Kim Zolciak

Brielle's speech about Kroy proved that he was the man of Kim's dreams.

on Nov 22, 20110

I went through a bunch of emotions watching this episode, so let's talk!
 
I met with Sheree to catch up and have lunch to have some girl talk. We get together more than I do with any of the other ladies, because although we had our fight in the past, Sheree and I have remained VERY close! After all, I am forever in debt to her for introducing me to Kroy. Who would have thought the same girl who tried to snatch my wig off would help me meet my husband. Thanks, Sheree!
 
Let's talk about my baby shower.
 
Brielle's speech makes me tear up every time I watch it! I can't describe how important my girls are to me, and if they didn't like Kroy, it would be a deal breaker for sure! For Brielle to publicly announce to me, our family, and most of all Kroy that she looks up to him as a father really reaffirmed to me that he is the one! Kroy from day one has always been incredible to my girls, making them a priority, including them on all our dates, (we didn't have a date night aside from our first one without the girls for months), painting their nails, helping with homework, etc. I could go on and on. Now single mothers, you all know when dating that men do things to impress you and the children, and at times it may not be genuine with regards to the kids. It's more or less just a way to get closer to their mom. Kroy was never that way. I saw from the very beginning how sincere he was and how much my girls meant to him.

148 comments
Sassy78
Sassy78

Kim I'm really happy for you on the new found love and new boy, but lets be real, they say what goes around comes around you messed with a married man for years! Everytime you talk its about NeNe let it go if you dont like her, even though I think you two should sit down and have a talk and forgive eeach other cause you both have been wrong I can see TRUE friendship there cause Sheree is no friend to no one besides the devil himself. So watch you back there. I understand you love your girls but please be a parent till they reach 18 Brielle is disrespecting you with that mouth a little to much lately, your kids I know, but there is alot of time for you to be her friend just not now. Take a little time for girls day out since Kroy and the baby your life seems to be all about them the girls are getting jealous it shows. Sweetie needs duites then she needs to go home and hanging around your house with you and your family is not right, you have kids to raise and a man to tend to. I'm with you when you said she grown and if she feel like you mistreating her she can walk out. Not nice to talk about what you gave Cynitha for a gift(messy) always make your self look better then anyone else, if she didn't bring you nothing fine, baby K.J looks like you and daddy got him covered ( with this cute self). I'm very happy with your attitude this season just watch you back with them new friends like Sheree and Phandra make up with NeNe and pay Kandi never know what you may need in the future, every thing that go up fall sometime or another. God bless you!!

sandracunningham
sandracunningham

oh someone is calling MISS KIM, how they c her!! beleive me, Kroy will stick around long enough till he gets someone better, then he will b gone. wait he did sweetie...lol

Viewer Kelly Indianapolis
Viewer Kelly Indianapolis

Kim , just wanting to let you know that I have always liked you and respected everything you have done keep up the good work and enjoy you life with kroy and the girls and your new baby boy . Live Laugh Love it goes a long way !!!!!!!

Monica
Monica

Phaedra brought another gift over and apologized for her (Apollo's) part in the argument at the shower...what did Cynthia do? Oh yea that's right...just trash talked in her blog *again*. She should focus on doing what everyone that's honest is thinking, controlling her man. He is rude to everyone and then has no money? Good lord why did she marry him? :p Sorry...Phaedra wins on this one. Oh, and if you saw the most recent show when Phaedra went to Kim as they were talking, Kim's face was like "yea ok it wasn't all Peter's fault", and Phaedra rightly apologized to Kim for her part in it all. Just wanting to do a recap for all y'all saying Phaedra started junk then didn't own up to her part. Uh...yea she did.

Vieweress
Vieweress

Watching reruns...I have to say you look better with a lot less hair. Your wigs are too thick. You are a woman, not an ape!

And good on you, AGAIN, for refusing NeNe when she wanted you to dress in blackface.

Candi329
Candi329

Peter did not start anything. Phaedra spoke up for herself in an ill-fated attempt to get it out and hashed. If another man trashed you and then maintained what he did in front of Kroy, would you not be okay with your man speaking up for you? Starting a brawl is ridiculous, but a real man does not let his lady take verbal jabs from another dude without interjecting. Phaedra did not ask Apollo to do that, she was well able to defend herself-He did it because that's his woman. Really tacky what you've written about the cash gift to Cynthia. She and Peter are not nearly my favorite people to watch, but you, my dear, are really beginning to resemble NeNe's metaphor.

miss bad ass
miss bad ass

Kim, I am so happy for you and how life is turning out for you. by the way congratulations on the marriage I think you and kroy make a beautiful and also congratulations on the baby boy. I'm glad thats kroy taking up all your attention meaning you don't have time for drama.

Elizabeth2323
Elizabeth2323

Kim I've loved ya from the beginning. I thought you were going to come out with a wig line. I hope you do!! Congrats on the wedding and the baby.

playtone
playtone

It's obvious that people are going to be on the side of the person they're friends with, but you shouldn't be a hypocrite. Peter did not start that fight - both of them were wrong, but keep it real: Phaedra's husband is hood and had to act all macho. I want my husband to defend me as well, but there's a time and place. And at your beautiful baby shower certainly was NOT the time NOR the place.

Micheleb926
Micheleb926

Kim I'm on the fence with you however I'm happy you found love and someone who is willing to commit to you and your family. This is the exact reason why you should never date a married man. I hope you never have to deal with someone screwing your husband and have to deal with him maintaining her life style. Do you see how wrong it is now? Also please raise your kids and stop trying to be their friend, they need someone who's going to correct them. Did you give my girl kandi her money yet? Stop digging in her pockets you have kroy now dig in his lol. You need an assistant? Really....

tamitharic
tamitharic

I'd first like to say that I think you are beautiful in your pregnancy, and in love. You appear softened and grounded. I have questioned your sincerity in general as a person in your relationships with those around you in past seasons, but as far as in your love life-I see a woman truely in love, and deserving of it. Kroy is amazing, and you are great at letting him know he's appreciated for the things he does for you. Hold onto him!!! Next, I wonder if you are aware of how harsh your words about NeNe are. She's no saint, believe that, but you say things that are hateful and nasty to the point of just pure ugliness and cruel. You once cared for her, and even appeared to sort of admire her in season 1, and now, you have gotten waaay too personal with the things you say about her. Say what you want about what you feel she has done wrong in your opinion reguarding the disagreements that have led to your friendship's end, but there's no need to insult her appearance, her financial situation, or anything else that isn't relevent. It makes you look like you actually care enough about the fact that she doesn't like you. You think the meaner you get, the stronger you look. You're wrong. It looks like you're hurt by her absence in your life, and it makes you feel better to say overly hurtful things about her, whether she's there to hear them or not. Lastly, Cynthia is an easy target for you to dislike, and the only reason you could have to back-up your distaste for her is the jealously you felt back when she and NeNe got close. You didn't like it, and it was clear when you joined in with NeNe about the "friend contract" she'd given NeNe. You aren't dumb. You and NeNe knew it was a joke, but pretended it wasn't in order to make fun of her. Immature. Be cautious with Sheree, cause it's clear that she doesn't genuinely like you, and will turn on you without hesitation. Put your resentment over NeNe to rest, let Cynthia be, and just enjoy your family. You're so much more beautiful at peace, as opposed to spewing venom.

Viewer597
Viewer597

Kim I have one question. What do you mean when you said if I wanted a ghetto shower I would have had it in the hood? Learn the real meaning of ghetto and hood and how to use the words together when trying to describe an incident. You did not have to make the statement as if Apollo and Peter's altercation(which Phadera started) made your baby shower or should I say Kroy's baby shower ghetto.

DarkChild
DarkChild

that is right get Pregnant and stay paid... 2nd off you are on Cynthia when thick lips Pheadra started this whole messy... the only reason the others are paying attention to you is because you have a man that got money now so they need you on the show for just that to see you fail...and plus they are hating on NeNe Leak because she don't have time for them... Please rewind the tape and review your friend

Nellybell
Nellybell

Kim, I think you should confront Phaedra to and not put all the blame on Peter. Phaedra started the argument when she made the comment about Peter not liking her, and added more fuel to the fire by asking Peter why did he say Sheree is not pretty. She didn't have to say that to Peter at that point and time. Peter should have been man enough and say, "I will not discuss this at this time, but if you really want to talk about it; we can do lunch tomorrow." It feels as if you are blaming everything on Peter and not on anyone else. Apollo was the first one to jump up. If you keep attacking someone (and I know you can relate to it after the way NeNe has treated you), they are automatically going to react. Everyone at the table, including Kandi for not trying to keep the peace at your shower, was at fault. No sin is greater than another!

msbaketball47
msbaketball47

Kim Im glad you found love! but please dont knock anybody because if you wasnt pregant you will be out there acting up also.I can not say what make a person but please dont talk about NENE she is doing her thing just like you doing yours if Kroy wasnt a football player you and manly tweety be sitting at the old house..But on the good side you deserve to be happy just like anybody else...So you can say now you will be a true housewife now...Congrats

Princess Diva
Princess Diva

gsxrgirl 11-23-2011 said it best!! Well said...

Queen B
Queen B

Ive been watching since day one and all i can say is, its about time!!! so truly happy for you Kim & ur fam. May you and Kroy live a wonderful life with ur daughters and ur new son :)

HisNoni
HisNoni

Noticed Derek J is now hanging with Nene. Last few seasons he was hanging with you, helping to develop your wig line........ Things that make you go hmmmmm

detroitgirl
detroitgirl

Kim, if your so happy in your new life? Why spend so much of your time talking about NeNe? Maybe because she's the star of the show

Weblette
Weblette

Kim. So happy for you kroy and the girls (and baby now). You guys seem to be in such a great place. Best wishes to all of you. Stay away from nene. You don't need that drama and chaos in your life. Good for you.

Blahblahblah77777
Blahblahblah77777

Whats crazy is NeNE make RHOA what it is!! People talk about her but love it or hate it half of us would not watch the show if she was not on it!! #pointblankperiod

 Penelope
Penelope

If you are so happy, then why the hate for Cynthia? What did she do to you? All of you housewives are messy, and everyone of you voice your opinions and then you get mad when someone says something to or about you. Why? Do you think you are entitled? So what if Peter doesn't like Phaedra! Hell neither do I, that girl is a con artist! And why are you kissing Sheree's ass? You know that she doesn't like you and you also know that she is going to fall-out with you. Just watch! Kissing ass must be a sport, cause Cynthia ain't the only one doing it. If you look at any of the shows then you honestly would see that you are extremely messy. In all earnest, if you just keep your mouth closed then no one would say anything about you or to you. Like some of the posters have said, Nene was possibly the only true friend you had on this show. The truth hurts, but a true friend will tell you the truth. Perhaps, if you were a true friend, things wouldn't have gotten so out of hand. Remember, while everyone was thinking the same thing, Nene was the only one honest enough to tell you the truth. Hopefully, once you get your own show, you may learn to be truly happy without all of the gossip and backbiting.

bubble
bubble

You may want to remind Cynthia to watch the tape from last year...you walked in with said card. Also how about you offering and calling your friend to host everyone for her so called shower/bachelorette weekend that was free to everyone. Or was she crying and Nene griping so much that she forgot!

anneaw
anneaw

Very smart to keep the self-absorbed, lying, troublemaking NeNe out of your life. Interesting how karma struck. Her life basically sucks, which she appropriately deserves. Your life with your wonderful, new husband, beautiful daughters, and blessed son is exactly what you deserve. Stay true to yourself and you will continue to receive the Lord's blessings.

anaj_67
anaj_67

Kim, you have been glowing more beautifully this year. Kroy and happiness must go hand in hand. Congratulations on the new baby and stay the heck away from that sow NeNe. She is a sour apple and as green as the Grinch, with envy. Can someone just put us all out our misery and boot that sow's sorry ham to the curb? Please!!!!

kelly47
kelly47

I think your great Kim! You know what you want,Nene has been jealous of you from day 1,Getting rid of her was the best thing you did.

AZ gurl!
AZ gurl!

Love you Kim!!!! Don't let all these haters get to you with their comments, it might be Nene in disguise lol!! Love you!!! Congrats on your baby boy :)

ricepudding
ricepudding

kim i want to see you and NeNe friends again....you guys are good together. forget the others, its very funny with you an d Nene and I know that you miss her.....

TooTrue
TooTrue

Kim I'm happy for you! It's a good thing that your keeping NeNe out of your life during this wonderful moment in your life.

Gem24
Gem24

I agree with another blogger - you & Nene had the most genuine & real friendship. Maybe that's why you fight so hard. Sheree is not your friend. Tread lightly. But it's time to grow up. The constant, petty gossiping and name calling - very immature. If you've truly moved on, you wouldn't KEEP talking bout Nene. You and the rest make her even more relevant. Ever think about that?

Greta G
Greta G

Kim the best of luck to you and your family. I'm sorry you and Nene are not friends I'm know you have your reasons. Kim please watch out for Phaedra she is a force to be dealt with.

Bless you on the coming of the new born

MAC NYC
MAC NYC

I have one question....considering that you and Kroy dated for a short period of time before getting married, How would you feel if someone came to your wedding and said they don't think you guys would last a year? Can you understand why Peter and Cynthia would be upset? Honestly as adults/parents all of you ladies need to choose your words wisely.

MAC NYC
MAC NYC

you know I find it amazing how every episode when something happens its always goes back to Ne Ne. All of you guys minus Kandi make slick remarks about each other and when someone responds, you don't like it! You can dish it out but you can't take it in. You, Sheree, and Phaedra all made poor remarks about Cynthia and Peter at their wedding. What was the point in attending?! So Peter responds to those remarks and he is the bad guy?! I find it funny that everyone had not so nice things to say about Phaedra and her not knowing her due date last season but now you, her and Sheree are best buddies.If you don't like someone I just don't understand why you would waste your time discussing them especially at your birthday party. Its like you guys don't like Cynthia because she is friends with NeNe. I used to really love this show but sad to say it has turned very messy and into highschool.

Tamera Greene
Tamera Greene

I think Kim has gotten a little on the high horse..Remember before you met Kroy you were a jumpoff..Set better examples for your children..I too was raised by a single parent and by exposing them to the things you do will scar them in the future..I applaud you in finding love and happiness..On another note..The comments you and Kroy made about the Peter's and Apollo's behavior was very rude "stupid", "ghetto" Really Kim????

jacquelines
jacquelines

I see that you are changed and that you are changing and that is very good. I saw the episode last night and i have to agree with you in what you wrote in your blog. All the guest that went to your baby shower took a gift to you or something and cynthia didnt could it be that she is still in financial problems a and that is why she hasn't opened the bailey agency yet lol! Nene her whole divorce thingy has gotten to her lol. You and Sheree make the best of friends. I like Phaedra but sometimes it is hard to understand her the whole thing with her husband apollo being what he was it just seems weird and awkard to me lol. Kandi I really like her to. luv ya and god bless!

Vieweress
Vieweress

I like everyone of you women on this show! AND KROY. He's great!

Now pay Kandi the $$ you owe her!=)

NYC
NYC

Kim I understand attempting to be a bigger person when it come to Nene, but playing a Fool every episode is just ridiculious. Cut your loses and drop her Fickle Bi-polar Ass. This nation has people in every state fighting against Bullies and Nene is Nothing but an Amazon Bully. She PUNKS you at every chance she gets. But she chooses her PUNKS wishely! You see she runs from a arguement with Sheree. She always kept herself in check with Lisa Wo! I wish she end up in a room with Armarossa when she was on the Celebrity Apprentice....That would have a show to download for KEEPS... SMOOCHES

helen bones
helen bones

Those who have not sinned let them cast the first stone. Kim you need to drop that rock.

Jessica Wilde
Jessica Wilde

As much as I like Kim, she is NOT the one to call people classless or tacky

Glori
Glori

you are so Blessed that you have a great man. both of you compliment each other.

rhoms
rhoms

Now that you have such a wonderful man in your life, please stay away from the drama queens and kings. Nene and Paul puts a dark cloud over the show.

Hollie1975
Hollie1975

Hey Kim congrats on the wedding and your my favorite housewife ever!!! I hope you guys don't ever go off the air like I heard the New York girls might. They pretty much all got fired I guess and if that happens to Atlanta then I quit watching for good Kim!!! Anyway sorry you have to deal with NeNe and everbody just thinks she's the shizit and I don't get it at all!!! Hello I really don't get it. No really Kim I will never get it. Good luck to you guy's and the new baby. Congradulations Kim!!!

Divatobe
Divatobe

Yep is was Phaedra w/ the ax to grind and Apollo had her back. Sorry it got to the point where they had to stand up. Congrats you luck girl!

Viewer1992
Viewer1992

...Kim, if you said that you gave Cynthia a gift to her wedding, then why does Cynthia say something completely different? Personally, I think that it was Phaedra's fault, as she shouldn't have brought up the topic.

Milan3463
Milan3463

Kroy is a good one...you got LUCKY. Keep on being who you are... a hot mess with goals to reach the top, becasue that is why we watch this crap!

MissLena
MissLena

CONGRATULATIONS!! It is a joy to see the love that you and Kroy have for one another, I am truly so happy for you and the girls. Don't let the haters take up a moment in your thoughts...........you've got it all going in the right direction now, and they will try to pull you down, just ignore, and keep doing your thing. You're going to have a wonderful life, and you deserve it.

MrsbbViewer
MrsbbViewer

I am happy that you found someone that care about your girls. You should be enjoying your new life . But every time you are shown you talk about Nene she is your hold conversation . Any time you are with the other women that all that you ladies talk about is her . You talk if that is the only thing going on with you and the other . I thought you and her were really real together . You both show how real girlfriends really act and have fun together . I have not seen that with any of the other ladies . With Sheree all you both do is compliment each other which she don't sound real. I think the show has showed that Kandi help you but not as fun as you and Nene together. Every body no that Phaedra is just a face friend. Cynthia is new and is to early to say what she is about. Just go back and look at the first season it show real friends . Even your daughters would ask you if Nene was coming. Friend do fight and fuss . It sometime take real friend to tell you what cool and what not cool . Sometime we say things and don't think anything is wrong with it . And some time we over react to it . I think you both still care about the other . If not you both would not comment on it each other at all . I don't think you both are happy about it. I understand what sell . But you and Nene together was fun, funny and real. I hope you and her makeup . I wish you both peace love , and happiness and real true friendship.