Cast Blog: #RHOA

Poppa Problems

Cynthia: It Was Awkward Seeing Phaedra Uncomfortable

Demetria: I Have No Beef with Kenya

NeNe Explains the Wig

Phaedra: I Was Hoping Apollo Wouldn't Create a Scene

Kenya's Not Interested in Roger Bobb

Claudia: "I'm the Samantha of the Group"

Kenya: Cynthia Commanded the Runway

Phaedra: You Don't Often Come Across Hair Burglary

Cynthia: "I Pray We Can Make Peace"

Claudia: I Could Relate to Cynthia's Insecurities

Cynthia's "Non-Conversation" with NeNe

NeNe: The Pit Bull Act is Not a Good Look

Kenya: If It Looks Like a Fraud...

Phaedra: "I Moved Past This Years Ago"

Claudia: I Am Not Asking for Sympathy

GIF Recap: Saltines, Anyone?

Kenya: Why Would Apollo Try to Hurt Phaedra?

Cynthia: "My Heart Went Out to Kenya"

Phaedra: "NeNe Made a Fair Observation"

Claudia on Her Sit-Down With Porsha

GIF Recap: Pushed to the Brink

Cynthia: Porsha's THOT Comment is Too Ridiculous

Kandi: Cynthia Can't Win for Losing

Phaedra: Cynthia's Behavior was Unbecoming

Claudia on NeNe's Thirsty Comment

Don't Insult Kenya's Virtue

GIF Recap: New 'Wife, New Shade

Phaedra on Being "Super Mommy"

Kenya: I've Never Been Anyone's Whore

Cynthia: I Felt a Connection with Claudia

Kandi: I Felt Bad for Kenya

NeNe Talks Zumanity, Apollo's Shocking Reveal

Claudia on Meeting the 'Wives

GIF Recap: She's Baaack...

NeNe: "I was a Rock for Phaedra"

Cynthia on Her Friendship with Kenya

Kandi: I'll Always be Honest with Phaedra

Phaedra: "It was Apparent the Marriage was Over"

Kenya: This is My Season of Redemption

GIF Recap: Oh the Zumanity!

Poppa Problems

Kim discusses the last two episodes and responds to the cheating question on Kandi Koated Nights.


Welcome back! I was traveling last weekend, so I was unable to blog. This week I have A LOT to say. 

Last week: My assistant Sweetie and I went over to Kandi's house (South of the border) so I could guest star on her online "sex show" Kandi Koated Nights. The subject of cheating came up, and I immediately knew Big Poppa was going to be discussed. They insisted that I was cheating, because Big Poppa was legally married. NO! The way I see it, if you are separated and live on opposite sides of the country then there is NO relationship. Also Poppa and I lived together for quite some time so ... THANK YOU!

When Kandi and her daughter Riley were having the talk about Riley's father not being around, it really hit a soft spot with me. For the majority of my girls' lives I've been a single parent. It's hard not having a male figure in your girls' lives, but somehow you manage to get through it, and it has made us stronger.  

Now lets talk about that Mothers day brunch that Cynthia had for everyone.

My daughter Brielle WAS sick. Anyone who thinks I would use Brielle as an excuse and lie about her being sick is crazy! Never would I use my child in such a way. She had a fever and strep throat, end of story! MOVING ON!

I was totally with NeNe when she said the thought of her mom using a dildo would put her in the psychiatric ward. I find that utterly insane! It's an image I would NEVER want to think about. 

When Phaedra was saying she's 6 months pregnant but wants her baby out now, something wasn't adding up and clearly all of the other ladies agree. This week she said her "DOCTOR" is going to induce her at six months ... Are you serious? If you don't know when your having your baby, or who the father is, or when you got "knocked up," just admit you don't know instead of lying.

This week: I went into the studio with Kandi to hear "The Ring Didn't Mean a Thing." Right off the bat I was NOT feeling it. Something wasn't right. When I sang a portion of the track with Kandi, I couldn't believe the way I sounded. Either this is SERIOUS editing, or I really needed vocal lessons. I wasn't happy at all. Then Nene and I had lunch at one of our favorite restaurants, Cinco's, we talked about Gregg and Poppa. Gosh, it seemed as though all I did was talk about Poppa, but we did talk about other things too. Anyhow, I played the song for Nene, and she wasn't feeling it either. SO IT WASN'T JUST ME. You will all see how it plays out in the end though, so dont worry. 

For years I have had storage units filled with items. The bill was getting to be so crazy, that I decided to have a garage sale. I asked my Dad to come and help me negotiate prices for my things ... not give them away! He was driving me insane at the time, but now watching it, it's really funny! I went down to two storage units instead of four.

Did you guys hear my little one (Ariana) say she never thought she and Brielle would be working the streets? She is such a mess. I love it. She always has these great one liners. 

When Nene, Cynthia, Phaedra, and I sat down and talked, Phaedra told us she was going to be induced soon. Now listen ... the other ladies and I are clearly not buying any of this s---. 

1. You don't know when you're due?

2. Your baby is 8 lbs at 6 months?

3. Your doctor is allowing you to have a baby at 6 months?


NeNe had me dying when she said, "Stop saying that out loud so people can hear how crazy you really are." HAHA. Too funny!

Next week's episode is going to be a good one. You all are going to be introduced to someone very special to me.

Until next week,




Demetria: I Have No Beef with Kenya

Demetria McKinney addresses the Roger Bobb situation. When did you and Cynthia originally meet?
Demetria McKinney: Cynthia Bailey and I have been really cool for a couple of years now. We run in similar social circles, and I've always loved her spirit. Did you feel like you and Kenya resolved the issue over her photo with Roger Bobb?
DM: As for me and Kenya…hmm. Just a couple of discrepancies: She didn't know me, but remembered meeting me with Nicci. She has no interest in Roger, but got all gussied up to see him at my event and threw shade galore when he claimed me. OK, girl! LOL! As for the picture, the fact that she was in it wasn't the issue. I've been in a relationship on and off for 8 years, and when the media was loudly connecting him to someone else, I didn't like it. Period. It could've been Strawberry Shortcake, it could've been Whoopi Goldberg. The fact that I was ready to be out about us was the issue. Kenya's picture just happened to be the last straw (speaking of straw, hey NeNe). So, yeah, I have no beef with Kenya. Not worried or bothered, I'm actually looking for opportunities to celebrate each of these women! Was it tough when Roger wasn’t able to make it to your video release party?
DM: My bae, Roger, wasn't able to be there due to WORK! Hallelujah, he is not a kept man! Thank you, Jesus, Roger is a provider not only of what is needed but also a man who will do what has to be done to make his woman's dream come true. We support each other, and if he could've been there, he would've. My heart missed him, my mind knew he missed me. What was your first impression of all the ladies?
DM: My first impressions of the ladies…
Cynthia: Beauty and class doesn't fade
Claudia: She's stupid! LOL!
Kandi: Cool
Phaedra: Wasn't she Bobby Brown's lawyer?
Porsha: ?
Kenya: Bet you won't forget me now! LOL! Were you disappointed that all the ladies left when the video didn’t work? Did you eventually get it to play?
DM: My video didn't play, I was a bit disappointed, but having been in the industry for this long, I know sh-- happens. You roll with the hand given to you, and you learn for the next time. Could the ladies have stayed? Sure. But if they weren't going to offer anything positive, it was probably best that they exited.

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