I want to apologize for not being able to blog last week. I am just now getting over a very ugly cold! I feel much better. I also want to thank all of you for the comments, good, bad, or ugly ... I appreciate them.
Going to Tye's seminar on last week's show was cool. It was a panel of a combination of single and married men speaking on relationships. I absolutely love to hear other people's views and perspectives on love and relationships, so I was all for going. He then announces that he has some special guest speakers, so I'm like, "Ooh yeah, more opinions and views!" Again, I love this stuff! I then hear my name! Boy was I not expecting that. While I am not so comfortable with public speaking, it was kind of fun.
It appears that I missed quite the baby shower!
Okay, on to this week!
Oh no, not "beef curtains." Where does she come up with this stuff?
Phaedra, Apollo, and that pickle ... speechless, again! I think it was a unique idea, but it didn't come across so cute on TV! I think Phaedra is cool, but that just wasn't right. It did however make me go out and buy a jar of pickles. OMG, I have not had a pickle in probably 20 years. I also learned that they have zero calories, yum.
The Mothers' Day brunch was very nice. It was a chance for us girls to get together and celebrate a beautiful day ... one that should be celebrated 365 days a year.
The discussions at the table were pretty funny. I have always been told that my facial expressions are hilarious. I don't even know when I'm doing them, so that can get me in trouble sometimes! They are a dead give away as to what I'm really thinking. Mental note: Learn to control facial expressions!
You and I have the same problem with the facial expressions that cannot be helped. You cracked me up on your date and good to know that you have wised up on this "Doctor" character (I didn't miss that you called him "Mr.").
I do not think I will be eating another pickle anytime soon though...
Sheree you have come into your own this season. I think you are so funny,and smart about money no shame in that lady.
I agree with you he was trying too hard I think. And the Pickle pictures I just think that she could have did something a little different to embrace her pregnancy
Sheree your date was trying too hard to impress you. I'm glad you decided to meet with him. My daughter and I love you
I saw the show last night and was happy that you were going on your second date with Tye. Until I read your blog I thought you came off as pretensious about Tye and your dating standards. I think you put a tremendous amount of value on money and I get the perspection that he wants to show you that although money "is" nice to have, it shouldnt be a sole focus in a relationship. Take your time and go with the flow. Let the man show you some things. By no means should you compromise yourself, but you have to give a bit to get a bit. PS: tell him to stop shoving food down your mouth. He's trying to be sweet and sensual!!! You get it.....
Sheree you can do better. I don;t feel the spark. Something's not right. I love the way you tell it like it is.
I absolutely love YOU! You are hilarious and so badly need your own show! You really have my stomach in cramps from laughing at you and your one liners. Don't ever change. Stay classy, they can't take it. You are the best! Also, I think your children are beautiful.
The doctor forgot that he sold his house LAST YEAR? OK...??? Nonetheless, you are fantastic, utterly FABULOUS to watch this season.
EWWWWWWWWWWW Your date with the "doctor" was almost as painful to watch as the countess going out with that freak. Keep going, you can do sooooooooo much better.
Sheree - Sometimes I love you; other times not so much. However, I loved this blog! I don't like the 'doctor'! Seems like a phony to me!
I don't know Sheree. I too am a Capricorn woman so I feel you on not wanting him to put his finger all up in your face and expecting you to eat off of it, just tacky. I believe you are more open and allowing your guard down a little more, but a woman of your stature just doesn't have to settle. I believe he is ok for a casual date, but my gut says he's not a mate for you. Can't put my finger on it, but I can tell he's not the one. Keep your options open. You are a wonderful woman and sometimes misunderstood, but I get you and I say this is your time and the best is yet to come. Capricorn's have had it rough for the last 5yrs, but now is our time. No drama, no users, no abusers, no hater's and no settling for less than we deserve. You are beautiful inside and out and if people can't appreciate you and see that, then they need to keep it moving. Next!!
You don't need to do anything but continue to be you. You are a grounded and well balanced woman. People probably tend to misunderstand you but deep down they admire your strength, wisdom and they way you carry yourself. They can't find anything wrong, so they try to say you are stuck up or too serious. Please, the truth is they are hating on you and wish they could be just like you. Dr. Tyi E is ok, but he is not for you. I feel you should keep your options open and date several men so you can get a feel for what you want and need in a relationship. Most definitely a man will need to have his game together, but a real man will be together and not afraid of a strong black woman who can handle her own. It's your time and I feel that you will have everything you want, just continue to be true to yourself and keep it real as you have done.
I love you this season. Obviously you are a good mother. Your daughter who we have come to know is lovely. I am also very impressed with your behavior with Tye. He would be perfect with Phaedra and her pickles. You acted and behaved like the lady you are. Did Tye think you were desperate? He made me gag. Continue to demand that men treat you like a lady. You are setting an outstanding example for the young ladies that watch this show.
I love your sense of humor Sheree. When you said "who am I to come between a girl and her nose" I almost died. I love your facial expressions, too funny!
Sheree, all of your comments crack me up. I really enjoy watching you. I feel the same way when it comes to men. I hate pushy men too. I always say whatever happens happens.
Sheree Whitfield friend in my head (in my best wendy williams voice) You and "Dr"...too funny. I love watching you two together.
Sheree there’s been many times that I didn't see your point of view 'the money thing'. However I must say that I do agree with your comments about the good doc in this weeks episode, really??? licking food from the finger on the second date come on! I agree that it doesn’t seem that he knows how to date a woman without being presumptuous or he thinks you're desperate..it wouldn't be a third date for me and I'm cute like you..smile.
Hi Sheree - Seriously - Tye is a control freak. You and I both thought it was GROSS when he was trying to get you to eat/lick food from his fingers - what does he think you are, an animal? The man is a weirdo - I hope it is over! You are smart, well spoken, gorgeous. I LOVED it when you were like "whatever" about his shirtless body - you've seen better. LOL!!! You are fun to watch - especially because of your facial expressions. Don't control them - they are REAL!
I think your doctor friend, even if he is a real doctor, was laying it on pretty thick. You might want to check credentials next time before going out. Also there is nothing wrong with wanting a man to have money. You know what you want just like they do. A relationship is 50/50. Our love and our time should not be for free. Even if he can't afford a house in two states he should be able to have an elegant meal properly prepared for you. He was using someone else's house, lights, gas and water then he asked you to help. I've dated guys like that before and they always want to call the shots and be in control and when you don't respond the way they want they call you stuck up and can't handle women that have their own minds. He reminded me of a teenage boy inviting you over to his parents house for dinner. He sounds like he's been getting by with his looks and that's all.
Plus I wouldn't have licked his finger either. Even if the cameras were there he would have had to lick his own finger if he wanted the cookie dough off. He needs a younger woman who can be easily impressed with nothing.
Good Luck with dating.
I don't think I like your Doctor friend and he does seem weird.
You deserve better.
I also think you have a very good intuition and you read people well. You were actually too kind to him. You have to give someone a chance but he is blowing smoke!
Hi Sheree, you and kandi have me cracking up with the facial expressions. Dr. Tye was coming on too strong on the second date. He needs to tone it down a bit and not try so hard. He can't handle all that sexiness so now he's acting a fool. and what man in his right mind make you eat cookie dough off his finger? you don't know if he washed his hands or not. when you get home brush your teeth 10,000 times. keep your options open and continue to date other men. glad that your out having fun and most importantly your smiling and laughing.
Are you SERIOUS? You work hard to become your own woman, making your own money and you've got to let a man open the ketchup bottle to feed his small ego of being needed? Please say this isn't so. All men and women want to be needed by their partners, but his seminar set women back 40 yrs.
I have to question this man's credentials on so many levels. The first place he took you dancing looked dumpy, he's borrowing an apt (not a house) from a friend to cook you dinner, he's physically pushy and he's discussing money just a bit too often. I hope you've verified his background before you go much further. It's not hard to do.
GIVE THE GOOD DOC ANOTHER CHANCE TO GET IT TOGETHER. AFTER THIS IF IT'S NOT WORKING KEEP IT MOVING. LOVE YOU ON THE SHOW WATCH EVERY WEEK AND EMAIL MY GRANDDAUGHTER IN COLLEGE ABOUT THE HIGHLITES!
WILL BE WATCHING NEXT WEEK.
Sheree....I am reminded of one of my favorite quotes by Maya Angelou: "When someone tells you who they are, believe them...the FIRST time." It seems that this could apply to 'the doctor' - he has shown his ability to lie by his "oh, I forgot I sold my house last year" remark. You don't need that/him, and it's best to let him go now before going much further. There is someone far better suited for you out there somewhere!
Sheree, I am so happy that you carried yourself with dignity and confidence in regards to dating this so-called doctor. SO many women in our community should witness the proper way to behave on a date. He should put in the effort and pursue you. Women should never act needy, clingy or desperate for any man's affections. And not once did I hear Dr. Tye give any advice of value to those women at that seminar. That seminar just made those women look so desperate. You were the only one speaking and behaving with confidence. As long as women act desperate men will treat them poorly no matter what race they are.
Sheree, RUN! RUN! RUN! from the doctor. Phaketra shouldn't be someone you like after calling you broke, she wouldn't be a friend of mine that's for sure. I think your cool and I like you a lot stay strong and don't accecpt anything less then a pay check from these fella's.
The doctor is not right for you at all. He will reveal himself soon enough!
You look very beautiful this season ~ love the hair!!
I really feel like we have gotten to see a different side of you this season..and I like it! And that figure of yours... mmmm girl go on! I'm sure I was one of many feeling your pain watching that awkward feeding session with the "doctor." I'd hold out for that perfect man I'm sure is searching for you ;)
How uncomfortable was that date! Yuk. I sat and cringed for you. Thank goodness a crew was there because this guy is strange. So immature desperately wanting you to see his body during dinner on the second date. I don't know about this guy - - and when is he going to take you out on a proper date?!
Sheree, You handle the date with the doctor well, I remember Dr. Tye from the talk shows and felt he was a very nice guy. He would tell men how to respect women and deal with relationships. He had long dreads and was very sexy. The deards are gone and he had said on many occaision that the man should be the leader and control the relationship. I agree with some points he made in his book, he is a smooth talker beware lady.
Sheree, I don't think the so call doctor can handle you, we all know he is not what he say he is, he a fake, your a doctor but your borrowing a friend's apartment , get real, Sheree run, he can't provide for you and your family, you have already caught him in 1 lie, don't even give him any more chance to tell another one. He is using you for t.v. time, tell him to kick rock's !!!! keep it moving, like you told Dwight , next.
Sheree my dear you made comments (I see it as digs) about NeNe getting her nose done, but you also had a nose job, just remember the old saying "people in glass houses should not throw stones" you should have kept your mouth shut & not commented.
Sheree (my daughter's middle name by the way) I think the doctor is really trying to see if you will accept him for being broke, homey and not showing you a lot of bling... i beleive he is wealthy and really into you... i think he wants to see if you are into him... cruel game but will pay off for you in the end if you hang in there... i guess only time will tell...
I threw up in my mouth when he kept shoving his thumb at you to eat cookie dough off of it!!! seriously.....you tried so hard not to be rude......and you succeeded......but EWWW!!
I must Sheree, the first season, I could not stand you. You have come to be one of my favorites. Do not control the facial expressions, that's what keeps me laughing. You are so classy but down to earth. The way you handled Dwight was phenomenal because you stayed a lady, but clocked it where it needed to be clocked. Love it, love it, love it. Stay beautiful!
During the 1st season, I didn't care for you on the show and thought you were being something you weren't, but after last season you are one of my favorites! I like it when you are more down to earth! Your personality shows thru and it makes you more appealing! Classic lines that I have loved! "Who gone check me, Boo?" This week it is "B****, you don't know when you got knocked up?" ... Loved it! Keep it coming Sheree!
Loving you this and last season,your commentary segments are too funny and honest! Your oldest daughter is beautiful and I must say ,for a teen mom,you did a great job in raising her.As a teen mom who has a 20yr old daughter,I am glad to see that you 2 have proven that not all children of teen moms grow up to be less than respectful and classy! good job.
Run Sheree Run - He is the total pretender. Cooking for me doesn't not sound like "you are helping me cook". He was too much for me!
I couldn't have said it better......
Doc laid it on too thick. I think you handled yourself well under the circumstances and kept it classy. All that talk of sugar, dildos and yams had me rolling. I love Ms. Joyce as well. Phaedra and the pickles: somethings are best unsaid. LOL! It was refreshing seeing all of you sharing your experiences and chopping it up. This was the best episode to date. I loved it!
I couldn't have said it better.
Doc laid it on too thick. You clearly could see you were uncomfortable but handled yourself well under the circumstances. Phaedra and the pickles......somethings are best unsaid. LOL! I love Ms. Joyce as well. It was really good to see all of you ladies sharing your experiences and chopping it up. All the talk of dildos, sugar, and yams had me rolling. This is the best episode to date.
Dr.Love seems to be performing.I call it like I see it and he doesn't act like a "real" man,he's putting on an act.As far as Phaedra's pickle photo session.It made me sick,it was so flipping weird.I call it Pregnant Pickle Porno,seriously it was disgusting to watch.I cant even look at a jar of pickles.I craved hot wings and I would have never wanted someone photographing me eating hot wings.She is a few cards shy of a full deck.
Sheree, Ditch the 'doctor'. There's something shady about him! Go out with someone who can afford you!!! Best, Aloha808
I agree with you Sheree on the things that Kandi & Phaedra were talking about doing to their Va Jay Jay for sex seems like a serious Yeast Infection waiting to happen. I mean you can do some things if that's what you both like as far as toys or role playing but putting that kind of stuff down there just doesn't seem right to me at all. I also think you should take things very slow with this doctor because I'm not sure if he's lying about certain things. Just because you have the title doctor to your name doesn't mean that you got it going on in all areas. So just keep your eyes open at all times. Wish you the best.