Sheree Whitfield

Get Sheree's take on the dysfunctional girls' weekend.

on Jan 31, 20110

Lets just jump right into it! These last two weeks have been full of drama, and I'm sure quite draining to watch. 

Watching the bus tour was absolutely crazy! I am happy to have been far, far, far away from that! 

As I was watching I was trying to figure out how or why the argument escalated to the level that it did. NeNe stated that she didn't like the way that Kim speaks to Sweetie, but in her next breath she turns right around to demean and belittle Sweetie by calling her a slave! OK, wow! Then there was the fact that Sweetie and Don Juan were supposed to stay at the house and that seemed to bother her more. Why?  Who cares if they stayed as long as it didn't interfere with what she had planned (if anything) for her friend Cynthia's weekend? The house certainly had enough rooms for them to stay. Or was it the fact that Kim mentioned her brief stint on the news station was only an internship?  Whatever it was, it seemed to be a lot deeper than any of those things to be able to trigger so much hate, venom, and bitterness. Just my opinion! 

We were so excited for the girls to finally arrive in Miami. I'm picturing fun, sun, and lots of laughter...NOT!  The moment they got off the bus we heard yelling and threats! The weekend continued with yelling, name calling, threats, disrespect, anger, negativity, and tension... for four days! You guys saw the very short version! Imagine what you saw and think four days of that and then some! Because of that, it turned out to be a miserable trip full of negativity and anger! Because NeNe was mad at Kim, she expected everyone else to be mad. And when we were not (because we have nothing to do with their argument) she and Cynthia pretty much separated themselves from everyone.  So, us girls tried to make the most of it. Watching her try to convince Cynthia to leave was low! Someone seemed to have forgotten who and what this trip was about. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and take yourself out of the equation. That to me was pretty selfish and pathetic. I was happy she decided to stay despite everything. After all, we were there for her and no one wanted her to leave.

173 comments
Vivica Fox
Vivica Fox

Sheree, I'm not sure whether you or Kim are the fakest! Stop hating on NeNe becasue she's using her fame from the show to make money. And you don't have sense enough to do the same!! Every season you seem to loose either a house, or car. And it is plain ridiculous. You are too old to not have common sense. Please stop living above your means, and try to get a come up like NeNe has.

Ruby Thompson
Ruby Thompson

Sheree, you are right on the money. I didn't like it when NeNe tried to get Cynthia to leave. NeNe is envious of Kim. If you think back to the early episodes NeNe really wanted to be on the song Tardy for the Party . She talked about Kim so badly Kim was right NOT to let her sing on her song. It's a very SMALL person who makes herself look lagre by putting another person down. NeNe's remark about Kim during her interview with Jermaine Dupree is a perfect example. Girls you get KUDOS from me for stepping up and talking to Cynthia becuase after all the weekend was al about her. NeNe even said something negative about Kim when she was introduced to the owner of the home but he quickly addressed it letting NeNe she could go some where else with the BS. Sheree you are hot but don't do all the curl again, you are too mature. The hair style for the reunion with all those curls looked like a hair style for a 17 year old going to a cotillion okay boob LOL.

Ma'at
Ma'at

AGREES Whole-heartedly with every note in this blog, Sheree! 'Couldn't said it better myself!

I hope NeNe & her pal, D, reads this.

bean42
bean42

Sharee was right about everything,NENE have a bad attitude and she think she can over talk everyone.That was last season with the pulling of Kim hair,people change NENE haven't she just gotten worst.NeNe want to control these grown women.Sharee two thumbs up.

Viewer 55
Viewer 55

You are livivng in a glass house throwing stones Nee Nee was abit much you as a person should never invade someones space so i do agree with that . But come on now you are so a part of the drama as well werent you just pulling kims wig last season smh how soon we forget i so wish you ladies well but I have had enough of the foolishness. I cant believe i watched this long :(

Tee C
Tee C

1) I agree with your assessment of NeNe, especially with disrespecting the homeowner and bringing Diane in to further escalate the situation. That certainly showed her true level of maturity and where her head was. 2) I think it's hypocritical of you to talk about NeNe and Kim's poor behavior when you were ready to snatch Kim's wig off her head and drag her down the block AND you were ready to fight a dude over a helicopter ride to your Liberation Party. But overall I think you haven't changed since the first season...which could be good or bad. God bless.

Artisha
Artisha

I really didn't like you either this season, I thought that you very were two-faced, you thought you were better than all of the other housewives, miss goody two shoes wanna be. Real talk to me the reals one where Khandi and Phaedra.

Charla
Charla

Last season I didn't like you and like you even less this season. You are a fake friend and you really aren't that good of an actress. Terri Vaughn may have been out of line but, I just don't believe you for some reason. You aren't believeable to me. Sorry I checked you boo!!

Pelz
Pelz

I love Lawrence also...and yes his expression when Cynthia started crying was priceless!!!!

Nac
Nac

I think everyone there had some bad behavior, not just NeNe. All the mess got started because Kim kept having issues with the fact NeNe mentioned her name during her tv station interview. Kim kept having problems at the fact she referenced her and her age. I think it was nothing sinister behind it. That's what started the fight on the bus. Everyone is hypocritical if they think NeNe is the only one with any blame. She acted on the cards she was dealt. I like all the housewives but I call it like I see it.

karen1999
karen1999

Loved your blog, you are so right. I enjoyed watching you this season( didnt like you until this season) you have changed for the better. Im glad the rest of you ladies didnt let nene pull you into her uglyness. Nene wanted to ruin the weekend for everyone because she was mad at Kim. Stay away from Nene she is nobodys friend. You go girl.

kandi12
kandi12

that's very well sheree and i am very happy for lawrence

BeaufortHousewivesFan
BeaufortHousewivesFan

Sheree I have to admit that I didn't really like you the 1st season. You seemed to be stuck up and thought you were better than everyone. Maybe that's not how you felt but that is how it came off to the viewer. This season it was like you were a completly different person and now one of my favorite Atl housewives. It is very obvious you are in You are a very classy woman and it showed in Miami. GOOOOOOO SHEREE!!!!!!

makeithappen
makeithappen

Honestly, you were my least favorite in the first couple of seasons. NOW I think that you are great! I loved your comments during the show. I do not curse, but when you said "you ungrateful b^tch!" I was in complete agreement and couldn't have said it better myself! You were very authentic and seem more comfortable with yourself and others. And screw all of those people that keep trying to bring you down about things that have happened in the past! BTW: I just love Lawrence... I thought him a little much initially, now I wouldn't have him any other way! (Did you see his face when Cynthia started crying? lol... Classic!)

ADDICTEDhousewife:)
ADDICTEDhousewife:)

Sheree..You are NOT boring. DON'T LISTEN TO silly comments. You have the best interview comments around. You can size up all the ATL ladies' situations with a strong sense of conviction. I LOVE YOU ON THE SHOW!

Scrodee
Scrodee

Sheree, I think you are a beautiful and have some great qualities about yourself. You made some valid points on the trip to Miami. I do want to make a few comments though. You seem to be the type of person that has some CLASS about yourself, very strong, and independent. Qualities that make a really good role model for other young ladies and I'm sure others agree. I would like to make a comment or suggestion, however. CLASS and being a lady( as Katherine stated) is how a woman carries herself, behaves/acts, and cares about herself among other things. Let's be honest, you have a fowl mouth every now and then(call people bitches, cussing and going off on the event planner and telling one of the friends of a former housewife to 'get the f*** out of here" in the parking lot at the Closet Freak fashions show, etc. You also demonstrate signs of being a backstabber and hater(Cynthia) every now and then. Remember, being a lady and a woman of CLASS is more than how you look. Just thought I should throw that out there. A lot of women out here, like myself, are excited to see black women(on your show) doing their thing and proving to the world that we are more than what they say about us.

Scrodee
Scrodee

I agree that Sheree has some great qualities but I maybe I dont quite understand the definition of a lady. Sheree uses fowl language at times(when she's mad...remember the event planner scene... and when she is not...calling people bitches, telling one of the former housewives friends to "get the f**** out of here when he checked her for showing up late at the Closet Freak fashion show, etc). She can also be a bit two faced and little bit of a hater from time to time(Cynthia). Is that the idea of a TRUE LADY? If it is, maybe its the African American woman definition of one. If so, i guess there are a lot of us out there.

sam (Samantha)
sam (Samantha)

Sheree, Can you shed some light on what the hell has happened to Ne Ne??? On the first season she was so much fun to watch, full of laughter and what seemed like happiness. She acts like someone who has literally lost their mind! She is so full of hate and is angry all the time. And what is up with her clothes??? I am no prude but I was actually embarrassed when I saw her on the New Year's show. She looked like an idiot in that insane dress she barely had on constantly trying to keep her boobs covered. How completely classless she is. You as a classy lady and designer know that any garment you have to keep tugging on is sooooo wrong!! She feels the need to wear those 6" shoes so she towers over everyone and can look down on everyone. She is a hot mess!!! What happened???? Do you Think the old Ne Ne will ever come back? (FYI the same thing happened to Jill Zaern... is it the taste of fame that does it?)

Se Yance
Se Yance

Ditto I couldnt agree with u More!!!!!! Why is Ne Ne always trying to control everything? Hey you Gotta Pay the cost to b the boss!!!!!! lol

ccamillek
ccamillek

For some reason, when reading your blog, I couldn’t help but notice your opinion about the Miami trip being the exact same as mine. I felt the same way as you on all aspects of the trip. I guess all great minds do think alike. :) There was no point you mad that I can disagree to. The whole bus tour was a huge mess from the start. Nene just made things worst when she came aboard. I can’t tell you enough how wonderful it was to see you, Cynthia, and Phadrae’s smiling faces … and I’m just a viewer. I compare myself to you a lot for the simple fact that you are such a woman. I hope these women can get it together. They can truly learn a lot from you. You are indeed very elegant and classy and too much lady to involve yourself in such petty mess. I was also glad to see Lawrence. I am glad he was able to accompany you. I truly hope there’s a season 4 and I definitely hope to see you again. In the meantime, I don’t what I’m going to do on Sunday nights now. :(

Carolyn L
Carolyn L

Hi Sheree, why did you call Cynthia an "ungrateful B!@#%" not cool at all.

sunflower1
sunflower1

dont quit your day job. Horrible actress. You didnt even listen to there advice. You always think you know more. horrible.

JUST MADD AS HELL
JUST MADD AS HELL

THEY JUST NEED TO TAKE THE SHOW OFF THE AIR ALL OFF YALL GROWN ASS HELL AND ALWAYS YALKING BOUT PEOPLE AND EACH OTHER AND ALL YALL KNOW KIM TALKS S*** ALL THE TIME AND WHEN PEOPLE GETS UP IN HER FACE SHE PUNK OUT AND SHEREE YOU SAID YOU WAS NENEE FREIND WHY IS YOU ON HERE TALKING BOUT HERE NOW THATS FAKE YALL LETTING SOMEBODY LIKE KIM MASS THIS WHOLE SHOW UP

Anna 08
Anna 08

How can u say anything when last season u were trying to pull Kim's wig off in a public place. Classy is something u are far from. U are the last person that personifies class as you are only the ex-wife of a football player with no real career! What happen to She by Sheree oh your fiances were probably not right! IF U WANT THE FINER THINGS IN LIFE GET OFF YOUR BUT AND GET A REAL CAREER.

Michelle Williams
Michelle Williams

Sheree you are the bomb. You are so classy, yet real and I love your relationship with your oldest daughter (who by the way looks like your sister. Also your body is sik -- girl you inspire me to begin to work out. I love your confidence and how as classy as you are -- you still don't take no mess. You are the queen of the ATL in my book!!!!

Jasmine from Iowa
Jasmine from Iowa

Do you think anyone cares what you think? If you don't like the dynamic of everyone on the show, you should turn off the t.v....

412MICHELLE
412MICHELLE

LAST SEASON I DID NOT LIKE YOU VERY MUCH....HOWEVER YOU ARE MY FAVE OF THEM ALL!!! I THINK YOU HAVE BECOME A DIFFERENT PERSON AND IT IS AWESOME. I HOPE YOU KEEP UP THE ACTING WORK!

cherie nobs
cherie nobs

And on another note, you are always referring to how classy and sophisticated you are when you are the tackiest woman or man on the show. Where was your damn gift for the wedding? Driving up in an Aston Martin that has been taken already and you don't even bring a gift???? Tacky short donkey!!!

cherie nobs
cherie nobs

Boy, I can't stand you...I mean from day one you have been a phony hypocrite! How dare you talk about someone is negative with all the nasty ass things you say on the show to the camera about NeNe and Cynthia. Saying about NeNe if Peter wanted Cynthia he wouldn't want NeNe. Maybe so. But guess what? NO ONE wants you not even a fake doctor. He probably just wanted to tap that huge behind. And you have the nerve to talk about Cynthia's body in a bathing suit? Girl, you look like a mannish donkey. Not cute. Your behind could serve as my entire sectional! Get a life, grow up and pls. give up the acting. No wonder you and Kim got along so well...you are both delusional. She THINKS she can sing and you THINK you can act.

Tania from ATL
Tania from ATL

Did you give a Cynthia and Peter a wedding gift?

JESSICA9297
JESSICA9297

SHERREE SHERREE GIRL I DON'T LIKE THE WAY YOU TALK ABOUT NENE AT ALL YOU ARE FAKE AND EVERYTHING TO DO IS FAKE THE WAY YOU TALK TO PEOPLE AND EVERYTHING NENE AND KIM GOT INTO IT BIG WOW YOU CAN'T SAY LET'S ACKED EVERYONES TALKING ABOUT NENE WOOOOOOW SHE'S THE SHOW GO NENE GO NENE LOL LOL LOL LOL

JESSICA9297
JESSICA9297

LOOK PEOPLE GET OFF NENE AND DIANA SHE CAME TO BE WITH HER FRIEND

nadlyne
nadlyne

Shere please get a life you are so phony,you talk about all of them on the show you are so judgemental boo.....and,you are not that cute boo.

Lisa M.
Lisa M.

Go Cleveland!!!! Way to call it like it is...Sheree You are right on all counts...I like Nee-Nee but she was wrong in so many ways and I was embarrassed for her!!!!

Lana L Gaudin
Lana L Gaudin

Sheree,

It's a pleasure to see the way you handle yourself, in all the chaos Nene brings! I can say it isn't Kim this season and I am glad that you and Kim have re-established your friendship! Nene is toxic with a capital T!

I'm ready to see you with a good man (Would one please stand up!), so you can share that with the viewers, you deserve that, as well as your children! Best of luck to you on all your endeavors and hope to see you next season!!!

I wish Lisa would come back as well, she is a ray of light!!!

Mary Ann
Mary Ann

Shame on you for parking in the handicapped spot when you went to the casting call in the finale!!!

Lisa W.
Lisa W.

I enjoyed watching you this season,you added class and rationality to the show. I really can't watch NeNe argue with everyone it is upsetting! I am a teacher in Phila. and I realize why my students act the way they do when they see adults with bad behavior on T.V. Maybe some of the women on these reality T.V. shows are getting bad advice; if they ever wanted to get a job, their performance on national T.V. will follow them for the rest of their lives. Who would ever want to work with them or even be employed by them. Good luck with your acting.

gigibornemann
gigibornemann

I am in a wheelchair and the parking spaces for handicapped are real handy. Is your disability mental? You can't dance any better when you came out then before you went in after parking in the wheelchair space. you can't dance or act. I'm sorry you didn't get a $200.00 ticket,

KeepCYNTHIAgetriofkim
KeepCYNTHIAgetriofkim

Child Please! You need to sit down and work on changing you're attitude. You're a sucky person and way too self entitled to have accomplished nothing for yourself but EVERYTHING off the backs of others.

Mrs. E.
Mrs. E.

I have watched the entire season and I have to say it as I see it. Sheree you are the biggest FAKE & HYPOCRIT on the entire show. You laugh and grin in all the ladies faces and you ALWAYS say something behind their backs. When you finally get YOURSELF together then maybe someone will truly listen to you. Stop acting as if you are so holier than thou; as if you are better than anyone else and get real (for real). Word of advice follow through with one thing before you move on to another. If you really want to be successful at something it's going to take something that we all call WORK!!!!!!!!

Dallas81
Dallas81

What the heck are you talking about that "The producers knew Lawrence was already going to be in Miami. He would be coming over to hang out with us since he has been such a part of the show." In that case everyone (Joyce, Dwight, Apollo, Greg, and Peter) should have come to Miami. They all has been such a part of the show too. Just because he was in Miami did not mean he should have come over if he knew it was a girls weekend. He is not one of the ladies. He can call himself Ms. Lawrence and dress like a woman all he want but he is still man and he should have stayed away. Don't make excuses for why Lawrence was there. You were wrong for inviting him. You can tell by the look on the other ladies face that they were suprise. Nene did not invite Diana until after Lawrence showed up. You are such a trip!!! You make nasty comments about all the ladies, and then act like you're so innocent. I hope BRAVO tells you that your 15 minutes of fame is up...5 minutes for each year.

2233
2233

Your blog is right on point with seems to have occurred I am also glad that Cynthia decided not to let Nene influence her and leave, the weekend after all was planned for her benefit. It appeared she really needed to unwind and then get back to her busy life. Ooops that did not happen! Nene should have been ashamed of herself for making the weekend more of what Nene wants..than her friend. Looking forward to seeing all of this cast on the reunion.

LLm
LLm

You were real cool in my book until you called Cynthia an "ungrateful bitch". That was totally unnecessary and you came off as very foolish. Also, that was awfully fake of you. You need to work on getting your finances in order and see if you can muster up enough money for some acting classes.

kissie
kissie

i dont think she was wrong for callin her a selfish b cause for 1 they all was there for cynthia she should have not been sitting there letting nene talk her into leaven she needs to stop running up behind nene like a puppy and stop lettin nene controll her shes like a child dat has no friends n she want nene to b her friend so bad nene likes to b in controll over her freinds n thats not a friend so she had need to stay n get her mind off of wat she was goin through if nene wanted to leave she could have but dont b selfish n try to make cynthia leave with her cause of her argument wit kim that was between nene n kim not all of them so it would have been selfish of her if she would have left knowing that they came together for her n my since of words i think cynthia has a few screws missing