Kim Zolciak

Kim dishes on the spa debacle and thinks the new girls need to back off. 

on Dec 20, 20100

Wow, what an episode! Drama, drama, drama! Lets start from the beginning.

Like you all saw last week, I have preparing for Kandi's album promo tour for weeks. I have been going to Jan Smith and my choreographer Mitchell to make this perfect for Kandi and myself. I understand that since I am an opening act for her that my performances will set the mood for hers, so I want to make NO mistakes!

How cute was my angel Ariana walking around in Mommy's heels? She's a mini-me for sure!

Okay, now the part you're all READING for! Kim vs. Cynthia and Phaedra!

Now listen. Before I begin, let it be known that I did NOT intend to argue with anyone. I thought this would be a nice spa day for all the Housewives to get together and have girl time! But there is always one comment that changes the whole mood.

I asked Cynthia if she was serious about the friendship contract she gave NeNe. She said it was a joke, but I wanted her to know I thought it was a tad bit crazy! I mean, rehab... and death! Does she do drugs? Is she planning a wedding and a funeral? 

561 comments
Kenyatta
Kenyatta

Ok I have been still to long. First, let me say I love the housewives for there in no drama like housewives drama. Now that I have said that....let's get really honest her. Nene...is who she is. The thing about her is that she is real and she will tell it like it is. Kim after watching you all interact i can't help but to see you for your true colors as well. I am not saying that what the other girls say is perfect, but come now, you are just as two faced as the rest of (kandi and Cynthia excluded). You are quick to judge and point fingers but come now...you are seeing a married man, sleeping with women, dating someone that more than likely will leave you for a younger women as soon as the going gets tuff, and on a career path that is completely promoted and constructed by others. I am a huge pop fan....with that said....just being blunt...without the computers and kandi's team your singing career would be absolutely nothing. I don't mean to hate for I see some really great aspects in you as a person. I am simply saying that before you judge stand in judgement of yourself. Oh yea, please stop talking to and treating Sweetie the way you do. It is very offensive to me as an african American to see a modern day house slave. This is just me being real about what i see. You are truly a beautiful women. You might want to think about slowing down on the drinking and smoking....it makes you look trashy....and somehow I don't think that is really who you are. You are a great mother......as a parent though I would hope you keep in mind that one day your girls will see this show. Is what you present really the impression you want them to have of you. I am looking forward to the next season. Hopefully, by then you will have things in better order. Oh yea, always remember karma is a bitch. You want the girls of housewives to treat you better then maybe you should start treating them the way you want to be treated. I'm out!!

google earth live
google earth live

Wish you best luck for the current and next year!There's always room for more thing.

Unguilty Pleasure
Unguilty Pleasure

HIGH FIVE KIM! I had to catch this episode on line, but I am so Proud of you Kim for standing up to Phaedra. She had the nerve to call you two-faced, but she's a hypocrite, because she smiles in everyone's face and talks about them behind their back. Of course she would be that way, look at who she's friends with, Dwight. Hello. As for NeNe, I left a comment early on in a previous blog stating that you need to stay away from that woman. Forgiveness is one thing, but being friends, NO. Friends? NO! I didn't want to state this until I saw this last two episodes, but you need to really WATCH Kandi and be careful with her because she may not be as good of a friend as you thought she was. First of all, she complained about not getting paid from the Tardy for the party song, now she's throwing you under the bus about your relationship with Poppa. Now, yes I disagree with that affair you were having too, but that did not constitute her and Don Juan talking about it in the bar like they Oprah and Gail. Just because Kandi is helping you with your career does NOT mean that she and her assistant can disrespect you. WHAT a HYPOCRITE, because didn't Kandi take the lead on Xscapes song "My Little Secret"? Everyone who has heard that song knows what I'm talking about. Keep shuting 'em down Kim.

Walts Wife
Walts Wife

Kim I like you and agree with much of what you said in your blog Where we depart is the discussion of Cynthia and the friend contract. It was obvious to most people that the friendship contract was a joke. You made Cynthia go on the defense with your comments about it being weird. Cynthia rightfully said that the contract wasn't for you. What's weird to me is your relationship with NeNe...forget whether you can sing(you cannot), your relationship with Big Papa or your wigs. I thought that you reacted to the friend contract out of jealousy that Cynthia was getting close to your friend NeNe. In the next episode I hope you were clear that you need to stay away from NeNe!

GB76@NYC
GB76@NYC

Kim,

You are definitely not a good singer but I see so much more than that in you! I think you are a great mom and a loyal friend... unlike NeNe. Most people will disagree, but you seem naive when it comes to selecting you friends. NeNe is not your friend and was the one that pulled the race card! On the tour bus episode we saw her anger and jealousy for you so stay away from her. On the first season Sheree attacked you and then you made up with her. Stop working things out with people that have hurt you previously for no reason. They are not real to you and you should know that and please stop drinking and smoking so people can stop calling you trashy and so what you wear a wig, its not like the others have never worn a weave! They us that agaisnt you to put you down. Stick to Kandi that has good and honest intentions regardless of your little misunderstandings with her. She seems real and a true friend.

karen1999
karen1999

Kim, Never ever invite Nene to a friends house again, the way she acted in the mansion and on the tour bus was pure GETTO. She is not your friend. She is a loud mouth nasty bully. Drop her Kim she is hating on you. As far as Sweetie goes I never felt you were treating Sweetie as a slave. I could tell you are a person that does not see color. I have a white girlfriend that is like you she does not see color, she just sees the person for what is in the inside. Then the icing was on the cake when Nene invited Diana down. You were getting ready to send Sweetie home to try to salvage the weekend and her comes another loud mouth getto bully and she wants to start an argument with you. Girl I would have thrown both of them out of the house. Good luck to you Kim.

RLouise
RLouise

WHY IN THE WORLD ARE YOU FRIENDS WITH NE NE. Kim really stop. There is not respect in that friendship and her behavior at your friends home was unacceptable. Stop the drama and move on. Why she is so popular is beyond me. She is messy and triffling. Cut your ties to her and move on. This season she has worn me out with all her drama. MOVE ON....

N.B from Jamaica
N.B from Jamaica

Hey Kim you are a beautiful woman, dont words throw you down. Stop talking to Sweetie that way i dont like it, anyway i am looking out for more story. Take care of yourself.

N.B from Jamaica
N.B from Jamaica

Hey Kim you are a beautiful woman, dont words throw you down. Stop talking to Sweetie that way i dont like it, anyway i am looking out for more story. Take care of yourself.

N.B from Jamaica
N.B from Jamaica

Hey Kim you are a beautiful woman, dont words throw you down. Stop talking to Sweetie that way i dont like it, anyway i am looking out for more story. Take care of yourself.

Don't take it personal
Don't take it personal

Don't take it personal how Nene treated you on the bus because it's CLEAR that she is EXTREMELY UNHAPPY with herself and doesn't like ANYONE! She talks about YOU, CYNTHIA, KHANDI, SHEREE, AND PHAEDRA! She's pissed that you have a singing career, she's pissed that Cynthia is a model, she's upset that Khandi is your producer, she criticized Sheree's acting skills, and she's pissed that Phaedra is an attorney! Nene is just an extremely jealous woman and is NOBODY'S friend! I'm sooo glad you've opened your eyes!:o)

NO LONGER A FAN
NO LONGER A FAN

Kim... your a class act! Nene has showed her true colors in front of the world as you remain in control! Stay away from her... She is running everyone away from her and she deserves to be alone. I hope you stay on Housewives and/or get your own show! You deserve it!

DIGNIFIEDaddict;)
DIGNIFIEDaddict;)

You rock KIM! You are the most consistently entertaining housewife on the ATL show. Totally enjoy ALL aspects of you, especially as you sing your songs, albeit off-key...all the way to the bank. Once and for all...DUMP NENE. The things she said to Sweetie on the bus were reprehensible. Poor Sweetie....HOWEVER...you do seem to yell at people a lot, but I take it as a big personality and not as one who is issuing commands at others. KEEP DOING WHAT YOU ARE DOING....AND CAN'T WAIT FOR THE BABY!!!!

Yogilady
Yogilady

Kim, You are doing what women like you have done for centuries. Divide and conquer. You are not innocent. Nene knows you. She's right about you, and your behavior. I wish you would go away.

Amanda N
Amanda N

Kim, You and Kandi are my fav women on this show. Nene is psychotic and extremely jealous of you. It's obvious she takes her anger out on you and she has underlying issues. I think she needs help. As a nurse, you should give her an emergency dose of haldol or ativan or something STAT intramuscularly when she gets outta control lol... ANYWAY I love your dynamic! You live life to the fullest and have fun. That's what it's all about. Congrats on your pregnancy! Wish you all the best! XOXO, Amanda from Detroit

Disgusted_by_NeNe_Leakes
Disgusted_by_NeNe_Leakes

I love how you stand up for yourself. You have my full support.

I do cringe when I hear you speak with Sweety, but I figured that is the nature of your relationship. You may consider toning it down, b/c it could really be taken the wrong way.

And NeNe is so very jealous of you. I hope you finally see that she does not wish you well.

Keep on doing you, Kim!! :-)

Madisonne
Madisonne

Dear Kim, you have surprised me so much, you definitely have some idiosyncracies...LOL...but if one really pays attention, there are so many cool things about you as a modern woman... you push past your fears, you have fun with your hair and fashion... I joined this site just to try to win the sweepstakes and hopefully a sensational and carefree evening out on the town with you and the truely fabulous Kandi ... Thank you for such an interesting journey following parts of your life... but ... quit smoking darling... I just did, it wasn't easy, but I feel so much better...do it for your singing and your babygirls... with much love, MidgeFragnet and Madisonne over at the contest Throwdown game...LOL...you should stop by over there and check out the crazy fun us Divas are having in honour of all you RH of ATL girls...hahha

Madisonne
Madisonne

Dear Kim, you have surprised me so much, you definitely have some idiosyncracies...LOL...but if one really pays attention, there are so many cool things about you as a modern woman... you push past your fears, you have fun with your hair and fashion... I joined this site just to try to win the sweepstakes and hopefully a sensational and carefree evening out on the town with you and the truely fabulous Kandi ... Thank you for such an interesting journey following parts of your life... but ... quit smoking darling... I just did, it wasn't easy, but I feel so much better...do it for your singing and your babygirls... with much love, MidgeFragnet and Madisonne over at the contest Throwdown game...LOL...you should stop by over there and check out the crazy fun us Divas are having in honour of all you RH of ATL girls...hahha

Ashley, Florida
Ashley, Florida

I'll try this once again, seeing how Bravo doesn't like to post all comments.

First of all, you need to take yourself down a knotch or two. Honey, you are NOT all that, you deff cannot sing, big Duhhh, and the non-stop playing with those awful wigs needs to cease once and for all! I know you have a wig line, but they look so cheap and fake. Last year when you & Nene fought & ugly Sheree pulled on your wig, I really felt bad for you, but this season you're just too big for your own good honey. I wish you the best with your new baby, and your relationship with that guy. Please stop all the big-headed behavior. Thanks!

Bravo, Please post!

KPT
KPT

Girl it is very CLEAR THAT NeNe jealous of you... Keep doing you and please do yourself a favor a keep NeNe OUT OF YOUR LIFE... NeNe is nothing but DRAMA and have some serious issues...

Mid Atlantic Gal
Mid Atlantic Gal

Kim, All the best to you, you have proven that your heart is pure when NeNe got up in your face on the bus and then at your friend's home. Please don't invite that trouble back into your life in any way. She reminds me of someone I know who has been diagnosed with Borderline Personality Disorder. She has all the symptoms, imho. If so, you will want to take off your heels and run away as fast as you can ! Very unstable and possibly even dangerous !

Shame Shame
Shame Shame

Kim lovely lady...YOU WON ME OVER! I'm a stubborn sista and rarely change my mind about anything or anybody. I've always disliked NeNe and up until now, no one believed me. But that's besides the point. I used to think you were kind of classless and a user but you have a lot of class. You even tried to put aside your differences because you knew you were a guest in someones house. I thought you were a gold-digger but after seeing you interact with your male friend, I think you just understand the way life works. Men are men sometimes. You oblige them but for the most part you do you. People think you take advantage of the people who most would consider the underdog but I'm slowly learning that you are a person who may see more in that person than anyone else sees. How else would you be so patient with someone like NeNe? That takes a heck of a lot of strength....to do you because you inherently know you will prove everyone wrong! Kudos to you. Honestly, you've taught me something!

jerseymama
jerseymama

I know- I was like uh no Kim- an out of state expired LPN license is not the same as claiming you are a "Registered Nurse" I couldn't believe Phaedra didn't spot that and point it out.

jessicajuliette
jessicajuliette

Kim, do not EVER befriend Nene again...

She is a jealous hater...

I loved Nene the best, til this episode...

she was so into hurting you that she acted an ignorant fool on the bus disrespecting eveyone on the bus and then at YOUR friend's home, she goes off on you???

You showed real class by not ejecting her from Thomas's home...(but YOU realized it was about Cynthia not you) unlike Nene

alona
alona

i love all the woman, but kim is the only one that that has stayed true to herself and her kids!! she makes it a point to let them know what they need to know. they are so close you can see that in every episode! at the end of the day her 2 beautiful girls know how much she loves them and that they are number one in her life!!!!!!!!!!! I think you doing a great job as a mom kim!!!!!!!!!! A++++++ keep doing you girl!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Liz Martinez
Liz Martinez

Kim just because big papa's wife is on the other side of the country it doesn't mean he is not married that is still his wife no matter where she is. And don't let the success of tardy for the party get to your head because Kandi and her crew made you sound good you aren't the greatest singer in the world.

Tlisa
Tlisa

That was well said, because I would have thrown NeNe and her rude ass friend out of my friends house, and Thomas was such a gentlemen, because not to many people are going to allow some loud mouth, with a loud mouth friend, come up in their house and disrespect it. So Kudos Kim for holding it in check. whit those ghetto twin sisters.

Keeper
Keeper

Kim, Some advice. Don't "play" with your hair/wig so much. It looks so tacky when you do that. It looks like you have no confidence. Relax with the hair bit.

Jocko  Frobisher
Jocko Frobisher

LoveNene -

I don't care for Kim very much. I notice though that you refer to her as a "HO". Seeing as how you're praising Nene in the same breath, I think it's fair to point out that Nene is the former pole dancer.

Pole dancers. Women that get paid to dance around naked in front of a bunch of men in a night club. They put their stuff right up in a guy's face so the men will tuck cash in their g-strings. That's right. Any old filthy dude can get up there and put money in the their g-strings. By the way, do you know what a lap dance is? Because pole dancers also give lap dances.

I'm not going to pass judgement on Nene for that.....but if Kim is ho-ish according to you. Then Nene is an absolute skankzilla hobag. I'm just using your logic.

honeybeeTJMW
honeybeeTJMW

Why isn't Kim blogging anymore? Could use an update from all these ladies. Must not be in their contract.

Chambeeze
Chambeeze

Only thing I have to say is that Cynthia is a very successful and popular model. Just because YOU never heard of her doesn't mean ish. Your wig's look terriblem your plastic face looks nasty and all in all you are a smoking, drinking mess. I don't even know why you are a part of the group truthfully cause you are just a wannabe. Wanna be cute, wannabe rich, wannabe a wife, wanna be a singer. Give it up you get the L (oser)

very concerned
very concerned

I know many people who are going to stop watching Real Housewives of ATL because of the anger NeNe shows to Kim. NeNe needs to get some much needed help. She needs to be taken off the show until she get help. She is going to hurt someone. She is one angry jealous woman. She is out to make everyone unhappy, don't let her. She is just unhappy, not only with other but also with herself. Time for NeNe to go!!!!!!

LoveNeNe
LoveNeNe

I doubt that Ne NE is the most hated Woman on earth, it's funny how people dislike others just because they don't take sh*t from nobody and is not afraid to speak their mind Ne Ne can be a little overboard sometimes but do it gives us all a reason to hater her? PLEASE!! Come On . Ne Ne is funny and is the definition of a real Black Woman that stands up for herself and I think people cant understand that and is a little afraid of that. It's always Ne NE versus Kim on here, but really who is Kim can you really say she is a self dependent Woman? OMG she clearly a gold diggin H0 plan and simple, so its appalling to me how people can hate on Ne Ne but likes someone with Kim's characteristics sleeping with a married man and clearly dating older guys simply to take care of her, just like the last show when they went to her friends house in Miami and what comment did Kim make something about getting in bed with her later to her friend hmmm seems like shes making sure she take care of business to get the cash rolling in.. and this is the person you all stand up for against Ne Ne I wonder about some of you guys characteristics as well seems like you condone Kim's behavior WOW ! Love you Ne NE girl like I said she's not hated by all My favorite on housewives

BrendaM.
BrendaM.

Kim, keep doing you honey! Yeah I know dating a married man is not right. But other than that, I have no problem with you. I think you're entertaining and beautiful. And this is coming from a black woman. Tell Sweetie, she is a sweetie and not to let anyone's rude analysis of her keep her from being who she is and living the life that makes her happy. NeNe was totally out of line for talking that way about her. I hope she realizes that it wasn't the way that Kim speaks to Sweetie that seemed to hurt her, but it was her awful 'slave' comments that did it. It now seems obvious that NeNe is jealous of Kim.

Miami, Fl
Miami, Fl

Kim, Don't worry, we all can smell a hater from a mile away.

KarenZ
KarenZ

Kim, Stand strong...you're wonderful! I have lost all respect for Nene...if it weren't for you I would stop watching the show

Vcc
Vcc

Kim, you are a beautiful woman with a beautiful face....PLEASE, PLEASE, PLEASE get that hair out of your face. It's distracting and it takes away from how pretty you are.

happy camper
happy camper

Kim why do you continue to allow yourself to be the token verbal punching bag for these ladies? No one should ever be put in the position that you constantly find yourself in with NeNe and the others. None of these ladies have your back. It seem on all the reality shows that revolve around black women, there has to be a white woman that has to be the target of their insults. Has anyone seen basketball wives? It's the same thing. I'm am so offended by the direction these shows are taking, that I am just going to have to find something else to watch.

Lisa Marie
Lisa Marie

I Agree. I love Kim and I'm a black woman Nene is so miserable. Nene fries so hard to be sexy and has low self esteem. Why? Proof is Nene had the same shoes on as kim and Nene shoes were a WHOLE size to small. lol. Kim, do you. Tell Nene " You hate me cause you ain't me".

Debbie k
Debbie k

Kim what are you thinking, you are a beautiful woman but girl you cannot sing, A pop-star you will never be..., its not even the fact that you lip sync most music star do but with out the music and the vocals drowning you out there is no talent. stick to what you do best....shopping and collecting sugar daddies

amanor
amanor

Kim, please stay away from that vile Ne Ne. I am glad to see you walk away from her at times, or just dismiss her totally. I think there is something wrong with her, she needs to check into an anger management center or something. A jealous, crazy woman. We all know she dumped Greg because she felt he was not a good match for her new "fame". Her and her gold digging friend Dianna are cut from the same cloth. Dianna could not wait to join in the yelling. Looking forward to the total fool Ne Ne is going to make of herself on celebrity apprentice! Don't let her back in your life. She makes me want to turn the show off, YOU make me keep watching!

Deninge Sims
Deninge Sims

I have just one question for you: Why is it that when you have differences with one of the housewives, you talk about them like they're trash:

Example 1: Before Lisa left, you guys had words and you talked about her face, hair, body etc.

Example 2: When you and Sheree had that argument in the restaurant last season, you talked about her.

Now, you have had issues with Phadera, Nene and anyone else who disagrees with you, you talk a lot of crap about them especially in the 1/24th episode.

Regardless of your differences, you should keep your comments to yourself. That's drama that is unneccessary.

Blessings on your upcoming baby!

Candice2011
Candice2011

RU kidding...persona? Kim CANNOT sing or carry a tune. Kandi should not even started this whole thing with Kim...Kandi should have invested her money with someone that can sing!

NYHW
NYHW

Kim, I am so proud of the way you handled that whole situation with that banshee NeNe. You can get a little loose, but that one gets insane. She is just too much. I would NEVER bring that one into my circle again in life. She was rude, disrespectful and totally ungracious. She acts like she was raised in a stockyard. She is so full of herself and so jealous of you, it's pathetic. You and Sweetie's relationship is none of her business to get in your face about. I am glad that you talked things over with Sweetie and she didn't have any issues with you. NeNe professes to be -- what? -- defending her by calling her a slave??? What's that??

I totally get you now and although you are pretty self-absorbed, you don't have a mean bone in your body. And if you were racist, you never would have been friends with NeNe in the first place and you wouldn't have Sweetie for your assistant. Don't stand for that anyone getting up in your face or putting their hands on you. That sets a bad example for your daughters. You don't need NeNe anywhere near you. That should be a rule going forward. Let her try to pull that nonsense on someone else.

Congrats on the baby!! AND Kroy!!! That's probably what NeNe's really jealous about. You're beautiful and happy. She's not. Try hanging out with someone who knows how to act. Cynthia is very graceful and classy. I know that you had some problems with Sheree b4, but her comments about the whole "race" controversy that NeNe fabricated were right on point. Everything isn't about race, race, race!!! Enjoy your life. Tell the haters to step aside or step back!!!

Tanisha from VA
Tanisha from VA

I wish that I could agree with you but I will no longer support the, "it is okay for us to say something but no one else can" mentality. As a Black woman, I am natural and proud of it and welcome the word nappy. I think that nappy is beautiful! Unfortunately, many of my sistas are afraid of their own naps and view the word in a negative light. I would have just simply said, ‘I will gladly remove my nappy head off of your pillow before I catch something!’ I OFTEN hear other Black women use the word in a derogatory way, because of their own ignorance and lack of acceptance for our own natural hair texture. In its original form, our hair IS Nappy...AND beautiful! In my humble opinion, it looks much better nappy than the raggedy STRAIGHT weaves I see attached to it. I can't count how many times I have heard BLACK women say, 'look at her nappy head!' or some other Nappy Headed comment. How about we work on not using the term so negatively in our own race before we start scolding others about doing it? How about we learn to view the word as the compliment it is…just like we had to do with the Black skin comment. It took us too long to learn just how beautiful Black is. Kim was just doing what she hears US doing several times a day….degrading ourselves. By the way, what Kim said about the Nappy Head was NO WORSE than what NeNe said about the Dumb Blonde. Did that bother you too?! Be fair with your judgments.

I’m happy that that word no longer bothers me like it did before. My hair is nappy, long, thick and SOOOOOO VERY LOVELY, JUST. LIKE. ME. :0)

Tanisha from VA
Tanisha from VA

KIM My goodness, 88% of the artist out these days can't sing for real! It is all about presentation; It is all about how you look. We all know that. With that said, Kim girl get your piece of the rock! If that is what the public is willing to accept, then get yours! Now, about you and your assistant. I don’t agree with how you speak to her, but from what Khandi said in her blog, the treatment is mutual and she treats you just as disrespectful. You are two grown women, so if that works for your relationship, I don’t agree with it for mine but do you. What I did observe was that you were visibly bothered by what NeNe said about the slave remark. Good for you because I am sure now that you will rethink that way that you treat your assistant and you both will grow from this experience. Next, it is NOT up to NeNe to be the Judge and Jury. She is very arrogant and somehow has allowed people’s reverence of her to go to her head. Sure, the public loves an ignorant acting reality show fool, but is that truly what is good for your spirit? No. I am glad that you show some class Kim…not always, but much more than NeNe does. I’m also glad to see that you defend yourself and do not back away from Monster Lady. You have far more potential to have a break through than Mrs or Ms. Leaks. Take it easy.