Sheree Whitfield

Sheree shares her thoughts about the date with the doctor. 

on Nov 2, 20100

 

I want to apologize for not being able to blog last week. I am just now getting over a very ugly cold! I feel much better. I also want to thank all of you for the comments, good, bad, or ugly ... I appreciate them. 

Going to Tye's seminar on last week's show was cool. It was a panel of a combination of single and married men speaking on relationships. I absolutely love to hear other people's views and perspectives on love and relationships, so I was all for going. He then announces that he has some special guest speakers, so I'm like, "Ooh yeah, more opinions and views!" Again, I love this stuff! I then hear my name! Boy was I not expecting that. While I am not so comfortable with public speaking, it was kind of fun.  

It appears that I missed quite the baby shower!  

Okay, on to this week!

Oh no, not "beef curtains." Where does she come up with this stuff?  

Phaedra, Apollo, and that pickle ... speechless, again! I think it was a unique idea, but it didn't come across so cute on TV! I think Phaedra is cool, but that just wasn't right. It did however make me go out and buy a jar of pickles. OMG, I have not had a pickle in probably 20 years. I also learned that they have zero calories, yum.

The Mothers' Day brunch was very nice. It was a chance for us girls to get together and celebrate a beautiful day ... one that should be celebrated 365 days a year.  

The discussions at the table were pretty funny. I have always been told that my facial expressions are hilarious. I don't even know when I'm doing them, so that can get me in trouble sometimes! They are a dead give away as to what I'm really thinking. Mental note: Learn to control facial expressions!

155 comments
Tonya Wilson
Tonya Wilson

Dr.Tiy-e, Is not a doctor at all, if you look on his website it gives the following information for where he got his PH.D: Ashwood University, Non-APA Accredited Program 1998-1999. Ph.D. (May, 1999) - Counseling Psychology. Now on the show he said Ashford University, which is a great college, but Ashwood University is what is called a stage school. A stage school is a that has a name similar to a highly accredited school but has no or very low accreditation. Ashwood University (the school Dr. Tiy-e went to) sells degrees has no class, they based the degrees on life experiences. These degrees are not recognized in the United States, Dateline has done specials on this and someone was able to buy a masters degree for $445. To be qualified as a psychologist you must attend a recognized accredited school and get documented therapy hours. Psych programs are very intense and he clearly could not handle this program so decided to buy one.

Keith "sugar Bear"Davis
Keith "sugar Bear"Davis

Sheree, I liked what I saw on Watch What Happens Live TV last night 12/6/2010, just caught the tail end of the show. I wish that my phone call would have got through to tell you that you looked really good.

julissa
julissa

When I saw that episode with the pickle and everything I was also thinking like you lol! I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you and the doctor u 2 seemed really cute together. Good luck next time. I love your new ride. take care

Gwen B
Gwen B

Sheree, I watch each week to see the train wreck. Except for Kandi, the rest of the cast seem to be okay with putting out an image of themselves that is less than the classy ladies I am sure you all are in real life. A small tip, if you behave like a quality person, it makes it easier to attract quality people to your life. Money is a requirement to pay for our basic needs, but it is not a requirement in determining our character.

Princess in Chicago
Princess in Chicago

GIRL YOU BETTER SAY THAT!!! YOU ARE TELLING THE ABSOLUTE 100% TRUTH! "DR" Phony has never tried to put her at ease or make her feel "special", like MOST men do (broke or not) upon first meeting a woman. He is such a LOSER..

ga_girl
ga_girl

I was very offended by the fact that your "friends" were so eager to try and call out the doctor. They didn't have a problem trying to expose hime, how how about exposing your short comings. I was very offended by the fact that tried to imply that because he said he obtained his degree online, that made him a phony. I beg to differ. Do you know how many people get their degrees online today. The problem is not whether you get it online or not, its whether the program is accredited and whether or not it is recognized or accepted in the state you want to practice. That I do know the Dr. was not lying about. Please tell NeNe that its more than those "sitting in a class." I am not saying don't check him out, but please don't base your decisions on the small minded views of your fellow house wife friends. Just because you have the title, it depends on the degree that determines whether you are practicable. All Dr. degrees girls doesn't mean you are practicing medicine. Look it up! BTW, tell Kandi she needs to be Dr. Kandi. Please become a Dr. of music. Maybe you will come up with better lyrics, and you too NeNe. Please become Dr. NeNe. Maybe you will learn how to mind your business, raise your kids and keep a husband.

Pennifer
Pennifer

OMG... SHEREE....Please Believe.... you are newly divorced and I can tell that you are not the type of woman to go for just any wierdo.... Like the so called Dr. ... Girlfriend thats all part of dating we live and learn... They all have stories.... Heard a question on a radio station once...What does a man do on a first date at least 10times?????? ANSWER: LIE..... LOL.... Aint that the truth... keep your head up your eyes OPEN..... And your HEART SAFE.... I DONT THINK you a golddigger you just KNOW WHAT YOU WANT......

christi33
christi33

I knew from the get go that this man was was going to be awfully shady...my first instinct when Sheree went to that place on their first date was for Sheree to get back in that car and leave. If a man really wants to put his best foot forward on his first date..he would have chosen a nice neutral place for a date...even if it was a lunch date at a cafe....not the place that he chose. When you get to know a person a little more, then you can explore some place else for a date. What this "doctor" wanted to do was to pull Sheree down on his "level", almost belittle her by the way he behaves, even the place he selected for the first date knowing that she would have enjoyed some place a little nicer (you don't have to have a bunch of money to go to a decent restaurant or have a weekend lunch date at a cafe), and then putting her on the spot at his meeting when he called her out to be on that panel of women talking about love&relationships. You can also see from today's show that he could not handle the heat when the ladies seriously questioned his credentials. If he really was who he said he was.then he would have been a lot more confident and cool under the pressure.

BinkyBoo
BinkyBoo

Sheree!!! Tye is too much honey! Not worth investing in. Please snap out of it and move around. Stick to your selectiveness and he can still be your phone friend! O--Kay??

DeeKee
DeeKee

Sheree, I wish you so called friend would have donated more that 20 each. As we all can see that they have money. I think that should have done at lease 50 or 75 each. You did a grate job dancing. I hope you keep it up.

tracyt
tracyt

Hey Brenda - i got mine from the Bravo store. I wear it all the time especially around my husband. I'm sure u r the Queen of your household, so get yours and let em know.

Tresstine
Tresstine

The Love Doctor forgot that he sold his house last year?? There is something very off about this man. I can almost feel his creepy persona through the tv screen. How can you stand him pushing his food and himself on you in person. He's using you and Bravo for exposure. Don't give it to him!

Mz.BAiley
Mz.BAiley

Girl you look great the night of the dance look like an angel>

larone
larone

I love this show I think it is very real and displays real life issues. In response to the comment about Sheree's daughters boyfriend, I too thought he looked a little sweet, but I could be wrong who are we to judge.

Julissa
Julissa

You and that man do make a cute couple like for realz! But if you want to take it slowly and calmly I agree. It was so nice to have seen your kids on the episode. Your daughter tierra looks like u alot.

joejoe_no1
joejoe_no1

I apologize. I did not like you 1st season. Now I wrote on somebody"s bog that they need to give NeeNee a break because of what she is going through. Well, you were going throuh a divorce 1st season so you were in a tough place. You are not a different person, you are a more relaxed person. But the good doctor is not for you. He wants the exposure of being on tv to promote himself. He keeps talking about money is not important. He is trying to get you to believe that so that when you find out, he can act like you should be feeling like money doesn't matter. And the people who try to act like you are a gold digger they need to really think. If they worked hard to get a good job and move to a great, middle class neighborhood, would they date a high school dropout who works at McDonald's. They might write, "yes" on this blog, but in reality, if that guy walked up to them, they would roll their eyes at his advance. You do you baby. Just don't act like Kim.

Chavis
Chavis

Sheree... I Love You!!! Girl, Ty is NOT for you!!! He is corny. Not feeling him at all.

Miss Pat
Miss Pat

Like so many of your fan's have said..PLEASE do not see that man ever again. There is something that is just not right.

Take Care of yourself and children and then you will be happy with your self. Lv "2" you and the children. Miss Pat

Miss Educated Sister
Miss Educated Sister

Sheree, hunny, my mom and I have loved you since the first season! I am glad to see you have evolved to a better more classy young woman. All i have to say to you is RUN! My best friend and I ageed instantly that Dr Tye is a weirdo and you need not date him anymore! I dont care that he doesnt have money, but he looks nasty and he sounds nasty! You can do better!

smurfette
smurfette

Dude, how are you rich? Are you the Vice Presidents bodyguard? No, your father is...so how does that make you rich?

Mr_Mysterious
Mr_Mysterious

Sheree. I just wanted to take a moment to let you know that you are one of my favorites. Despite of what any body say, you always keep it real. But from what I know, the doctor is not a real doctor. He is a fraud, and I believe you will soon find that out. You are looking forward, no time to look back. tell his ass to keep it moving.

kera pully
kera pully

can i come to ATL and hang with you my father is the Vice President body guard so yes honey i am rich....??

AZ
AZ

Sheree, I really like you this season. You seem much more at peace with your life. I just want to say...I hope you did NOT keep dating that Dr. Love. Or shall I say Dr. Shady. Ugh! The first date was cool, but then the second date was a disaster. You are way to classy for that mess of a man. And didn't he say he was going to cook you a "gourmet" meal??! Since when is spaghetti gourmet? I'm just sayinnn....Take care and good luck with your clothing line and acting!

tiny001
tiny001

Sheree, I like you best you are the one that really kept. the show interesting and you are hilarious. Have you ever thought about doing a dear sheree column were people can ask you questions about love and relationships. I think that's a good move for you because everything you say and stand for is so true.

Praz2 from VA
Praz2 from VA

OMG! Sheree that doctor to me has a shady side. He is really throwing hisself yout there too much in the couple times he has been on the show. Check him out. As for eating the cookie dough off his fingers.....ugh! You did right in trying to refuse that. Keep up the good work. If people think you are a gold digger so be it. If they want to give it to you then take it. You have a family to feed and bills to pay, but keep it classy.

Laren
Laren

Sheree I think you are a strong lovely woman, I can understand that you want a many who is established, who doesn't. But on camera you come off as a gold digger, not a good look. Maybe you should build something for yourself instead of looking for a man to do it for you. I mean you where on the news because your car was repossed, I think you and NENE front a lot.

gem
gem

Sheree hope all is well this season is going to be very interesting. The doctor have good intentions but he want sex (want somebody to lick his finger you don't know him like that. I know you he will not last, you can do better he has a story find out what it is. Take care

NurseNikki
NurseNikki

Hmmmm if a woman desires a successful man shes a gold digger....but if she sticks by a struggling man she has low self esteem! WOW! from what I understand Sheree had two babies by her ex hubby. And she was with him when his ass was struggling.......sooooo loving her man makes her a gold digger? R u serious. Shoot who wants to struggle? Who doesnt want to live better? So are we suggesting that once a person is auccessful they shouldnt start new relationships? Hpw many marriages end due to financial issues? Folks are sending mixed messages.

NurseNikki
NurseNikki

Damn yall...some of the comments r pretty harsh....I went through a divorce two years ago and am newly married, unless u have gone through it you wouldnt understand. Ppl r so quick to judge. Sheree have fun girl. Ur mr right will find u. In the meantime enjoy life!!! Some of yall need to chill out. Being single isnt a bad thing or Something that needs to be defended. Smh

kithouse
kithouse

Wish you girls were more REAL and would take out the hair peices and take off all the wigs .

 rhiannon
rhiannon

Sheree, ignore all these negative comments. You are who you are and that is all there is to it. I thought that was so funny when you made that comment about Phaedra not knowing when she got knocked up. I agree to the viewers she appeared to be full of it. Phaedra comes across as a very fake person trying to portray someone that she is not. She should just try to be herself.

LISA W
LISA W

SHEREE GIRL YOU ARE TO MUCH I LOVE WATCHING YOU GIRLS YOU ALL HAVE ME ROLLING BECAUSE YOU ALL BACK STAB EACH OTHER DRINK I WOULD LIKE TO SEE YOU ALL SPENDING MORE TIME WITH YOUR KIDS,I WISH THEY WOULD DO A SHOW ON THE WOMEN OF DETROIT,MICH AND MAYBE YOU ALL CAN SEE WHATS IT ALL ABOUT YES I UNDERSTAND THAT YOU HAVE MONEY AND LIKE TO SPEND IT AND WANT A MAN WITH SOME MONEY ,BUT WE ARE IN A RESSION AND PEOPLE ARE STRUGGLING EVERYDAY PLEASE LADY'S LET'S STARTE DOING SOMETHING DIFFERENT. SINCERCELY YOURS LISA W.

MiMI from H.P. N.C.
MiMI from H.P. N.C.

Hey Sheree I love u to death. I'm 25 and i can relate to wat u r saying money is 75% and love is 25%. You only live once so you deserve to be happy. Love Live Life. And get that money ttyl.

ronaldo
ronaldo

If you think that you will land another fool w/money then you're the biggest fool of all. After showing your true colors as a "gold digga" on the show, it will be a cold day in hell before a man w/real bank come your way. Good Luck w/thw reality star thing because you will need it!

Donna Wife
Donna Wife

There is no way you are that naive' to not know what this relationship is about. If you are wanting to help the guy out just say so. And by that I mean pretending to date him and be around him so he can get tv exposure. That's all that this is about. My question to you is, 'What bet in hell did you lose" to have to be the one that helps him get exposed.

Viewerteresa
Viewerteresa

sheree has her own money. she has a job. no one needs a man without his own money, as well. i don't care how cute or faithful or caring a man acts. if he can't show he can support himself, aka, come with his own money, then out the door. i don't want his, and he ain't getting mine. he's a con artist. and not a very good one. but he did get is "show" on TV, didn't he?

Viewerteresa
Viewerteresa

i can tell you one thing about mr. tye. he is a con-artist and is using you to con others on TV! run, sheree, run. i've met too many of these men to not see 'em for what they are at first sight. he's too pushy physically, as well. he is one big phony. he had you at his "friends" place, because he has no money and no house. his behavior is not normal at all.

Russ
Russ

Sheree,

Holy smokes... your oldest daughter is BEAUTIFUL! Dang!

Derrick & Duane
Derrick & Duane

We wanna know for a woman like yourself who came from nothing and became rich off the fruits of another man's labor. Now you're better than everyone else? Make your own money then be your own woman! Your bougie attitude and your all-about-me ways are a turn-off, so that's why we think you're single!

Cari L
Cari L

Yes the Dr. was too much! I liked his point on letting a man be a man. I give him that. Like the rest....RUN SHEREE RUN!!!Maybe he needs to listen to himself and think about his behavior. I'm sure he runs many women off! Keep it movin! I'm sure you will! You Go Sherre...You are the Most!

DivaK
DivaK

Make sure that you have your own shyt so that you won't have to seek out a man with money!P.S. Money buys "things" but it does not buy "true happiness or love", but your not seeking love are ya just money! You seem a little less uptight this season but loosen up some more!

Viewer2010
Viewer2010

SHEREE, please run this so call dr is a fasle. (ok bravo u can do better then this) now what i want know why would they even hook you up with him no,no,no,wrong! this man is a tv *hore. he is not licensed to practice psychology in Georgia or anywhere else.and from what i hear mr.Muhammad was working at Clark Atlanta University before he got fired when school officials discovered his credentials were false. SHEREE DONT WASTE ANYMORE TIME WITH HIM ...I SEE SKELETONS COMING FROM HIS CLOSET

mtpain
mtpain

Sheree - As far as the Dr. is concerned see what you can find out about that FAILED Gilligan's Island Reality show from a few years back Season #2 (he looked better then)...also has he told you WHY he moved to LA in the first place? Wasn't he trying to be an ACTOR or Reality Show star or something? http://www.tbs.com/stories/story/0,,49830,00.html

sav77
sav77

I love it to.

MsMartin
MsMartin

I can't wait to see how it turned out with that phony, balding doctor. He made you look desperate. Not a good look.

sweetdream
sweetdream

Sheree run the Dr. is a hell no!!!

shella
shella

So true!!!! lol.....but you have to admire her for giving the man a chance.