Phaedra Parks

Phaedra says she and Kim have moved past their fight and wishes everyone a happy holiday.

on Dec 22, 20100

Hello everyone! I hope your holiday season has been full of joy! Last week's episode was highly anticipated -- everyone loves to see a good catfight. However, I am not going to focus on the episode, because I live in the present and that fight is in the past. The one thing I will say is I am like most mothers, I am protective of my son and he is off limits. I have no hard feelings towards Kim. I actually think she is a very feisty woman with a whole lot of spunk, which often reminds me of myself. I wish her the best with her pregnancy and pray that she has a healthy and happy baby. Life is too short to be angry or petty. 

My last blog was the week of Thanksgiving and now Christmas is just a few days away. Like most of you, I am in the full swing of the holidays: cooking, cleaning, shopping, decorating and trying to make everything perfect! It is amazing how time flies when you are having fun. It seems like just yesterday I was preparing to give birth to my son. Now six months later, he has five teeth and is attempting to crawl. I look at him in amazement everyday. I thank God for blessing me and my husband with such a wonderful baby. This will be his first Christmas. Even though he is too young to be aware of all the hoopla that comes with the holidays, this will be our year to develop a tradition with him. My thoughts are to donate some of his gifts to the Atlanta Children's Shelter so that children less fortunate than him will enjoy the true spirit of Christmas: giving and sharing. Many of us forget that Christmas is the celebration of the birth of Christ, who gave the ultimate gift to Christians: the possibility of eternal life. Helen Keller once said, "The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched. They must be felt with the heart." May you and your loved ones experience heartfelt moments today and always. Happy Holidays and Happy New Year! 

192 comments
tommy2010
tommy2010

Phaedra, all the housewifes made comments about your husband but the only person you seem to have an issue with is NeNe. You seem to think you are better than every one else. Who the hell care if you went to the same high school as NeNe she said she did not know you in high school, what is your problem. NeNe's age is none of any one's business, making comment I heard she was older. How old are you ?

barbara walker
barbara walker

hello ms. Phaedra the southern belle that you really are! actually you are the first lady of the Atlanta house wives. congrats to you and your family on your new son, he looks just like Apollo, i watch you every week as one women to another i love the way you carry yourself and handle situation even love the way you and your mom say unn hunnnn even my girls love it!!!

p.s stay strong and be blessed love ms. Barbara walker from Howard University Campus Police Department

julie281103
julie281103

You are my new favorite housewife!!! You are a genuine person. Also, you just say it like it is. I like how you resolve issues without getting all " GHETTO" I think you are the only housewife that keeps her cool. And yes your son is very beautiful. Good luck to you and your family.

Julie Lopez West Springfield, Massachusetts

angela seabrooks
angela seabrooks

Phadera i love the part you play you are 100% women, congratulations on a beautiful baby boy and a ,delightful delicious looking husband! i wish i could walk a mile in your shoes you go girl.

marshmillion
marshmillion

You Go P You have them talking about you. Good luck with your beauyiful Baby Boy and Handsome husband.

kinda growing on me
kinda growing on me

your kind of growing on me! it wasn't that i didn't like you before i just was't to sure about you! but i do think you need to watch what dwight tells you because he is quite messy! i think he might be a little mad that HE is not a featured housewife! lol best of luck!

patricia123
patricia123

Dwight feeds on insecure women who need someone to buy into their delusions of grandiosity. Royalty? I think not...

Phaedra is a......
Phaedra is a......

Phaedra is fake. She isn't a real southern belle because she talks about male strippers's private areas. She is also fake because she is a huge liar she couldn't just say how far along she was, when everyone already knew she was lying. She I'd a racist always talking about white households, and how they seem to be inferior to black households. My guess is that she doesn't know many white people and the ones she does know (Like her husband) come from a bad place, and go to jail. She is not perfect like she pretends to be. Get real Phaedra and get over yourself!!! I hope your not on next season. Xoxo

Nykole
Nykole

I really dislike Phaedra. She acts like a southern belle. But she is really mean and a racist. She talks about white households all the time. And how they don't know about fine dining and only eat out of cans. I hope Andy brings this up at the reunion.

CharNae
CharNae

I have watched the show and simply love doing so. I look forward to seeing the remainder of this season's presentation. Enjoy motherhood! It becomes you beautifully!

CharNae
CharNae

Oh Phaedra, Your entrance with your husband and baby was simply magnificent. You look gorgeous! The family unit looked gorgeous! The buffet was laid out and looked scrumptious! Keep moving forward, enjoy your life to the fullest extent, and know that God has blessed your family tremendously.

CDUB1979
CDUB1979

yeah....I caught the same thing..I was wondering about that. I actually believed that Kim could have been an LVN/LPN (especially when she noticed how RIDICULOUS it was for Phaedra to imply that her OB/GYN would actually induce her at 7 months!! why would an MD put himself at that type of liability if the child or mother wasn't in distress)... until she doubled back and said that she was a Registered Nurse instead....Being a Nurse Practitioner myself, I know the salary in this profession and if I could become a socialite driving a bently....HA!! I'd do the same damn thing!!! I'd be like the hell with nursing!

Aloha808
Aloha808

I enjoyed it when you called Kim out at the spa!

supertami
supertami

I looked Kims degree up online, she is a LPN. Previously she said she was a LPN, than during your fight she said she was a RN. I am a LPN and will finish college next quarter with my RN, it is a BIG difference. She was not truthful.

Crecia
Crecia

I agree completely with LuvMyself7. Phaedra not only doesn't have any common sense she looks down on white people...Wonder what her Preacher Mother thought about the comments shemade about the white race not eating fine foods! Also, the comment that stated everyone has someone in their family that has been to prison...excuse me, I have no one in my family that has ever been to prison.

Jeff's New Jetta
Jeff's New Jetta

"Everyone has a family member that has gone to prison"?!

Speak for yourself, dearie.

laurenElle
laurenElle

im happy for her and the new baby but sometimes things dont add up..\

DCP
DCP

No, a pregnancy is actually closer to 9 months. 40 weeks is full term, BUT they sstart counting from the first day of your last period. You don't actually get pregnant until you ovulate which varies from woman to woman but averages around 14 days, or 2 weeks, after the first day of your last period. So, when you actually get pregnant at the 2-week mark. When you're at the 4-week mark, you've actually been pregnant for only 2 weeks. At 40 weeks, you've been pregnant for 38 weeks. And most months are actually longer than 4 weeks. February is the only month that is exactly 4 weeks in length. So, yes, women are pregnant for 9 calendar months.

LuvMyself7
LuvMyself7

Phaedra decided to put her life on Bravo for everyone to disect it! She may be book smart but she has no common sense! All those ignorant comments she makes, really makes her parents look like they did not raise her properly. Especially if she grew up in the church! The only reason why people on the show are talking about her husband being a convict is because of her behavior. How in the world does she feel like she can belittle anyone when her own home is in question because of the decisions she has made, the lies she has told HERSELF, and the way she thinks she is better than everyone else. Her having a degree does not show her talent or how many cases she has won or how many times she has been in a court litigating.

Big Mama
Big Mama

I didn't like the statement that Phaedra made about being in the hood at the hospital. I agree that she should treat her husband better than she does. He seems like a really sweet person and the baby is as cute as a button. As a attorney you should be careful about the behavior on the show or people will not want you to represent them.

dtarver
dtarver

Who really cares.... Anyone with a life has no time to disect anyone else's. Phedra is a very intelligent young woman, who has a life and is handling her business. Really, did it matter how far along she was in her pregnancy? She didn't ask anyone to help her take care of her baby or hold her hand. Who cares if her husband went to prison? Everyone has a family member that has gone to prison. I like Phedra because she tells you whatever comes to her head whether it makes sense or not and for those who have no life, you find time to disect every word that comes out of her mouth. That's the difference between people with a life and those that merely exist. You all need to think, Phedra makes the game and the dummies play it. All the while in constant chatter, when they could be handling their own problems. And for the record, I am not a family member but someone who uses my brain. Kinda like Phedra.

TOMHATER
TOMHATER

Phaedra PLEAS!!!!!!!! DONT NOBODY LIKE YOU. BRAVO MORE THAN LIKELY WONT ASK YOU BACK. This is probably all post from your family and friends and yourself.

Loyal Fan 601
Loyal Fan 601

IN KIM'S DEFENSE AND ALL THE OTHER LADIES,YOU WERE THE ONE LYING ABOUT HOW FAR ALONG YOU WERE AND HOW MUCH THE BABY WEIGHED. IF YOU HAD JUST BEEN HONEST OR EXPRESSED THE DESIRE TO NOT TALK ABOUT IT FROM THE JUMP,IT WOULDN'T HAVE BEEN SUCH A HOT TOPIC. AND YOU PARADE AROUND PROFESSING TO BE A "SOUTHERN BELLE" WHEN YOU ARE ANYTHING BUT. YOU ARE THE PERFECT EXAMPLE OF SOMEONE WHO HAS ALL BOOK SENSE AND NO COMMON SENSE. YOU ARE NO BETTER THAN ANYBODY ELSE. AND WHAT ABOUT THAT MESS YOU TOLD KANDI ABOUT CYNTHIA POPPING HER NECK AND CONFRONTING YOU WHEN THAT'S NOT WHAT HAPPENED AT ALL!!! I SEE WHY YOU AND WILLIE WONKA ARE FRIENDS,YOU GUYS ARE A MESSY MATCH MADE IN HEAVEN!!

truesouthernbelle
truesouthernbelle

I think you have serious issues. First, apparently you think that everyone who watches the show is dumb and can't figure out that your must not be your babies daddy. And secondly, it seems to me you don't like white people. I mean anytime your husband does something you don't like you blame it on his upbringing by a whilte family. Sweetie I have lots of black friends and I have seen lots of canned meat in there kitchen. I didn't know it was ok to blame the color of someones skin as to the way they act. If that is how it works then I would just assume all black women are as silly as you. Thankfully I know that isn't true.

KD*
KD*

Phaedra do your thing hunnie, you aren't any worse than the next one 1st off. We all have our ways, but I find you very interesting. Its funny to me how "southern bellish" you are, I am not like that for sure, but its refreshing in a way. I like all the housewives actually, everyone is different in one way or another, and that sounds just like each person we encounter in our everyday lives!

Texas Gal
Texas Gal

Although I don't often watch the show, I saw the Christmas photo of you, your husband, and beautiful little baby. WHAT an angel he is!! Congratulations on his birth! He's beautiful, enjoy your fabulous life as mommy to your little boy!

val c
val c

Its not 7lbs and 23oz its 8lbs and 7oz hunny.get ur lbs straight

cleanfreak
cleanfreak

I think you are a refreshing touch to the show, you're funny and you're honest! You really made me laugh watching you in labor! What a riot!

pasha
pasha

Dear Miss Phaedra, Your story line made the show interesting. I could not take any more of Nene and her problems with Gregg.

Ms.Tesha
Ms.Tesha

Phaedra is full of Phaedra the lord giveth and the lord taketh away humble yourself and dont trust Dewight messy behind.

TiffBow
TiffBow

Phaedra, you are too funny...I think instead of the girls attacking you with "OMG she doesnt know how far along she is" they should have taken into consideration the fact that you hadnt been thru this thing called pregnancy and it is different for every mother...i never thought you cheated on your hubby and had a baby by accident...i just thought that you were igornant of the thing called motherhood...but every mother is different and I am sure you will be just fine.

thats different...
thats different...

RE: I RESPECT WHAT IT IS YOU DO.....AAAAMEN ..AND THANK YOU! VERY WELL SAID! THEY ARE ONLY HARPING ON THIS BECAUSE THAT IS AAAAAAAALLLLLL THEY CAN SAY!...I TOTALY ADMIRE PHADRA..EXCEPT THE COMMENT ABOUT THE MALE STRIPPER..KEEP THAT STUFF TO YOURSELF HONEY..YOU A FREEK IN BED BE THAT WITH YOUR HUSBAND BUT DONT SHARE THAT WITH THESE WOMEN OR THE PUBLIC FOR THAT MATTER BECAUSE THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SOMETHING TO DECLASS YOU...KEEP IT CLASSY!

thats different...
thats different...

ok..ill say it for her....what phadra wanted to say IT IS NON OF YOUR DARN..BUSINESS..pERIOD!!!...AND MARRYING SOMEONE WITH A FELONY DONT MAKE YOU CLASSLESS...EVERYONE WATCHING AND JUDGING...REALY NON OF US CAN TALK..WE ARE WATCHING AND FEEDING OFF THE SHOW...YEAH YOU KNOW YOU COULDNT WAIT TO SIT IN FRONT OF THE TELE..MHMMM!..LEAVE PHADRA BE...AS LONG AS YOUR HUSBAND LOVE YOU PHADRA...YOU STR8..THEY HATEN!

Keyuana
Keyuana

Phaedra you are the DIVA of the show I am so loving you and your family the other ladies I think some are messy and Jealous keep up the classy ways and God Bless you!

Keyuana
Keyuana

I second that Phaedra is the DIVA of the show!

Monica
Monica

I totally Agree, My Kids ARE OFF LIMITS ! U have to Correct that Ish INSTANTLY, When some1 comes off , Ill..lol Have a good 1,

Katlyn
Katlyn

Phaedra, girl you know you got to much class to be on this show. Bravo just need A reality show with just you and your family because you and your mother together is too funny. Oh! maybe you can add Dwight for a little humor.

You got Class!

BRAVO, WE WANT A PHAEDRA SHOW!!!!

Mel1961
Mel1961

Okay everybody there are 52 weeks to a year. If you divide 52 by 4 you get 13. So 13 weeks equals 3 months. So 9 month's & 1 week would equal 40 weeks. Think about it - every month has a few extra day's which add up to the 13th week every third month. Hope that clear's that up for you all.

Hair 66
Hair 66

I watch Housewives of Atlanta because I like the show I also like to see woman who are be independent along with taking care of their families. But one thing has stuck out to me in the show. The comments that are made about Hair in general. Yes Kim wears wigs. Just about everyone else on the show wears pieces, wigs, weaves etc . But Kim gets picked on because she wears a wig. I have Alopecia, and if wasn't for wigs. I I don't know what I would do. Why does that comment keep coming up about wigs???

Meekaxoxo
Meekaxoxo

I watched the show , all I’m saying is don't get poop out of someone else yard if yours if full of poop... Phaedra, you were completely overboard! I know lots of women who has class and who are independent however, your not going to sit in my face and just act like you are the only one with Brains and common sense... Had you just said how many months you were when they asked, it would not have put so much attention on the fact that she got pregnant prior to being married. She should have just said "9 Months", I guarantee you that they would have moved past the subject quickly! Now, I would have been just as offended If I were one of the girls, that Phaedra would have not gave me credit for being able to figure out that unless a baby is in a critical state "no doctor would just snatch it out because you are uncomfortable"! I have three daughters, and I almost died before they decided to give me an emergency c-section... my doctor told me that the baby is in the safest environment when inside of the mother... so all I’m saying is "stop lying because your a grown woman" and most people who act like they are perfect end up bursting the doors off the closet because It's so full of Bones! Girl just admit that you were doing the "booty" before you got married and def if you were sooooooo classy you would not have married a guy with a felony... "I'm just saying" at least keep it real with YOURSELF!

Georgia Peach
Georgia Peach

Phaedra, I am glad someoone beside Cynthina and Kandi have a real career. Peace Georgia Peach