Kim Zolciak

Kim talks Tracy, explains her friendship with NeNe, and breaks down the Dwight fight.

on Oct 4, 20100

 

It's been a year and were finally back! I have missed all my fans sooo much, although I am a twitter junkie and try to stay connected, it's great to finally be able to blog again. So lets not waste anytime and get into it!

As you all know, last season Big Poppa proposed...After all that, I really reevaluated myself and my relationship with Poppa, and we decided to call it quits. It's been several months now since we split, and I've moved on, but Poppa will always be in my life.

We remain GREAT friends, and my kids and I adore him. Because I had just recently left Poppa, it was really hard letting the world know about Tracy and I. I knew it would be so controversial being with a woman. I never intended on sharing that part of my life with anyone but a few close friends, however all the media and speculation surrounding our relationship was insane. I felt like I had no other alternative but to be HONEST and OPEN with the public.

120 comments
AstroAstra
AstroAstra

Remember when Sheree told NeNe things you allegedly said about she & Greg? You did to Dwight [a person who has never harmed you...he certainly ain't treat you the way 'they' did] what Sheree did to you. How sad. You paid poison forward. Ain't no good Karma could come outta that...for you. It taints your spirit. And you know what else? Sharing gossipy bones with them--won't make them like you any more---psychologically speaking, it might make 'em like you less.

A virtuous woman never gets down like that. Never.

Sure it was gossip. To help the ratings. You couldn't tell NeNe this before Bravo began shooting y'all again? Please, don't undermine the intelligence of your readers, here...or anywhere.

And when Dwight allegedly told you this--why didn't you STOP him right then & there? Telling him to go tell that mess to NeNe directly? I think you disarmed him, lured him into 'friendly' dialogue....leading him to believe he would be safe in convo with you. Poor misguided Dwight--in this instance.

What you do will boomerang back! It's promised.

And Kandi querying you... yes, I agree w/u here, kinda. Y'all seem to have the type of rapport where she could have long since phoned you to inquire about those items. That may have been done then & there for the cameras. Now, having said that--Kim, chile please, she didn't critique you no worse than NeNe & Lisa or Sheree have. Yet, you're kind to them. Patience for our tormentors is warped. This is part & parcel, slave-mentality.

Dwight has been far more respectful, far more kinder to you than the others--yet he's the one you greased! It may pay off richer---the way NeNe 'n them treat you. Look at what Dwight got going the nice route?

Kim, I close with... there's still something about you I like. I don't know what it is, but you're irresistible! Be well.

debbeey
debbeey

You r the only reason I watch!!ur the "queen" and I would luv 4 u 2 get ur own spin-off,like bethanney did!!!I hope that's in the near future:)I can feel it, please bravo the fans would go crazy!!and 4 the lady w the icecream comment n shoes..kids will b kids sometimes,ik 4 sure kims daughter is not the only 1 2 eat ice cream out of the container..adults do it even more!!lighten up a little

Lakesha Feagin
Lakesha Feagin

As women I must say we all hav strange up n down relations wit our friends its about bn willing to mend n move on an I firmly believe u got tha rite attitude towards u n Nenes friendship an wat she's seekn which is loyality,even though that was bussiness..however think its great u r comfortable enough to b honest n upfront wit ur viewers n fans who will luv u tha same or more ur like my bf I never met I luv u so flyy...

HousewifeJnky1996
HousewifeJnky1996

I absolutely ADORE you Kim. You may be white, but you can hold your own with the sistas !! && I respect you for that !!

hassled hubby
hassled hubby

My wife saw the show at a friends house, and apparently you were wearing a red robe. Now she is in love with said robe, and wants it for our anniversary. Uggg, cant find it online at all. How can I get one for her? I saw that you dont really answer specific questions like this, and I get that you want to keep your autonomy from fans but even if you could reply with an email response that would be really nice. I think she just wants to look hot for me before I leave for Iraq ;)

Dynasty
Dynasty

Wow!, you look so young this season! Nice..

Jess4Uand ME
Jess4Uand ME

I am so glad you brought the issue of friendship again with Nene up. The fact that Kim is now friends with Nene when last season Nene "choked" Kim says one thing to me....Nene didn't choke Kim.

TinaP
TinaP

Kim where did you buy the black leather hat that u wore in season 2. Love love love the hat.

terrilyn
terrilyn

Kim you ROCK!!..you just do your own thing and if people don't like it tough and I love that about you. Kandi is just trying to be a good friend by pointing things out..thats what friends do..sometimes they don't always tell us what we want to hear but what we need to hear. keep up the killer work!

trix
trix

kim, i think you are a hoot! you are very fun to watch and i admire you getting together with ne ne for lunch.....

as a mother of 3, one of my biggest pet peeves is speaking with your mouth full. do you see where i am going with this?

Sheila from Pierz
Sheila from Pierz

Hi, I watch Atlanta housewives all the time. I was just watching the episode you mentioned you only wear your wigs one day maybe two. I have just been diagnosed with breast cancer. I have had a bi lateral mastectomy with reconstruction. I will undergo chemo-starting Oct15. Just preventative but will loose my hair. I thought I should put a positive spin on it with a fun Kim wig. Do you or would you consider donating one of your many wigs to me to wear during this time of stress?

luvlife
luvlife

I didn't see the episode where NeNe tried to strangle you; I know that girlfriends that are friends as long as you have been do fight on and off...All of my friends that I have had for years, although we are all in different parts of the country, still fight on and off. I know that if there was ever a serious issue or was in need of any of them, they would be there for me in a heartbeat. (fighting or not) The arguments I have seen on the show between the two of you looked as if they were pretty mutual as far as who to blame. Kandi seems very sweet, but it seems when there are 3 women, there is always chaos of some sort. I did feel bad about you not wanting NeNe to do the song anymore with you once you had Kandi's help. Sometimes people say really mean things when they are hurt and I think NeNe was really hurt. I know she always wants the best for you and you for her. She reminds me of a really special person to you and you are both lucky to have each other

Chale (Jx-MS)
Chale (Jx-MS)

Kim I love you,too!! Stay true to yourself first and always, no atter what someone thinks. If you follow your heart you can't go wrong, It's the heart. We have no control over the heart. :)

Tammy Kauffman
Tammy Kauffman

Kim,i have a friend like NeNe trust me at the end of the day everyone needs to have fun in life..Never let anything hold you back...Just have to say that you are funny,always makes my night..

Unguilty Pleasure
Unguilty Pleasure

KIM KIM KIM! I like you Kim and I think that you need good friends like Kandi. I've never met you before and you don't know me, but right now I'm going to address you as if you were one of my cousins. Girl what is wrong with you? I understand forgiveness sweetie, that is very important to maintain a working relationship in respect to living peacefully in the same area as your co-stars. HOWEVER! Why are you rolling with someone who choked you and could have very well have taken your life and left your children motherless? I wasn't there and I don't know how she assulted you, but it was bad enough for you to have called the police. I think that you should have pressed charges because now NeNe probably thinks that you're an easy target and she can do whatever she wants to you and get away with it. I mean sincerely, what was all that last season? A publicity stunt or what? What she did was dangerous and I would not continue to put myself out there to be friends with someone who bullies me. That's not the example to set for your babies, just some food for thought.

Sunserae214
Sunserae214

Hey Kim,

I love the drama... You know you were partially trying to cause drama with NeNe and Dwight... He deserved it though and the show loves it!!!! I have been a fan since season 1 and you and NeNe make the show mostly what it is!!! Dallas, TX loves you!!! Dont get your hair pulled this season, it looks better straight.... Keep up the drama cause we love it and you!!!

S. Dallas, TX

Bravoella
Bravoella

You and NeNe are soul mates.

Mercedez
Mercedez

Kim, listen to your FRIEND Khandi. You do need to discipline your children and teach them to respect your authority. Your oldest daughter really should not have placed her shoes on the counter, who does that? and she should not have been eating out of the ice cream container and talking with her mouth full, that was just wrong. Don't get me wrong, you do your thing, but your kids also are a display of your parenting skills, not to say that you don't have any, but kids now a days feel they can do what they want because they cannot be disciplined the way kids were back in the days before the government wanted to tell parents how to discipline their kids. I'm a Taurus too, but my kids know what is right and what is wrong and the not listening, back talking, placing shoes on kitchen counters and eating out of containers does not happen.

AngieBoo
AngieBoo

Kim, to have missed Ne Ne so much, you seem like you would have waited to tell her about the Dwight scandal, until after you two got re acquainted & cleared the air . I think you & Ne Ne deserve each other you both love drama, the only difference is, NeNe doesn't lie, she's just annoying.

Ms. Ask Me
Ms. Ask Me

Kim, You and NeNe should know one another by now with that said you know what type of person she is therefore you should know how to treat her, get along with her, what to tell her, what not to tell her, etc. and visa versa. If you except people for who they are and you like them in spite of their ways; you will know what you have to do to be their friend.

MIZ E
MIZ E

I ACTUALLY LIKE KIM DO NOT ALWAYS AGREE WITH YOU BUT THATS WITH ANY ONE FOR AS THE WHOLE LESBIAN THING WOW!! NO JUDGEMENT CALLS FOR AS THE SHOW KIM JUST BE REAL AND DO NOT LET NO ONE MAKE YOU INTO A PUSHOVER CUZ I LIKE THE ORIGINAL CREW FOR VARIOUS REASONS SO I HOPE THIS SEASON I SEE YOUR WIG LINE AND YOU DO ANOTHER SONG PRODUCED BY KANDI.TARDY FOR THE PARTY WAS HOTTT!!!!! YOUR GIRLS ARE GROWING UP BEAUTIFULLY BUT NO KISSING UGH!!! LOL I HAVE A LIL GIRL MYSELF AN ITS JUST HARD TO SEE THEM GROW UP SO FAST I KNOW IT HAS TO HAPPEN!!!!

Agg town wifey
Agg town wifey

Kim you and nene are the whole show.. i love it soo much.. Will we ever see your real hair, I think you should really switch it up all the other ladies always come back w/ diffrent hair styles and yours is usually the same, I really think you should try something diffrent you would look good in any style,,Try please.. Oh one more thing will your new love intrest make an apparance on the show??? Cant wait to see...

Janee Lacy
Janee Lacy

Kim i just dont know i have to finsih out the show to voice my opinon..Welcome back

Champ-ion
Champ-ion

Thelma and Louise 4 sure! I think Bravo should do a Kim and NeNe show... Of course, Ne will think it's HER show LOL and she doesnt want to be a reality star anymore; but aye... both u ladies milk it! xoxo

Janelle L. Sands
Janelle L. Sands

Kim I met you in the Bahamas and Atlanta airport this Christmas and I just want to say that I was so impressed by how amicable you are. You seem to be a very loving mother and a very loving friend to all those in your life. I appreciate you letting my family cut in the line to board the plane, lol, and I also want to wish you God's best with your career, love life, and family. Be blessed and be a blessing. - J. Sands

lovingtheseason
lovingtheseason

also People get TIRED of that same ole same ole drama....it's ANNOYING no one wants to keep hearing about that so maybe she just got fed up nd had to tell you the truth!

malinka
malinka

i think kim just gives bad advice sometime and is a horrible singer.....

Joesph Taylor
Joesph Taylor

You are my FAVE Kim. Its nice to see you and the ladies getting along. Good for you on exposing that dried up old queen (dwight). I much prefer the getting along then all the "hoodrat" behavior, hope you and the new girls get along. cant wait to see more!!!

Jess4Uand ME
Jess4Uand ME

jnic ...just because the viewer said the wig looked wiggy why is that negative? Kim should take it as constructive criticism. Kim is a "business" woman. She wants to sell her product. She is the best advertisement for her product. If the wig looks artificial...and it did, the Kim should use the tried and true statistical methods. Assume there are more women who think the same and then determine if she wants to course correct. Plus I watched the show and depending on how Kim held her head , there were times when it looked less natural than others. A front shot is less natural than a side shot. But in the previews where Kim has on yellow and she is criticizing the new girl's choice of a husband (convict)...that wig looks more natural.

diva82
diva82

him u are cool but u better watch ur self cause u dont need tha drama so just live happy

jnic
jnic

I like the wig. I thought it came off natural. Kim don't dare pay any attention to the negative wig comments.

Ms. Tara
Ms. Tara

Love Kim, Love Sheree, Love Dwight and will probably love Phaedra before the season is over with! enough said!

ADDICTEDhousewife:)
ADDICTEDhousewife:)

You are a hoot, Kim, always glamorous and fun to follow on the show. Glad you are finally back! So by the accounts of this blog, your love relationship with Poppa is over, but it is a source of intrigue ALL THE TIME.... Therefore, I guess we are to presume that your wig line is financially supporting you and the girls, because Kim, I have to say, it looks like a lot of "big hair" but it also really LOOKS LIKE A BIG WIG :( Your wigs last year did not look so "wiggy".

Lwilson
Lwilson

kim, it looks like in the previews that you and nene get into AGAIN she just likes all the drama and if things dont go her way she gets up in there face. i dont know how you have the energy to be friends with someone you always have to walk on eggshells with

One of the Many
One of the Many

Kim, You and NeNe are simply hilarious! But to be honest, the relationship between you two is so real! What friends don't fight these days? LOL But if i was you, i would've pushed Dwight's butt into telling NeNe about him loaning Greg money. Because at the end of the day things can flip and the blame can be placed on you for you running your mouth. I understand you were being open and honest with NeNe, and who doesn't appreciate honesty? But be careful!

Clt
Clt

Google him. He's no secret.

TracyFan
TracyFan

I LOVE YOU KIM, You look beautiful this season and I respect and can appreciate your honesty. Keep being you

Ms.Tiffany
Ms.Tiffany

Kim, I love you. You and Sheree are my favorite housewives ( you first ) and I think you have a HUGE heart to let Nene in again but that's just how you are. Kandi is a caring friend so don't let anyone tell you otherwise. I can tell she is a little worried about your relationship with Nene. If you are going to be friends with Nene make sure you keep your distance because she will turn on you in a second. Now about this girl on girl action, who cares! Nine out of ten girls have been with a girl and the others think about it. People thinking you are trying to get attention with the magazine interview need to back off. When you're famous people like to make things up about you so good for you for trying to get your story out with facts. It's 2010 girls being with other girls is nothing new. Have fun this season and stay out of trouble ; )

mac 1
mac 1

Kim I love you alway's have, follow your heart on your friendship with NeNe, and stay close to Khandi ( she's a keeper ). Good luck on your hair line, and the new wigs look good on you...

mac 1
mac 1

Phedra don't you have your own blog ?

jsbach5000
jsbach5000

Kim, you have something going for you that i did not see in the first two seasons-- a big heart. you are passionate and wild, but you have heart and i think you have loyalty (in your way). you are bigger than life, same as Nene, so you get in trouble and the unattractive side of your personality comes out. but, you get up and keep trying and this will continue to make you a better person. after all, that is the most any of us can ask of ourselves anyway, right?

Scentsy Candles
Scentsy Candles

Kim, absolutely love "The Real Housewives of Atlanta". You ladies are a lot of fun and I enjoy the show.

Jennifer M.
Jennifer M.

I've always loved the relationship you and Nene have shared when you both got along. However I must say that Kandi seems to be a better fit for you. She seems to be concerned about you as a friend where as Nene is more of a fair-weather kind of friend to you and that just ain't cool anymore.

NCgalLovesDCwives
NCgalLovesDCwives

Kim we love to have you back as well! Thanks for the good blog girlfriend. The fans really appreciate those who take the time to give good insight into the episode! This was a great episode. I loved watching you and NeNe. You are sooo awesome for having her back and supporting her. So big hair, big boobs and big heart! We love it girl! Looking forward to this season like a kid on Christmas eve!

lil ros from B more
lil ros from B more

Hey Kim Luve in this episode keep on being you never let noone change the way you want to live I gotta tell you that I agre with candy about the choking situation with nene but they say friendship is to be charished if it is real but you gotta watch her because you know how often she switch up EVERYBODY but now the shoe is on the other feet with problems

lil ros from B more
lil ros from B more

girl u to funny I love you and your attitude towards things but I got to tell you I am with candy if I would have gotten choked it would have been hard to forgive but they say friendship goes a long way if it is true friendship but you gotta watch your back