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Kim Zolciak

Harder, Better, Faster, Stronger

Kim dishes on the spa debacle and thinks the new girls need to back off. 

Dec 20, 2010

Wow, what an episode! Drama, drama, drama! Lets start from the beginning.

Like you all saw last week, I have preparing for Kandi's album promo tour for weeks. I have been going to Jan Smith and my choreographer Mitchell to make this perfect for Kandi and myself. I understand that since I am an opening act for her that my performances will set the mood for hers, so I want to make NO mistakes!

How cute was my angel Ariana walking around in Mommy's heels? She's a mini-me for sure!

Okay, now the part you're all READING for! Kim vs. Cynthia and Phaedra!

Now listen. Before I begin, let it be known that I did NOT intend to argue with anyone. I thought this would be a nice spa day for all the Housewives to get together and have girl time! But there is always one comment that changes the whole mood.

I asked Cynthia if she was serious about the friendship contract she gave NeNe. She said it was a joke, but I wanted her to know I thought it was a tad bit crazy! I mean, rehab... and death! Does she do drugs? Is she planning a wedding and a funeral? 

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Whatever Kim, you can't sing! I don't even know why Kandi keeps working with you.

Anyway, I am glad that you told Phaedra about herself. She was the one going around telling everybody that she was going to be induced at 7 months, so she have been prepared for any negative comments or questions.

BAM!!!!!!!....(in my best Ne Ne voice). Well said Kim. Glad to see your finally standing up for yourself.

Hello Kim, I love u and so gald u didn't back down from fake-dra. I can't belive she's a lawyer WHAT is she like the Dr. got her degree on line. She really doesn't make sences OMG.

Kim,

You brought the FIRE with that blog. I do think you were a little hard on Cynthia, but you were only giving an opinion. Oh well, if you are going to be a RHOA, you have to put your 'big girl' panties on!

Oh please Kim, if you would stop gossiping and go straight to source with your "truth", then you would not have this problem. Shut up already.

Kim--- I like your fire, I really do. I think you have some intelligence. But at times you sound straight delusional. A man is married until he gets divorced. It doesn't matter if his wife lives on the moon. Marriage is sacred---so stop trying to justify what you've done by saying Poppa's wife lived in Cali. Take responsibility. If you've moved on from the relationship and learned from i-t so be it---everyone makes mistakes---and Honey, once you get married maybe you'll realize being a married man's mistres is a HUGE mistake. As for your "singing"---people go to the circus....they also stop to gawk at car collisions So performing these "concerts" doesn't say a thing about your actual vocal ability. Most people are honestly amazed that you seem totally oblivious to just how horridly you sound. That's why they want to hear it....because they are shocked that you woud embarass yourself the way you do. Kandi---knows this---and she is using the lookey-loo nature of people to help promote her tour. I don't think she's a true friend to allow you to be looked at as a circus act--but hey, you never paid her for "Tardy to the Party". So maybe its fair. Anyway----with a baby on the way--and two growing daughters I hope you will become more honest with yourself because I do see a potential for you to be successful in other arenas.

Good luck!

I just want to let you know Kim that you have really shown alot of growth and warmth since the show first began airing... I really thought you were one big joke, but you are really seeming like a cool chick nowadays!! Congrats on the baby! I wish you all well on the show and look forward to keeping up with my fellow peaches!! I do have two little points I want to bring up, and if you read this maybe you can bring it up to Fakedra at the reunion. Lotsa love!!

1. Ask her where her law degree is... she wants you to produce your credentials, she should be prepared to do the same. 2. Point it out to Fakedra that while her uterus might be her business, lying to a roomfull of her coworkers/friends in front of cameras for the nation to see, makes that all of your/our business! She's the one who chose to lie about the health/safety/development/circumstance of her child, not yall or any of us viewers! She just wanted to deflect her humiliation at being cold-busted in a lie and try to sling mud at you.

Kim, I so agree about the whole baby thing with Phadra. You just said what we at home wanted to. So I'm with you all the way there. But, the Cynthia comment was really out of line. That was between NeNe and Cynthia and really none of your bussiness. Don't you have enough to keep up with trying to be a Super Star and who your dating this week to keep you busy? I'm not a fan of your singing but you make for some really good TV. HAPPY HOLIDAY'S!!!

Kim I understand being a protective friend and the right to have an opinion, but since the friend contract didn't even involve you, why create drama and feed into it? Have you ever heard of the phrase 'mind your own business'? I do not think Nene is a helpless woman who needs your protection. Where is it exactly that you attended nursing school? in my opinion, your wigs are akin to that of a hooker.

YOU are losing point for barking at cynithia the contract was obviously a joke and an icebreak to break the tension between she and nene. has nothing to di with u and Cynthia is a classy lady

You are so funny and fun to watch. Great blog, Kim. Congrats on baby.

You go girl!! Pa-leez girl. It kills me how people talk crap about you wearing a wig. Why is it different for "white" girls to wear wigs. So what I'm hearing is that wigs are only for black girls? That's total b.s. Regarding the complete lies that Phaedra has told about her pregnancy. Everybody with a pulse could see she was telling a big fat lie!! Anyone with common sense knew she was making crap up. She is so fake. You are smart, strong and very successful. Stay classy girl. We love you and are so happy about your success!

FYI to all, Kim is a Nurse and is licensed by the state of Georgia, although her license has lapsed. Which is very common for a nurse to do when she is no longer working as a nurse!!! All she has to do is pay the money to the Georgia Board of Nursing and be fully licensed again. And she knew exactly what she was talking about concerning the enduction of Phaedras baby, no MD would take the risk and enduce a mother less that 36 weeks just because the mother wants it done. Phaedra is right it is none of anyones business until she tried to insult the intelligence of the other women, then she opened herself up for the banter. And Cynthia, what grade are you in!! It was very childlike for you to take the time and make up that contract, even if it was for a laugh!!! Kim congrats on the pregnancy and I am sure you will carry your baby for 40 weeks and please do not have a baby shower event like the one Phaedra had!!!

ROTFL......I HOPE THEY POST THIS......KIM BABY PLEASE YOU CANT SING JUST KUZ U HAVE A HIT SONG DOES NOT MEAN U CAN SING AND I THINK THIS SEASON REALLY ESTABLISHED THAT.....WHEN U WERE IN THE STUDIO HA!!!! LOL I DONT NEED TO SAY NO MORE.....I CAN SAY ONE THING IM IN DALLAS AND HAVE NOT HEARD "GOOGLE ME" AT ALL SO HAS YOUR TIME ENDED....BUT U SAY U CAN SING SO U SHOULD BOUNCE BACK RIGHT LOL.....YOUR ATTITUDE AND COCKINESS IS GOING TO RUIN YA 15 MIN OF FAME

So because ur too afraid to stand up to Nene (cause she'll choke the crap out of you), and Sheree (because she will snatch your wig off) you're trying to prove yourself by picking on the newbies? Nene never sticks up for you, so why would u stick up for her? The friend contract wasnt for you, so mind your business and lay off of Cynthia...ugh your truly delusional

So because ur too afraid to stand up to Nene (cause she'll choke the crap out of you), and Sheree (because she will snatch your wig off) you're trying to prove yourself by picking on the newbies? Nene never sticks up for you, so why would u stick up for her? The friend contract wasnt for you, so mind your business and lay off of Cynthia...ugh your truly delusional

....And that's why I love you!!!!!

.....And that's why I love watching you!!!!

Kim, I am so sick of you and your sanctimonious bs!!! I for one KNOW you can't sing, you did date a married man no matter where his wife lived he was STILL married seperated maybe BUT STILL MARRIED! The lies that you tell may not be the same as Phaderas but they are STILL LIES ie: Lying to Andy on WWHL that you were pregnant then suddenly the next day you were pregnant and don't think for a min that I don't know what a contract you most likely had with US is like since PR is what I do for a living as opposed to living off of the good graces of the men I sleep with wish you could say the same!

Here is a theory have your new baby and congrats on that and have it far away from TV because we are TIRED of YOU!!! Get some professional help to get over your delusions of granduer and try try try to be a decent Mom to this new baby and hopefully teach it that you have morals and maybe just maybe you can repair the damage that has been done to your two beautiful daughers from seeing there Mother be nothing more than a hooker that you have to save up for!

Okay, let me say it was not your place to tell Cynthia about the friend contract it wasn't for you. You haven't performed in thousands of clubs and YOU CAN"T SING. THAT AUTOTUNE you know it and so does the rest of the world! You are not Hard! SO STOP!

Oh Kim please!

Bottom line? You're a moron if you believe Cynthia was serious--it's a joke, nothing more and you and NeNe just aren't bright enough to get cerebral humor. Cynthia didn't start with you, NeNe did and you took the bait. Remember when NeNe trashed you behind your back? Now you're helping NeNe to trash Cynthia behind her back--do you see how silly that makes you, given the fact you claim this woman physically attacked you? Did you not notice how thrilled NeNe was at the trouble she stirred between you two and how she marveled at you fighting over HER!!!??? Seriously what is your definition of the word friend??? Sheeze!

And for once and for all? If Popa's wife lives across the street, across the country or on the damn moon--she's STILL HIS WIFE!!! A SEPARATED MAN IS STILL A MARRIED MAN!!!!!

You had me laughing so hard when you told FAKE-DRA, "don't get it fu**ing twisted, because now you've pissed me off." LOL...Love it!!!! I'm glad you stood up for yourself. I think she's so full of it and she's always being insulting to you and the other cast members. Kudos to you for putting her in her place!!!!

Good for you Kim...don't back down from that FAKE ASS girl. She need to let her mom know she was screwing like everyone else and got pregnant...Also, I want to say I lived in Augusta, Georgia and its a GHETTO. Phaedra the big time lawyer had her baby at MCG...THE MEDICAL COLLEGE OF GEORGIA...that's directly behind the projects and she knows that...so when she says, "oh, it looks like the projects over there"...I said, "no shit because it is and the those projects has been there since the 1950's. I actually live in Evans, Georgia where the all the "New Money" is located so no one but people with medicaid/no insurance lay their ass up in MCG...its like going to Grady Memorial. Also...I heard she could not find a man that wanted her so she settled for fine a$$ but convict Apollo. Don't let that heifer scare you because she did not discuss that ish with no one but you...stand tall and stay firm.

LOL, 3 seasons and you still see things in another world!!! Was entertaining, now a bit scary. Phaedra is correct, you can't sing (you think you can) you said in one episode you were an LPN and then the next you said RN, a real nurse would know the difference and an RN would never accidently refer to herself as an LPN (different duties and pay my love). You did talk about Phaedra's baby as often as you could and you even asked Dwight who the father was, but I am sure in your world you "did not say that" All I can say is very strange, who lives like that, how can you exist in a reality based on nothing real???? Scary, at best!

There is always one comment that changes the whole mood...

...I asked Cynthia if she was serious about the friendship contract she gave NeNe. She said it was a joke, but I wanted her to know I thought it was a tad bit crazy!

There is your one comment.

Ok, You are my biggest fan Kim. You are a BOSS straight up. You drive a bentley come on... I mean seriously what does Cynthia drive? She has to support her man, I have never seen you having to support yours. Why does everybody talk about dating a married man? I have dated one, I think everybody has... So Cynthia needs to shut her mouth. Nobody is talking about how many woman Peter has been with... and how many baby momma's he has... 5 kids? and he cant even afford or support his new wife and 6th child? And weddin? Sorry but Cynthia is a little ghetto, she needs to keep your name out of her mouth, along with Phaedra. Everybody has flaws about themselves, and who's to say dating a married man is wrong? What about marrying a guy that has 5 children? I think if it were judgement day, then god would def. have something to say about that. Aint nothin wrong with dating a married man/woman. Next... Friend contract was PSYCHO! You are right Kim! 7 pounds 23 ounces...really? Um, can you ask for Phaedra's papers proving she is a Lawyer? Can she please stop with the idiotic comments....PU-LEEZE! Love you Kim, your a boss!

You are too funny! The Cynthia thing though... I get her side, and I think NeNe was wrong for betraying her confidence with it and dragging you into it. With you and Phaedra... CLASSIC!! You're pretty fierce for a white girl!! LOL! (and I mean no disrespect by that!) We're just always taught that white girls are intimidated by us, but, evidently YOU ARE NOT!! Watch out! Here comes KIM!! LOL!! Wish you, your man, baby, and older babies the BEST!!!

the contract was a JOKE-most of the viewers knew that.Most Americans CAN take and understand a joke-THAT"S WHY people buy and listen to your songs-it's a JOKE.YOU. ARE. A. JOKE!!!!!One that was funny last season, but is starting to get stale-hint-expect less bookings with your "hits" this year.Didn't like Phaedra until she "came for" you.She is the ONLY one who seems to have the spine to tell you the truth.Right proud of Cynthia tonight, too.Keep smoking, ho!

Kim, No one heard of YOU until the YOU were cast on the show either...Regardless if Nene showed you the contract, it was NOT your place to ask Cynthia about it, just as it wasn't responsible of NeNe to show it off. If Cynthia wanted everyone to see it, she would have presented it to everyone. You were attacked by Phaedra because DWIGHT put your comments out there. So she was not picking on you for no reason, Phaedra already had her conversation and now it was your turn. Sit down and shut up.

kim needs to mind her business the contract was a joke just like your life i am glad cnythia stood up to her

Well I can definitely say, you handled both of them quite well. As for Cynthia. . . she know that was psycho. . . as for phadra. . . why she pick you when all of them were talking about her lying. ..

Kim, I am happy that you have everything that you do but just let Nene's and Cynthia's relationship play out naturally. Nene is a big girl and she can defend herself. Good Luck on all you do.

Kim, I am so glad that you addressed Phaedra's response about her baby being 7lbs.23oz.!! Seriously, if she can't do a simple math conversion how did she get her law degree. I would be asking her to show you some documentation. Wow!

Kim, Let's just put this matter to rest. You actually CAN'T sing, honey. You have a hit record because someone else wrote a catchy tune, Kandi reworked it to give it a funky sound and some great sound engineer completely altered your voice. Time to get REAL honest with yourself because you just look silly going around saying that because you have a hit song you're a good singer. You've heard of Milli Vanilli, right? You're a fun, sassy D-list celebrity because Bravo thought you'd make for good entertainment - and you do. Embrace that and stop trying to make it more than it is. Fly your freak flag because that's the only reason anyone even knows your name - which seems VERY important to you.

You are a piece of work but I love you.

Happy Holidays to you and your beautiful family.

Sorry Kim...I love you, but girl you can NOT sing.

Kim you need to get over yourself. You CANNOT SING!!!!..... Just because you went on tour and have a hit record doesn't make you a singer. If it wasn't for Kandi you wouldn't have anything. I do agree with you that Phaedra should get her facts straight. Why doesn't she just admit that she got pregnant before she was married.

Kim, Phaedra's just mad because she got busted in her own lies. She and her husband are still lieing. Of course people that you be around are going to ask when are you due and when it doesn't sound right, they're going to talk. She is crazy and I'm glad you did defend yourself. If it wasn't for you and Nee-nee, there would be no Housewives of ATL show. The other's are just boring...

Kim:

I don't blame you for defending yourself to Cynthia, but one thing I take issue with is this: It doesn't matter where "Big Poppa's" wife lives, that doesn't make him divorced, nor does it make you LESS of a mistress. Sorry, but that is just the facts.

I really like you this season. Fake-dra is something else how did she get a law degree? Did she go to the same school as Dr. Love?

hilarious. Kim, I love you and your blog makes me smile. Phaedra struggles and after seeing her on this show, I don't know who would want her to represent them in court! She can't even convert ounces into pounds! saddd :( You are hilarious and I can't wait to see the episode where you show her your nurse papers! Have a wonderful holiday!

you blog doesn't make any sense

Damnnnnnn..... U went IN on them Kim!! Go on gurl!!!! lol

Kim You hadn't heard of Cynthia before the she joined the show because you're too totally self-absorbed to notice. Cynthia and Kandi...the only 'normal' women on the show were the only ones of you that anyone heard of before the show. Of course you don't understand a friend contract....you have no idea what a friend is or how to be one. The worst of it was that as a viewer I could see that Cynthia was kidding with the friend contract. Leave Cynthia alone.... feel free to fight with Phaedra!

Kim you seem like a nice looking fashionable lady that crowds want to come see. But I'm sorry you cannot sing. Its just that lately the public is not demanding celebrities to have any talent. By the way Cynthia Bailey is very well established at least in the African-American community as a supermodel and she had a little fame and recognition way before you came into the public eye. There are legions of African-American women who recognize her from the several cover magazines, and black fashion mags and shows she appeared in, and admire her. However I do think people should respect your qualification as a registered nurse and think it is insulting to you and degrading to Phaedra for her to keep making insinuations about you in a striptease Nurse's costume. Its seems if Phaedra can't be the prettiest or she cannot brag about her handsome husband because everyone will keep reminding her of his past then at the very least she wants to be the only one with education.

Haven't yet seen the episode, but I have it on DVR. OMG! All I have to say is Phaedra, get real! She really puts a bad name to lawyers when she can't even tell the truth about her due date! Everyone knows she lied about it! Kim, the prior seasons, you weren't my favorite in ATL, but this season, I think Phaedra's got you beat as far as who's at the bottom! She's downright rude and snobbish and treats her husband like crap! Wish you the best for you and your (soon to be expanded) family!

Kim I love you....for no other reason than you're real about you get your sh--! Like it or not Kim handles business to get what she wants. I don't always like what you do or how you do it, but I ain't mad at you. Do you girl, and yes, this is coming from a "true sista"!! Keeping it real doesn't mean walking into the room being the loudest and a bully...okay!!

Harder..Better...Faster...Stronger... is this a plug for Kandi Koated Nights?

Kim, please don't do this. Don't set yourself up to be knocked down. I know you are trying to stand up for yourself but it's making you look like a "b"...why are you bothering Cynthia.....that's like messing with a kitten...Cynthia is a very nice person and you should not have attacked her like that...don't do that....especially to people who don't deserve it!