Kandi Burruss

Kandi gives us a triple header and dishes on the past three episodes. 

on Nov 8, 20100

 

Hey everyone! I'm sorry I'm behind on my blogs. I've been doing a lot of traveling in support of my album, Kandi Koated, that will be in stores on December 14th. I'm also on tour with Fantasia and Eric Benet. So this week I need to comment on episodes 4, 5, and 6.

The boughetto episode was hilarious! I feel kind of bad for Phaedra this year. In person I think Phaedra is a really cool and a fun person to be around, but I don't think that shows on camera. I know that Peter was heated when Phaedra said she married Apollo because she wanted a "clean man," implying that Peter might not be so clean because of his multiple children. I have to admit I was laughing out loud when Cynthia said, "The only way her man is cleaner than mine is when he's taking showers in prison." That was funny. The whole baby shower thing was comedy to me. I was cracking up at the ballerinas, the waltz that she did with Dwight, the rose bush in her hair, and obviously the damn rhinestone eyelashes she was rocking! All that together was the perfect definition of BOUGHETTO! They need to put that word in Webster's Dictionary. I'm sure plenty of people would use it!

In episode five you got an opportunity to see my show Kandi Koated Nights. It's a late night talk show I do for fun with my friends every hump day, Wednesday at 10pm on www.KandiKoatedNight.com. We talk openly and honestly about sex and relationships. A lot of people are uncomfortable talking about sex. I am not one of those people. I noticed a lot of people were really thrown off by the fact that my Mom and I can talk about sex and even discuss dildos. Well, I personally think it's great that my Mom and I have this closeness, and we can talk about anything. Some of you all should try it! Anyway, I discussed the controversial sugar trick! It works! I've told plenty of people about it, and they all report back after trying it with great results! I'm not gonna break down the directions in this blog. Start watching Kandi Koated Nights if you want some HOT tips for the bedroom!   

When Nene came to the dinner at Cynthia's with the new and improved nose, I was caught off guard. Nobody told me that she had gone under the knife. At first no one was even saying anything about it, and I was looking around thinking, "Why is nobody saying anything? Don't they don't see it?" I didn't feel like I should say anything, because she and I aren't close, and it's not my business. But I was so happy when Sheree said addressed it, because I couldn't take it anymore. It was the elephant in the room. I thought it was really cool that my Mom and NeNe bonded during the conversation about NeNe's marriage. My Mom really didn't like Nene ever since last year, when Nene and I got into it. So it was good that they had a break through, because that could have easily gone in a different direction and I'm over the drama. One more thing about the dinner. When Nene said she doesn't do oral sex and all that extra stuff in the bed room, and Peter said that's why they might be having problems in their marriage, I agree! I'm not married, and I know I've got a lot to learn, but what I do know is, "What you won't do, another will!" You're supposed to keep the bedroom exciting! Who wants to be married to someone for 14 years and be unsatisfied. That SUCKS! I wouldn't. I'm not saying that's the whole problem in their situation, because I'm sure it's not, but I'm sure it's not helping the relationship either. Just sayin'.

232 comments
Viewerlala
Viewerlala

kandi,I am trying to check out your adult fun toys...and i would like to no where to get or view the items thats available please hit me back with the info..thanx ..one of yur many faithful fan!!!!!

TRINA LIFE
TRINA LIFE

KANDI I AM SO PROUD OF YOU.I WATCH THE SHOW AND I LOVE THE WAY YOU SAY WHAT YOU MEAN,AND MEAN WHAT YOU SAY.I WANT YOU TO KEEP ON DOING YOU.CAUSE YOU GOT ME STRIVING WITH ROOM TO GROW.I SO GLAD YOU FOUND LOVE YOU DESERVE IT.

leon
leon

i so proud for you candy

carl hill
carl hill

You or my love.butt the other r just working for tv.you or real and i love u sexy thing .you or so sexy and downd to earth and sweet plzs dont get to neenee'share sizes to try to make it big.you can tell who had money befor .n you can tell who just got it it change you.glad you the same.love u need to see more of my lady.

backlinks
backlinks

This definitely makes great sense to anyone.

i.h815
i.h815

You're my favorite housewife on the show! All of the other girls are really mean to each other. You have a beautiful voice. I am buying your album soon. Keep Singing!

Bossy530
Bossy530

Kandi I give you so MUCH credit for putting up with Kim. Also I think you have an AMAZING voice& your very talented. God bless you & may you get all the good things life has to offer.

Kia Brand
Kia Brand

Kandi, I really enjoy the show and enjoy reading your blog. You keep it 1 hundred all the time and I love it. Keep doing you and I will be tuning in on Kandi Koated nights.

Ke
Ke

Kandi you are very talented indeed. I was really looking forward to hearing more from Lawrence. It would have been nice for him to break out before Kim... I think he would have been more appreciative and taken it more seriously. Where as Kim to me doesn't seem to take it serious. She's not dedicated and I myself wouldn't waste my time on her. I will have to tune in to Kandi Koated nights because I could use the pointers on the bedroom tactics... LOL... Keep it real Kandi, thats one thing I like about you!!!!

Dixiegal
Dixiegal

Hi kandi..WHY do you continue to waste your beautiful talented a$$?? On a unappreciated narcissistic,self absorb ,no talented....charity case ........I wish I had your patience to TOLERATE her.

cinnamon jones
cinnamon jones

kandi im from buffalo ny i watch the show all the time you are a good person keep doing what you do how do i watch candy coated nights what channel is it on.

cinnamon jones
cinnamon jones

kandi im from buffalo ny i watch the show all the time you are a good person keep doing what you do how do i watch candy coated nights what channel is it on.

Viewer009
Viewer009

Kandi - no doubt you are the most centered, balanced, focused, honest, up front character on the show however the Kandikoated segment could have well been left out. NO, not everyone is at the level you are regarding intimacy. Close ties are created by intimacy. Emoltional states are affected - look at you and your feelings about AJ - and because our whole being can be affected through initimacy, there's no value in taking intimacy to a lower level. By the way, the way you sang THAT song was SO touching, incredible. It brought tears to my eyes. And really - you started dating way too soon after losing AJ. It takes about two years before the pain starts easing up. Good luck to you - you are great! You have lots and lots of great qualities - keep your standards high as you have been. Bless you!

KarenZipdrive
KarenZipdrive

I agree. Kandi, I wish you'd consider putting a bounce on the words "if you're looking for a great singer..." because this is a blog about you and your show, not a talent agency. Also, the time you spend on the marginally talented Kim Z could be far better spent on further polishing your own amazing talent, both as a singer and a producer. Kim's fun but you're Van Gogh and she's a coloring book.

Candice!!!!
Candice!!!!

We both know you are a strong woman to deal with kim it is obvious she cannot sing why bother Why waste the good songs on her, Ill sang them I want it more than her and would sound a hell of a lot better!!! Just saying

ViewerDaisy Anderson
ViewerDaisy Anderson

Kandi, write me a song trust I may not be able to sing all that great but we will both make some money. You can believe that!!!!!!

DeniseHines
DeniseHines

I see how many people write to you about their own children. Guess I am one of them. My daughter is 20 and does have a GREAT voice. She has recently started writing her own music, doing her own background vocals mixing and producing when no one else is around to do it for her. Im sure many request has come your way.. But of course ITHINK SHE IS FANTASTIC. I need to know what someone else thinks of her. Being that you mean the world to her, i was wondering if you can just take a listen and IF NEED BE, tell her not to quit her day job.... Or tell her keep POUNDING... (my older daughters boyfriend) has his own little studio in a friends basement.. you know the type... And I cant keep her out of there. I think its time well spent... BUT WHAT HER MOTHER THINKS DOESNT COUNT AT ALL... thanks so much in advance for even the consideration...... Have a great holiday... Denise

TYTY A HELL OF A WOMAN
TYTY A HELL OF A WOMAN

OMG KANDI GET IT TOGETHER WHY R U HELPING HER IF U GONE GET THAT STRESSED BOUT IT WHO CARES IF SHE LIKE A SONG GIRL MOVE ON N STOP ALL THAT BULL U DOIN THIS 4 SOMEBODY WHO CAN NOT SING AND LOOKS RIDICULOUS I BEG U PLEASE DONT MAKE ANOTHER SONG 4 HER LAWD MRS. PATTIE SAID IT BEST WHEN SHE SAID STAY N UR LANE KANDI AGAIN STOP WHAT U DOIN IS STUPID GIRL GO MAKE SUM $ WIT SUM1 U CAN N WILL GET PAID OFF KIM I GIVE 2THUMBS DOWN U I GIVE 1 THUMB DOWN 4 PUMPING HER UP I MEAN MY EARS BLEED WHEN I HEAR HER

what the heck
what the heck

She didn't do it in front of everyone and at least Ne Ne did speak up instead of allowing Sheree to be made a fool out of!

Regina L.
Regina L.

I believe Kandi you are talented, but I don't understand why you are putting som much effort in helping Kim and she burned you once already. As a business decision I feel that you are making a bad choice. Why don't you work wwith people who are already in the business, and maybe you will get paid. Also, its ok. to talk about sex, but you just seem very nasty. You have a daughter aren't you concerned that some people may approach her about what you are saying?

Priscilla Cunningham
Priscilla Cunningham

Hello? and Amen to that, It's hard to make sense out of crap and some of these complaints and comments are crap and nonsense.

Priscilla Cunningham
Priscilla Cunningham

I have only watched a couple of shows thus far so I want to know if Kandi is promoting unprotected/unsafe sex? I haven't heard her do it but based on your comment I thought that I would ask. As a matter of fact on one of the shows that I saw the was showing packets of condoms on there. Please respond, it's all in love.

Priscilla Cunningham
Priscilla Cunningham

Come on, it's time for folks to grow up and take responsibility for yourselves. Kandi's show should not cause people to do anything stupid. You must use discretion and common sense. As a Christian I don't believe in sex outside of marriage but even some of our marriages aren't safe. My point is that I have only watched a couple of her shows so far (w/my husband) and we enjoyed it. We learned some things and that doesn't mean that we agreed w/everything that was said, it just means that as w/everything and everyone you have to take the good w/the bad and weed out that which is not relevant to you.

DD1
DD1

Bravo....

with HIV/AIDS and STD's ravishing the black community... please cut all of Khandi sex talks out of all the upcoming episodes. Unfortunately, people will be influenced.... this is not entertainment... this is deadly

DD1
DD1

Khandi,

your show "candy coated nights" is trashing women.... reducing them to being valued or "rated" on how far they will go to please a man. Khandi, stop being irresponsible.... with the many impressionable souls watching this show... looking up to you... stop promoting deadly irresponsible behavior OR start paying the doctor bills and child support for those who will actually be influenced by you!

Michelle Watts
Michelle Watts

Hello, Kandi There are no words to express how much I admore your courage and strength, you are on amazing woman, with uch a worm spirit. OMG! and Rily adoreable. You are an amazing parent. I myself am the mom of a son, raised as a single parent. And he is an amazing young man. Riley will definately be following those foot steps of your. Hepp up the good work. PS. I watch you faithfully, and I see you are always looking for new talent. I'm from Baltimore and my son has been into music for quit sometime being hype man for his aunt who is a upcoming new artist (who name can be given) he has done numerous shows. But recently his focus has been being a manager for an upcoming very very talent young lady who writes and sing her own music. About a month ago there was a big concert here where a lot of producers were there which involved a lot of work on his part to have her sing at this event. Well a few days later he recieved a call stating they had a contract, with Sony, my son who attended Morgan State University being the BRIGHT young man he is, after having a meeting with these people did not feel comfortable with what was told to him, I no with your schedule and many blogs, tweets, emails etc. this is one on many, but if you heard her CD I am positive she would rake in the money, just tough trying to get the right contacts. A mothers plea for her sons dream. He does has copy rights to her music currently and getting you a copy of the cd would not be a problem, PLEASE help! The young lady is young, beautiful and (you just have to hear her music) she is from Barbados.

CNM
CNM

arent they supposed to discuss what happenned on the show? it was on the show .... if you put it out there for millions to see why not talk about it ... i think that wasnt a big deal bc it was on the show and that s the point of the blog

koh
koh

it is very wrong to talk about nene's sex life on your blog. you are no longer classy in my book. you know kim has no talent so why do you bother with her? you roll your eyes with the guys in the studio and that's not right either. you either believe in her or you don't and it certainly appears you don't. you aren't the same sweet kandi from last season. bring her back!

DarkGable21
DarkGable21

I am going to keep it simple for Kandi. Stay as real as possible and don't let the show define you. You writing skills are very good so don't give anything awayfor free. You know the saying " Those who know the business will get paid and those who don't won't get paid." Sis you know the business so do your thing.

Monica Compton
Monica Compton

Hello Kandi,

I like your style and the way you show it and know it. Great singer as well, I like the fact that you and your mom are close, that's a relationship that I have with my own children. Growing up as a child I never had a close relationship with my mother ever and I decided to turn the tables around and made sure I had a close relationship with mine.

As for your daughter, she will be alright because she has two great supporters on her side, and as for her father he is going to miss out on the most precious jewel that God has ever put on this earth. Just keep letting her know that God can be her father for right now and that He is with her always and will never let her down. In time, God will bless you and your daughter's life who will love you beyond all of your disappointments and heartbreaks. But in the meantime, God is the only one who can completely take away all of your hurts and pains.

Your mom seems to be a wise woman and she is right all men should take care of their children, no matter what is going in their lives whether is another woman or other children. Most of the time, it is the other woman that will not accept their man's child, and I can never understand that, because the child has done nothing wrong. My grandchild is going through the same situation with her father and it is the woman in his life that doesn't want him to have anything to do with her. All children are innocent and that absent parent will have to answer to God for everything concerning that child.

Now in my opinion, Kim can't sing and she doesn't want to work hard for it, as for me I am in a Gospel Choir at my college and I am in it to find my voice, so that I can become more confident in singing in front of others. I didn't know it took so much work in singing until I got into the choir, now I sing at my church but I think don't have what it takes to grab the audience attention. I love to sing and I want to make a difference, especially singing for God.

Enough has been said, I think you are a very focused woman and great mother and I think you rock, keep up the good work and always keep God first in your life.

Ms. K
Ms. K

Kandi, I love your store. PLEASE COME TO DOVER DELAWARE AND OPEN A STORE LIKE THAT...I WILL DO ALL THE WORK

Ronni
Ronni

Will you marry me?

maggie pearl
maggie pearl

Hey Sweet Kandi, keep doing you. You are very good judge of character and you know what is going on with everyone that is in your circle, even more so never seen you back down from your beliefs. Love the relationship you have with your Mom and daughter, hell your whole family....I think this is why you are so grounded.....the love and support of your family.Some strong black women.Your fans mean well we all do but I know you know what you are doing and who you are doing it with, keep on doing you! Got my credit card ready for 12/14. Good luck Sweetness!

ATootsie
ATootsie

I too believe you are real on the show! I also you are being taken advantage of by Kim! I like the two of you the best! I do feel what I heard of Kims second song was way to technical for Kim! It is more in line of the kind of song you would sing! It would sound or should I say does sound great when you sing it! I think Kim needs a more fun loving song like the first one! I'm just saying! Anyway keep up the good work! And good luck with your new Album!

Mary Ann Clark/Louisville,Ky
Mary Ann Clark/Louisville,Ky

Ms Candi you are a real diva on the show and I personally believe you are the same everyday. Your personality shows that you have much class and very gifted artist. I am sorry that you lost your financee due to death but God knows best. I hope you are getting stronger everyday. I love you and one of your most loyal fans. Thank you for the opportunity to send this note to you.

EmpressNandi
EmpressNandi

Kandi, I have grown to love you despite doing so while you are in the midst of drama and nonsense on this show. It is my guilty mindless pleasure watching HWOA! I love your blog and your genuineness. I think you are very level-headed and extremely talented. You are the main reason I enjoy watching. I do however love laughing at Phaedra, Kim, Sheree and NeNe, they are so hysterical and histrionic! I know your album will be a huge success, you are bringing it! I look forward to your project with Lawrence...the voice is beautiful and he has much attitude and presence. Kim...Im shocked you even refer to her as an artist, I mean no disrespect. Its clear she has absolutely no musical talent and makes excuses for EVERYTHING! What does Kim do and where does her money come from? She seems to have much money to waste SMH, on frivolous overpriced designer everything. Hope she is putting some away for her children. Does she even have a career aside for doing HWOA?

Mary Ann Clark/Louisville,Ky
Mary Ann Clark/Louisville,Ky

Candi you are a unique artist on the show and I love your style,however you are wasting your precious time with Kim trying to please her with your talents and gift. She is unappreciative of you and like most of your other fans, you need to keep her friendship but I like you letting her know that you want do the track if she can't take voice lessons.She has to take them or she wont be singing. Kim got plenty of money tho so maybe you could charge her your fee and she will stop trying to sing. She obviously dont want to pay for your services.

Mikeofftlauderdale
Mikeofftlauderdale

As a gay man I support everyone, but Kandi, do you really want to put out a record with a man who wears women's clothes and high heals. I am sorry but not all gay men are into guys who dress like that. It is a small percentage. Have him tone down his image and go normal gay, Trust me on this.

Btw you rock. I think you and NeNe are the only true people on the show. NeNe tells it like it is, Greg should have supported me hey she admits her problems and you are so down to earth and real. I am glad they have two real people on the show that are about themselves and not about how much money they can spend.

You and NeNe Rock keep it up!!!!!

Jess22
Jess22

Kandi!!!! I'm soooo happy your on the show, your my fave and are so down to earth and REAL. You’re definitely doing Kim a favor, she can't sing at all yet you are helping her with music. You’re a good friend. I'm still shocked she didn't know what a wind mill was, that comment on the Vegas episode proves the depth of her.

Ms. Glitter
Ms. Glitter

Kandi,

OMG! I just love you and your down to earth, real life attitude! You are such a saint to work with Kim. You are truly able to show your production talent. I'm the song with Lawrence will be just as HOT, if not better. I can't wait to see next weeks episode when the truth about Phaedra's pregnancy comes out. I can't wait to see how the attorney tries to weasle herself out of this one. Good luck to you in all you do and God bless you and your family!

P.S. If you need any new talent... I'm your gurl! It's my passion to sing I just can't write. LOL!

tybaby
tybaby

I have a song that you I would like you to sing kandi I know it can be a hit......get back with me plz.

bajasma
bajasma

and let's not for get the group Foxy! Remember their single "Get Off"?

Yasmeen Abdullah
Yasmeen Abdullah

Kandi, I am glad that you are on tour with two incredible artist...best wishes to all of you. The episode where you are talking about your relationship with your dad was very emotional...I think that you and your mom need a reality check...I know that black men since slavery have been attacked and hunted like dogs just for being black men. Yeah they are lacking some positive attitudes and they need to know how to be men...but they were raised most of them by women...single family households. They do not know how to be men and what that responsibility entails. Your daughter needs her father like you needed your father. I hope you encourage that relationship for her sake and get in touch with you own dad. Dish Kim she treats you like her slave...I was taken aback when she said you were her little...and then you chose to be her backup. You kiss white folks butt.

Cookiehead
Cookiehead

Kandi , love you gurl!

BUt if you quit messing around messing around with that Damn Kim, you know her azz cant sing.

you funny , on the show , they a ll need to keep i t real like you. Especially NENE , i like her too but you dont do that to your girl in front of everybody, i am talking about next week with the doctor. sometimes the not reality part comes out from time to time. you dont do that.

Lystra
Lystra

Kandi, I totally love who you are..... so real, honest, Gorgeous, neat, and an amazing producer. I would like to have an opportunity for you to produce for my son. Please e mail me. You are a good friend, sincere. I think you are an awesome mother even to other people's children. Your are a great daughter, everytime you speak to your mom you have such respect it brings tears to your eyes rather than disrespect her. Please e mail me. I would love your influence in my son's life.....You are an asset to this wonderful show. I try to live vicariously through you.

liketoread
liketoread

I have to agree....Kim needs some serious help with singing. Maybe she needs to come down out of the clouds and let the singing thing go completely

Monique 415
Monique 415

If you do not like Kandi Coated Nights, them do not listen to it. Beef curtains.. wo Wow I thought it was very funny however, if you have them, then maybe you would feel that it was distasteful.

Kandi Keep doing your thing girl and keep flying above.....

Love Ya.

Tamz
Tamz

Hello Kandi,

Love yah! Love Yah! Love Yah!,

To be quit honest your the reason why I watch the show because you are so humble, sweet and you carry your classy with you where ever you go or with every situation you come to. you remind me so much of myself girl and with the both of us being young maturity is definitly a factor. Kim is a user and you damn well better get whats yours when that song top the charts..... Everytime i see your mom on the show I start to cry because she reminds me so much of my late grandmother and I just love her too.. You have a beautiful family. I hope one day I get to meet you and will be looking forward to the new album! stay Blessed. Tammie

Marcea
Marcea

Hi Kandi, I know you're looking for new talent. I have someone who can sang, not sing but SANG!!! If you are interested, please, please e-mail me at marceanmiles@sbcglobal.net. His name is Desi Derio, he writes his own songs and have plenty of them. We are out of Akron OH. He is currently in college attending the University of Akron, no kids (praise GOD), no record (praise GOD again)! He is 19 yrs. old. There are two videos on youtube, it really doesn't protray his best work, but if you listen you can hear the soul in his voice. You can find his video under "Desi Derio"

PS, love you and the rest of the ladies! Stop playing with Kim and get with Desi!

Thanks, Marcea