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Sheree Whitfield

The Big Guns

Hear from Sheree about her visit to the shooting range and her confrontation with Kim!

Aug 10, 2009

Funny how Nene likes to throw jabs even after us meeting up. "Blame it on the alcohol?" I've known Nene for a while. We were never that close for me to share any type of secret or sensitive info with her because I already knew how she couldn't hold water. So keep fishing, darling.

The Kim-tervention was something I'm not proud of....she sooo wasn't worth it! I knew going in that Kim wouldn't admit to any of the lies she was telling either to me, Nene or Lisa, but did it really matter? Kim had been calling each of us separately and telling a ton of lies on the other. What really mattered to me were the lies she began to tell about me (most of which were not shown), her screaming lies at me in the restaurant and her jumping up yelling and pointing her finger in my face. Enough was enough! At this point it had nothing to do with Nene, Gregg or anyone else. It was the random lies she began to say about me, trying to defame my character. One of the lies she told Nene and that was shown was that I was writing bad checks to Neimans. Kim claimed her shoe guy at Neiman Marcus told her that I had been bouncing checks there! Are you kidding me! If I bounced a check at Neimans, do you think they would continue to take my checks??? That's one of the few places I frequent here. Obviously, she has a problem and knows that I know - why did I even bother.

Til next time... "I do my best at being me."

XOXO, Sheree'

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P.S. The sun glasses that some of you inquired about are by YSL.

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Sheree, you were much more sophisticated last season. You seem to be letting your guard down. As far as your party planner, Anthony, he had the worst business manner on earth. However, why get into a screaming match? In the future, you may want to simply fire the person, and not stoop to the person's level, as that can get dangerous. I observed the same combative behavior, when you met with Kim. If you truly regard her as a liar, why would you agree to meet her? It seemed like you and NE Ne planned to gang up on her. If you really want to appear classy, sophisticated, etc. you would not even associate with a person who you believe trashed you behind your back. The scenario seemed like high school. Perhaps you girls do not have enough productive things to do with your time, or you are making a good show for the camera. The coming attractions show you reaching for Kim's hair. That is such low behavior, does the word assault ring a bell. Yes, that's right, pulling someone's hair will get you arrested for assault. With this said, go back to your sophisticated act from last season, and put your guard back up.

I think you all need to grow up. Let Kim be friends with whomever she chooses. If she states something about the other you should advise her to tell that person to her face. Is seems like you are all acting this year instead of being who you really are. I will continue to watch b/c I like all of you but I think that you need to stop acting as high schoolers and start acting like adults.

Sheree, I love that you are standing up for yourself. Last season, you seemed more laid back but I can see how you are understanding that you gotta do what you gotta do and that people do need to respect you!! I love that about you. As far as Nene goes, I dont know why she decided to have the intervention with you guys especially while she met with Kim and was still harboring resentments. You and Kim are grown and if and when you two decide to solve your issues is your business. Nene should have not brought you two together under those circumstances. But, you was rockin the hell outta them heels and pants at the gun range!!!

SHEREE I THINK THAT YOU ARE GREAT! I THINK YOU ARE STRONG WOMAN SCREW ALL THE HATERS! OH BY THE WAY I LOVE YOUR STYLE!

Sheree, I see a major and positive difference in you this season as opposed to last season. Last season you were portrayed as being a snobbish ----- (believe that was the networks intention and the way it was edited). This season you are still classy and a diva(not in a bad way), but easier to relate to. I am happy to see a another side to you.

WOW..Sheree!! Looks like Kim called you out, why else would you want to fight? Not sure exactly what is behind the drama between you & Kim, it appears (emphasis on appears) that you are stirring up some BS. Even NeNe said in her commentary that Kim sounded like she was telling the truth and she didn't know who to believe. Last season you were also in the middle of Kim & NeNe's troubles. Why is that? I have to admit, I was really surprised by your actions. I thought you had more respect for yourself than to carry on like you did. Oh to be able to press rewind and start over would be so nice. With that being said, I believe you are a better person and that selective editing is in play. So I look forward to the next episode of Atlanta Housewives to see how everything plays out. BTW..I am truly impressed with your shooting skills, not bad for the first time.

I just wanted to make a point on your comment. You indicate that Kim has talked to all of you individually about each other but I thought she has not spoken to you in year, she does not speak to Lisa at all and she and Nene has not spoken to each other as well. Therefore, who is really saying the lies? It looks to me from the show that you are the ones talking amongst yourselves about Kim and the alleged lies. In addition, who is still using checks to go shopping...what happen to credit cards or debit cards?

Sheree,

May I suggest that you keep your eyes open for the traps that are set for you? You walked right into one last week. I think NeNe set the two of you up as payback for last season fall out. Child and don't listen to Lawence, Honey he had you so hyped talking about Anthony after you left from getting your hair done, you must have forgot you were dealing with a nut case and got clowned! Foolin around with NeNe behind Kim you got clowned. You got to be more careful.

Sheree' love, love you this season. Last season, I felt you were fake. You are letting your real colors shine! Also, didn't you, NeNe and Kim all say negative stuff about each other?

I really think all you ladies should just let it go. Be friends or not. Just live your lives and love your beautiful children. They should be the only thing worth fighting for.

Well, I never thought I would say this but I have become a Sheree fan. Who would have thought that Sheree's hard edges were hiding a vulnerable person? She must have been acting all last season. Her allowing herself to be more transparent this season has shown that she truly is classy, caring and also funny as all get out! "Who gonna check me, Boo?" and "This Cleveland girl's gonna call Pookie and have him whoop his a**." Hey, I can't wait to say those lines in my own life! Seriously, Sheree has gained a whole new dimension this season and she's much more likable and fun to watch now that she isn't such a poseur as before. Keep it up, and by the way, can I get Pookie's phone number?

I watched season 1 and could not wait for season 2, but after watching the first episode I am disgusted. I have tuned in to all the real housewive shows and for the most part I enjoy. But let me tell you the Atlanta 1st show have the actresses calling each other bitches all through the show and as a black woman that really offends me. I wondering if anybody else felt this? I don't want to think this is because of race because the other shows do not speak to each other this way. Why? I hope I am wrong in my assumption. Ladies stop with the b word. you can get your point across without degrading one another. I want to watch in the future but won't if this continues.

Well i have been a fan of sheree since the first season, many people dont like her because she is real and very blunt. I think that it is sad that people all of a sudden jump on her band wagon because of the drama in the last 2 shows. I feel that its a good thing that her and nene are trying to fix their relationship being that they are my 2 favorites.

Sheree,

One that you have just proven to America is that the Black Woman knows how to survive. What you and your children have just gone through for the world to see is happening behind closed doors everyday. The silent tears we shed when we have to pack our lives up and move because we sat around waiting for someone else to take care of the problem when we would've been doing it for ourselves. Sista', keep your head up and keep doing you, the divorce is final, the move has been made now the the other 52 cards are in your hand. You deal to him this hand, "I thank you for my children and the life that we had we have moved on and I have have asked God to bless you, now sit back and let God do the rest. See because sometimes when we try to handle things we mess them all up then we pray but I'm asking that you just give it to him and leave. I wish you the best with this clothing line that you have going on and keep real people in your corner. Use this chance on a broad station like this to help little black girls and women who have a vision and don't know where to go with it and leave all that other mess out your way. Blacks sometimes get caught up in the moment of fame.......but what lies beneath is the answer. Stay in touch.

Sincerely,

Michelle Williams Real Ex-Wife in Tampa,.FL

Sheree, Why is it that after the first season, you distanced yourself from Kim? You two seemed like the best of friends? Why would you drop her?

On this last episode, it so looks like you want to be on the side of Nene & Lisa that you will stir the pot with Kim to manipulate the situation.

Do you keep any friends?

Sheree,

It just seems like all of you guys are a bit messy, I'm sure you have said somethings about NeNE that you didn't bring to her attention as well but sometimes when someone is trying to win others friendships they don't put eveything out there because I do remember on the last reunion show you and NeNe were all bad. I like all of you guys but the show just has too much damn drama reminds my of high school not being a married housewife.

Sheree, i admire the way you handled things with your house, and stayed strong through the whole thing. I like you a lot more this season, you are not acting as self-centered as you did before, and i am extremely glad you and Nene are friends again, i hope it continues to last, and i cant wait to see more of you and your new house later this season!

Sheree,I want to tell you first of all you are a very beutiful,strong woman.I think you are on the right path this season.I hope you don't start putting you're guard up like last season because you don't look prety'.

Seems like you are guning for Lisa this season...whats up with that??

Sheree,

I think all those on the show need to watch out for you, I don't believe you should be trusted. Nene and Kim could be friends if they both grow up and trust in themselves instead of listening to you and Lisa, whom I believe are both stirring up alot of this mess!!!!!!!!!!!!

You say you are sophisticated. Hummm, I beg to differ after the blow out in the restaurant. You then proceed to run after Kim, down a flight of stairs and out onto the street so you can continue to cuss and curse. Please ease down and reexamine.

I think you a strong women for overcomming a difficult divorce and an unpredictable foreclosure. It's true, you never know how evil a person can be until you're in the middle of a divorce. As for the other ladies, don't let hearsay get the best of you. Girl, people will talk regardless, even if you're going around saving puppies from burning buildings in yo' spare time. Be the bigger person. much love!

Sheree'

You are too beautiful to even entertain what anyone says focus on you....Celebrate you are on to a new and fabulous start hunnie...

I want to understand this correctly. The editors at Bravo are leaving all this juicy stuff on the cutting room floor. I don't care for Kim AT ALL but I find it odd that you say "you didn't see her jumping up and screaming at me and pointing her finger in my face." Now I know if Bravo is willing to show a New Jersey housewife flipping a table they certainly wouldn't miss the opportunity to show an Atlanta housewife in a public place shouting obsenities at another housewife. Let's be honest Sherre, I think you may stretch the truth as well. I think NeNe has the right idea. Accept Kim for what she is and keep her at arms length. It seems that you and Lisa enjoy the drama because you two are the ones who talk about her the most. Get over it! Agree to disagree and move on. This whole plot line is making the show boring.

Wow, Tania is gorgeous!! Is she a model? She is articulate, confident and a great role model. I wish she were on the show more often and I am glad you are empowering yourself as well.

Sheree, I have been through a divorce and totally understand how you just want to shout to the world your indepedance..unfortunately, I didn't have a NFL husband but I had a low down one! I really hope you get yourself together, surround yourself with positive people and be OK! I admire your style and I love how you can cut the "street" on and off! Sometimes, you have to show people you are not a push over and I like that...You did nothing wrong...well only when you grabbed KIM wig, LOL! But other than that..do you boo! You are representing Black Women well, forget what these haters are saying!

Sheree, Honey, you are on fire this season & I do not think it is on purpose. Anybody who goes through a lot at one time is subject to blow up. You have been divorced, kids daddy isn't pulling his weight, you lost you house due to his actions, had to move in a month, dealing with that stupid a$$ party planner......You have kept all your feeling inside for the sake of your kids. Then, here come Kim & NeNe with endless drama & you POPPED! You wanted to kick ass. I totally understand you.....You are human! It isn't about respect for yourself etc. It is about real life. I do not know anyone who would have handled themselves in a upright manor dealing with the things you have been dealing with. Kim ass keep running her mouth & the min. someone wants to kick her ass, she run to the public for safety. I just hope someone doesn't seriously hurt her.Many people do not get down like that. I honestly wish her the best. I hope she get it together. As for your clothing line....sometimes you just have to just do it. You have to realize that you are around some shady folks (Kandi is cool). They hear your dreams & goals....pat you on the back in your face & be clowning you behind your back...When God gives you a goal or a plan...tell no one...just do it. So when it comes to light (your dreams), they would be at a lost for words.... Learn from your mistakes. Lisa is a follower, gossiper hiding behind that cute lil smile of hers. I feel it in my heart that she is a snake. NeNe is cool but is too crazy at times, Kim...well we both know Kim is a hot mess lmao......Just hang out with people who really love & care about you....You are still hurting & need recovery. I love you boo.....Be Easy!

Sheree All I have to say is keep it CLASSY. Flipping the wig, or weave on Kim was that really necessary?

Sherre, I am a big fan of yours.I like your style and I can respect your strength as a single mom. I say more kudos to you. Keep on being you. I loved how you stood up to yourself and put that fat bully that calls himself a Party organizer in his place. I liked when you asked in the heated argument and who is gonna check me?. You are sophisticated and outspoken.You are a modern woman who knows where she is going. I wish you the very best.You bring style,drama, beauty and sophistication to the show

sheree, you are my favorite housewife. You are a very strong woman and I admire you for that. Yor are a beautiful person and you have the best style. Keep letting the haters hate.

I'm still tripping off of the party planner, he was amess, so VERY unprofessional!!! You have all of my friends saying "who gon' check me boo?" now... LOL!

love love love the show. you are such and inspiration. blessings to you and your family.

Hi Sheree,

Yes! we have more in common than the same name. I too am a single divorced mother. Been married to my husband for 5 years and have a beautiful 7 yr old son out of the relationship and he left me (excuse me) us! for another woman. So as a strong black divorced woman I know exactly how you feel and what you were going through last season and this one. I remember my friends telling me how crazy I was for liking you last season, they all thought you were fake and phoney, but I realize that that was your defense mechanisim. My advise to you and all the women going through what we are going through, is fight the good fight darling, and if you fall just dust your pretty shoulders off and pick yourself back up again. I am gonna be praying for you and the children and even your sorry ass ex husband Bob to get his s**t together and realize he has a beautiful family to support.

P.S: I got my 6 figures out of my divorce I know u gonaa get your 7.

Love ya

Sherrie Scantleberry

Sheree, last season you were so classy and ladylike with great style. This season you are ready to go and get, "Pookie and Them." Who is the real Sheree? Also, are you still dating Charles Oakley? If so, is he going to appear on the show?

who writes checks to a department store? its 2009.

sheree,

I don't think that Nene was saying that you had your nose done, I thought she was implying that you were the one with the rumors of having anose job? Also, there were rumors about you bouncing checks during Season 1 so it may be true. The last episode is the first that I believe Kim. I think you were holding bac becase you and Nene are attempting to patch your disagreements and move forward. Nene reminds me of Angie from "Why Did I Get Married" when she drinks. Uncontrollable. But at least she can say whatever it is behind/in front of the person. It's said that it took you to hit rock bottom to humble yourself. But it's good that it happened. Now you right where everyone else is. Nothing "elite" about your lifestyle BUT you can still be happy. It's not a bad thing. Recognize that. Richness does not bring happiness. Don't let haters motivate you, motivate yourself! XOXO Miami

I COULDNT STAND YOU AT ALL LAST SEASON! BUT I MUST ADMIT YOU HAVE GROWN ON ME, I ADMIRE YOU TAKING CARE OF YOUR KIDS AND HANDLING YOURS! SO BEST OF LUCK THIS YR!

Sheree I love your style and I cant wait for your clothing line to hit the stores. Not gonna bring up the drama because you've heard it all already. Just want to know if I can be your hairstylist, now dont get me wrong I love your hair it a lot like my work. I would just love to do your hair!....lol I love the show my whole salon is hooked we discuss it every friday. We all love your style. So stay stong and like you said there is light at the end of every tunnel there are some good things awaiting.

Sheree,

OMG!!! I'm loving your personality (maybe because we are similar)!! I don't blame you for going for 7 figures, any woman deserves it if they have been accustomed to living a particular lifestyle. I see that you have really changed or show more sophistication this season, is that because you have been through a lot? I honestly hope that you really didn't pull all of her (Kim) hair, just some of it!!! LOL. I hope that you understand that even if you said anything about NeNe, she is looking to squash the whole thing so that all of you may move forward. So having said that, don't beat Kim up too badly because I know we can sometimes get around others and exchange some unpleasantries. Keep your head up!!!

Sheree...I luv, luv you; but the Kim thing was such a No, No in the classy world! A classy woman never steps out of line or let someone take out of her character...maybe you should switch it to being a Diva (& it aint nothing wrong w/being a Diva..."who gonna check me boo?"...lol). I love the fact that you faced your reality head on. I want you to really give up on that talking back and forth about the other housewives; your life has more meaning than to be consumed by rumors, gossip and hating. Now let's talk about that fool of a party planner! 1st what is the name of the firm he works for? How can the owner of that business allow him to say he represents their firm? Who would do business with a company that has an employee that would put his hands on a client (not even just a woman, but a client!) What company would allow an employee to even speak to a client in the manner he spoke to you? I don't care if he thought that was good TV; that was bad for business! A viable company knows and follows the rules of customer service...it’s harder to keep a customer than it is to get a customer. For every customer dissatisfied they tell 15 to 20 people about their experience and that 1 customer becomes 21 non-customers. Can you imagine the outrage the nation had when they seen his unprofessional A$$ act like an A$$!!! I hope that company has fired him! I could speak on the fact that because he may think that he’s a woman, he could hit a woman…but this is about BUSINESS and in business you just don’t act like that. I heard his excuse on the Wendy Williams show…saying you were that much of a Diva and hard to work with. If that is the case Sir, than you should have gotten up and passed you onto someone else in the firm with out saying anything except, excuse me for a moment! He also tried to claim that his firm was paying for the party, when actually it was Bravo footing the bill. But even if his firm was footing the bill, the publicity the firm would have gotten from sponsoring your party would have paid for it triple fold, Diva mentality and all (dummy)….but then again, I am a business WOMAN.

Viewerbueller:

Obviously you don't shop at Neiman Marcus. The only form of payments they accept are AMEX, NM store card and checks.

Sheree... You are are starting the show off girl, just remember that you have kids and what would happen to them if you knock Kim's ASS OUT and you then you get arrested! I LOVE THE SHOW but remember your own words "KEEP IT IT CLASSY" !!!!

Hi Sheree, i just want to say that yes your guards are coming down. thats not weakness, your human and now, more relateable. you not only represent women of money, clothes, and class. you also represent that down home cleveland girl, and thats cool. i feel like out of all the ladies you give us more, and better representation. so stay strong and remeber that your life and issues give many of women stregnth because we are not alone.

Sheree I think you are in a much better place this season. Please do not take this the wrong way, but last season you appeared to be very arrogant I say appear, because I don't know if some of that was for television. Since your divorce and the move to your new home (which by the way is very nice) you have humbled. You are and will continue to be very successful and as you move forward you will be propelled into you to your destiny and "She by Sheree" will far exceed expections including yours. Best wishes to you.

I watched The Real Housewives of Atlanta today for the 1st time and was sooooo disappointed. I thought the "Real Housewives" shows were supposed to be the uppercrust society, people with money and at least class. The language used definately wasn't classy at the very least. I could go downtown and watch & listen to the people down there and have a better time. Very boring!!

The word among my girls is 'Who goin check me boo" he defentley don't deserve your service. Sheree, why can't you just be honest about what each of you said about each other when you were mad. Just say I said what ever but I was mad and I apologize. What is so hard about that. I want so much for all of you to come together and clear the air. Oh yea, your new house is prettier than the last one.

Sheree I'm Chaune residing in Cincinnati,Ohio and I love your poise and the way you are overcoming your obstacles that life has thrown you. I too went htrough a divorce from which I had to start all over btu Girl thats Okay We bounce back even Harder larger than ever. To me as long as you have a peace of mind it is priceless my Dear! Keep working on your fashion line and being a good parent,but girl you are too old for the drama thats so highschool a real Diva never let them see you sweat the small stuff. The small stuff is what you ladies have seemed to thrive on. Who cares if she said or he said as long as you and God knows the ultimate facts the other stuff is merely for something to talk about. Like I said to NeNe a true friend would tell another that are mutual friends Girl I don't want to hear that I got better things to do than to speculate what the other person said and what for some things are better left unsaid!! Quit giving them more to talk about unless you just like the negative attention it brings then more power to you! Make them Gosip about how Fab your fashion line is doing and whats the next move from there. I would like to ask are you going to have some pieces for a thicker built woamn I am thicke and I do like some of the pieces I have seen in the show but cna I wear them as well?