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Sheree Whitfield

Hate, Venom, and Bitterness

Get Sheree's take on the dysfunctional girls' weekend.

Jan 31, 2011

Lets just jump right into it! These last two weeks have been full of drama, and I'm sure quite draining to watch. 

Watching the bus tour was absolutely crazy! I am happy to have been far, far, far away from that! 

As I was watching I was trying to figure out how or why the argument escalated to the level that it did. NeNe stated that she didn't like the way that Kim speaks to Sweetie, but in her next breath she turns right around to demean and belittle Sweetie by calling her a slave! OK, wow! Then there was the fact that Sweetie and Don Juan were supposed to stay at the house and that seemed to bother her more. Why?  Who cares if they stayed as long as it didn't interfere with what she had planned (if anything) for her friend Cynthia's weekend? The house certainly had enough rooms for them to stay. Or was it the fact that Kim mentioned her brief stint on the news station was only an internship?  Whatever it was, it seemed to be a lot deeper than any of those things to be able to trigger so much hate, venom, and bitterness. Just my opinion! 

We were so excited for the girls to finally arrive in Miami. I'm picturing fun, sun, and lots of laughter...NOT!  The moment they got off the bus we heard yelling and threats! The weekend continued with yelling, name calling, threats, disrespect, anger, negativity, and tension... for four days! You guys saw the very short version! Imagine what you saw and think four days of that and then some! Because of that, it turned out to be a miserable trip full of negativity and anger! Because NeNe was mad at Kim, she expected everyone else to be mad. And when we were not (because we have nothing to do with their argument) she and Cynthia pretty much separated themselves from everyone.  So, us girls tried to make the most of it. Watching her try to convince Cynthia to leave was low! Someone seemed to have forgotten who and what this trip was about. Sometimes you have to be the bigger person and take yourself out of the equation. That to me was pretty selfish and pathetic. I was happy she decided to stay despite everything. After all, we were there for her and no one wanted her to leave.

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Sheree --you are so boring. Please leave the show and get a real job. Being pretty doesn't make you interesting or fun.

Finally! Thank you Sheree! Very well written, you hit the nail on the head! NeNe AND Cynthia should be ashamed of themselves! Thank you for not being afraid to speak/write the truth--that was some you know what on their parts!

I think NeNe need take some time away from the cast and get her shit tight I like NeNe but she got alot goin on with her man getting money from her gay boy and not letting her know that is something she need to look into with a very close eye

I liked you on the show because like you mentioned you stayed away from all the drama cause that ain't good and that is not going to lead you anywhere. Can't wait to see you on the ladies reunion. Good Luck in all that you do and in your upcoming future.

Sheree you got it right. NeNe was upset that the focus was not on her. She thought if she made it about race you girls would side with her. So glad you all did not fall for it. I just wish you would have stuck up for Kim & the owner of the house who I am surprised did not kick NeNe out, I would have. You seem to be at a good place in your life, best of luck.

Crazee!!! I don't know how anybody could've enjoyed that vacay. What iswrong with your friends. I think Nene has either lost her mind or started menopause and lost her mind. Anyhew it made for great tv. SHEREE you've definitely grown in the last two seasons a little bit more multi dimentional.

I love you Sheree, I think your too funny, but most importantly your real..you have class & tell it like it is..I've been watching since the beginning and must admit, didn't care for you at first..but you definitely grew on me this season so kudos to you darling for making me laugh when I needed it most...hugs, Magda.

that is really sad. It came off the exact way you've described it on camera. I don't know what NeNe's real problem with Kim is, but if its THAT BAD, she should probably stay out of kims face. why did nene decide to join the already overcrowded bus anyway?

Gret blog Sheree! It is about time you housewives tell Ne-he the truth. The big woman walks around talking to people like she is King Ne-he in charge of everyone and everything. Kandi told her the other season to "Bring it on dowm". She is still loud and disrespectful. She will jump in the wron person face one day.

Im sorry but I dont agree with you I feel that you are the most backstabbing housewife of them all you talk behind NeNes back yet she had your back when that fake doctor was lying to you. You seem to be so ungreatful you are just as venomous pot meet kettle. I dont even understand why your on the show its a waste of air time. You have something bad to say about Cynthia and shes one of the nicest people on the show you are a fake wanna be NeNe and Cynthia deserve better.

Sheree, you used to be one of my favorite but right now I can't grasp your attitude...Of course NeNe has changed to me but it seems like you and the other girls are JEALOUS of her because she has been asked to several engagements more than u-all.....Sheree, you are not in right to talked about anyone when your car was repossed by your attorneys your'e not paying your credit card bills??? So you need to cool it...

GOD BLESS!!

P.S. I'm hoping NeNe doesn't do another episode with u-all nor Cynthia , because u-all have talked about her too and smile in her face...

Good Luck on Acting!!

I am really liking you more and more. you have truly been yourself and that's paying off.

Love watching you!

Hey Sheree, Just wanted to say that I've been watching you since season 1 and you are at your most likeable NOW! There is something so different about you this season - you seem more real, more humble (but still sassy), a hell of a lot funnier, and a really good friend to those closest to you. I think you have some chops as an actress - and I'm excited to see you develop your talent. It seems a good fit for you, too, perhaps because it provides you with a vehicle for your emotions rather than a vehicle for appearances (like fashion). Some unsolicited advice/encouragement - don't be afraid to make mistakes and be imperfect... this is what makes you YOU and you are FABULOUS! Live without fear! Ok, I'm done :)

Very sa episodes - on SO MANY LEVELS! You were very low key this season - it seemed like you are really trying to get your life in order - you go girl! Good luck w acting and I hope I see you next season - if decide to watch - it was SO BAD this past season - not your fault - NENE's fault! Bravo needs to put some happiness in the mix - we do not always need drama - Andy!

OMG Sheree are you serious you of all people to me shouldn't talk about anyone as phony as you are girl please! Yes the trip was a mess but so are you so degrading talked so much mess about Nene when she was trying to help you with your fake doctor really? Sheree your life is upside down inside out crazy I am glad you are trying to do something with your self finally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Nene will be fine she will remove herself from phony people like you and she will do fine just go and get yourself together!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!1

NeNe has jumped timing. i don't know about everyone else buy i have lost all respect for her. Her comments on the show and twitter are so out of line it's beyond words. She is just too ill yo live. I have watched you all since day one and the person NeNe has become is sad. I hope she does she gets her happy back because she is soooo much better than this. As for you , you are exceptional in every way. Kim will be great also.

Girl, You are my fav! You are the only one who kept it classy the WHOLE season. Loved you hair and look all season!!!! Your blog was very mature and unbiased.

I think you did GREAT in your audition. The "Hater Lady" that was channeling Simon Cowell was obviously just jealous because you got the role. You go girl!!! Looking forward to seeing you on the Silver Screen!!!!

NeNe should have followed your lead all season. Who is going to hire her with her erratic temper?

I agree with you on everything but I do have to say they showed a clip of Kim calling Diana the the Hulk, and you giggled, that was petty of you, you know you look good you didnt need to feed into Kim's comment. By the way she appeared on Andy's show last night and looks miserable (probably due to sobriety, Just sayin').

I think your take on things sound pretty accurate, however, you calling Cynthia an ungrateful "B" was so uncalled for and negative of you. As a woman, seeing another woman in obvious pain, it is not your role to demean her, it is your role(if you care to take any) to lift her up. I was quite unhappy with you at that moment.

That was a very tense and negative show to watch. It was basically the NeNe show but it should never have been about her. I thought everyone was gathering to "celebrate" Cynthia getting married?! NeNe really showed her behind that time and it was so clearly uncaused for. Someone mentioned that NeNe likes to dominate her friends and it sure looked that way between she and Cynthia. What a waste! I'm glad you got to get out with Lawrence! He seems like so much fun :-)

Sheree - I like the woman you've become. You're honest, funny and not into that behind-the-scenes backstabbing. And I thought you were a lot better than those negative women at your audition thought you were! Best of luck in your acting career.

Sheree... AMEN!!!!! Everything you said was true, true and true!

I feel that NENe was out of line during the trip. She was so rude and disrespectful. She really needs help with her anger management.

THANK YOU SHEREE. THANK GOD FOR YOU. You seem to be the only person who is comletely unbiased that can speak your mind. I don't believe for a second that NENE would ever get up in your face and scream you down without you going after her. I love it that you are what you said you were in the first season, an elegant lady. You don't throw down unless you have to. YOU ARE MY FAV this year. I didn't like you first season, but J'adore vous NOW. When you saw Cynthia, did your inner designer gasp, "beautiful!!!" As a gay man, Every moment of looking at Cynthia in that dress was orgasmic- What my people live for. Great season Sheree, I hope you are able to become a true business woman, so you can show your fabulosity again, Come on Sheree, that card party with that "Dr." there was not a Sheree event. We want you to get some money girl so we can see your shoe salesman, your beautiful house, your birthday parties, your thousand friends, and another Louis Vuitton cake. Who cares about NENE, she can stay or go. Her attitue is ENOUGH. On A POSITIVE note, Thank you for being the grown and respectful woman we know you've always been.

Hi Sheree,

Thanks for filling us in! How in the world do you all deal with Nene and her mess? It seems like some of you are afraid to go up against her because you know she'll run you over, but really, I think she's only doing that to Kim and Kim has fooled her because she won't take Nene's stuff! PROPS to Kim (bigtime)! Out of all of you, I honestly believe that Kim is the only one who has any balls that will go up against Nene! I'm not knocking you because in all reality, why make yourselves look bad because she's making herself look bad. And please somebody tell me what in the world did Diana come to Kim's friend's house with attitude - I guess she's a follower and that's just what Nene need right now - someone to follow her stupid, rude ways! Props to you Diana for making yourself look just as stupid as your bff does! You both looked beyond ghetto staying at someone's house with all that ghetto attitude. I hope you don't feel proud Diana and Nene for the way you came across! Keep it real Sheree and good luck with your acting career! Hang in there and take the criticism because it only helps you regardless of how you feel! It's a paycheck and it's earned so go and earn your $$ girl!

I can't figure out why NeNe want's to promote herself as the next Omarosa, but it's clear that is what she is doing. I guess NeNe thinks shes more marketable on television as a villain then she is as a friend. I feel sorry for her. She really seems to caught up in her television persona that she has lost touch with reality as a whole. Her entire life is in shambles so she is clearly not taking care of business or her personal relationships very well. Her marriage, her kids, her personal life, her business life, all of it is seriously messed up. It's too bad too, because she had a clear path to be thought of as a sweetheart and funny friend when the show first began. Now she just seems petty, trashy, vindictive and self centered. I don't even enjoy not enjoying her! She comes across as uneducated and desperate for attention. There is nothing strong or fierce about her personality, she just seems unstable and unlikable. She hasn't even created a good villain to watch, she is simply just tacky and sad and unbalanced and uneducated. Sheree, keep doing what you are doing...YOU are what a fierce and educated women should look like! Love ya!

I agree. I was not impressed with NeNe's behavior this season. She seems think everyone evoles around her. She was very rude to the owner of the house and showed that she has no class. Cythnia should have been more grateful that a group of people wanted to do something special for her before her wedding. I'm shocked at a how people don't apperciate gifts any more.

Sheree you have definitely grown this season! I loved you on season 3! You seemed about your business rather than the drama. You were focused on your acting and your empire, and not the haterade. Also I love how the show covered your friendship with Lawrence! You two are great friends I can tell! I feel like he is your true friend, unlike Dwight and Nene.

Thank you so much for inviting Lawrence to Miami. I laughed my butt off when he did his impressions ;especially Kandi's. He even managed to make his voice sound like hers! Is there anything that Lawrence cannot do well? You truly have a talented friend in him!

You are growing on me!!!! Do you have fitness DVDs available? Your butt is AMAZING by the way! Love from California!!! xoxo

Oh yeah. Sheree it was you that said it was an all girls weekend while you all were at the spa. Watch the tapes again. It was all you who said it first.

Did I really see you park in a Handicapped parking space when you went for your audition?

Gosh, Sheree. You're really being nice this season.

By the way, I thought it was really nasty that Nene kept people from donating to your charity. That was ugly. When you bought the table for them at your charity performance. It was really stingy.

TOTALLY agree with you Sheree. NeNe could've voiced her opinion of Kim's reference to her assistant in a more tactful manner and been done with it, moreover, Sweetie is grown. NeNe was being over-the-top and disrespectful and misery loves company so of course she'd invite Diana.

Wow. When Kim criticized Nene, I took up for Nene. When Phaedra criticized Nene's behavior I STILL took up for Nene. But Sheree you are balanced and fair and this post is just telling it like it tis so you know what? I tend to agree with you. I so adore Nene but yeah this was just too much. Kim will make anyone want to strangle her but there is a such thing as taking something way to far. And trying to get Cynthia to leave and inviting her pitbull homegirl to Miami as backup was over the top. Thus, I'm with you!

Hi from LA,

you know it's sad because what should have been a celebration weekend turned into over the top drama. For it to last 4 days in a strangers house is just ridiculous. I used to enjoy Mrs Nene but now I think she needs an intervention.

Glad you stayed out of the drama and wish the best for you going forward.

You have quickly turned into the star of the Atlanta Franchise. Your one liners this season were priceless! Keep it up. Don't let the fame get to your head like Nene has. What a monster I don't know how you guys can stand her.

Sheree, honey... I loved you this season! I need to say that I personally think you did an amazing job at the audition for "If These Hips Could Talk". Girl from The Steve Harvey Show was clearly jealous. I'm glad you let them know that you are Sheree Honey! Are you serious!! Hope to see you on the big screens and appearing on "The Game" was a great start.

Sheree you work the hell outta my nerves but that was some grown woman business when you went to Cynthia to remind her of the reason(s) that you ladies came to Miami in the first place. Clearly it was uncomfortable for you all but I loved the fact that you took the time to go speak with Cynthia and not allow her to leave because of NeNe or anything else. I also felt that it was extremely rude of NeNe to disrespect Thomas. For a person to graciously open their home to you, the least you can do is be appreciative and humble. On the other hand, I have to agree with NeNe. It wasn't cool to invite all the "extras" on the trip because I'm sure Cynthia and others would have liked to invite their family or friends but decided not to.

Let me begin by saying how happy and in control of your life in these past few episodes. Good for you! You look fantastic.

Although I as a viewer do not know the" behind the scenes" information I have to say that I didn't think any additional people should have been invited. I didn't see Cynthia's sister there. If any additional guests were invited it should have only been Cynthia's guest. 3 additional guest is 3 to many.

Sheree you are classy as ever!...I can't imagine what 4 days of bickering in one of the hottest most exciting cities to hang out in was like. Cheers to you, Cynthia, and Khandi for trying to lighten the mood when you did.

Sheree,

Very nice blog.

The best for your and your family.

What was the name of the song that Sheree danced to does anyone know?

Love the statement . And who gonna check me boo, girl start your tshirt line up I will be first in line to buy one. Think about that !

Sheree,

Well said, I could not argue with anything you posted!

Kairom10

Thanks for giving us a different side of Sheree this season. I wish you much success in your acting endeavors. I think your headline says most of it but you forgot one very important word - manipulation. NeNe came with Hate, Venom, and Bitterness, that is very true and she was not happy until she spread it on everyone there. In addition, she was trying to manipulate Cynthia into leaving and the other woman into siding with her. She is extremely manipulative and Cynthia will see that very soon; the rest of you are very aware and too strong to let it happen. When NeNe is hurting, she takes it out on others. Kim, Sweetie, Lawrence, Mr. Kramer or whoever is in her path. She needs to realize the last person who alienated herself from the rest of the housewives is now off the NJ show.

Sheree you really hit it on the nose! That was the worst display of rudeness and stupidity that I have EVER seen on a show. Of course, NeNe is now saying you all have conspired against her, not even realizing that all of you were appalled at her behavoir!

Glad you got that part, best of luck to you! I like you so much better now you are acting like a "normal" person.

I wish you well with your acting. You proved how tough you are with that rude addition from that lady that was trying to steal the show. So glad you housewives see right through NeNe. She nene's to be off the show. Anger like hers is way over the top and she could hurt someone. I feel so sorry for her sons and husband. She is going down and it is her ownself that is taking her there. Keep you cool stance and I wish you the best.

I love you! I love the way you keep it real and true to yourself! Don't ever lose that like some others i've watched let it slip away!