Cast Blog: #RHOA

Bienvenidos to Miami!

Kenya on NeNe's "Embarrassing" Behavior

Claudia: "These Double Standards are Killing Me"

Kandi: "I'm Not Two-Faced"

Phaedra: I Appreciated Demetria's Apology

Are Demetria and Phaedra Cool?

NeNe on Her Apology

Cynthia: Claudia Can Read with the Best of Them

Claudia: NeNe's Behavior Needed to Be Checked

Kenya on "The Beasts"

Phaedra: Demetria Took Things Too Personally

GIF Recap: Lessons in Reading

Phaedra's Ignorant Comments

Claudia: I'm Not Surprised by NeNe's Ugly Demeanor

Kenya: NeNe Doesn't Want to Like Me

Cynthia: I'm Moving Forward in Grace and Love

Kandi: "I Wasn't Trying to Set Demetria Up"

Phaedra on Being Recognized by the Bar

NeNe: "I'm Not a Fake Friend"

Demetria Responds to the Rumors

Cynthia: Forgiveness is a Process

Phaedra: My Mother is My Rock

Kenya: "An Acknowledgement is Not an Apology"

Claudia: I Do Not Own a Flip Phone

Cynthia: It Was Awkward Seeing Phaedra Uncomfortable

Demetria: I Have No Beef with Kenya

NeNe Explains the Wig

Phaedra: I Was Hoping Apollo Wouldn't Create a Scene

Kenya's Not Interested in Roger Bobb

Claudia: "I'm the Samantha of the Group"

Kenya: Cynthia Commanded the Runway

Phaedra: You Don't Often Come Across Hair Burglary

Cynthia: "I Pray We Can Make Peace"

Claudia: I Could Relate to Cynthia's Insecurities

Cynthia's "Non-Conversation" with NeNe

NeNe: The Pit Bull Act is Not a Good Look

Kenya: If It Looks Like a Fraud...

Phaedra: "I Moved Past This Years Ago"

Claudia: I Am Not Asking for Sympathy

GIF Recap: Saltines, Anyone?

Kenya: Why Would Apollo Try to Hurt Phaedra?

Bienvenidos to Miami!

Cynthia thought the Miami trip was a drama-free blast.

Bienvenidos to Miami! NeNe invited Kandi and me to Miami for an all-girls weekend, and it certainly was just that. Literally an ALL girls weekend! What happens in Miami, stays in Miami right? Well, not really, but we will get to that later.

Here we go! I have been extremely busy with married life, motherhood, and opening up The Bailey Agency, so I welcomed the beautiful sands of South Beach with open arms. I could not wait to jump into my two-piece and spend some time with the girls. We had a blast! There was very little drama, and we got along great. Kandi was cool, and I think we all genuinely had a good time together. We all connected on this trip as smart business women who are making big things happen in our own way. It was a weekend of delicious cocktails, great food, clubbing, and "girl power" at its finest. Lots and lots of "girl power"! I did not attend Kim's birthday party, because I was not invited. We really don't know each other that well, so it was no surprise not to get an invite. Those special moments should be reserved for your closest friends and family. I can respect that, and I wish her a happy birthday all the same. However, I was a little surprised that on such a joyous occasion my name even came up. I thought the way the girls talked about NeNe was mean and offensive. The use of the B word and speaking in such a negative manner in front of children at a birthday celebration was just irresponsible. Where was the eating cake and ice cream and opening presents?

Kim doesn't seem to think I have a backbone, because I'm friends with NeNe. I have enough of a backbone to respect the union of marriage and not date another woman's husband. Or did we forget about that? I really don't understand why NeNe and Kim's breakup has anything to do with me. I don't have an issue with Kim. Or any of the other girls for that matter. They makeup and breakup when they are ready, and it's all good. I am close with NeNe, Kandi  is close with Phaedra, and Kim is close with Sheree.  What's the problem?
At the end of the day, it's so easy to be nasty, and that takes very little effort and zero talent. Calling other women the B word all day has to be exhausting mentally and spiritually. I thought new love and pregnancy were happy times where you embrace life and positivity. Motherhood is beautiful, and being in love is the cherry on top! Rest assured, I have a backbone and very beautiful cheek bones to go with it. Enjoy your wonderful blessings and I will enjoy mine.

Warmly,
Cynthia

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