Please don't talk bad about Kandi unless you pay that broad for her time...You talk smack on the show all the time AND you didn't pay Kandi for her time. I see you aren't noticing that you didn't pay Kandi either - notice that.

Kim, I really loved watching your show up until this season when I noticed you started using the word "retarded" so frequently. Please be aware that many of your viewers, like myself, are parents of children/adults with special needs (Downs Syndrome) and find that word very insensitive, degrading and offensive.I am giving you the benefit of the doubt by assuming you were not aware of the negative conotations behind the word and you were just trying to be "hip" by using the "R" word. I'm trying to protect my child from a society that would label him with that title and you are throwing the "R" word around like it's nothing. All I'm asking is that you please make an effort to refrain from using the "R" word in the future...myself and many other parents would enjoy the show much more without hearing it.

Kim ur all over the place! Enough said!!!!!!!!

I agree with you Viewer53. Kandi is a great person and I'm hoping she will stop working for you Kim, based on friendship. You're acting like you pay her good money to give you her best work, when really ..... "her time didn't mean a thing"...

Kandi has been nothing but patient, helpful, and too kind about your singing skills Kim, so I think you should chill with saying anything bad about her to anyone. Actually, my girl Kandi is starting to look absolutely crazy to keep working hard to make you sound good when...."her time didn't mean a thing"...

I'll bet Lawrence could make that song blow up like Thriller!

Kim, you're acting like you pay Kandi good money as your producer when really her time and hard work..."didn't mean a thing" Kandi tried to be honest, not brutal about your singing skills and she's been nothing but patient and helpful with you. But, again..."her time didn't mean a thing"....

I'll bet Lawrence can make that song blow up like Thriller!

Dear ProudMomma......I have a child with Down's as well......the word 'retarded' doesn't offend me at all. It's just a word. The problem with the world is everyone gets Too Offended.....All The Time!

Our son has Down's, a form of Retardation, and our family LOVES it! He is the star of our world. He surprises us every day, he's magical, he has taken us to places we never knew and met people....great people.....we never would have in our lives if not for our son. We LOVE the Retarded World! He shows us more than we ever could have imagined. Retardation is a plus.....a huge plus....who knew?

If you think the word, retarded, is a negative word then it will offend you always. It doesn't offend us......we are having too much fun. Those that use it in a negative context sound silly to us. We chuckle at them....they know not what they do......give them and Kim a break.

Kandi made you. She turned your voice into gold. If she wants to talk smack about you because she's still annoyed that you didn't pay her or because you were running around talking smack about her (telling Nene and Lawrence you didn't like the song) then let her. Either cut her a check or cut her some slack! LOL

Kim glad you are now finding happiness. But my advice to you is to use the advice you were given my Kandi and get some voice training. Girl your voice is terrible. And tell your friend Sheree the true that is what true friends do. She can't dance. She had a little rhythm but I think you even have more than she after that fiasco with Dancing with the Stars Atlanta. Now Lawrence shocked us brotha man has potential. Good epsoide overall.

Kim, the first two season's I didn't lke you but now, you are LOL funny and I enjoy watching you and your daughters. Good Luck with the new boyfriend.

Kim, here is what you need to really get. Your not a singer. Trust me we all know that you can not sing like Whitney Houston. You need to understand where Kandi is coming from. Its not about you disliking the song but you playing the unfinished work for others. Also if someone is not my artist and didn't properly pay me for the work I did for them before I would have some issues with them as well.

I'm anxious to see you leave the show to be honest. I'm not a fan and I think you never should have been on the show since you weren't married but a mistress.

Hey Kim, I heard your new song 'Google Me' on Watch What Happens Live last night! I have to admit...I LOVE IT! Very catchy! I believe you may have another hit in your hands. You go girl! :)

Kim, I hope you are happy with your new found love but do not burn your bridges with Kandi you may need to cross again. She is a pro and she was a friend. She said the song was not finish. I agree with Nene I do not like the song either, but she is not writing for me. If she was I would hove been a little more appreciative.

You're so much fun to watch. Best to you always. (And stay away from married men. You're much better than that!) :)

Kim - stop bagging on Kandi. She's helped you out with/without pay and you should take her advice. She knows what she's talking about.....

Everytime that I watch the tight ass clip cannot stop laughing!!!!! Love the show and it really meet its purpose... Super etertaining!!! Love it!!! "Do I think he'll call? Duh!! wouldn't you call me?" Every time I think about it cannot stop laughing!!! Lots of love from NJ Kim!!!!!

Totally Agree!!

Thank goodness you have found a REAL man. That BIG POPPA was just an ATM! Now everyone can see you with your man. I think that is much better than everyone just hearing of him. Good Luck with that. On the other hand Girl, you talk soo much crap about everyone on the show! Haven't you learned ne thing yet ? You could be an awesome person on the show if you just thought about who you want to be trustful to and who you really want by your side. Good luck on what you become. Always remember, you can be the bigger person, dust it off and go on with your life... who needs the drama ne way !

Whitney doesn't even sing like Whitney anymore : )

Wow THANK YOU! People just want to be offended! I have a nephew that has Downs, and he has brought nothing but joy to our family! Juat saying the word "retarded" is no offense to our family either! Everybody needs to step back love life and be THANKFUL for everthing they have! Running around and being mad or offended about silly things or words is just not productive! Pick a battle worth fighting! Have a Blessed day!!!!

Kim, i seen that peter put the ring on the wrong finger as well. I dont think a proposal has to be between you and your Man as you put it. Its something that can be shared with your family, friends, and loved ones. I would want my bf to propose to me around my family n loved ones it would make it that much more special. As far as Kandi and your singing situation, you've said things behind her back before you told her too from what i seen on the show. And lets be honest for a sec sweetheart you really cant sing. I think takin voice lesson will give you a little tune. But it seem as tho your in denial about it. You dont take your "craft" seriously, you still smoke when kandi and the lady that gave you voice lesson said you should stop. Like kandi said its something that your just doing for fun. question: has derek j been too busy to do your wigs this season? they dont look as good as they did last season. (im saying that in love) xoxox

Wow Viewer in Raleigh!! Tell us how you really feel! Kim may not be everyone's favorite, but she brings a ton of humor to the show. If she leaves, the show would be a whole lot less interesting. She is not the only "housewife" on this or on the other "Real Housewives" shows that have never been married. Kim is open to a lot of critcism because she has been painfully honest about her relationship with the anonymous Big Poppa and her "mistress" status.

I KNEW IT! When I watched you flirt with Kroy after the dancing I saw a spark and when he came over and gave you his "info", you just glowed! I hope you keep that "glow" for a long time to come. As far as with Kandi, you two bonded so well, she gets you, I believe you two will work things out.

Agreed!

honey, you have no reason to be dogging kandi since has been of amazing help to you, not to mention one of the few on the house that even has half a mind to take you seriously....you need to grow up a little bit, sweetie, if i hear you say OMG!! one more time, are you 12?

Hello kim,i c the ladies try 2 give u a hard time, stay sexy keep your head up. I have my eyes on u!

It seems not only did she say somethings while you back was turned, but you also failed NOT to play the music to others as she says she requested. Both of you were wrong. Live, learn & love.

Kim, I can understand your feelings regarding Kandi, but the whole ordeal seems so remedial, "talking behind my back", etc...I think the two of you should have had a sit down with one another and expressed your feelings so everything could have been clear. Clearly her music is her PASSION, so you hurt her feelings when you went and played the song (as she asked you not to do) for everyone and commented on it, I dont believe she had any malicious intent....Your new boy toy, yay!!! Athletes always have great asses!!!! Congrats

Kim...there are some situations where doctors will induce labor 2 months before the baby is due. One is called preeclampsia. Since you have a nuring degree and all you probably know this, but it's when the mothers blood pressure becomes really high. It poses a risk not only for the mother but also the baby. The doctors will give the mother steriods and magnesium for a few days, to help the baby become a bit stronger before the birth. I won't go any further, because its clear you know what you're talking about. Where did you get your degree from again?

you ned to tell kandi ''sorry'' because she didnt have to do that for you so when you do i will tell people to like you

SORRY, THERE IS NO DEGREE PROGRAM FOR LPN'S AT UCONN ........PERHAPS AT AT A VOCATIONAL SCHOOL. THEY MAY BORROW THE LAB THAT THE RN STUDENTS USE AT UCONN, BUT LPN'S CAN'T EVEN TOUCH AN I.V.

What an awesome attitude! You sound like a wonderful Mom to your son!! Too bad more people in our country aren't as positive as you. Instead, so many people are overly sensitive about soooo many different words! And every time you turn around, a word, which used to be acceptable, has become politically incorrect!

Kim stay with Kandi , she can really hook-up this song. This new producer just doesn't have your vibe.

Kim, you said that you paid Kandi because you didn't want money to come in between you two but you didn't clear up that you paid her only after you saw the show and realized that she had put you on blast. And FYI....Google Me is not a hot song and nor are you though I must admit that I saw you tonight on Watch what happens live and for the first time you looked half way decent. I think it's becasue you had your wig pulled back. It looks much better. That wig is too big and too much and it looks like a wig.

Hey Kim! You say your new mans azz is "all yours"... It is unless some woman who has no problem being the other woman or mistress type comes along and has no problem being #2.

Kim, Pay Kandi already!

Kim drinking tea on WWHL..........Yeah ur preggers!!!!!

I totally agree with you about the Kandi thing Kim, and YAY for Booty Boy!!!

Go Kim! Just heard you on "Watch What Happens". Did you take Kandi's advice? You sound great! Keep going to vocal lessons- I started with lessons and everyone said I was tone deaf, out of pitch, etc- and six years later, I've sung on Broadway and all over the world- it is a craft, lady, and you constantly have to work on it. I think you will be fantastic- just continue with the vocal lessons and the tea!!! :)

But seriously- Kandi is a gem in a world full of aquarium rocks. Work it out. I want only love between my two favorite TV ladies. :)

Omg, how embarrasing..smh

i think that kim is a very pretty woman, but i wonder who she feels she got her looks from the most. her mom or dad? and best of luck with your new song. i feel you have done the right thing, by going with this song. i seems to be a improvement over the ring didn't mean a thing. and good-luck with the new man in your life, i think you have made a good choice.

listen we all know that kim is an idiot. i actually had labor enduced in my six month. and it was very dangerous but it was an emergency. the point the girls are making is clearly pheadra is lying. in those situations they dont plan to enduce labor. kim and pheadra should be best friends on this show. they both are a hot mess

Kim, I'm glad that you have a boyfriend and seem to be happy. Good thing you got off the Big Poppa rollercoster before it was too late.

Hey kim...Congrats on the PREGNANCY! WTF! I think I just heard the money cow moo.

I'm confused. Last night on Andy Cohen's Watch What Happens Live, you stated you are NOT pregnant. However, PEOPLE magazine has you on the cover stating you are indeed pregnant. I understand the approach you took about being exposed before your first tri-mester was up. It's a superstituous thing and I think you were smart to keep your pregnancy a secret until you were stable enough/healthy enough to go on the record with the news. But timing wise, If what I'm assuming is right (What What Happens Live airs LIVE as it claims) then you sold yourself out by divulging this news to PEOPLE magazine before you told the very same network (BRAVO) that helped you get to where you are today. Maybe I'm being a tad dramatic but wouldn't you have maybe increased the network's ratings by spilling the beans on air last night (and in doing so, bringing more exposure to yourself) ? I think you fueled the fire for all those who say reality tv stars let their fame get to their heads. Although I tend to think you keep it real for the most part and you steadily make me laugh with the outlandish things you say, I think you messed this one up! As an avid viewer, I'll think twice before I credit anything you say Live or on the show.

ok confused??? I watched last night when you told Andy Cohen that you were not pregnant by Kroy, yet I read this morning in the Life & Style Magazine that you are pregnant with a full picture of you and Kroy. Not hating but it appears that most of the things you have said you end up retracting or changing. If you are pregnant Congratulations. But really? Oh and I really hope you did pay Kandi her money. She is an amazing talent and the fact that she could turn your song into the HIT it was was a proof to her talent. Pay up. It is the least you could do.

while i have no idea about uconn... i am an lpn and iv therapy is something regularly maintained by lpns... in the state of Indiana the only thing we can not do that rns do is hang blood and iv push meds....

Kim

You need to get a life, get off the show it make's you look like a ASS, you not a house wife yet

Kim

Get off the show, it makes you look like a ASS, plus your not a housewife

Give me a break already.........no doctor would ever recommend taking a baby 2 months early under healthy conditions....The last resort would be to take a child 2 months early......Phaedra got knocked up before she was married....BIG DEAL!!!!! She couldn't keep her story straight, all that matters is that a healthy beautiful child was born!

Good for you!