The BAM! Squad

Bravotv.com's Assistant Editor selects the top three moments of Episode 14.

Jan 17, 20110

Although the Golden Globes may have been on last night, the true Atlanta lovers were rewarded with an episode that delivered some of the saddest, scariest, and sweetest moments of the season in one peach-packed punch. Let us embark upon this highly Ramotional rollercoaster ride together, shall we?

This week's saddest moment claims the No. 3 spot – Cynthia and Peter's wedding worries. I don’t think I could imagine anything more daunting (or more time consuming) than the prospect of having to go back and un-plan a wedding. I’ve seen enough episodes of 'Bridezillas' to know the physical and emotional cost that goes into the whole process, and let me tell you, it’s not pretty.

When Peter told Cynthia about Uptown's closing, I think she had a right to be upset. I'm not quite sure what Peter expected her reaction to be when he broke the news… "Oh OK, so we’ve lost our main source of income. How do you feel about releasing live doves at the ceremony?" I mean come on! And call me crazy, but his resolution to just not tell her anything anymore doesn't exactly seem like the best solution for soon to be newlyweds. But in Cynthia's blog, she says that they still love one another and are working through their issues. I suppose we’ll just have to keep watching to see if this wedding actually happens.

No. 2 goes to the horrific Kim and NeNe blowout (Yes, scarier than Helena Bonham Carter's outfit). Where to begin with this… I'm mostly sad that they're no longer friends! Honestly it's more amusing when they get along. Exhibit A:

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fnl66030
fnl66030

I used to love NENE and her quick wit...now she comes across as entitled and a mean girl. No longer a NENE fan.

BlondMom
BlondMom

I'm getting very tired of hearing "There are certain things you just don't say to a Black woman"...There are certain things you don't say to a woman period, black,white or brown. You have to give respect to get respect. I believe 'the industry" went strait to NeNe's head. She's had her 15 minutes of fame. All these sounds my children used when they were toddlers "use your words those silly noises will get you nothing words will".Nene uses ploop plop & diddly doo when referring to something she doesn't like, it's ridiculous! I would suggest a good Etiquette book & go back to school for Journalism and you may make something with your life. Sweetie would not be Kim's assistant if she felt she was being mistreated. Watching this series from the beginning and have seen Sheree become more grounded, she takes the show for what it is and carries on with her day to day business. I have always liked Kim and anyone can sound good with auto tune. Big Papa was separated and living in Atlanta, both being adults they can do what they want. Kim is pregnant with Cory's baby she looks & acts happy. I have heard her say on 1 episode that she would love to have another baby. She got what she wanted. Now if Nene would get herself straighten out maybe some anger management,go to school for journalism, learn some manners & get her oldest son on the straight and narrow. Things would be much better for TV. And there would still be drama trust me!

NeNe is a hater
NeNe is a hater

actually NeNe didnt have any business bringing up Kim's name in the interview.She was really trying to be messy then.

BooBoo5
BooBoo5

Kim--you lay with dogs, you get fleas

brenda A
brenda A

My comments are towards Kim first hopefully that she and her assistant Sweetie will not allow the bus rip to put a thorn in their relationship.I hope Kim will stop calling Sweetie Bitch even though they are not serious just show more respect towards each other because Kim's kids seem to love sweetie.Kim assist sweetie in buying much nicer clkothes because she is out wit you all the time.I saw where Kandi addresses the racist issue on the bus and it was not a racist comment and it was trulya big mistake to bring drama queen Ne-Ne on the bus she should have bought Diannaon a plane with her instead of being rude on the bus, an at Kim's friend house.Ne-Ne was very embarassing to the point of know return.Kim's friend said I have only know her for two minutes and I am sure he will give her some advice about Ne-Ne she made everyone ion T.V. land feel the Didn't I tell you this is how BLACK women behave Ne-Ne need an Attitude adjustment and watching her friend Dianna once she arrived when Kim was telling sweete she could stay because Dianna was here she also blew up and I could tell she does not likeKim either.Also looking at Cynthia she doesn't like Kim and Kandi is liker the bag lady instead of telling people they are wrong she beats around the bush and hides a rock in the bag but tries to put up a front.Don Juan should not have said certain things to Kim on ther bus tour.

karentc
karentc

I'm just wondering what the crew does or does not do when the drama between the housewives gets physical??

Suela W
Suela W

I disagree with you. It is one thing to keep us entertained, but she is making herself look like an ass. NeNe is ghetto as hell. Do not get me wrong because I know sometimes you have to act like that so people know how far they can go wtih you. On that note, NeNe acts ghetto all the time. I mean it is ridiculous and it is funny because every week she gets worse....that is why I stay tuned every week because I want to see what ghetto thing she is going to do next. I know that me and my daughter get a good laugh every Sunday.

Rosemund
Rosemund

After watching(making it thru) last weeks episode with loud mouth NeNe on the bus I was really looking forward to last nights show.. However it was just more of the same “LOUD MOUTH JELOUS EGOCENTRIC NENE SHOW. I didn’t even finish watching it. I got my relaxation / satisfaction from turning NeNe off.

Ms.Gail
Ms.Gail

I use to like Ne-Ne but after last night OMG ,your jealouse of Kim ,she needs to kick your behind one time .And all the other ladies ya'll are fake talking about each other behind there backs .

Moni L.A.
Moni L.A.

O'kay everyone, be so truly honest about this. Sweetie is not a child and seems to be a close friends with Kim. I hear grown woman call each other by slurs, and cuss words all the time. NeNe just used it as an excuse to jump in and attack Kim cause she was already burning inside after that appearance and saw how good Kim did. NeNe can not stand it. She's a looney case and needs meds. or even a lock down. If she put her finer in my face I'd grab it and slap her. She is so wrong and makes a fool of herself over and over. Sweetie can defend herself and didn't even like for NeNe to get into her "thing". I don't know what else went on, but I do believe Sweetie had alot to say to NeNe (which was not aired). That girl (Sweetie) looked pissed off! The only one who called her a slave was rude one-NeNe. That's Kim's assistant/friend. Kim pays her. I'm sure she's not doing it for free, or maybe she would, they seem to get along really good. I don't believe anything could break those two up. Even Kim's kids love Sweetie. She seems like she's molded into the family like that. But out NeNe YOU'RE the one who sounds ridiculous and make a fool out of yourself. I don't believe you even read the blogs cause you know you're wrong. Take your steam off doing some thing else. Why don't you get into a Celebrity Match or something since you love to fight so much. I don't know if you'll ever change. You are too old in age (not old in years but old to know or want to change).

jemina
jemina

It's ok to step up if you have to and if it is necessary but when it is not I suggest keep your mouth shut before you get in trouble. I like kandi, sheree, phaedra, and cynthia now. Nene and Kim it's just drama come on now love and light or how does it go again lol.

humblepie
humblepie

I can't wait to see NeNe blog about her actions at the estate in Miami. This Woman has no manners - FrakeDra, can you help? At least you have manners. If I was the Host/or owner of that Estate, I would have asked to go to a Hotel, once she insulted Kim (wasn't the host Kim's friend)? Nene you are a pure Fool! No wonder why you man went to another women. Like Gregg said, you blew up in Atlanta, then there was no living w/you

littlebit
littlebit

now, let's see - you blame Kim for NeNe's behavior!? because Kim invited her along. OK, that makes sense, NOT!

humblepie
humblepie

NeNe wrote a book about her domestic violence experience - LOL - she had to be the one dishing it out... the girl needs some anger management. I hope Bravo will have the guts to show how NeNe held up Cynthia's wedding by barging in Cynthia's dressing room demanding her makeup be done, acted a fool again. Cynthia, you better ditch this REAL CONTROL FREAK NENE

Lady T
Lady T

I JUST STARTED WATCHING THE SHOW THIS SEASON AND I MUST SAY IT IS VERY ENLIGHTENING. FIRST OF ALL THE LAST TWO EPISODES OF HOUSEWIVES DOES NOT EVEN TOUCH THE HOUSEWIVES OF BEVERLY HILLS AND NEW YORK. I CAN NOT BELIEVE BRAVO HAS PUT TOGETHER A SHOW FOR ATLANTA IN WHICH ONLY TWO OUT OF THE SIX ARE HOUSEWIVES, OH BUT NOW CYNTHIA IS A HOUSEWIFE. LET'S START WITH PHAEDRA...SHE IS A HOUSEWIFE WITH HER OWN MONEY AND CAN TAKE CARE OF THINGS, EVEN THOUGH SHE TURNS HER NOSE UP AT THINGS AND SHE IS OFF THE CHAIN WHEN IT COMES TO PARTIES AND TAKING PICTURES. PEOPLE WANT TO JUDGE HER FOR MARRYING A PERSON WHO HAS A RECORD. SO WHAT IF HE DID NOT KILL ANYONE OR ANY OF THE MAJOR CRIMES, HE DESERVE A SECOND CHANCE. NEXT, NENE IS A HOUSEWIFE WHO IS HAVING A DIFFICULT TIME IN HER LIFE, GOING THROUGH A POSSIBLE DIVORCE AND EVEN THOUGH SHE IS VERY LOUD AND SOMETIMES RUDE, SHE DOES GET A POINT ACROSS ESPECIALLY ABOUT HOW KIM SPEAK TO PEOPLE IN GENERAL ESPECIALLY SWEETIE. I FELT LIKE THE EPISODE ON THE BUS WAS PINT UP ANGER AND NOT SO MUCH AS JEALOUSY. I COULD NOT UNDERSTAND WHY IT TOOK NENE TO SAY SOMETHING ABOUT KIM'S BEHAVIOR WHEN IT WAS KANDI'S TOUR. I ALSO DID NOT LIKE HOW JERMAINE DUPRI JUST FLAT OUT IGNORED NENE AT THE INTERVIEW. I FELT THAT WAS VERY RUDE OF HIM TO NOT RESPOND TO HER AT FIRST. BUT ONE THING NENE REALLY DO NEED TO DO IS CHILL OUT A LITTLE AND NOT BE SO CONFRONTATIONAL BECAUSE OF HER POSITION AT 11 ALIVE. NEXT SHEREE IS NOT A HOUSEWIFE ANYMORE SINCE SHE IS DIVORCED AND EVERYTHING SHE SAY SEEMS SO PRACTICED. SHE SAY THINGS IN A SLY KIND OF WAY TO START EITHER A CONVERSATION OR ARGUMENT.HER AND LAWRENCE REALLY KEEP UP TOO MUCH STUFF. RAISE YOUR CHILDREN AND GET YOUR CHILD SUPPORT FROM YOUR EX-HUSBAND, RUN YOUR BUSINESS AND PURSUE YOUR ACTING CAREER AND CALL IT A DAY. CYNTHIA IS JUST NOW BECOMING A HOUSEWIFE BUT GOING INTO IT WITH SOMEONE THAT REFUSES TO COMMUNICATE WITH YOU AND ONCE HE DOES, HE WANTS TO CURSE WHICH IS NO NEED FOR THAT AND IT NEED TO BE DISCUSSED. BUT CYNTHIA NEED TO KNOW THAT NO ONE ON THE SHOW IS A BFF, SORRY NOT EVEN NENE. KHANDI IS NOT A HOUSEWIFE BUT SHE IS HOLDING HER OWN WITH THINGS THAT ARE GOING ON IN HER LIFE. I WISH HER WELL WITH HER ENDEAVORS AND ONE THING INSTEAD OF SAYING THINGS BEHIND PEOPLE'S BACKS , START TELLING THEM IN THEIR FACE. SHE IS A VERY DOWN TO EARTH PERSON WHO IS NOT CONFRONTATIONAL. SHE SHOULD HAVE BEEN MORE AGGRESSIVE WITH KIM, SWEETIE AND NENE. THAT TYPE OF DRAMA WAS SO UNNECESSARY WHEN SHE WAS ON TOUR TRYING TO PROMOTE HER CD. THE WHOLE SCENE ON THE BUS AND HOTEL WAS LIKE LOOKING A BAD HOME VIDEO. AND LAST AND LEAST, WHY IN THE HELL IS KIM ON THE SHOW PERIOD, SHE HAS NO PURPOSE WHAT SO EVER. SHE IS NOT TALENTED AT ALL AND SHE TALKS ANY KIND OF WAY IN FRONT OF HER KIDS AND FROM WHAT I UNDERSTAND SHE IS PREGNANT WITH ANOTHER CHILD OUT OF WEDLOCK. WHAT PART OF HOUSEWIFE IS SHE? HOW IN THE WORLD DO YOU CONTINUE TO PROMOTE HAVING CHILDREN OUT OF WEDLOCK AS A HOUSEWIFE AND HAVING A PREVIOUS RELATIONSHIP WITH A MARRIED MAN, SEPARATED OR NOT SHE WAS STILL CLASSIFIED AS A MISTRESS NOT A HOUSEWIFE. AND TO BE HONEST, EVEN THOUGH SWEETIE IS LOOKING AT THE MONEY PART, SHE STILL COULD PUT DOWN SOME BOUNDARIES. THAT IS TOTALLY RIDICULOUS HOW KIM TALK TO ANYONE ESPECIALLY SWEETIE. THE BITCH WORD COMES OUT OF MOUTH SO MUCH TO OTHERS IT IS SO UNREAL AND SHE IS LOUD AND GHETTO AND SHE WILL GET MAD IF YOU CALL HER A BITCH. WHY WOULD YOU CONTINUE TO HAVE THIS SHOW TO REPRESENT ATLANTA LIKE THAT. I AM QUITE SURE THERE ARE HOUSEWIVES IN ATLANTA THAT CAN SET A BETTER EXAMPLE AND STILL CAN BE ENTERTAINING.

Bravo4me7
Bravo4me7

Nene is a disgusting excuse for a friend! Her behavior just repulses me! She is violent, envious and hateful! I think Nene manipulates people in order to promote her agendas! She wants everyone to hate Kim so she tried playing the race card! I am Hispanic and I don't care what race you are if you disrespect me I'll do it right back... Kim shouldn't have to keep quiet because Nene is black!? Whatever! I don't like Kim but Nene is a bully and I can't stand to listen to her hate on everybody!

redbird
redbird

This season of the RHOA jumped the shark. You know when a show is going down hill when the cast go on a road trip. None the less, NeNe was out of line. First of all, it was not her place to uninvite guest. It was not her house. Then on top of that she was very disrespetful to the host of the house. If I was him, she would have been put out. Secondly, to make comments about Sweetie and Don Juan in their presence, as if they did not matter was just down right mean. NeNe appeared to be in the middle of a nervous breakdown. Eyes bugging. Lips popping. Bamm! Maybe she should have stayed home and worked on her marriage. She has become a legend in her own mind. No humility what so ever. Maybe everything need to be taken away from her, so she can appreciate the great opportunities she had, but messed up because her ego got too large. Everything that come out of her mouth these days, is a put down. It was entertaining at the beginning, but now it is just plain ugly. She is out of control. NeNe it is now always about you. Get a life, or get counseling. Bamm!

nDuta
nDuta

i totally agree with you.

nDuta
nDuta

i seriously think that what went down in the bus was a whole lot of bull crap.I think Nene was just way into herself.She is so preppy,stupid,jealous and conceited.Kim is stupid for not uninviting Nene.

Lessy99
Lessy99

Nene is a jealous immature green with envy giant. She is so jealous of Kim she can't even compose herself. Yes Kim can be annoying but nene is supposed to be a friend. I would've dismissed a friend like her a long time ago. The way she was talking to her is so disrespectful, no woman would take that. It's obvious that she is working on getting her spin off, but nobody wants to see her and her mess. She needs to stick with being an intern, ha, intern.

LUCILLE
LUCILLE

I totally agree! All of these ladies disappoint me because not only does Kim and NeNe talk to each very disrespectfully. BUT they all refer to one another as B's and to me that is UNACCEPTABLE and highly DISRESPECTFUL.

If they are to represent, they all need to go to CHARM SCHOOL and learn ETIQUETTE 101. Because to me they act like an older version of the FLAVOR FAV GIRLS

DISAPPOINTED LADY

look fun
look fun

I think NeNe needs to go. If she stays on the show I will stop watching. She has gone to far. Let her go please don't have her on the show next season. It will be a great show without her.

mia1234
mia1234

I agree totally. NeNe has been out of line with Kim for the last 2 seasons. Tonight's episode takes the cake. How does she have the audacity to disrespect the homeowner and then invite another guest to stay in his house? I was hoping he would eventually ask her to leave. But why do none of the other women speak up when it's so obvious that she is wrong?

Jessica, Houston, TX
Jessica, Houston, TX

All I can say is NeNe talk about class and I honestly believe she has no idea the meaning of the word. She does this time and time again, you know what they say, a leopard never changes his spots. Second, I was proud of Kim not getting on NeNe's level. Third, NENE we have always been a fan of yours, watching you time and time again, when you didn't get invited to a certain party and who left with you? Kim. I mean it goes on and on, you belittle and abuse people that you think you can get away with. Hopefully, your life will bring you some sort of happiness because you know money won't. But a ton of empty relationships will leave you just that, EMPTY!

Chanell
Chanell

NeNe i am not a fan of yours anymore. You are constantly in conflict with someone. You don't know how to be anything other than a complete ass. You were endearing the first season and how far you are from that person is amazing. As i recalled when you were standing outdside because you and your loud mouth was not wanted it was Kim who stood out there with you and she had an invitation. Kim has stayed true to herself from one season to the next. So if you can't be a real friend to her then keep your mouth shut and stay away from her. That is all.

ATL Viewer
ATL Viewer

Clearly, celebrity status has gotten to Nene's head! She respects no boundaries, & has become both tasteless and classless. If we see the change, Greg feels the change & it is no surprise that her marriage is shaken. She is a disgrace to black women & a poor portrayal of our image. She instigated the fight with Kim & I'm glad that Kim stood up to her. Nene is jealous of Kim, Kim's music career, and uses cheap shots (Kim's history w/ a married man) because she has nothing much over Kim. Nene needs to take a seat back, do a self-assessment, & work on getting rid of her ghetto attitude. She has become a monster who is out of control. A true embarassment to her former fans, husband, family, and more importantly, her children. She needs to retreat from Housewives and handle her ghettoness locally. Totally disappointed!

Jackie824
Jackie824

I completely agree. She was the problem without a doubt. I never thought I would be on Kim's side but NeNee is plain old STREET.

Chantele
Chantele

I think NeNe is a person who speaks her mind. Ghetto? Maybe but you know where she is coming from at all times. I hate people like Kandi who is here and there, she has wondering where here loyalites lie, especially if she is a friend. Kim, is the typical white girl with black friends, she says shit she shouldn't and have a bunch of black women patting her back. Sweetie... you are a slave, paid or not, you don't let anybody white or black talk to you like shit and run you around assistant/maid/slave is really f... up for a title.

Mrs.Rice
Mrs.Rice

Wow, Nene is a nut job. Her inability to control her self blew me away. Kim does havea smart mouth, but her relationship with Sweetie is mutual and understood. Furthermore, it's 2011 if Sweetie had a problem, im sure she would express it. From the beginning of the episode, nene really hated on kim's singing tour w-Kandi. Nene's correspondence about Kim's singing was very negative the entire time. Nene is crazy, narcissistic, out of control. I thought she took the argument too far. I understand that the show needs ratings, but Nene, took it overboard. She talked to kim like a peice of trash. I actually do have an idea of why nene was very angered by kim.... I think she ws put off by the way she talked to sweetie. I just think that nene could have expressed her frustrations in a more adult matter. She is in her 40's, she seems very ghetto, loud and an embarrassment to professional black women. and also, someone please tell her, that she needs to learn what true journalism is. It's not JUST interviewing! Ignorance!!!! Get a degree in journalism, or take a communication class! stop embarassing us!

Taj_Marie
Taj_Marie

Although I am not necessarily a fan of Nene, I am tired of people taking up for Kim and defending how she talks down to Sweetie. As a matter of fact, she was the one who not only initiated the argument but was waiting to have one soon after she saw the interview that Nene did with Jermaine Dupri. While she may have felt slighted when Nene brought up her name during that interview --but how is that any different than when she sat in the company of Nene to gossip about a little innocent joke that Cynthia did to lighten the tension between her and Nene with her Contract? She even admitted in the conversation that she didn't know Cynthia well but that didn't stop her from judging and turning down her nose.

Kim needs to know that you reap what you sow and that no one is the exception to that rule.

very entertained
very entertained

please to whoever made the comment that they can no longer watch the show because of Ne Ne's actions on the bus. PUHLEASE !!!!!!! you see things that are more disturbing than that on COPS could you please stop over reacting and KIM needed that she is just an overgrown,spoiled, wig wearing hepher and someone needs to put her straight because it seems that this season people were holding back from snapping on her DON'T just let it go and then that smart mouth of hers will be just a memory.

RHOatl FAn
RHOatl FAn

What goes around comes around. I don't understand why NeNe ever had fans. I was on to her from the beginning! NeNe steadily, repeatedly and constantly DISHES it out to everyone. Her behavior shows her jealously towards every other cast member. NeNe dishes it out over and over again. Problem for NeNe is she can't HEAR, or recognize the truth about herself. She is a jealous gossip about everyone around her. After she takes the time to interview Jermaine Dupri, again, blaming the interview on him before confessing she didn't do her research. And really, donating $20 to dancing with the stars, tacky, tacky tacky. NeNe needs to take a look in a REAL mirror and see she doesn't own the room, SHE STINKS IT UP!

ViewerGoosie
ViewerGoosie

I love Ne Ne and the rest of the cast. They all make the show fun and sometimes infuriating...Face it folks...this show is never dull!!

Kim is trying to make her way in life not much talent, but hey...she probably is laughing all the way to the bank. It always has to be about her...I've never seen a compassionate, generous attitude toward anyone but herself. NeNe calls a spade a spade. I like that in a person...and if she goes too far...it shows and she has always been the one to reach out again to bridge to gap. None of us are perfect....Thanks girls for entertaining me all season!

Anquinette
Anquinette

To be real the show is getting a bit boring, Kim can't sing and she does treat sweetie terrible. 2. Kandi sucks too, she is boring also, and what is funny she is has two faces too, she go back and tell what other people have said about everybody. 3. Sheree is boriiiiiiing she need to be the next one off the show. 4. Fake Phadrae where did they get her from taking care of a man she should not be on here to start with. 5. NeNe love her but I think you are at the end of your road to, although you keep it popping . 6. Cynthia the way the tv have you looking like your man is controlling and you should not have a say about anything, i know you might love him but take a step back and look around.

Lovely Lady
Lovely Lady

I must say people are getting to caught in this whole whay you don't say to a black, white, asian, altino, mexican, whatever type of woman.. I will just put it this way.. Wouldn't know woman, man, or child speak to me the way that Kim and NeNe speak to each other.. Just like someone has said, Kim pays Sweetie to be her assistant and hey if Sweetie is cool with it then who are we to judge.. Some folks don't value integrity.. Thats there position not mine.. Sweetie will need to address Kim but as you see neither Phaedra, Kandi, not Sheree get spoken to the way that Nene speaks to or about Cynthia and Kim.. I wouldn't be Kim's friend nor NeNe's with out a friend contract and the first time they spoke to me that way.. Wigs would be the least of your worries flying.. Give Respect to Get.. If you don't respect yourself then don't expect others to Respect you... I love you Cynthia and I would sign your friend contract... Peter is lucky to have you and wishing you nothing but the best...

Lovely Lady
Lovely Lady

I would just like to rebuttle the comments of whos fault this is. Both of these ladies are guilty and if u ask me both of them speak to people rude. Sure if the ball is in their court then you get a sweeter milder version but let either one of them feel like someone is calling them out or saying something they don't like then all hell breaks loose. Season 1 i lovedddd NENE but now she seems to not be that strong woman she has portrayed herself to be. Kim on the other hand is crazy and I never assumed she was this strong or an over coming woman such as NENE. But either way both are pimping the press and fame. No doubt about that. But I am very disappointed in the way Nene is acting, misery loves company and everyone can see she is miserable and trying bring anyone down with her. It is best her and Kim stop faking like they are friends. But I still have a strange notion that once the cameras are finally off and they are no longer in the limelight they will be back friends because one thing we dont know is what brought them together in the first place. I love KANDI!! Now she keeps it real and grown... Only kids play games... That is not!!! To all the ladies Hustle ON!!! Cause I ain't mad at ya!!!!

sassy6609
sassy6609

I use to love NeNe is the former seasons but this season i dont know if is because she got too much attention in the celebrity world i think it all went straight to her head. NeNe uses Kim as her punching bag(so to speak)because i think she is afraid of the other women on the show. She started with Sheree on season one and since then she has gone after every woman on that show. Nene is a loud mouth bully and someone needs to cut her down to size. If Nene is doing an interview with Jermaine there should be no mention of Kim or any of the other housewives...let the interview be about the person. Nene next time do your home work and therefore you wouldnt have to talk about your friends and family...Nene needs to learn how to interview

bluemoon1131
bluemoon1131

Nene is a nut job. She totally started that argument with Kim. She started getting loud and ghetto when she was saying that Sweetie and Don Juan shouldn't come to Kim's friends house. First of all, they are still on tour and it's Kim's friends estate who does Nene think she is? If Kim wants to have her employee tag along on her friends estate she can. I mean damn! It's an estate I'm sure she can go missing for 3 days and you won't see her. Nene I thought you didn't like Cynthia? Weren't you talking shit about her note with Kim? Ooooo that's right you want her husband since yours don't want you. If Nene would have spoke lower there would have been no argument. Once Kim said that Sweetie and Don Juan were working Nene threw her low blow the typical "Kim can't sing and she's not really working" I mean come on! How many times do I have to hear that same line? We all know that Kim can't sing, but hey she has a single out. It was stupid for Nene to even go there, what was the point of that? I know! Because she is still mad that Kim was on the track and she wasn't. Did I mention that someone gave the song to Kim and not Nene in the first place? Also, what really ticked me off is Nene saying that Kim better not speak to a black woman like that. I'm black and I thought that to be the most ignorant thing that could have ever come out of her mouth. I mean please Nene you are being so disrespectful and you started talking crap first! Why can you a "black women" say rude things but when the white girl talks back it's wrong? If you ask me that's stupid racist, ignorant talk. How can Nene call Kim a dumb blonde? Nene isn't your topee blonde too? Nene is making me like her less and less. The only thing I agree with Nene on is how Kim talks to Sweetie, but Sweetie is an adult and I'm sure she can handle her own. I believe Nene just wanted to get under Kim's skin. And how is Kim treating Sweetie like a slave?? She is her assistant, granted Kim could be a little more nicer but it's Sweeties job to do those things. Nene some advice: If you are going to talk about Kim can you come up with other things to talk about other then her wig? We ALL know Kim has a wig for christ sake she isn't hiding it! She sales them online! and you have a weave (also blonde);jealous. Can you stop with the Big Poppa thing? Please! Geez I mean I don't agree with it but the man is separated! Your man is cheating, so you should worry about that;jealous. Can you also stop talking about her not being able to sing? We all can hear that. I know you wish you were getting as much fame as she is from the song, but this isn't the Nene show boo;jealous. Oh and can you stop bringing up her vocal abilities to other people? Why do you keep doing that? Jealous. Sort your life out Nene

annah
annah

OMG Are you serious...They need to take all of the housewives off the air and not start any new ones. It shows how ignorant women in America are no matter what age or race...how ungrateful people can be and take life for granted...

Robin S
Robin S

Oh pls, wateva! NeNe is the best thing that ever happened to that show & with out her on the show most people I know would not watch. Kim can dish it out but she can't take it when a real woman like NeNe give it back to her. Back it up... Or Back up!I'm Team NeNe all the way...oh & I love Kandi too, she should have said more to put Sweetie in her place on the bus...home girl was disrespectful snappin' all day. Can't wait to see the This Sundays episode. Peace & Love!

Miss Lady
Miss Lady

Kim was very annoying on that bus, and she DOES treat Sweetie like a slave, calling her for every small thing. But Kim talks to everyone like that--her hairstylist, the bus driver, etc. Hmmm, but she doesn's seem to cross Kandi in that fashion. I wonder why. As a matter of fact, Nene doesn't cross Kandi the way she does Kim either. Not since last episode when Kandi showed her she is not the one to be bullied like Kim.

Nene does seem to take things to heart but doesn't expect anyone else to. She said she came to be supportive to Kim because she was her friend, but she was not showing it. It's like she stepped in Kim's hotel room with an attitude. Maybe she should have just stayed home.

As for the jealousy comments everyone here are making, I would like to bring to your attention that every last woman on this show has said something negative behind at least one of the other's back. In my opinion, despite the fact that none of these women have talent, they don't support each other very well. Remember the looks and comments during Sheree's dance performance and her two minutes of acting in that play? How about Kandi's performance at the Uptown club? So let's not put all the blame on Nene. She just needs to practice having some self-control.

MizzVal
MizzVal

I don't know why eberybody is jumping on Nene, Kim started with that mouth of hers, Yes Nene should control her temper bu Kim needs to shut her mouth. Talks a good game but can't back it up!!. and another thing everybody's talking like this was her tour . HELLO !!! this is Kandi Promo Tour and she ask that none singing, lip syching Kim to come along. I know she wish she left her and all her ghetto friends at home and believe me that includes Nene and Sweetie. What as far as what Kim said calling any women the B word might get your face slapped in any race OK

ViewerABC
ViewerABC

True, but I don't think that includes trying to wring someone's neck because you don't agree with them. Nene needs help. Seriously.

ViewerABC
ViewerABC

She basically reinforces all the negative stereotypes that exist for black women...

ViewerABC
ViewerABC

What is there to be jealous of concerning Nene (or any of these women for that matter)? I think the simple fact that she doesn't think enough of her fans to spend 30 minutes writing a blog for them should be enough to let you know she doesn't give a rats ass about you or her fans!

Snowgirl
Snowgirl

Please, Nene was wrong she was only on the bus because she was invited. It all started when Kim was on the phone with her friend letting him know they needed a couple more rooms for her assistant and Kandi's assistant, who the hell does Nene think she is to tell Kim they cant stay it is Kim's friends house they are staying at really. Nene has put Kim down all along why can't she just be the friend she says she is. Please Nene was being disrespectful to Kim during the interview just more of the put downs that Nene is so good for. Kim did not even mention the interview to her until she got so out of control. Goooood for Kim I am so glad she stands up to her holds her own it is just like Kim said, she thinks just because she is soooooo loud Kim should be scared of her but she isnt. WAY TO GO KIM.

I Agree with AreYouForReal
I Agree with AreYouForReal

I was thinking the same thing, which is were we all wathching the same show and episode. I am totally on NeNe's side... Kim has no manners and she thinks that she can talk to people any way that she sees fit. Yes, Sweetie is crazy for allowing it, but it was about time that someone said something about Kim and he mouth. Have we all stooped so low that we have forgotten humanity...? I know it was not all about Sweetie, but even Kandhi agreed with NeNe about the way that Kim talks out of pocket to Sweetie.

I remember in one episode when Kim called Don Juan nappy headed a.. Right there I was offended amongst other things she has said. Maybe everyone needs to watch the upcoming episode when the ladies get togethr with Kim and let her that there are certain things you can and cannot say to a black woman. I really think that Kim has forgotten what color she is and thinks that she can blend right in. Wrong...

I would say if you are siding with Kim then maybe you need to re-watch the episode. Let's not get it confused... I am talking about this episode in regards to NeNe and only this one. Don't go off on a tangent in regards to other episodes that you may have not agreed with NeNe. Either way... I have been a fan of NeNe and I always will be.