OK, I had to go back and fast forward this episode to Kim’s birthday to see where I was allegedly “hating” and “playing both sides” as NeNe says. After re-watching it I have to ask, what the hell were y’all watching where you hear me hating on her or playing both sides?
First off I don’t say anything about either one of them behind their backs that I won’t say to them in person, and I’ve never said anything about either one of them that wasn’t true. You can automatically cut the playing both sides conversation short and kill all the comments about me carrying bones. I did not say anything negative about Cynthia or NeNe. When Kim asked me about the trip I said it was cool and to end any more conversations about the trip I made the joke, “The one thing that I can say to y’all is that she’s rich now.” That was the on-going joke ever since NeNe and Sheree had that argument, so it wasn’t a big deal. I even said something to NeNe about the “I’m rich” comment when I was with her in Miami, so it’s not like I didn’t make a joke of it in front of her. I’ve never tried to make NeNe feel like I wasn’t cool with the other girls. So clearly she knew that I would continue to hang out with them when I got back.
Preach, Kandi! You tell it like it is, with no malice or delusions, which is more than I can say for some of the other ladies.
I watch the show & read the blogs but I never comment. This time I had too. You are 100% right in this blog. And love you on the show. Keep being you.
Thank you Kandi for keeping it real! You seem to be the only down to earth one on this show. Please keep it that way.
And THIS is why I love you. You have said time and time again that the money ebbs and flows ... and I was HAPPY to hear you mention a financial planner to Nene. Let it go ... she isn't worth it ... you kept it real.
Kandi is my favorite. However, I was not thrilled with her this episode. And, you do not have to be envious of anyone as you are very talented. Stay positive!!
Kandi You are the best. NeNe was great the first season. Now she is so full of herself. I would steer clear of that train wreck!!Anyway, you have stayed the same every season and I love you!!
Amen Kandi. Don't stoop to Nene's level. She isn't worth the energy and is just there to create drama.
Amen, Kandi! It cracks me up to see people jumpin' on you, when you've always been pretty upfront and direct. The biggest hater in the crowd has ALWAYS been NeNe.
HI NENE I WISH U AND YO FAMILY NOTHING HAPPIENESS AND JOY. WITHOUT U THERE NO HOUSEWIFES OF ATLANTA.LUV U
As always a class act...my guess is that you have made and will make the most money out of all of the women on the show and never make a big deal out of it...and that is why you are a class act.
I don't know, Kandi, for someone who isn't "hating" on NeNe, you spent nearly the entire blog entry telling us how you're not "hating" on her. Does thou protest too much? Until you wrote the blog, I didn't think you were hating on NeNe at all; now, I'm not so sure.
I think you are beautiful Kandi and one of the few "real" representations of a real woman!! you do it all and you do it all on your own terms! You are a true inspiration, bravo to you!
Kandi...i agree with you totally ....so many people love to see others rise to the top as long as they are on that ride with them...but when it gets bad poof their gone.....without going into details your decision to go into the sex toy business was very smart and you will do very well...you have re-invented yourself...i think you are the smart one...good for you....
KANDi my girl! you are soooo rite! If NENE is "RICH" why is she so concerned with what other people are saying or said cause i wouldn't be! i would be counting my money! N apparently she just got rich if he just now talkin about it!!! All i can say is misery loves company.. She feels like she has no more friends so she tried to pull you into her web but im happy you are so much smartie than that and stayed away! Honey let her talk cause words dont mean a thing, actions do! Im only 16 and i manage my friends just like you! And if something is funny YES IM GOIN 2 LAUGH!!....♥KiRA
Well stated Kandi!! Women should uplift each others success!!! Can't we all just get along!!! #team Nene &Kandi!!! SN: Why is Kim on the show? She is the token white girl on the show. There are no blacks on any of the other housewives shows...then its a white girl that thinks she is black??? smh Bravo failed on picking her for the show. Kim needs to go!!!!
I didn't think you were hating at all Kandi. It was funny because when you guys were looking at that 9 million dollar house in Miami with NeNe, your comments mirrored exactly what I was thinking. I was so happy that someone was asking the right questions. NeNe definitely needs to keep "real" people in her life. Cynthia wasn't keeping it real. She was looking for a vacation spot (can't much blame her). Kudos to you Miss Kandi for being a positive role model on the show!
Kandi, I am glad you stated that. The term "hater" is overused. I always question someone who has to tell you all the time that they are rich, successful and/or wonderful. You are my favorite housewife.
I agree with you. You are not a hater. Nene is looking like a fool saying she's rich from Celebrity Apprentice (very very rich). Then she tried to take it back and say "rich in life". Keep doing you. You have obviously maintained your home and managed your money. Nene rents a new house every season to "look" rich. It's really sad. She is a disgrace.
Why not just say I had a good time and that's it! You don't have to go into details because you don't do the same with her. Talking about her like that was just not cool, she invited you on a trip and this is how you repay her. I'm sorry boo but you was hating because if I was going to a birthday party....the last person on my mind would be someone who wasn't invited!
The fact is, Nene's a hater. She is ridiculous and pretty much everything that comes out of her mouth is ignorant and nasty. She is a sad, sad lady. Happy people don't say the things she says, or over react like she does. Honestly I'd feel bad for her if she wasn't so vile to everyone.
Kandi yes you were. You were being quite messy, when they asked you how the trip went you should have said fine and left it at that but no you made the comment about she is rich. Whatever you discuss with one side don't tell it to the other side. NeNe clearly asked you not to bring up their names on the trip because she wanted to have a good time. You like mess just like the rest of them and it is sad. I am glad that I am a woman who has morals because you all do not. You all love to call NeNe a bully but look at what you all do to provoke her. Don't stoop to that level but it's is to late.
I so agree with you and you are on the money with your blog.
I have always seen you tell it like it is and I feel in this situation that is exactly what you did, the term hater has become one of those words used way to loosely and often used as an excuse to cut a person off but as we know that is ghetto chick mentality.
Love you and love your Bedroom Kandi line...really stylish and fun.