So Season 3 has come to an end! I'm happy to have it behind me. I've been hard at work, but I've obviously been on these ladies' mind. There are so many issues I could address over the past few weeks with these ladies, but I choose not to because it's easy to attack and judge! Those of you who have formed an opinion, nothing I say will change that! For those of you who love me, you will continue to do so. These ladies have apparently formed an alliance except for Cynthia who happens to have a brain of her own. I don't have the energy nor do I have the time to stoop to their level of ignorance. I understand that everything about me is under attack, from the color of my polish to the style of my shoes, because I'm a threat! I refuse to follow the leader. I am the leader! I have a take charge attitude so that makes me fierce competition. Life is about changing for the better, becoming the very best, learning from your mistakes and doing it better the next time around. So if I attack back that would make me appear low. I'm a star in the sky so I'll just stay up high because through it all, I'm still standing! Thanks for all the comments, the good and the bad. FYI: Check me out on the new season of Celebrity Apprentice March 6th.
Nene, I love you and I think that your personal issues just got in the way. I know we all go thru personal issues and they either make us or break us. And they also make us do crazy things. I think at times your behavior was uncalled for and not like you. I think you let Kim get to you and it's a shame because you are above that.
I am a true 100% NeNe supporter. I totally agree with you NeNe. The haters need to move over, NeNe is coming up and no one can stand in your way. Do you and be proud. Those other ladies are hating on your success and that's all that's to it! You go NeNe!!!
NeNe, I am a fan of the show and one of yours. I think all the Ladies bring different personalites to the table. When you loose your cool and act out then you have to expect the back lash of that. We all felt compassion for your problems with your marriage but you have to own your mistakes. Your behavior on the bus and at the house was bad to say the least. I can understand how Kim gets under your skin, she is certainly not my favorite Housewife. But, in all things you have to learn self control. Here is wishing you the best for your future in all that you do.
Kim is lazy and narcissistic; Sheree is just narcissistic; Kandi just tells it like it is - no meanness there; Cynthia seems nice enough, but should not marry that dude.
Phaedra has a jealous streak, which is unfortunate because she has intelligence, even if she thinks everyone else is gullible. Phaedra is just full of baloney like no one else and lives on her own planet. I don't know how Apollo stomachs her.
But you are mean with a horrific temper. You are so insanely self centered you eclipse Kim. Which is hard to do. She will inconvenience people; you will ruin events, vacations, festivities. The way you demeaned Sweetie was worse than anything Kim has ever done.
I don't know why criticize others when you and your husband turned your backs on his children. And were you a homewrecker as well?
What I don't understand is why it's okay for you to abuse people but no one is allowed to even look at you crosseyed.
My opinion of Cynthia is lower simply because she puts up with your sheet.
You're not a leader; you're a bully. Big, big, big difference. Learn it.
Whatever!!! There is absolutely no excuse for your rude behavior this season. We viewers understand that this is a hard time for you, but how can we feel for you when you act like a ghetto hoodrat. You say you don't want to be judged. Well don't do to others what you don't want done to yourself. Listen to all the negative comments you made about everyone!!! What gies around comes around. Your only reaping what you sow.
Yes NeNe, YOU ARE A THREAT - and the ONE THAT ATTACKS, and if you don't learn to be civil and control yourself, you are going to find yourself the recipient of an assault and battery charge.
(sorry, your little "spin doctoring" does not work".
You used to be my favorite but this season instead of owning the room, you just sucked all the air out of it and filled it up with negative energy! Constantly attacking and berating everyone! It was sad to watch!God I pray you got your happy back!
You're a star in the sky now? SMDH! Cynthia has brains now according to you while you and Kim ridiculed the friendship contract she asked you to sign and you making goo goo eyes at her husband? What ever NeNe. Cynthia doesn't talk about people and is naive. The other ladies are just calling you out for the person they recognize you to be. Oh.. and great plug for your show. Donald Trump will be making lots of money off you. I will be watching because you do entertain us..whether we like what you do or not. Personally, I'm waiting to see you meet your match and get shut down. And you are by no means a leader.. just a wanna be dictator. and watch who you call a slave..cuz slaves don't get paid.
Very respectfully, I truly believe you are in a stage of denial. You need immediate help for your anger and violence. Some manners classes would also help you.
Please understand being angry and controlling takes a lot of good energy from your mind and body.
I wish you the best,
The rest of the world is finally seeing what some of us have seen since season one. A very selfish, insecure woman who cannot take criticism or self inventory. You are never to blame for any of your behavior and clearly are in need of serious help.
Amazing that Cynthia is standing by you (truly she IS long suffering) given the fact that you also talked behind her back and made fun of her, with Kim no less.
Seek help for your obsession with Kim (sorry Keeem). She seems happy and is enjoying her life--you ought to try doing the same. Keeem is the subject of ALL of your diary sessions and not one comment can be made without a criticism or comparison to her life.
Lastly, the women (cast) likely have turned their backs on your ghetto, over the top overly self obsessed behavior, b/c they just cannot stand it anymore! The clock is ticking on your 15 minutes--you should try and made amends before it's too late.
Sadly we don't see our mistake...only the ones from others and are always quick to judge and be hasty...however your attitude is the worst and just plain out nasty...giving this show a bad rep lately for the aggresivness you show towards kim and others. You can have $1 or $100 million dollars...but if you have no class, manners and morals, what are you?
This is an example of when keeping it real goes wrong. I love you in the 1st season....but now...not so much...sometimes..we need to step away from our friends/teams that hype us up...step outside of ourselves and ask ourselves..do I really like me????? Do I really like how I talk and treat people? I had to do that about 2 years ago...and u know what...I really didn't like me...so I changed...and now...I love who I have become...is a stripping process.. U should try it...because under all that toughness..I know is a lady of substance and class...God Bless
NeNe I really liked you this season up until the last 3 episodes. I thought you were a different person this season than the last but I was wrong. The way you treated Kim and Sweetie was horrible. You should have hopped a flight home instead of causing all that drama. I feel so bad for Kandi having to listen to you on that bus.
"So if I attack back that would make me appear low." GIRL - you cannot be serious. Have you checked your Twitter feed lately?
I don't care what anyone said, I'm glad someone REAL finally stepped up and told kim about herself! And who ever says you're jealous of kim obviously have issues with themselves. I'm team Nene & will remain that way. I look foward to seeing you on The Apprentice, when I heard the news, I was sooooo excited! Keep doing you, no one else can! BLOOP :-)
I believe that NeNe is fabulous!!! All that I can say is that i dont believe the other ladies formed an alliance against her. I do believe NENE needs to learn how to steap back from the situation and look within. If you dont want drama put your teeth together!!! plus these ladies seem like they are around each other a lot and that can also cause tension
Nene needs therapy. I think she is outsourcing all her emotions on other people and she is not going to do anything but create enemies. If so many people are against you then maybe you really need to take a look at yourself.
I will always be a fan! Yes we all have moments we are not proud of including you. But overall I enjoy watching you on TV and will continue to watch you on the Apprentice. Continue rising with your career. Best wishes.
Nene are you serious..."So if I attack back that would make me appear low." If you attack back? I was embarrassed for you on that bus scene as well as the stay at Kim's friends house. You made yourself appear low with that one. Cynthia does have a mind of her own, but weren't you the one clowning her about the friend contract with Kim. I understand how it is when you want to take the high road in things, but don't forget why you are taking that high road to begin with. Had you not shown your a$$ on this season there would be no need for your remarks above. I hope you and Gregg work things out or move on peacefully to start your lives over again. Just keep it real next time and accept your part in things instead of making excuses for your actions on the show.
i do not believe that they have formed a pack!!! what is clear is that all the stress is begining to weight on nene and she has begun to lash out!!! stay prayer-full and let god handle it boo!!! bloop!!! bloop!!! love ya NENE
HEY BABES, YOUR ACTIONS SPOKE LOUDER THAN YOUR WORDS THIS SEASON. NENE WE LOVE YOU DEARLY, BUT YOU OBVIOUSLY TOOK US ON A EMOTIONAL ROLLER COASTER THIS SEASON. NOW I DO AND WILL ALWAYS LOVE YOU BUT LIKE I SAID EARLIER YOUR ACTIONS SPOKE LOUDER THAN WORDS. NO ONE HAS FORMED AN ALLIANCE AGAINST YOU. YOU CHOSE THE PATH TO WALK, YOU CHOSE THE WORDS TO SPEAK, AND YOU CHOSE THE ACTIONS TO DISPLAY. WE ALL MAKE MISTAKES, WHAT WE AS PEOPLE NEED TO LEARN IS TO OWN UP TO THOSE MISTAKES AND MOVE FORWARD. AS FAR AS THE KIM & SWEETIE SITUATUION AS USUAL YOU TOOK IT TO FAR. GIVE OFF THE SAME RESPECT THAT YOU DEMAND. KIM REALLY OPENED HER HEART TO YOU AND WAS GENUWINLY WANTING TO BE THERE FOR YOU IN THE TIME OF NEED WITH THAT GREGG BULL. TRY CLOSING YOU MOUTH SOMETIMES AND OPENING YOUR EARS. THEN MAYBE PEPS WILL HAVE MORE POSITIVE TO SAY ABOUT YOU.
NeNe, I hope that this season helps mold you into a better woman. This season has shown a more unattractive side of you so I'm not going to attack either. I hope that you're able to take the off season to reflect, grow, change and learn what true friendship is really all about. Cynthia tried hard to be a good friend to you and she got less in return. That needs to be addressed for real! This season of the Housewives really gave African American women like myself a magnifying glass look into why we have so much trouble empowering, accepting and loving one another. Best wishes to you and Gregg.
It's almost laughable that you feel that you're under attack. You the person who made fun of Cynthia when she was genuinely trying to break the ice between you and Peter. You who called Sweetie a slave. You, who talks about everybody behind their backs. You, who can dish it out but can't take it. You treated Kim like crap and couldn't stand the fact that Kim stepped back to you. I AM SO PROUD OF KIM. I can't believe that you had gall to invite your friend to Kim's friend house when you were at odds with Kim. Then your friend was just as classless as you, she showed up and took an attitude towards Kim just because you were upset with her. I have yet to hear anyone say that it was so kind of Kim's friend to invite all of you to his home and treat you like royalty.
A word from the wise. Sure, things seemed to be opening up for you and a lot of great things could come your way. Always remember karma is a bit@h! It doesn't matter what comes your way, you will not be able to keep fame and fortune because of the way you treat people. Why can't you put the airs down, adjust your attitude, become a true friend to somebody (anybody) and be nice and respectful to the people around you. It's free, it will not cost you a dime to be a better you.
I always say if your not talked about your not important!!Kim and sheer are still in highschool!!It's time for shree to act her age and get over herself!!keep your head up you are a strong person!! Team nene all the way!!
NeNe, there have been plenty of times where I've really enjoyed your wit. But so much of this season it looked like you thought you were above everyone else, and that is NEVER attractive. You are not above everyone else. And unless you're perfect (which no one is) you shouldn't be judging or looking down on others. Learn a little humility.
I certainly don't agree with everything Kim does. She tends to annoy me at times. However, your fight with her, your attitude surrounding the fight was disgusting. On the bus, you repeatedly made comments about how Kim was trash, yet she wasn't the one getting up out of her chair to physically attack someone. You did that. In my opinion, that's pretty damn trashy.
Also, who cares if Kim can't sing???? If she's your friend you support her and don't talk trash about her in interviews to anyone who will listen.
Learning from mistakes includes admitting when you are wrong-what the heck happened that made you so bitter towards Kim -and what makes you think you are so much better than Kim and everyone else?
I have been a been a fanof Nene and Greg since the show began. To see them just give up on each other saddens me. There aren't to many African American that survive the test and times of marriage. I was blessed to have been married for 30 years and I lost my husband may of this year. I'm lonely with hime being gone and you guys are lonely in the same house. All I can say is Greg. If you can work it out with Nene, try Me-Me.
Hi NeNe, You have an awesome personality and you can be my friend anytime. I wish you always the very best in life and keep walking into rooms and owning them. BOOP! I say your sayings all the time. Life is a blessing do not let the other ladies or fans ruin your day. Wonder how their own lives are. BOOP! Luv ya, MOM FAN
If only your actions reflected the lies you spew. You spend so much time and energy worrying and being jealous about Kim. If you didn't care or you were above it, you wouldn't waste your time or energy attacking her verbally or physically. You need help go get it.
I dont know. I do think that Kim does treat Sweetie alittle poorly, and I'm glad you said something about it to her. I do have to agree with the other ladies on the show, it seemed that you did kind of put a damper on the whole weekend. I was surprised at the amount of tension between you and the other cast members. I figured you and Sheree were going to have a blowup sooner or later(Season 1 was my favorite!). Earlier this season You guys all seemed like you got along fine.You should come back for season 4! You guys are the best housewives along with New York. Your a really funny lady and don't get down on what other people say about you. Good luck on the celebrity apprentice, I'll be watching.
Nene nene nene. your true color came out. but i hope you can heal yourself and be a better person. It is never your fault but everybody else. good luck any way. we'll see if you act better on Celebrity Apprentice
I love it NeNe! Do your thing. I feel as though you were attacked a lot and no one but Cynthia understood what you were going through! My heart and my best wishes goes out to you. I hope u decide not to leave the show because I only watch to see what u will do this week. You keep it 100 all the time without you it will be just a bunch of fake women with to much make-up on. Will Tweet you soon and I wish you the best in what you choose to do!
NeNe, I love your attitude.
truth be told, you are the only one who tells it as it is and they are just mad because you are right. They know your words are correct and yet they wont admit that, hmmm. maybe NeNe has a point. Phaedra? Yes, I don't listen to her because it is apparent that she tried to "lawyer" her way out (see pregnancy & being honest about playing house before marriage). Khandi, even to the end when she confronted Kim about her antics, she tried to enter discussions the "nice" way and still the matters with her are unresolved. Kim is lazy. Talented? No but she feels like she is on a higher standing than Khandi. Sorry to say to Sweetie, but she is a slave. And Sweetie, dont talk to Khandi like that. You are not her boss. She is not someone you talk down to to prove your keep with Kim. Sheree.. funny one. after two seasons of trying to be someone she is not. She reminds me of the Terri Garr character in TOOTSIE. In the first scene and never to be heard from again. She really is trying to be like you. They all are. Cynthia. well, the poor thing had enough on her plate and she was good to you & to all. Too bad they are just as guilty as beating her down as they accuse you of doing.
Just because you say it doesn't make it so. You are NOT a leader, nor do you have a take charge attitude. YOU ARE A BULLY! You are mean and hateful. Kim is not perfect, but you are the one that is wrong in this situation. You judge people and are hostile towards anyone that is not on "team Nene". You are not bettering yourself. You are making excuses for yourself. Please open your eyes and your heart.
Nene, You seem to have let a little bit of celebrity go to your head and over-inflate your ego. You are more delusional than Camille.
First of all I have enjoyed you from season one and two. I was thrilled to see you and Kim become friends again and it is so sad you two couldn't talk your problems out like adults instead of yelling and name calling . Of course she was hurt you mentioned her name during your interview and yes you were mad when she said you were and intern. At the end of the day its all water under the bridge. I believe you over reacted BIG time. I am not a fan of Kim but to allow someone to get you that upset is scary . Kim family adores you especially her girls . Its not worth the arguing. At the end of the day you both were out of line . I dont believe as Kim stated that you are jealous of her but do agree that if you weren't going to support her, why agree to go to Miami on the tour bus. Best of luck to you.
Very well said and put. Nene we all make mistakes and TRUST ~n~ BELIEVE just like the bible says "There is no one perfect NO not one". I love the person you are and I refuse to judge anyone of you. You have a life of your own and how you chose to live it is up to you. You my girl, keep doin your thing and STAND TALL. Determination boo boo. Love always, Dana
Nene why all the haters? I have loved watching your strength. I will never forget the talk you had with your son(I cried)and being a better man. You finding your worth at the time of seperation was another moment which was touching.
Although what I did find (or at least what was edited) was a disrespect for the owner of the house in Miami I do hope that you did apologise privately. As you strike me as a woman who wouldn't tolerate that treatment as well as an additional guest in your home.
Ne Ne please take a look at how u have been behaving. I miss the old Ne Ne and stop blaming others for your horrible behavior. You were rude and childish last season and I hope that you see the error of your ways and began changing them. WIthout your fans your star will not continue to rise it will fall and fall quickly and before u knkow it your fifteen minutes of fame will be over. Eat a piece of humble pie and work on your attitude and learn to stay out of people faces when your angry before you run up on the wrong one and get your feelings and face hurt
I Love Nee Nee, you are the reason I still watch the show. I know you are under tremendous stress with family problems but the fight with Kim was silly and you were not poised at all. Then you went on Watch What Happens Live still bringing up her name and blaming her for everything like you were in high school I hated seeing that, your behaviour at Kim's friend house was embarrassing. And I think you are so better than that. I always felt that you could stand on your own, you made your own name because of your outgoing personality, but this last season got the better of you, and I hope you can rise above all the cattiness. I know we need some Nee Nee sass, but that was childish rantings. Please bring back the Nee Nee I fell in love with.
I love you Nene...Don't let none of them haters get to you girl..They all are jealous of you, because you a beautiful black strong women and you handle yours and speak your mind as you should and don't allow people to run over you and treat you like ish... Keep doing you girl and move on... basically they wasn't real friends!