Tonight's episode really aggravated me. So I have a lot to say!
The ladies went to Africa, and because KJ was so young (2-months-old at the time) and Kroy was away at camp I obviously didn't go.
NeNe mentioned that I am materialistic and superficial, which I found funny coming from someone who says she is "very rich." I love my Louis Vuitton, I love my YSL, and I will STILL die in Dior, but never have I boasted and made displays of my items in hotel rooms. I am very blessed and grateful to have what I have. I never take my things for granted, or the things I’ve been granted will get taken away.
Kim, Sheree is not your friend. I think she just want to know how u landed a baller. Watch out, she's a snake!
I think some of the girls have been trying to paint Kim as a racist from day one and the baby comment was just another nail they tried to hammer in on kim. Really low and something they would not tolerate themselves.
Kim just wanted an excuse to be mad at Kandi because she never gave Kandi her share of Tardy for the Party. I am so tired of Kim blaming her new baby for her not interacting with the cast. As we can see from the show she doesnt even take care of the baby. She act like he was a new purse she was showing off to the girls and then she handed him to the housekeeper to change. I am so digusted by Kim's flip flop behavior. Sheree tried to rip her wig off her head a couple of seasons back but now they have been best friends for 10 years. The only one not doing anything with themselves is Sheree. Kandi has her own show and so does Kim, NeNe is doing alot and Phaedra is doing Phaedra. Sheree is just trying to ride Kim's coat tails. Kim, it just better to say you didn't want to go because you didnt want to deal with all that drama. And I dont care about you moving, and you filming, and all the other crap you have been using as an excuse because we all know you didnt have to lift a finger in the whole process other than pointing to tell people what to do.
You need to squash your argument with Khandi. After the fiasco with the music, you two weren't "friends" anyway. Sheree LIED to you about what was actually said on the safari. I do agree that your name shouldn't have come out of anybody's mouth because you weren't there. If you want to be mad at somebody, confront Cynthia for starting the whole discussion about not thinking you'd go on the trip.
I know these shows were filmed like 3-4 months ago, so I hope by the time the reunion show airs, you will announce that Sweetie has been fired. Loyalty is no reason to keep a lazy, unproductive employee. Kroy has enough money for you to buy a loyal, efficient assistant. If she used profanity towards your daughter, why is she still stepping foot in your home? That's a deal-breaker! Fire sweetie and hang out with her during your free time if you want too. I don't see her as a true friend because I wouldn't take advantage of my friends the way she uses you.
KIM I THINK IT IS SO WRONG THE WAY YOU TREATED KANDI, HOW FAST YOU FORGOT THAT WHEN ALL THE OTHER LADY'S INCLUDING SHEREE DID'NT WANT ANYTHING TO DO WITH YOU , KANDI WAS THERE. SHE HELPED YOU FAR MORE THEN ANY OF THE OTHER LADIES HAVE. I CAN'T BELIEVE THAT YOU ARE LETTING SHEREE COME BETWEEN YOU AND KANDI. IT MAKE'S YOU LOOK TWO FACED JUST LIKE SHEREE. I KNOW YOU ARE WANTING TO BE A GOOD PERSON AND ALL BUT DAMN YOU NEED TO OPEN YOUR EYE'S UP AND SEE THE FRIEND SHIP YOU ARE LETTING SHEREE RUIN, SHEREE HAS NOT ALWAYS HAD YOUR BACK LIKE YOU SAID SHE DID CUZ I BELIEVE IT WAS HER THAT TRIED TO PULL YOUR WIG OFF, OH YOU MUST OF FORGOTTEN THAT THO. IM JUST SAYING THAT I CAN SEE WHO YOUR REAL FRIEND IS AND IT AIN'T SHEREE.
Kim open your eyes! When has Sheree ever "had your back"?! You are a little forgetful about the fights you guys have had. I wish you all the luck with your relationship, kids (KJ is such a cutie), etc. But don't put your trust in the likes of Sheree....you will be sorely disappointed..in five, four, three, two, one..... get it? It will NOT take long. This is Sheree we are talking about after all!
Kim, you have become one of my favorite characters on the show. I am proud of you and happy that your life is going so well. With that said, I am very disappointed with you in the way you handled the situation with Kandi and Sheree. Sheree is not your friend. She is just a mess starter. I don't see anything wrong with Kandi's comment. The fact is, you have complained about being hot on soooo many of the episodes. You have 2 housewives, a nanny and an assistant. Why would anyone thing that you would go do anything at an orphanage. I agree, I see you sending a check but not yourself. Also, you made the statement at Cynthia's party that you didnt want to be around those ladies anymore. Which is exactly what Kandi was commenting on. So, she was right, you probably wouldnt have wanted to go to Africa and spend that much time with NeNe and Marlo. Let's just keep it real. Apologize to Kandi, and keep one eye open when around Sheree. She does not have your back.
I know you've known Sheree, for a long time, but kim that chica isn't doing anything to trying to cause DRAMA!!! Can't stand her classless self! Kim didn't say those things about you, all she said was she couldn't see you on the trip. Maybe that in itself was wrong, but it didn't come from a malicious place with Kandi. She may have her faults, as we all do, but she's really gotten the shaft on this one a the hands of Sheree. Sheree can not be trusted, no matter how long you've known her!
Kim, be very wary of Sheree... That woman doesn't have a sincere bone in her body. I honestly don't think she's a sincere friend to you (or anyone) - She should be the poster child for "Haterville" LOL
She has an alterior motive... She has nothing going on for her (you do... so does Kandi, Nene, Phaedra, Cynthia...). I think she just wants to ride your coat tail - You'll have a new show soon... If she's the "best friend" then most likely she get to roll over into that show and get PAID$$$! Think about it... Sheree is only for Sheree.
Kandi is a far more sincere person... believe it!
Hopefully, now that the episodes have aired, you have seen exactly what happened and realized that Sheree is no friend of yours! She is a tattler of false tales, who said nothing to defend you when the others were talking about you.
I don't agree with what Cynthia said, but I don't think she meant that you were racist. I do find it ironic that you are so pissed at Kandy for not sticking up for you and for saying she didn't think that you would have come on the trip because of Nene, but you aren't pissed that Sheree didn't stick up for you either. All Sheree did was run call you, lie about what was said, and then continue to lie to your face about it. She didn't call out Cynthia, she did nothing. I think that you owe Kandy an apology for how rude you were to her at your luncheon. You also should call out Sheree for not having your back in Africa either. Calling you after the fact is not having your back, that is her trying to stir the pot. If she was really your friend and really had your back, she would have said something as Cynthia was commenting about you.
OK Mrs. Kim just stop and think has Kandi every tryed to pull off your wig? and who has? when you answer the question than that the she devil you need to watch out for! I tell what I seen is Mrs Sheree pulling at your wig and did you see the clip when they were in africa your New Best Faithful friend sat up ther a noded to what was beening said she took the comment and turn it into something negtive, and No you know for yourself you would not have went because you have not have been wanted to be around the other ladies lately regardless where they have went on a trip, come on for real keep the witch Sheree with long handle spoon before she through you under the bus too.
OK "BRING IT ON" A LICENSED PRACTICAL NURSE IS LICENSED...UH, THATS WHY SHE OR HE IS CALLED THAT "LICENSED PART" I TOO, AM A FORMER LPN THAT WENT ON TO ACQUIRE AN RN DEGREE, BUT I HAVE THE UTMOST RESPECT FOR LPNS...THEY ARE THE ONES IN NURSING HOMES AND CLINICS TAKING CARE OF OUR ELDERLY AND OUR CHILDREN WHILE WHILE WE DO THE PAPERWORK. JUST CALLING IT LIKE IT IS. PATIENT CARE IS NORMALLY DONE BY THE LPNS AND THE CNAS AND YOU KNOW IT!! I WENT AHEAD BECAUSE I HAD TWO KIDS TO RAISE AND NEEDED THE MONEY, BUT I MISS SO MUCH THE PATIENT CARE AND CONTACT. I WOULD RATHER PUSH A WHEELCHAIR ANYDAY THAN A PEN LIKE I DO NOW.
You got it all girl! People are just jealous that you are happy. Its not even the beautiful home and things...It's the sweet daughters, the wonderful new husband and the beautiful baby boy...snaps for you for figuring it all out...fame is fleeting but family is forever! Hugs and best wishes.
Pay attention to the messenger. Why would Kandi lie to you? As she ever lied to you? Remember when no one else was around or dealing with you, who was? Helped boost your "career" in singing when you know damn well you don't have the skills. She backed you 100%. Instead of believing any and everything that comes out of your so called friend's mouth, look to the person who had your back from jump. Even though she may not have been there throughout your pregnancy..figure out why. Get back to what you know and patch up your friendship. Fix it!
Kim you told Kandi that if Chynthia is saying something bad about you that she should of defended you instead of agreeing with her, but there where two more ladies in that car (Sheree and Phaedra). I didn't see any of those two speak up and defend you either. So why make a big deal with Kandi?
Kim and Sweetie need to tone it down..they are really overacting their parts and its really annoying. Its making me not want to watch.. It looks so fake. Get it together ladies..
It's obvious that you were hurt by what the ladies were saying about you on the Africa trip. Anyone would be. However, I think you need to take a good look over your shoulder at Sheree. You say that Kandi should have stuck up for you when Cynthia was talking about you because that is what a friend would do. You hold Kandi to that standard, but give Sheree a pass. She didn't stick up for you. In fact, she didn't say a word about it until she had the chance to run and call you. People are always going to talk about other people. What you need to ask yourself is why would someone that cares for you so much (Sheree) be so quick to tell you things that will only hurt you? It was clear that her intentions were to cause drama. Your feelings were collateral damage. This was about her getting one up on Kandi. Friends lift you up and support you. They don't get pleasure out of seeing you hurt - and it was obvious that she was loving every minute of the situation. Hopefully, when you see it played back, you will see that too.
I don't understand how you could watch the episode... see what was and what was not said and still go on and on about Kandi. Sheree straight up lied to you and you dont have one thing to say about her. If you want to be mad at Kandi I think its for reasons other than her thinking that you would not go to an orphanage. Sheree was on that bus too and didn't say a damn word to defend you...
If anyone is a true friend and straight up real person it's Kandi. Keep Sheree out of your business, don't listen to her tall tales and make sure the lid is tight on your garbage can before you go to bed at night.
Kim Don't be a fool....the whole thing was taken sooo out of context....Trust, Kandi did NOT even remotely make a horrible comments pertaining to you being racist...that's not even her style....I know you know better than that....No, one was talking about your back....it was NO big deal.....
Kim...I am currently 7 months pregnant, with a boy(YAY!) and have an 11 year old daughter...so im loving watching you and your family and the new addition..congrats! WHAT i REALLY NEED TO KNOW is...where do all of your fabulous dresses come from....when you were pregnant you wore a lot of long dresses and I am trying to find some now...please help!!!thanks
Kim, I don't think that Sheree is such a great friend to you as well. If she was such a great friend she would have said something to your defense and not sit there and smile with them. I think they meant it in a joking way and I know words were stated to you incorrectly. Sheree did Phaedra dirty talking about her lawyer skills when clearly it was her own undoing. I've heard you make comments about Kandi also and the other ladies as well so try not to cast stones. I agree with you letting go of your friendship with NeNe to a certain point, but don't forget that Sheree pulled your hair and called you names as well. Just get over it, forgive and move on, because I don't think Kandi sees you as racist. Sheree's just happy that she's not on the drama block at this time. I saw you without your wig and you're very pretty without it.
After watching the episode with the luncheon, I think the drama needs to be taken out of the equation and it would be helpful if you could watch the episode. You should be upset with Cynthia and not with Kandi. Cynthia made the racially charged statement and not Kandi.
I think Kandi's point whether you take issue with it or not is that she didn't see you in an orphange in South Africa, whether it was meant because you would be in such close quarters with NeNe or because she didn't know if you would appreciate the culture, who knows.
She said nothing about holding "black babies" and Sheree should not be stirring the pot. As your friend, Sheree should have spoken up in that Jeep and said "Cynthia that is a racist remark and I'm friends with Kim". You are asking that Kandi be held to a higher standard than your friend, Sheree of 10+ years.
Watch the tape and Sheree doesn't speak up at that point and she's nodding her head. She's just trying to start something when there was nothing malicious in Kandi's tone or meaning.
When reading the other viewer's comments, obviously they're not watching the same episode that was aired.
Enjoy your children, Kroy and your life. You are above the drama this year right????
I don't think you would have enjoyed being in such close quarters with NeNe. That's my opinion and I think that's what Kandi meant......Sheree is a pot stirrer!!!!!
1. Watch the episodes. Read Sheree's comments from viewers. Then...apologize to Kandi for what you put her through. She did not deserve any of that. Sheree lied and caused a problem where they was none. Drop her. She's trouble.
2. Watch last season's bus tour episodes Check your personal behavior and the constant complaining. Based on your own behavior, the comments about you probably not liking Africa were spot on. If you could not handle a simple bus tour, they were right about Africa.
3. Khandi was innocent of all charges. Please do apologize to her. She deserves that. Sheree should also offer Kandi a heartfelt apology, but let's not hold our breath on that one.
4. Based on comments on tape, Cynthia appears to be the one who is racist. She made racist comments about you. She made snobbish comments about Phaedra on the trip. She's turning out to be a real zero.
Kim, I like the way you have transformed this season. Kroy and KJ have been wonderful for you and your daughters. I don't think Kandi meant anything disrespectful to you about agreeing with Cynthia about Africa. I feel you would have enjoyed the trip and I think you would have been just as moved as they were with all of the children. I guess they hadn't really seen the Kim you have seem to become this season with Kroy and the baby. Having the right man in your life and feeling pure love from him does bring many blessings and positive changes do come from those blessings.
You go, girl! I'm enjoying this season very much! Looking forward to you and Kroy's new series.
kim you need help kandi is too good for you i wouldnt bother being your friend and you firing sweetie because she cursed at your illmannerd disrespectful daughter girl please
Kim, don't let Sheree play you like a puppet. I understand that you both have been friends for some time but Sheree was wrong for what she did. I think you and Kandi should talk one on one about this situation. And frankly, if Sheree was such a friend you should ask her why she didn't stick up for you when all this went down in Africa. Because she didn't. She didn't tell them that they were wrong and that you would go to Africa with them and go to the orphanage. Kandi said nothing about you holding little 'black babies'. Them were Sheree's words NOT Kandi's. All she did was run back and tell you a story, a piece of a story, and not the complete truth. I hope you both can work it out.
Kim you stated that you've known Sheree for 10 years...and? Out of those 10 years...has she always been a faithful and loyal friend? She was the one that brought your name up to begin with as well as agreed with Cyntha as far as you coming on the trip( however tried to clean it up by saying you weren't getting along with NeNe)...Cmon don't be dumb she is looking for a Baller ( she wants Kroy to Introduce her to a Football player). She insist that she has a duty to you as your friend...which means what....she is NOT Kandi's friend? As a TRUE Friend she should have cleared the air then at that time and not brought that FOOLISHNESS back. Sheree is extremely too OLD for that, Isn't she like 40 plus? She's trying to keep her spot on the show as she is unbelievably messy!!
I cannot believe Bravo gave you your own show. This will be the ONLY Housewives installment I will not be watching. Viewers may be fooled by the Kim lite they are seeing this season but I'm still not a fan after the way you treated NeNe. I'm also not a fan how you treat Sweetie. If my employer talked to me like that, I would DEFINITELY not be working for them. You need to treat people better. Period.
Kim needs to go away from the show and take Sheree fake tail with her. You two tries too hard to be like the REAL Housewives of Beverly Hills and CAN afford the finer things of life and it fits them. Sheree should spend more of her money on her children from what is shown on the show. And too, Kim act as if it a hard task taking care of her own baby and house without help. get you LAZY tail up and do what you have to do. You DO NOT have a job a to go to. You should be shame of yourself.
Trust me, Kim you're not leaving RHOA...new show and all. You need the income from RHOA to pay your rent on that house. Kroy is not ballin' like some seem to think. He is in the mid six figures.....not seven.
Check out the Atlanta Falcons salaries. Public informaton.
It really saddens me that you took the entire Story from Sheree.....seems to be that she is the stirring the pot and then walking away from it. She was laughing a carrying on with the rest of the girls when the comment was made..... Kandi did not say such an ugly thing!!! She helped you with your music career....what had Sheree done but walk around like a princess and then get in ugly fights with all go you!!!
Ok, all of this drama must just be for TV, otherwise you guys are ridiculous. You couldnt stand being on an air conditioned tour bus in the United States, yet you wonder why Kandi would have a hard time seeing you in a rural part of South Africa? Please.
Kim I know you said you were a nurse and all but the living conditions in Africa is not for you according to the things you say about yourself and your lifestyle. If I'm wrong, sorry.
Kim, reposition you wig that Sheree tried to pull off. Sheree is not your friend in no sense of the word. Go to Kandi and Cynthia, talk to them without Sheree and be for real by expressing your feelings about the baby/Africa statement. Me personally do not think you are racist but some of your comments to Sweetie are a little bit much. Sweetie needs to know how to separate business from friendship and I blame you for that. Now, Sheree is keeping you close, well, because you are "easy". Make amends with Kandi and watch Sheree change on you.......
And no one said or thought you were racist. Cynthia said that because you used to be uppity and shallow. You have changed and grown. But thats why she said it not because of their race. A blind man can see that. No really a blind man, my uncle Parker said that too.
Kim, Congrats on your new and wonderful life. If you are friends with Sha-Ree , your show wont last. She completely took Kandi's small comment and changed it around. She is looking for the gold. If you consider her your friend then NeNe is your friend, Cynthia is, Marlo is too. Kandi is the nicest, coolest, honest, and the best personality out of everyone. Dont let a washed up drag hag,wannabe lie to you. She playing you and messing with your head. Dont let that thing control you. the thing aka sheree.
And Kandi obviously didnt call and pulled away because she didnt know how to respond to you after the whole music thing. You were wrong with that, and I would've pulled away if "my friend" got lawyers involved and cut her out of a creation she made and because no formal contract because yall were friends. She even let you preform with her and you didnt even try to fix it and apologize or admit you were wrong. Yes i would pull back and fell back too. Kandi is your friend, fix it.
Flip side, glad you are going to your own show. Would rather see you there than with that crazy group of ninny's. Kandi hopefully will concentrate on her own show and so should you. Hope it's all about your life with your kids and loving man. Would be much happier watching that.
Gee Kim, I realize we don't hear everything that is said but never heard Kandi say what Sheree said, but did hear Sheree say something she never bothered to tell you she said. Since they were filming you and the "african queens" at the same time....I'm sure the crews would let you see what was said even before they all came back. So, you already knew what was said and by whom which means all the 'pretend hatefulness' is for our viewing pleasure only and seems to get good ratings. At least you aren't being such a dumb blond this season but don't ruin it by getting into all this stupid BS from your BFF Sheree who really isn't your BFF.
kim honestly i love you i think your gorgeous and you have a gorgeous family, so im not a hater im on your side. i really think that you shouldnt over react though on kandi . i know your sensitive to racism comments but your taking in the wrong way. honestly through out all your seasons you seem very posh , like when its to hot you complain thats its too hot and how you cant stand the heat or you say comments how you cant live without your wine and how you present your self needing a bigger home housekeepers an assitant and a nanny, which is fine i understand people love the finer things in life and if you can have it why not so based on all that though i wouldnt see you in africa sweating and walking around in the heat truthfully its the point that you wouldnt putt yourself in a situation that is a bit unpleasing if you dont have to. And im positive thats why kandi said " i wouldnt see kim in south africa or for charity work i see her writing a check but not doing the work" which is stateing youra giving person but you dont wanna do hard work when you dont have to WHICH NO ONE DOES .. honestly though kim as a friend you wanna through the friend card but if you were a true friend also you would of met up with kandi and had a one on one instead of putting her on blast , you should know kandis a good hearted person i mean so is her mom. i dont see anything kandi did wrong by stateing an opinion that is her opinion as to what shes seen and its not a negative opinion and if sheree was your friend she would of interfered and had your back but she didnt she sat their and went running to you to give you drama!
Kim why are you really firing your assistant in the coming weeks? Is it because, of the language she used? You of all people should be well aware of foul language after all, every other word out of your mouth is, b____, f___. So tell us , whey Sweetie is being fired?
Your man doesn't really care for her right?????
You didn't even sidestep yu just took Sheree word, which not the truth, I've watch from season 1, and you an Sheree have had it with everybody, that's saysalot.
Kim, you are a smart person. I'm so glad you're able to find the love of your life. Just watching you with your family I can see how you have change towards the good. But I'm sorry for saying this Sheree is not a friend. Before you had a chance to hear Kandi side of the store...Sheree was on the phone and made that statement which Kandi said which she did not. Then before all the ladies came to your house Sheree started to stir up problems again about the whole situation again. Maybe you should talk to Kandi first and listen to herself before making your judgement. Just feel Sheree likes to stir pot and make herself say "my words and statement are true and everyone else lies". Even re watching the epsidoe I notice again Kandi did not make that comment. Plus if I'm not mistaken everyone was talking about a few different topics ( not sure). Still to do this date do not understand how you and Sheree are friends. Was it not last year or the year before Sheree pulled your hair? Sheree goes from one friend to the next until she finds a new friend when the old ones wise about her games.
Kim, You really need to rewind and remember that Kandi was the one who was always constant and on her side and the fact that Sheree felt the need to throw Kandi under the bus is a sign that no one is safe when it comes to saying anything around Sheree. I really was liking Sheree this season and this left a bad taste in my mouth. To also think that you would automatically believe that what Sheree told you was true without talking to Kandi about it one on one is also a testiment to "friendship".
Kim, I just know you aren't going to start tripping with Kandi! Sheree is who you should be questioning. Why she would bring you drama like that when it was just a simple conversation that took place in the van. Kandi did not talk about you plus she did tell you to your face that she couldn't see you on the trip. Racistism was not a part of the comment. So relax and watch out for Sheree, she has issues.
Kim be happy and don't allow the drama into your life again!