Cast Blog: #RHOA

Attitude Adjustment

Phaedra: You Don't Often Come Across Hair Burglary

Cynthia: "I Pray We Can Make Peace"

Claudia: I Could Relate to Cynthia's Insecurities

Cynthia's "Non-Conversation" with NeNe

NeNe: The Pit Bull Act is Not a Good Look

Kenya: If It Looks Like a Fraud...

Phaedra: "I Moved Past This Years Ago"

Claudia: I Am Not Asking for Sympathy

GIF Recap: Saltines, Anyone?

Kenya: Why Would Apollo Try to Hurt Phaedra?

Cynthia: "My Heart Went Out to Kenya"

Phaedra: "NeNe Made a Fair Observation"

Claudia on Her Sit-Down With Porsha

GIF Recap: Pushed to the Brink

Cynthia: Porsha's THOT Comment is Too Ridiculous

Kandi: Cynthia Can't Win for Losing

Phaedra: Cynthia's Behavior was Unbecoming

Claudia on NeNe's Thirsty Comment

Don't Insult Kenya's Virtue

GIF Recap: New 'Wife, New Shade

Phaedra on Being "Super Mommy"

Kenya: I've Never Been Anyone's Whore

Cynthia: I Felt a Connection with Claudia

Kandi: I Felt Bad for Kenya

NeNe Talks Zumanity, Apollo's Shocking Reveal

Claudia on Meeting the 'Wives

GIF Recap: She's Baaack...

NeNe: "I was a Rock for Phaedra"

Cynthia on Her Friendship with Kenya

Kandi: I'll Always be Honest with Phaedra

Phaedra: "It was Apparent the Marriage was Over"

Kenya: This is My Season of Redemption

GIF Recap: Oh the Zumanity!

Housewives Then and Now: Atlanta Edition

Kandi's Post-Reunion Plans

Cynthia: "I Don't Think I Did Anything Wrong"

Tweet Recap: Reunion Part 3, Kenya vs. NeNe

Kandi: "My Mom Needs a Camera Around Her at All Times"

Lawrence: Momma Joyce Slayed the Girls

Tweet Recap: Momma Joyce Takes the #RHOA Reunion

Attitude Adjustment

Kandi clears the air about Kim's performance.


Episode 3, where to begin? Well I guess I'll start with Sheree and Dwight first. I didn't get any answers from their conversation. Did Dwight spend 30k or not? If he spent any money, then how much? I was left hanging at the end of that scene, although I did enjoy Sheree showing us how she can be multi-lingual saying "thank you" in different languages. LOL!

Okay, let's get on to me. I have no problem admitting that my attitude sucked. I must have been tired of answering questions in my interview that day. My goodness ... it seemed like every time they cut away to my commentary shots about Kim I answered everything with an attitude. So let me say a few things about that weekend. First off I always enjoy hanging out with Kim. She's so much fun. Now I hate the fact that I said she did okay with her performance. For a new artist who's never performed in front of that many people, I think she did really well. I would just like for her to step up her game when it comes to getting the crowd involved in her performance and talking to the audience while she's performing. That's what I meant about her not knowing how to go off script. I've told her that myself, but she will get better with it as she does more shows and gets more comfortable on stage. My comments on camera came off like a diss, and I definitely didn't mean to diss her in any way. Now what I said about her not taking her music career seriously is true. I think this is something she just does for fun, but I didn't want to take away the fact that she did well when she performed that day.

Now let me go to Phaedra and Apollo. It seems like they have some serious differences of opinion on how they're going to raise their child. That's gonna be interesting. I knew what she meant when she said in a lot of African American households people believe in spanking. I've gotten many growing up. So what do you do when one parent wants to spank and the other one doesn't? I'm curious to see how that turns out. 

Let's move on to her and Apollo's counseling dinner with the couple from the church. HILARIOUS! Did she say that Apollo is not used to more elaborate dishes because he grew up in a white household? And that because he grew up in a white household he's used to canned foods and packed meats? Well that's a twist. Who knew that most black children were raised on elaborate dishes, while white children were raised on canned foods and packed meats ... yeah right! LOL! Well anyway, when Apollo said his love language was quality time and she said hers was gifts, I thought, "Uh oh. Wrong answer." Then she made it worse when she said he could ask her personal shoppers what kind of bags or shoes she liked. Apollo didn't seem to be feeling that at all. I hope that they can work out their issues, because things are looking a little shaky.

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