I haven't blogged for what feels like forever. The tour I was on with Fantasia just ended on January 1st, and now I'm back in Atlanta! So I decided to blog a little about last week's and this week's episode. Well last week's episode was interesting. A lot of people were tweeting me asking questions about why I had Kim on tour with me, how I feel about the way Kim talks to Sweetie, why I disrespected Kim (huh?), etc.
First of all after last season during our off time, a promoter paid Kim and I to do a show together and it went really well, so when it was suggested that Kim and I to do another tour together, I was cool with it. We were taping the show, and having her open up for me sounded like something fun to do.
Now as far as how Kim talks to Sweetie, I don't care. Sweetie seems to not have a problem with it. That's their relationship. They talk crazy to each other all the time, and it's no big deal to them. Sometimes she says things to Sweetie that if she said to me I'd be offended by, but hey, she's not talking to me, and Sweetie can speak up for herself if she doesn't like it.
Some of Kim's supporters were tweeting me saying that I disrespected Kim last week. How? I don't think so. Everyone knows that last season NeNe called Kim a monkey with a wig on, so I was just making a joke when they were coming up with alternate names for the Thirsty Beaver. Now my joke may not have been funny to her, but I wasn't trying to disrespect her. Also when Don Juan and Kim were going back and forth about her being risque or not because she did "The Ring Didn't Mean A Thing" while dating a married man, I tried to stay out of their disagreement. But when she said, "Poppa never cheated on me," come on now! You all know that didn't make sense. I couldn't help it. I had to say something!
Now I like to have fun, but when it comes to rehearsals and shows I'm a little more serious. At times it drove me nuts that Kim was so carefree about everything. I understand that she's new to this whole entertainment thing, but it still bugged me. This tour with Kim wasn't a major tour. It was just a promo tour of a few cities where we were performing in clubs, but the fact that it was being taped for the show made it a little stressful. I can't be around cigarette smoke like that. It makes me hoarse. I can't take it. So Kim was kind of annoying me with that. Kim and Sweetie's loudness was bothering me too. I've been on vacation with Kim and Sweetie before, but we would do some things together and then break off and do our own thing and link up later. In other words, we were able to give each other space. On this promo tour we were on most of the time we were on the bus and only in the front living area of the bus, because the crew took up the back room. Needless to say we didn't have that well needed space. I'm real laid back, but when Sweetie and Kim are together they have a lot of high energy going on. Too much for me. So at times I was aggravated. Not to mention I was just tired of the cameras at that point. So if I came off as uptight, maybe I was.
I saw the reunion and it looked like a NeNe show. Is NeNe jealous of the Housewifes,all of the are in shape and youthful. But I had one question, What going with Kandi hair its not her.I like the old Kandi.
I want to start by saying Iike really enjoy watching you on the show. I was confused by the whole Kim tour becuase I can see all the way from TV Land that she can't sing! Anyway focus on Lawrence Kim is a joke! Keep doing you and stay focused. I hope you find Mr. Right now that your chastity vow is over. :)
Kandi - I am a huge fan of yours and the show; truth be told, I love each and everyone of the Housewives for yours' and their's uniqueness. However, after watching the first reunion show of this season, the main issue I have is how no one truly acknowledged what you were really saying about Kim and Sweety - "They talk crazy to each other all the time.." I believe this is important because that shows it is not just Kim. As for the whole race issue...It is ridiculous. Kim is obviously not a racist, nor are any of the other housewives, although I question NeNe and Phedra. At first I would say no about them both - I can see that Phedra is a little more cautious of her words, but after watching the reunion show, I don't know if she realizes what she really seems to be portraying - Why would you focus so much on the past as you're bringing a new baby into this world? I am a mother and a God Mother of three girls who are all mixed - Their mother and I have been best friends for 22 years - and our #1 priority with both our kids is to show them that color is indeed skin deep - and that when you get right down to it - it's all wrong. First, I have never met a "white" or black" person that is truly the colors white or black - as white is not a color and is in fact the complete lack of color - black is a blend of all colors and it is virtually impossible for any one person's skin to be the color of black. So, it's all a bunch of Re-Re mess! Last note on that subject - If you go into a classroom - daycare - you will see all the children sitting and playing with each other openly and because they choose to. They do not see race - UNLESS - it is somethings instilled into them by their parents. However, the natural behavior of US, all of us as we were all born children (God's children) is to notice and observe the differences - BUT NOT to judge based on "color". So, if someone is bringing a child into this world or already raising children - why would you dare let those differences that are of your (whoever) own opinion come out of your mouth - would you not want the CYCLE TO CHANGE - BREAK IT - the only way this world will truly change is when each individual begins to break the cycles of ISM's - and that is all cycles not just racism. Phedra - ? - NeNe - and everyone else that hasn't done so - STOP acknowledging the differences and start breaking the cycles - for the sake of our children's future - because we are no longer the priority once we choose to have children - they are! Ok - went on the rant I swore I wouldn't - LOL - but someone had to say it. Anyway, I LOVE you Kandi! You are an amazing strong woman that has an amazing talent! I am picking up your album this weekend (when I get paid LOL)! God Bless and Keep Up Your Strength! Ragan
Hi Kandi I have been a fan since Ecape, so you know tha't been a long time. Lol! I'm glad you keep it 100. I haven't picked up the CD yet but plan to this weekend.
KANDI PLEASE DO NOT TAKE KIM ON ANOTHER TOUR WITH YOU. INVEST YOUR TIME IN SOMEONE WHO RESPECTS WHAT YOU DO. SHE CAN'T SING AND SHE IS NOT ANYONE'S FRIEND THERE. I DO NOT UNDERSTAND WHY ANY OF YOU BOTHER WITH HER. IT SEEM AS THOUGH SHE CAUSES TROUBLE FOR EACH OF YOU . AND THE B WORD IS USED TO MUCH FROM HER ... IS THIS PLANNED ? SHE SEEMS TO BE A LOOSE WOMEN. MY QUESTION TO IS WHY DO YOU WASTE YOUR TIME WITH KIM.
I agree with you about Kim, but Kandi is too cool for my taste. It's like she is constantly walking a fine line. She wants to please everyone especially now that she is try to sale her new album. It makes me not want to buy it because she seems to be a follower, so the album would not have been made from her heart but more of what would sale. I really think she should have backed NeNe up on the bus, just like she was agreeing with NeNe prior to Kim coming back on the bus. I think it was a shame how she chose to continue to walk that fine line instead of taking that moment and telling Kim that how she treated her assistant was wrong. If you don't stand for nothing you will fall for anything.
I JUST WANT TO SAY I BOUGHT YOUR CD LAST WEEK AND GIRLFRIEND ITS OFF THE CHAIN. SOME PEOPLE COME BACK WITH 2 OR 3 GOOD SONGS. GIRLFRIEND YOU COME BACK STRONG WITH EVERY SONG ON YOUR CD. I DONT ACTAULLY HAVE A FAVORITE BECAUSE THEY ALL ARE OFF THE CHAIN GIRLFIRIEND , YOIU DID THAT AND YOU DID IT BIG. LOVE THE WHOLE CD. I MUST SAY IM FEELING ME AND U AND HOW COULD YOU....FEEL MY PAIN BECAUSE IM GOING THROUGH SOMETHING RIGHT KNOW. THANXS FOR PUTTING THAT CD OUT, AND I WISH YOU AND YOUR DUGHTER RILEY THE BEST IN THE FUTURE. MY APOLOGIES ABOUT YOUR LOVE AJ. JUST LIKE ME GOD HAVE SOMEONE OUT THERE FOR US. STAY STRONG AND KEEP YOUR HEAD UP. YOU AND FANTASIA ON TOUR TOGETHER IS GOING TO BE OFF THE CHAIN. IM PROUD OF YOU KANDI. LOVE! lOVE!!
It seems like you are always having to defend yourself whenever it comes to Kim. Her supporters just sound like her friends that get all up in arms when someone actually has the courage to point the truth to Kim. You're my favorite on the show, and it's because you'll put up with plenty of crap, but when you've had enough, you step it up.
I felt so bad for you on the tourbus, since you were kind enough to allow Kim to come along, and all she could do was whine and complain while getting a free ride. Obviously, move viewers of the show aren't going to know what it's like going on tour, even a small one, but it's just one big dysfunctional family, and sometimes you've just got to let off steam or it'll wind up affecting your show. If Kim's supporters want to harangue you for being honest, don't feel like you've got to be nice about what you said.
Not many performers would give her as many chances and opportunities that you have, and I truly hope that you focus on Laurence, who is a true talent. That seems like you're karmic payback for having to deal with Kim and her less than moral business sense.
Kim and Ne Ne were wrong....Kim bates her knowing how she will respond. We know how this plays out.
Ne Ne won't take it and Kim will consider herself a victim...nothing new here. Khandi don't get caught up behind Kim....you could end up hurt or in jail and she will take no responsibility. Will probably wonder why you intervened because if you had not, it wouldn't have gone this far. Kim's a narcissist. It is what it is....
Kim starts this with Ne Ne and for some reason, it is new to her each time...yet she expects a different outcome.
You are cool, take care
Kandi I just wanted to let you know that while all of that garbage was going on on the bus, that if you would have decided to throw them all off of the bus most of us would have said "you go girl" and supported you wholeheartedly! I am a terminal cancer patient and a mom and grandmother (I'm only 48!) but I enjoy watching you and I admire you so much that when someone wants to start that trash around you I find myself wanting to beat the crap out of them! Kandi, you are a smart, beautifull, and very talented young woman. Life is too short to be tolerating all of that crap! The thing that hurt me the worst was when the race card came up. That to me showed that thae had little to no respect for you and your crew! This did not need to happen!!! It doesn't matter your skin color! What does matter is what's inside! I look forward to hearing more of your music and seeing your sweet self as often as I can! If you are ever in the Jackson, Mississippi area I will be one of the first to get tickets! God Bless you and yours.
i dont know who is riding on who coat tail, but I think by Kandi being on RHOATL is enough to get her back out there. We wouldn't know anything about Kandi doing music again if she wasn't on RHOATL.
Kandi...you handled yourself like a true professional on that bus tour! You realized you had a job to do...and you did it girl. There are very few people who could have put up with the Kim, Sweetie and NeNe nightmare. And when Sweetie started getting fresh with you...I was like...who the heck does she think she is? Your fans know you were frustrated but you still held yourself together and that's why we love you!
Khandi's talent is in SONGWRITING, not singing. She is definately not a solo artist. She won a grammy along with TLC for writing the song "No Scrubs" that TLC sang. She did not win that grammy for SINGING.
Kim was a good choice for her, because she considered her as NO competition. Even with Kim's lack of singing talent, she does have a following and is popular in certain circles.
They both depend on "autotune" to come up with a palatable sound on recordings.
I wasn't gonna say anything, but I really think a lot of you are short sighted. While on the bus, Kim called Don nappy headed, which is racial. Kim and NeNe talk about race all the time (black girls do this or that) and no one has mentioned anything until someone said something about white people...and.it wasn't even a negative statement. White people (some white people) go barefoot. And what?
Oh well people of all races have opinions, and stress them. Blacks took it for centries so wipe ur nose and chuck it up, free speech, get a life one up for the black women thats a big AMEN.
I see your point when it comes to the stereotypical comments that were made about Kim...frankly Im a woman of color and had not heard those things before. But you have to understand the cultural..however in defense of Cynthia's t-shirt black girls rock. This is a movement and an organization that was formed to recognize and promote the self esteem of black girls and to acknowledge the contributions they have made in our society. It is not to slam whites its purpose and mission is promote girls and instill confidence and beauty of self in black girls in particular. As you may be aware through out our history media and society has not appreciated nor promoted the beauty or achievements of African people. You should enlighten yourself to the organization you may become a fan.
Hi! Just wanted you to know that since I've been recovering from Thyroid cancer, I've had occasion to discover your show. I think you are a wonderful young woman who is very talented! I wish that you would little by little get away from Kim. She is so disrespectful to you, your staff, and is horrendous speaking trash in front of your sweet mother, or around your baby! You have gone out of your way to help her, a narcissist, and she shows no gratitude or reciprocation of your kindnesses. You are your own woman, but as a mother, I would suggest backing away from her, as she is just plain classless. You are a lady, and wonderful to watch with your incredible personality. Even when angry, you maintain. God bless you, your family and all of your endeavors. Stay well! Sincerely, Mrs. Terri Hansen, I look forward to seeing more of you, and hope you make it to the Gulf Coast of Mississippi
I AGREE WITH U STRANGE BIRD, KANDI WAS VERY RUDE WHEN SWEETIE ASKED HER HOW SHW WAS DOING THAT MORNING. KANDI WAS FLAT OUT RUDE. I ALSO FELT WHEN THEY WERE AT THE PIG PIT BBQ PLACE SMOKING, KANDI WAS OUT OF LINE ABOUT THE SMOKE. I WAS SO GLAD WHEN SWEETIE SAID WE ARE OUTSIDE !!!!!!!!!! WALK AWAY
Well said -- this show has become pathetic. If a white girl said some of the things that NeNe and all the rest have said, they would all scream bloody murder. (Sheree seems to the the only level headed one -- but she needs to stand up to NeNe and not back-stab Kim.)
How about if Kim wore a shirt like the one Cynthia had on, "Black girls rock!" How would she feel if a white girl came up with a shirt that said "White girls rock!" What a double standard. And until these blacks get rid of it, the two groups will never get along.
i love the show, i love all the ladies on the show.... im a bigg fan.. keep up the good work.....xoxoxo
Kandi, Why in the world would u put them fools on a tour with u. Why not Lawrence? Nene's ghetto ass needs 2 sit her big mouth self DOWN. Absolutely no class what-so-ever. And always talking about other people, when she has no respect for no one, not even herself. She's just an embarrassment. And Kim, no talented ass. And as far as Sweetie(Sour as hell), just plain ghetto and I guess this is just her lucky break in life. Women stop being crazy. Kandi leave these crazy women alone. They just trying 2 get the SPOTLIGHT.
I admire greatly for keeping your cool on that bus and VAcation from h*ll.
I couldn't be on a bus for that long a time with only one bathroom without losing it.
I thought Kim did a great job and she appears to be trying to do her best.
NeNe Leaks has finally thrashed herself out. I used to laugh at her, but she is really over the top and extremely rude. How rude was it of NeNe to just invite her friend, Dianna to someone else's home without asking!!!!!!!!!. And she yells at her son that he can't use her home??????? Get real, NeNe, we are getting sick and tired of your yelling, screaming, throwing a fit. I never thought I would say Kim was admirable, but if NeNe stuck her big old finger in my face, she would have found it somewhere else. Greg, get the heck out, you know she married you for your money, money and honey gone. Good Luck, Kandi
Kandi, I think you should have intervened sooner than you did. Ne Ne was wrong!!!! I'm not sure if you were afraid to step up and tell Ne Ne how out of line she was, or what! I don't know how ya'll do it in GA, but here in SC, if Ne Ne would have jumped up in my face like she did Kim, it would have gotten real live up on that bus, real quick. I don't care who you are or where you come from, you just don't act like that period! And as far as not saying "certain things to black women", there are things you just don't say period! It doesn't have anything to do with being black! Maybe you need me to do security for you!!!! LOL I would have gotten rid of that drama immediately! Everglades or not!Ya'll need to be REAL friends to Ne Ne and tell her how wrong and ignorant she is being! Guess you can take the rat out the hood, but you can't take the hood out the rat! Money won't buy you class!
In other words......JUST KEEP IT REAL!!!! And PLEASE dump Kim!! She doesn't appreciate it anyway!!!
And now NeNe wants to call Kim out on how Kim speaks to Sweetie. Kim has called NeNe the B word since day one. Joking or not Nene should put a cap on that in the 1st season
lulu4422 please go STFD & STFU. You must don't know the difference between racism and knowing what to say and what not to say to a particular group of people. If you are not of the African American persuasion, themn I want you to go to "sista" and speak greasy to her. Go anywhere, the hood, Wall Street, south, north West or wherever. I guarantee you, you will not be able to call a black woman a "b" and get away with it.
KANDI I KNOW FRIENDS ARE GOING TO TALK BUT, IT'S A LITTLE TOO MUCH WHAT BE GOING ON & WHAT BE GOING ON WITH SWEETIE & KIM IS ANOTHER STORY ! I'M TALKING ABOUT THE LADIES ALWAYS TALKING SMACK ABOUT EACH OTHER YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN ? FAR AS KIM, I'M NOT NO HATER, I JUST ADVISE YOU TO GET YOUR OWN TOUR BUS WHEN YOUR TOURING W/OTHER ENTERTAINER'S ! REALLY I WAS LOST ABOUT WHY NENE GOT UPSET OVER KIM HAVING WHO EVER IN MIAMI BUT, IF I'M NOT WRONG, WASN'T KIM'S FRIEND WHO'S SHE DATING IS THE ONE WHO LET ALL OF YA COME TO HIS HOME IN MIAMI & STAY FOR CYNTHIA BACHELOR PARTY RIGHT ???? IT'S TOO MUCH BE GOING ON, & I LOVE TO WATCH THE SHOW ALSO ! WHY DO KIM & NENE BE GOING AT IT ? WHEN THE REUION COMES IT'S GOING DOWN RIGHT ALL OF IS GOING TO COME OUT LOL !
I just wanted to add that I love the way that you carried yourself throughout the whole tour because I would have had to have shots of patron on deck to get through that. But what I dont understand is....Kim's singing...does it sound different in person than it does to us viewers because everyone on the show says she did well, while I dont see it , her peformance sucked and she cant sing at all, and what live performances have you seen where the cd is playing while the artist is performing. As a friend Imma need u to keep it 100 with her and let her know that the only fans that she has are her children and old white women. Im sorry but I am not feeling her at all. Nene is my girl but what bothers me is that last night episode I understood what she was saying and then she turned around and played tit for tat inviting Diana, but u gotta love Nene. I would also like to say I have never seen a bunch of women talk so badly about each other like there wont be a reunion show where everyone can be confronted, I am just SMDH! You are a lovely person, I wish you much success and stay classy and talented!! Take Care :)
I guess if you are a White woman or Hispanic etc woman- you can say whatever you want to, however if you are Black we all better watch what we say????? I really thought you were above Phadra it is clear that she has major slanted view about White people - i just put that off to her being crazy- however you were a different story
Please do not take out your frustrations on your failing marriage, your wayward son, your almost career and your nip/tucks that didn't do a damn thing for your appearance on others. You need to really truly seek out the definition of friend and check yourself. You flipped on Sheree, you constantly flip on Kim and I pray that Cynthia comes to the light before you flip on her. I used to dig your outrageous persona now I wish you would just shut the h!#l up!
Kandi, greeetings. Just want to ask why were ALL the other Housewives saying, "The NeNe & Kim thing"? That mess was ALL NeNe! I kept saying to myself, "Is Kim not suppose to defend herself from this jealous crazy bully?" I love your guys' show, but last night I kept wondering why you guys kept saying that. Clearly NeNe is so jealous and can't stand Kim's new fame. She is rude and obnoxious. She said to Kim, "Watch how you speak to a me!" Serious? Then she says during the interview, "I am a grown ass woman!" Serious? Wow, that chick is off, way off. Sometimes I wish I could run into her and just be rude to her, but then again, she's not even worth it. Good job on your singing and producing. You did amazing with both Kim and Lawrence. You have alot of patience too, girl. I hope they post this cause they never post my other comments. Love you, Kandi, keep it up and stay strong.
I loved NeNe in season1 but as the show progress I am starting not like her. She really has a serious problem. That big heffa has lost her mind. If you want respect you have to give it...something she has not realized yet. She is the childish one...Greg has even gotten enough of her s***
She was awful both on the bus and in a strangers home who offered up his home for them. I was very close to shutting down all that screaming and childish crap last night. I like NeNe but if she can't stand Kim then stay away from her.
Of course Kim doesn't impress me with her ghetto style, either. I find her throwing her cigarettes butts in the driveway of that beautiful home rude and crude but then I always find her crude and rude with her trash talk.
In response to your comments about sweetie. ...obviously she wants to be there!!! She's smarter than most because she's getting paid!!! Nene and Kim call eachother "bitch" in a playful way..nene only gets mad as An excuse...she's really angry at Kim's success and extremely jealous of everyone. Nene must have spotlight on her. ..so when the real fun shows up( like Laurence) she can't handle it ..kandy won me over until her two faced attitude showed up...
I do agree... had a white person commented that someone is acting a certain way because they hang out with black people, it would make headline news. Remember the comment that was made... "There are certain things you do not say to a black woman"... was it appropriate for you all to say that to Sweetie and make a joke of it? I would think not... NeNe's behavior was immature and ridiculous. I'm not defending Kim, but if you claim to behave as an adult woman, then do so with dignity and responsibility. She enjoys enciting conflict and has no problem 'getting in your face' as though she were a 'thug in a cocktail dress' (thank you Alex - RHNYC!). I thought your were above that nonsense... guess I was wrong!
I want to be a singer also like for realz. I am starting to like the music industry lol! Next time you should definitely tour with lawrence it seems to me he is drama free with no assitant or slave lol. take care
I keep writing NEVER GET POSTED BECAUSE I SOUND INTELLEGENT!!! BRAVO LOVES IGNORANCE the producers dont care what color you are as long as you fit some stereo type. EVERYONE HAS PREJUDICE THOUGHTS NO ONE IS EXCUESE Unless you have lived under a rock, in a cave under the sea!!!!! At the end of the day Kandi gave KIm her start does that give her license to do anything no... BUT IF KIM OR ANY WHITE WOMAN GAVE ANY OF THE BLACK HOUSEWIVES A START AND ENTRY INTO A NEW CAREER,, everyone would be writing how blessed that particular housewife should be end of discussion... YES we have a black president but just like after de-segreation you think white ppl were welcoming black to into there home HELL NO!!! My mom is in her 60's she remembers growing up in the south and only being able to go to the zoo on certain days that was only 45-40 years ago really not that long ago that means MS. KIMs parents grew up in the time you dont think some negaitve thoughts about blk people werent passed down and vice versa for MS kandi??.... People really think 400 hundreds years of slavery, 50-100 years of civil rights struggle can just be earsed in a mere 50 years PLEASE... Yes we are all jaded by color its just ashamed were so locked it in and we cant see... At the end of the day Kim owes KAndi EVERYTHInG when it comes to her singing career... Its sad that, that fact is being lost.... KIM has no talent cant sing and if she wasnt a REAL HOUSEWIFE she would get BOO!!! Keep on trucking Kandi and learn from your mistakes xoxo :)
Obviously you dont know what talent is love. Kandi is a very talented singer not to mention writer and producer. In my opinion she is the realest one on the show because when confronted on what she has said she will confirm with no hesitation. Perssonally I think the show is edited to show one point of view so you cant go off of exactly what you see. And as far as Kandi not having a successful career arte you kidding just because she isnt sing the song doesnt mean she isnt responsible it. I am extremely offended by how harsh you are being with Kandi...Sistah???
I agree with you on this but i dont think that Kim did anything wrong. the girls just jump on her for no reason because she is the only white girl on the show.NeNe is your typical black girl-all mouth,got more mouth than cat got ass and she needs to grow up,this isn't kindergarten.I like the show because kim is so sweet and is motivated to follow her dreams.I think she's a good singer regardless of what the others say. I think a lot of the girls hating on her has to do with her race. black people scream that they are discrimated against when they do it worse to other races themselves and i don't get that. They hate on her because Kim is messing with a married man, but that is her business not anyone else's,so all them girls need to stay out of her personal business
I do agree that NeNe's behavior last night was some what child like and quite unnecessary for the length of time she ranted for. We all know that she's dealing with a lot in her personal life which was more reason for her to just relax and enjoy the get away with ladies. "NeNe you need to remember your kids are watching"!!!!!
I like you and truthfully i am only writing this because i do . The racism on this show is disgusting. If Don had been white and Kim black would his comments have been acceptable to you? I loved the way no one not a soul jumped to Kims defence would you have all been so silent if the races had been reversed? Can you imagine if Kim had felt she should correct NeNe on her behavior? But the real point is how would you have reacted differently if Kim was black and NeNe white . I have had 2 people in my life make racist comments in front of me both were showed the door. YOU should have asked NeNe to leave the bus the house and your life , that's what this white woman would have done don't i have the right to expect the the same of right minded black women?
Ok...here it goes
Kim is a lunatic. I understand that a lot of stuff ends up on the cutting room floor however, I can tell that Kim is certifiable. She is one of those people who embelish the truth, who is subtly competitive, passive aggressive, etc. I feel as though if she had a problem with the 11 alive interview she should have just called NeNe or brung it up when it was just them two. Secondly, I think her inviting NeNe to Orlando was really one of those crazy "im gonna put this up in your face" kind of deals. I know people that are crazy like this and I know how ANNOYING it can get sometimes...to the point where eventually you just explode and it makes you look like the bad guy. I do admit Nene could have handled this with much more tact and Im upset that she disrespected that man's house. I feel that "good home training" dictates that if you have a problem to where you cant be respectful in someone's home then you tactfully decline the invite and exit gracefully. All of that hoopla wasnt neccessary.
Now...Sweetie... oh Sweetie... lol. Please stop "stepnfetchin" and shuffle footing for Kim. I understand that she is an employee but there is no reason to speak to your employees any kind of way. Furthermore, yes there are certain things you don't say to a black woman without warranting an ass whooping...period.. whether you like it or not. There is something very disturbing about the Kim Sweetie thing...it bothered me even from the begining of the season.
Kandi, your album is THA BOMB!!!!! I love it!!! You go girl!!!
Kandi wrote a new song for Kim because Tardy for the Party was a hit and her first comeback album was not. So she wrote another song for Kim; started a new album; had Kim touring with her so she could get herself back out there. Kandi is riding on Kim's coattail. She needs Kim to jump start her singing career again and hoping that it will go somewhere. Why else would you write another song for someone who can't sing, carry a tune, a note... etc, and who did not pay you for the first song. It sounds to me that she needs Kim just as much as Kim needs her.