Kim Zolciak

Kim addresses the fight with NeNe and explains her relationship with Sweetie. 

on Jan 28, 20110

 

I want to apologize to all of you who intended to watch RHOA and got stuck watching the Discovery Channel, because who other than a gorilla gets out there seat and attempts to attack someone?

The tour had been stressful on everyone, tension was rising, buttons were being pushed, but until the no-class moose got on the bus, there was honestly no drama. Sweetie and Kandi had their little tiff, but they moved on. Don Juan and I our own little disagreements, but nothing major. So it was amazing to me how one person can cause so much havoc. 

Lets rewind.

I had been on the bus for about four days when I had decided to invite NeNe to watch me perform at Orlando. I felt because she had so much going on at home with Gregg that a girls' night out in Orlando would be fun. I also wanted her to see that I had worked hard on 'The Ring Didn't Mean a Thing.' Why was I trying to impress someone who has nothing going for herself? 

NeNe had negatively dissed me to Jermaine Dupri on the set of her intern interview for a local news station here in Atlanta. Why? Why did you need to bring up my name? Kim's 32 trying to be a pop star? Yes ma'am, and I am getting paid and having a blast doing it while you're an intern. Some people know they won't get any attention unless they throw in someone else's name. I mean after all that's how she sold her book (I got a whole chapter).

So we get on the bus and head on our way down to Miami for Cynthia's bachelorette weekend and our last performance. I called my good friend Thomas and let him know we were headed his way. I informed him that Don Juan and Sweetie needed rooms as well, since we would be staying at his multi-bedroom estate and he had plenty of room. But NeNe had to open her mouth and say, "Don Juan and Sweetie can't stay!"

What? Did NeNe really think Kandi and I were just going to Kick Don Juan and Sweetie out to a hotel when there was plenty of room for them at Thomas' house? No, NeNe! It doesn't work that way. She started pointing her finger and getting loud, and I was over it. She called my assistant a "slave," and that's when she crossed the line.

546 comments
mena
mena

Hope the new show means you will not be back on Atlanta Housewives. I will probably never ever watch your show can you take Sheree and Kandi with you?

conishkee
conishkee

I’m so glad there was a spot to blog on this particular episode, which I saw just the other day. Good grief, Nene got on my absolute LAST nerves! I felt bad for Kim that she had to be subjected to Nene’s insane (as usual) behavior. Her in-your-face egotistical attitude is too much to deal with; she’s always trying to start some shyt and likes to keep the drama going on and on and on – never knowing when to let it go. She’s not a fun person to be around and she brings everyone around her down. And she thinks she’s all that when it’s the complete opposite because of her nasty, over-the-top bullying and controlling behavior. There is nothing, absolutely nothing I find attractive about Nene. She’s an ugly person inside and out with no class or morals. I mean, who says to “Kim’s” host that she feels sorry for him or is surprised that he knows someone like Kim when after Kim introduced them? Who would carry on that way other than Nene? No one I know. That was a very immature move and she needs to grow the phuck up, ‘cause that wasn’t cute at all! And then to invite Diana only to stick it further to Kim – AT KIM’S FRIEND’S HOME!! Words cannot express how flabbergasted I was at the brazenly disrespectful way in which Nene behaved. I can’t stand her!! Plain and simple, I hope she gets her just dessert one day for the way she hates on everyone else only because she thinks she’s so much better. A rude awakening for her – SHE’S NOT!!

poule wasion
poule wasion

nene is the star of the house wives if nene was not on the show I would not watch it. kim is white trash turned into a house wife.they are always dumping on nene when nene has her mind on her business, stop hating. if your so happy kim why is that you never miss a chance to hate on nene. LEAVE NENE ALONE all of you.

EW
EW

KIM, you are blessed with your husband. Please don't worry about Nene ugly!! no class what so ever GHETOOOOO!!

Viewerdeedee1965
Viewerdeedee1965

Kim... You are truly blessed to have gotten an unbelievable man like Kroy... The eight year difference between you&Kroy is all good. He carries himself so maturely. God bless to you&ur family.. Happy Holidays!!

AnnPF
AnnPF

Kim, When are you going to blog? You know you can have Sweetie type it for you. Come on.... share how you feel about things and how the baby is doing. Love, Ann

MsMa'am
MsMa'am

Kim, I'm an African American female and I honestly believe that NeNe picked on you because she felt that you were a caucasian girl that wouldnt do anything. I don't think she would be crazy enough to put her hands on Sheree, Kandi, or Phaedra because she knows there will be repercussions. Sheree was wrong for pulling your hair as well which again goes back to these women thinking they are making themselves look tough by picking on you, the white girl. I hate that you have to go through this and I really hope you realize what friends really are and distance those that want to belittle, intimidate, and even fight you. There are people that really do LOVE you and you should cling to them. I'm not saying you are perfect, no one is, but everyone on the show has dirty laundry, so while they are all pointing at you for your issues they have fingers, many of them, pointing right back at them. I pray that you will find peace in your life and congrats on the baby boy. Remember you have impressionable children watching you and the show. Teach them the importance and value of true friends as well as how friends are supposed to treat them and when the respect goes, that they should go to if no resolution can be found!!!

God Bless

jacquelines
jacquelines

Congrats on your baby that is coming the way girl! And must i say that you dont nene as a friend not nothing like that and i am being 4 real here! I am on team kim! take care! luv ya! and god bless!

leenda
leenda

Awww, so happy for Kim, she looks so happy and in love.

Cheley-NY
Cheley-NY

LOVE your show Kim...Congrats on your growing family!!

firstlady
firstlady

Kim congrats on the new baby, but you are a gold diger, Big Pappa gone, you went to a womon, now you have a baseball player , you want everything easy or at some else cost , and don't want to work, you really can't sing and a friend you are not

miss wanda
miss wanda

Kim you held your own,i love you girl,NeNe is a idiot,good luck!!!

Tara O.
Tara O.

Kim, I have two advice for you. 1) I think instead of talking to everyone else about how you feel about NeNe, you just need to talk to her personally. That way you can both see where you stand with each other without any other influences if you truly want a friendship.

2) I am a musician and have been for many years. It takes alot of time to train your voice so I think the first woman you spoke to had the right idea. She was tough on you because you have potential. Please do not cut corners when it comes to singing. Even American Idol contestants have to have lots of hours practicing and they go to voice lessons. So please do not cut corners just to have a chance to get your dream come true. I know it has taken me ten years to graduate with a music major degree, but I never gave up and nev er cut corners.

Love, Tara

judysea
judysea

Congrats Kim, read that you are having a boy. A new man; a son and a new home, congrats once again.

M.S
M.S

Kim you should be thanking Kandi and alot more appreciative she is the reason you have your "singing career". Calling Nene a gorilla was so immature, and you act like you're so tough but you really aren't. And how can you blame Nene for making the "slave" comment? You yell at Sweetie every single chance you get, can you not do anything for yourself except light a cigarette?

happilicious
happilicious

Kim, i"m not sure if doing this show is your only way of making money or being in the limelight, but its not worth it at all. why are you even hanging with these women? all they bring to the table is drama drama drama. you dont fit into that circle and they'll never accept who you are esp with all the drama with you guys, the tension will always be there.

there's just no way your can call those women your friends coz friends dont roll like that. you dont need them. keep Kandi coz she's a good person and a good friend. the rest of them are fame-thirsty drama queens making the most of TV time, so really just re-examine your so-called friendships.

OMG..REALLY?!
OMG..REALLY?!

lmao! This is funny on so many different levels. If everything Kandi did for Kim was so low grade, why didnt she just do it for herself from jump? All Kandi did was try and help. That woman has over a decade of musical experience under her belt and has won numerous awards. I'm not saying Kim shouldnt have been paid for her song, but attempting to belittle Kandi for trying to help a friend isn't really proving the point you're trying to make. Neither is making stereotypical statements about a group of people, especially when you're doing the exact same thing you accuse them of.

mooremellow
mooremellow

producers actually get paid upfront for their work...or the fee for beats/songs is discussed before even recording....kandi acted as a friend to a friend...the least kim could do is be fair with the money....and not to forget the little old country man who wrote the song and introduced you to it, i hope he got paid...you would have had no sales without kandi and his song!....because "tightrope"was atrocious!

Debbie Young
Debbie Young

SSSSKIMSSSS You are sooo right on your comment! Kim should profit from her song,she deserves it. I am very happy that you are on the show ( I wouldnt have watched it if you werent on it) and I give you props for always standing up for yourself against alot of jealous women on the show... especially Nene!!!!! What a liar, back stabbing, fake azz giant gorilla. I am happy you are rid of her & she is out of your life!!!!, you are moving forward with your life... new beginnings with your handsome man, your beautiful daughters, and your baby on the way!

Keep on being Kim & keepin it REAL! All of us luv you and are wishing you the best ... take care and B happy g/f!

Debbie Young
Debbie Young

Miss you Much

Hi Kim, I was wondering when your wig line is comming out? I would luv to buy one...they are beautiful! Can you put info. on how to buy your wigs?

I know your baby is comming soon ( yea & God bless) so please let us know ok?

Wishing you & your family all the very best... Debbie Y :)

Valarie Mc
Valarie Mc

Kandi try to help poor Kim but the bottom line she cannot sing, she is very horrible....give up singing....because Kandi and her crew had you sounding the way you do after prefecting it.....so find something else you could be good at.....and be a better roll model for your children....

$$$$KIM$$$$
$$$$KIM$$$$

Kim, the fact is, you helped Kandi with her new lame album and her trifling little tour. You should profit from it. Kandi has decided to sell sex toys, proving her limited worth as a vocalist. She didn't write "Tardy for the Party", she just helped you make it into a recording in a little piss-ant studio. I'm glad you're on the show. It shows how racist black women can be, meanwhile they constantly scream 'racism' for every social infraction that occurs in this country. Nene is the worst. What a liar. What a huge fool. She acts like a gorilla in the mist. Drop her, keep movin' on, and don't look back. You rock and you know it . . . and so does everyone else.

Selena2011
Selena2011

So true Judysea!!!! NeNe is a hypocrit and has no right to say anything about Kim or anyone else for that matter,at least Kim has some class about herself.I love watching the show,but I believe the show would be alot better without the big bully NeNe on it!!! Go Kim!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

somervillegirlboston
somervillegirlboston

Hey Miss Kim, I Just love you on the show, keep doing you girl. Be happy, and your doing a great job with your daughters qtmarie

Throughly rosie
Throughly rosie

Hard to believe NeNe has fans BUT that just goes to prove some people haven't any class. The haters you are hearing from are NeNe and her crew it is a racce thing my dear. You and your assistant talk smack to eachother, or at least you do to your assistant. I know you think it is between you and Sweetie, but think for one minute. It is up for scrutinty by everyone who watches this show OR hears about this show. THink again, okay Kim are you ready? You can not have it both ways. You want everyone to favor you for the way NeNe talks to you and about you but What about the way you talk to Sweetie? Are we not to care also? Sweetie is on the show too, remember..you put her on the show and the lack of respect you two have for each other and YET the same amount of love you two have for each other is also on the menu to be talked about. Like it or not You made people whom had been easing over to your side because NENE is so horible tsarted to slide back to the other side of the gauge. NENE talks too loud and too much about closing your legs to married men, I have resently learned she was doing the dirty with Greeg while he was married and he left his wife for her.

Debbie Young
Debbie Young

Way to tell it Ruby! soooooooooooooo true and finally the FACTS are submitted on Kims blog!

Debbie Young
Debbie Young

OMG! I cannot believe the " Haters" on here supporting NeNe! What are you people thinking? Really? WTH is up with you? Kim is a very nice woman, with a heart of gold... she has been so kind to so many and if you cannot see that, you must be blind in sight.

Kim, please do not pay attention to all the Fakers on this blog!

Luv & God bless

Debbie

barbara miller
barbara miller

mind ur own life and leave everyone else alone .

Judysea
Judysea

Good points Ruby. Nene always made such a big deal out of Kim's fling with big papa, my instincts was turned on. None of the other ladies beat that horse the way Nene does. A wise man once told me that "you can never talk about someone else the only person you talk about is yourself." Calling Kim trash; hooker, mistress, monkey and on and on are all names that could apply to Nene.

Stephanie M
Stephanie M

Your blessing are going to run out if you keep treating a person badly or poorly,not doing the right things.Kept it up with Sweetie,kandi the way that you have,all you blessing are going out of the window.The saiding go,Man plan,God laugh. Careful

Ruby Thompson
Ruby Thompson

Kim,NeNe is always telling you to keep your legs closed to married men but did she tell you when she got with Greg he was still married. She met Greg while working at the club where she worked as a stripper but Greg also worked at the club I wonder what was his job. Married is married and divorced is divorced. A man is married when the minister, judge etc sign the marriage licenses and he stays that way until a judge signs a divorce decree. Do the math, Greg and NeNe's son is about 14 years. Greg divorced his wife (there are 3 or 4 children) about 14 years ago. Could they have been having an affair while Greg was still married to his wife. Like I said a man is married until he get a legal divorce.

Julissa
Julissa

So you told Nene what you had to tell her and she if she didnt like it well to bad tuff shet for her then lol! Nene kinda told you off to so it was best for the both of you to go your seperate ways! Congrats on the baby that is coming your way! So how is your singing career coming along? I like tardy for the party and the ring didnt mean a thing to you. I have it on my ipod and i checked it out on itunes. You and kroy make a cute couple better than big poppa that I do agree! How is sweetie? Tell her i said hi! Much success and god bless!

terra c.
terra c.

You are so goregous pregnant girl!! I watch the show because of you!! Your not affraid to show who you are and people just hate on you... Your the most real out of all the housewives keep it real cant wait for next season!

Akeya
Akeya

Kim is not married its the married man who should set standard.. Some of u fall for a married man when he tell u " my wife and are are gettin a divorce and u love that man, he may even say he seperated... No one no what Mr Rich said to Kim if men with million like KIm, mind ur own busniesss Stop puttin Kim down. If I was the wife It wouldnt be Kim it would be my husband..

Take the speck out of ur eye before u judge anyone .

tell the truth . . .
tell the truth . . .

Really? Kim is not a vocalist? Well, she recorded a song. The song is earning money. She went on tour and sang before audiences. That pretty much makes her a vocalist. Now, who's NOT what they make themselves out to be? Nene! Nene is not a true advocate for victims of domestic violence (in fact, she is violent). Nene is not a broadcast journalist (just a jealous, loud, gossipy accuser). And Sheree! Sheree is not a designer (well, okay, she was for about five minutes). Sheree is not an actress (but somehow she is going to win an Oscar). If you're gonna tell the truth, tell it all, and not just the details about the person you don't like. And be free!

ayalovesjoe
ayalovesjoe

Im Not a Fan of Kim...But what goes around comes back around and Kim you Will get yours For doing Kandi wrong . Oh You Suck Stop Singing

Hasina
Hasina

Kim I do think that you can be over the top, but ole well that is you. How you get your money is your business. I might not agree with it but in the end it's your business. The whole Kandi situation gets on my nerves. She did you a favor and never asked you for anything so why is she getting upset. In the end you're not obligated to give her anything. That's like me buying my friend a lottery ticket and she wins and I get upset. That is exactly what's happening. I think Nene is so out of pocket and she gets on my nerves. She is a horrible person. I hope and pray for your happiness we are all not perfect, but I KNOW YOU HAVE GOOD INTENTIONS AND A GOOD HEART and that's all that matters.

Karen 0408
Karen 0408

Did I see that you gave your daughter a purity ring? I do not understand. Do you know the meaning behind a purity ring? You flaunt that you live by a different set of standards. I do not get the hypocrisy and double standards you are modeling for your children. In some episodes, the viewers see that you have a naked picture of yourself on your wall, and have been involved with a married man for years, and now are pregnant with a baby from another man...(I do not think that I read of you getting married). If your lifestyle is in line with your beliefs, why give your daughter a purity ring? Or were there just girls at school that had been given one, so you bought your daughter one just so she could have a ring too?

Just Saying
Just Saying

I am an independent black woman and regardless of my husband financial situation, I still chose to work. Kim in so many ways disgust me cause she turns to married men or men with money to support herself instead of venturing out and finding a career on her owns. Y'all know that Kim can't sing so I wouldn't even consider that as a true career. I mean lets be honest Kim put your head together and find something legitimate that you are good at instead of searching for men with deep pockets.

Homaira
Homaira

Hey, I just love how you are always so calm and chilled out about things, however NeNe has crossed all lines and boundaries with and you need to move on, PLEASE PLEASE PLEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSSSSEEEEEEEEEE. Now that I see it you are just too good for her. I honestly really liked NeNe until whatever happened AGAIN. So please.

By the way you look SUGA hot with that BELLY of yours. Take care and much love to you.

Cheryl116
Cheryl116

I am not team anyone. I think Nene and Kim share the responsibility for their dysfunctional relationship. After all, birds of a feather. They both need to concentrate on themselves and their families. Kim should really do right by the truest person on this show and that is Kandi.

Patty P
Patty P

Get Real, I agree and couldn't have said it better!!

YoYoViewer
YoYoViewer

nd stop acting like you are major star. Do right by Kandi. If it wasn't for the show, their would be no TARDY FOR THE PARTY, nor, THE RING DIDN'T MEAN A THING.

eve4ever
eve4ever

Kim, I love that you stand up for yourself but everytime Nene gets loud and crazy do not go there with her. She can not argue by herself. Let it go, ingnore her. This will make her insane. Do not write about her do not blog about herand do not tweet about her. When being interviewed do not mention her at all, just let her have it all. Then you will have won.

Lynden
Lynden

I agree, if it wasn't for Kandi, Kim would have nothing. She owes alot to Kandi, but more importantly she stiffed Kandi in her money and that is NOT a friend. Shame on you Kim! Get your act together and pay Kandi and maybe you'll salvage that friendship you crapped on.

chocolatebell
chocolatebell

so true...im glad someone else see this...i do think though that ne-ne is the realest of them all ,, i think kim tried to make the world think that she wasn't, but i feel im a good judge of character....ne-ne fan till the end......

Lady A
Lady A

Kim, I first felt sorry for you. You need to pay Kandi and don't be friends with NeNe. She is a mess and so are you! Good luck with your baby!