Cynthia Bailey

Cynthia thought the Miami trip was a drama-free blast.

on Nov 14, 2011

I did not attend Kim's birthday party, because I was not invited. We really don't know each other that well, so it was no surprise not to get an invite. Those special moments should be reserved for your closest friends and family. I can respect that, and I wish her a happy birthday all the same. However, I was a little surprised that on such a joyous occasion my name even came up. I thought the way the girls talked about NeNe was mean and offensive. The use of the B word and speaking in such a negative manner in front of children at a birthday celebration was just irresponsible. Where was the eating cake and ice cream and opening presents?

Kim doesn't seem to think I have a backbone, because I'm friends with NeNe. I have enough of a backbone to respect the union of marriage and not date another woman's husband. Or did we forget about that? I really don't understand why NeNe and Kim's breakup has anything to do with me. I don't have an issue with Kim. Or any of the other girls for that matter. They makeup and breakup when they are ready, and it's all good. I am close with NeNe, Kandi  is close with Phaedra, and Kim is close with Sheree.  What's the problem?