
aquarius singletonViewer

This season i think lisa & ed show the true meaning of love! He support her every goal 100%. Thanks ed their some good guys still out there keep up the good work. Hey lisa ,kim is just her self keep doing lisa don't even bother.

Robin
Robin

TEAM KIM!!!!

Viewer
Viewer

LISA, TELL ED I SAID THANK YOU FOR THAT ROMANTIC EVENING. I SET THE DVR FOR MY MAN 2 WATCH THAT EPISODE AND LET ME TELL YOU I CAN'T GET HIM 2 STOP WATCHING IT. HE'S AFRAID HE MIGHT MISS SOMETHING IF ED DECIDES TO SURPRISE U AGAIN. IT WAS SOOOOO BEAUTIFUL. GOOD LUCK WITH THE PLANNING OF UR NEW BABY. GOD BLESS

Angela
Angela

HI LISA, GIRL LET THE HATERS BE YOUR MOTIVATORS!!!!

WE LOVE YOU!!!

TT-Dallas
TT-Dallas

Please tell me who the designer is of your rhinestone sunglasses. They are stunning!!!

jenny
jenny

you ahould'nt beleive everything you hear.

DivaInVa
DivaInVa

I love ya Lisa!!! I really admire your whole family. You definetly got a full-load of haters but all pretty women do lol. Your husband is very handsome and sweet and I hope some of these black men in Va are taking notes! Just watching your family let's me know that there may be hope to find a good man and live a good life. Until then its all about College and work. I am really looking forward to checking out your fashion line and hoping for a family reality show with you and your family!!! Keep doing it big girl!!!!!

Yvonne Olivia Perez-Brislis
Yvonne Olivia Perez-Brislis

Mrs. Hartwell, I just viewed the episode where you shared a private moment with your family in regards to your older brothers death;just wanted to give my condolences to you and your family..I too lost my older brother (Russell Armundo Brislis) he was the only boy..I only have a sister left (Sandra Lee Brislis) and there is not a day that goes by that I don't think about my older brother...I wish only peace for you and your family...

Terri
Terri

Lisa you are so blessed you are smart, driven, independent and you have a gorgeous son and loving husband. I can say everyone on the show wants to be you.... so over look the childnish stuff you are too blessed to put ANY energy into it. Blessings on your next pregancy you will be a great mom again. You are my favorite.

jeanne
jeanne

hey girl, i just wanted to tell you that i think u are a great person inside and out. love that u are so real and not fake like kim. she is a noone. sorry about your brother. i watched it and started to cry. its hard but you done a great thing by going. just wanted u to know that i watch your show and love it. my prayers for u and your family.

melanie
melanie

Lisa, With all your success and energy! You really inspire, you have a wonderful marriage, healthy kids and you love the Lord! Also, is your astrological sign an Aquarius? and what are the other girls sign?

Viewer
Viewer

I thought they had such a romantic night to envy. Her hubby sure knows how to treat a lady

Shivonne
Shivonne

Lisa, which West Indian island is your mum from?

Viewer
Viewer

i think you are a nice person, who has a lot going on for her, but you need to watch NeNE it wont be long before she turns on you.

SHe keeps drama going all the time, it makes me sick. She needs her own intervention.

Tammy
Tammy

Lisa Hi, i just wanted to say i understand how you feel about your brother passing , my only brother passed in 94 and still this far down the road i still feel a profound sadness and loss , he was also the life of the party big , loud , fuzzy and just a joy to be around, i just wanted to reach into the tv and hug you, stay strong, God Bless .

Yalonda Smith
Yalonda Smith

Lisa, my sister pasted away on January 6th on this year at the age of 33, therefore I understand what you are going through. My sister too was the oldest and the life of the party and she also drank. They finally told us (after three months that she died of a heart attache. She has to boys a 12 year old and a 4 month old which are now 13 and a 1 year old whom I raise. I have been to her grave since the funeral. She is finally in peace and resting and that alone makes me say Hallelujah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Go to youtube and type in hope1026 I have a video on there telling of how I feel about my sister's death entitled: How I feel about death

Jenn
Jenn

Lisa,

My friends and I have not seen one scene where Kim supposedly 'talks' about you. Is it quite possible you don't like her cause she's not black???? hmmmm Possible?

Veater
Veater

I didn't know where to write this, but I can sympathize with Lisa not wanting to go to her brother's grave, as I do not go to visit my brother at his grave site. I just wanted her to know that she is not alone. Two of my surviving brothers visit Dennis often, but the other brother and I do not visit. Everyone deals with grief differently. I believe it makes it too real. I know he is dead, but I don't need to go there to know that. He is not REALLY there, its just his remains. Anyway, I just wanted Lisa to know that its ok to grieve away from the grave. Best wishes! Karen Proud Sister of LCpl Dennis J Veater KIA 09 March 2007 Balad, Iraq

Maya D
Maya D

Lisa,

I just want to know what does "Don't cross that line again with me" mean exactly. Is that a threat? Sounds like one...and what is it exactly that you intend on doing if she does talk again. You ladies need to really come to a decision on what is really important. Someone talking trash or you, your family, and other things that are so much more important. I don't see that point in that get together. You know you both do not like each other. Period. No threats Missy.

Kelly
Kelly

Lisa i would like to just give you the biggest virtual hug because of the strength and your courage to visit Meho's grave site. i love that you had the ability to share such a personal part of your life with all of America, I lost my Dad this past October and my family constantly say visit the grave site visit the grave site and i so totally agree with you He is not there. i have been to see his headstone and it is a beautiful tribute to him but you know, i sit in his favorite chair and look out the windows at his dream he made on his on little farm he always wanted and enjoy the birds singing and just enjoy all he enjoyed in viewing what he loved to look at everyday. don't give up you will find your way to share your special place with Meho, as your brother (i am so sorry i have forgotten his name) gains comfort from visiting his grave site my sister as well does, to each is own Hun, and just because it isn't the way you choose to deal with it doesn't make it wrong it's just what works for him and in turn he should understand you and that you haven't found your peaceful place yet, but you will. i wish you luck and you will find peace, Bless you for sharing and thank you, because i thought i was the only one that felt that way. Kelly-Birmingham, Al.

Gallman
Gallman

hey lisa love u a little 2 much if i cant have u i hope your show has 60 more seasons and expands 2 at least 3 days out of the week so i dont have 2 wait a whole week 2 see u.i sound a little crazy but its what u do 2 me...wishing i could be the same 4 u.Later babe

Viewer
Viewer

Hi Lisa, I love you and Nene on the show please remember that you all are representing black women who are housewives, lets keep it classy, I know drama sells but lets stay focused. You and Nene have a great relationship and I love it. Stay Blessed

Jessica
Jessica

Lisa love you and your family very cute.....

My main question is your brother andre....Single,Taken, what girl cause am 27 and he is looking fineeeeee and i would love to see and know more about him.

hope all is well

Jess

Kathy
Kathy

Dear Lisa, I understand why it was so difficult for you to go to your brother, Meho's, grave. My son died 6 years ago and the most difficult thing for me to do is visit his grave, I feel like it only reminds me of the time of his death when i prefer to celebrate his life. For me, he is NOT at his grave, he is always with me, in my heart, my love, and the way I live my life. I do go for my daughters' sakes because that is the way they choose to grieve and I know I have to respect that they want me there for them. God Bless you for going and I'm glad it wasn't something you regret doing.

Viewer
Viewer

Hey Lisa on tonight's show your mother mentioned that she's West Indian ans while she as speaking i was trying to class her accent with a specific island but i couldn't so can you tell me which island is she originally from?

Bajan Empress
Bajan Empress

I know this is off subject...but does anyone know which West Indian Island Lisa's mom is from?

crystal from chicago
crystal from chicago

Lisa,I just watched the episode where you visited your family, I just wanted to say that you are a strong and beautiful person, the love that you have for your family and your brother Meho is very evident, I respect you for that.

My heart goes out to you for your lost, but I say this you always remember the good times, the laughter, the heart ache is only temporary, the memories are everlasting, may God continue to bless you and your family.

simone
simone

Hi Lisa just want to know where your mom from.

rize
rize

i would like 2 comment on da visit 2 da grave site ....i wish Lisa hadn't gone der ...im like dis i would like my memor....of my decease family stay n my heart n not at da grave site....if a family want 2 visit dat grave den all means go don't keep askn me 2 go if said i wasn comfortable' n going....so leave em'alone

Katie wells
Katie wells

Lisa, I am in the middle of watch you going back home and wondering if you should go to see your brothers grave. I totally understand where you are coming from. I'm originally from Indianapolis, IN but moved to Alabama in 1997. In 1998, I lost my father to lymphoma in and I obviously went home for the funeral. I have since gotten married and have 2 kids, so we only go up to Indy every other year. The thing is my sister ALWAYS wants to go to my father's grave sight when I visit...I always refuse. I don't exactly knoow why... I just can't. And like you said," you know he's gone" but it's still hard. I have accepted my fathers gone, but I guess I'm afraid that I will totally loose it if I see his grave sight with his name on it and everything. I just saw you went to the sight... good for you. Hopefully you will give the courage to do the same. God bless, Katie wells Alabaster, alabama

danielle
danielle

Lisa, first of all I really want to comment you on how you have handled yourself; you seem to stay out of all of the drama that happens on the show. I started watching the show when I found out that my husband and I were going to be relocated to Augusta. Out of all of the girls, you are my favorite ( I think you have a great head on you shoulders, a great buisness women, great mom, wife and friend. I am currently watching the episode when you visited your family and I really feel for you because I am also from california (Moreno Valley) and my sister passed away when I was 11 years old. I also have a hard time going to my sisters grave. Dealing with the loss of a sibling is not easy and the hurt never completely goes away. I just wanted to wish you the best in getting pregnant, and dealing with drama issues from the girls.

TRISH
TRISH

Dear Lisa,

I simpathize w/ u regarding the passing of your brother. In my opinion it would be a great sense of relief off your shoulders to visit his grave. I think it would give your soul peace and that alone is golden. Regardless if you do or you don't he still and always will love you as his little sis. Don't forget that 1 day you will be together again :) R.I.P Meho

Viewer
Viewer

Lisa, you always look so well put together! I have to ask - what designer glasses are you wearing when you went to your parents house? They are FAB!!!

May your brother rest in peace. I know it's hard. I lost my mother 15 years ago, and I still cry for her today. Stay strong and hold on to all the beautiful memories!

Tiffany A
Tiffany A

Lisa, I must say that Kim may not be on your Level and she is a little jaded, but we all make mistakes and we deserve to be forgiven. If you think about it Kim is crying out for something.....something is missing. Have a heart. Love you

BEAUTIFUL23
BEAUTIFUL23

YOU ARE SO CLASSY AND YOUR STYLE IS FABULOUS!!

Lisa P.
Lisa P.

Lisa, shame, shame shame on you. You try to portray yourself as the good housewife, meanwhile you are the biggest backstabber of all. Why would you and Sheree act like two giggling schoolgirls and sing about Kim at Nenes party? You have zero class and you cant outsmart the viewers, we see right through you and your petty lies. Stop pretending and be more like Nene. At least she tells it like it is. As for saying you dont get involved with trivia stuff, what do you call making fun of Kim at the party doing? Also you told Kim about the night Nene sang about her. It seems to me you are right in the middle of every cat fight...... you should grow up phony lady.........

Viewer
Viewer

I liked you last season until the reunion show and this season you are my least favorite of the all. Last season, you seemed to be classy and above the fray. I was duped. You and your threats are so damn ghetto. Yuck. Buy some class.

Karen Lee
Karen Lee

Kim Kim Kim.. Girl love your family, and the love you and your husband share.... You are a woman with class but will get in your ass all at the same time.. Love you girl.. you and NeNe Rock... you are awesome.. Love it,, LOve ya.. Love it all.. much love Sp

Viewer
Viewer

ladies i have to say at the party....it was cool that you girls went back to the front door and re-entered the party...cos c'mon ladies ya'll started it first ya'll called the girl skinny and then when she punched back ya'll wonna beat the girl up....so thanks for checking yourselves even tho that wasn't your true intention.......

MAINEY
MAINEY

LISA, YOU ARE SNEAKY AND TWO FACE