Kim Zolciak

Kim shares her thoughts on the luncheon drama.

on Mar 13, 20120

Like I said in last week's blog, I don't appreciate Kandi agreeing with Cynthia. Whether Kandi agreed or not, you're my friend, defend me or say nothing! I have brushed a lot of things off that the other women have said because not all battles are worth fighting, but when I'm accused of being a racist, that's when I speak up!

I don't care about what Cynthia said, because her thoughts mean less than nothing to me. But when my "friend" agrees, I have a problem. Africa would have been a trip of a lifetime, it killed me that I couldn't go, but I had a newborn and wasn't about to leave him. But why do I need to explain myself?

I'll never understand Kandi's reasoning for saying what she said (I know Kandi never said the whole "black baby" thing, Cynthia did) but what she did say about me was hurtful. If she was truly my friend, she would never feel that way.

It's hard to trust people when your own friends seem to think poorly of you. I guess it really is just me, my husband, my children, and my wigs!

Until next week,
Xoxox
Kim

25 comments
lesliann44
lesliann44

I think, Kim should have defended Kim on the trip, and just said that was the right thing to say about Kim.  Kandi should have said oh, Kim isn't here to defend herself so I think you should leave her out of the conversation.

Vonda ways
Vonda ways

Kim when are you getting married on don't be Tardy for the wedding. I just would like to see the wedding your show is boring you gets to upset over nothing. And the same shows keep coming on every week. When is the wedding coming on TV.

Viewer from Oz
Viewer from Oz

I'm in Australia so we just saw the luncheon ep this week... The only comment I have is that Sheree was saying that a friend would speak up and defend you, did the cat have her tongue? They have replayed the footage a million times now and not once has it shown Sheree coming to your defense! I think you are making a mountain out of a molehill, and I like you so it's nothing personal. Although I think you are becoming the biggest diva ever... Need a nanny? What for? You have 1 baby, you ate acting like you have triplets or something. What do you think all of the other mums in the world do when they have newborns? They take care of them themselves, usually with little help from their partner simply because they are at work all day and then mum also does the night feeds cause dad has to get up for work. Not to mention most mums have to cook and clean and do everything else to do with day to day life. You have 2 maids, a chef, a personal assistant and you are crying poor me because you can't find a decent nanny? Sheesh, your life must be so hard! But in saying all that, your baby is beautiful and so are your daughters, you are a lucky woman!

Mooga
Mooga

Kim you are wonderful. Congratulations on ur new show. Can't wait to see it & your real hair. Bless you!

FashionsGuru
FashionsGuru

KIM, I adore you and your family. I think out of all the girls you are one of the most real, your honesty is refreshing. For all the haters, they are just jealous. Your gorgeous you have a beautiful family and a fairytale life. Not to mention that totally hot husband of yours. I look forward to seeing whats next for Kim. As my momma said. Just be yourself Kim....We all love ya.

raycee_p
raycee_p

Kim, I have to say, the very first season I was not a fan of yours, but over the course of the seasons I have discovered that I actually like you. You have changed and evolved over the years for the better. :-) I must say however, Sheree is bogus. She is definitely NOT your friend. She set you up on the show. If I can remember, there was an episode where Sheree was seen on camera pulling your hair. Sheree needs to apologize to you and Kandi for instigating the disagreement. I hope you and Kandi work it out. Remember, she was your friend when the other girls were against you. I wish you the best with your marriage, children, and success.

Ceca
Ceca

Also consider the fact that Kim is a mother, who just had a baby and son to be expecting a new one and during the taping of the show recently engaged. Now my question is if she's so happy, why is she overly concerned with NeNe? Why all the harsh words? Why the need to throw insults so frequently?

Philicia
Philicia

Kim

You have a beautiful family. Thats what you should be concentrating on. Put all the foolishness of these women behind you. I wish you well :)

Viewer daisybu
Viewer daisybu

Kim. You are such a lazy person cant stand you or the show any-more. Kroy is going to be one sorry cookie sooner than later if you don't bleed him dry before hand.

raindame99
raindame99

Kim, Kim, Kim, use your head. Haven't you figured out that when any anyone tells you something gossipy and hurtful that they heard about you, their just trying to make themselves more important to you. Sheree told you full well knowing that it was going to hurt you. I mean, how could she not have known that you would be hurt by a remark like that. That remark was made in jest. Possibly Cynthia could have chosen other words, but it was pretty evident to me that there was no malice intended and certainly no racial intent. And this thing you keep repeating "I've know Sheree for X-amount of years and I know she has my back." Are you forgetting about the night she and NeNe sorta set a trap for you at that cocktail/restrauant I mean NeNe just wanted some answers but Sheree came for blood letting. that was apparent from the get go and she tried to rip your wig off outside on the sidewalk while you were trying to get away from them. That sure don't sound like "she has you back" to me! Honestly, why is it that none of you can let a drop of water roll off your back. Life is to short for all this bickering you all do, for God sake love one another and quit taking potshots at each other. It's obvious that you all loved each other at one time or other. Whats done most of the damaga? A slip of the tongue and was probably regretted a split second after uttering, thats called being human. You've all done it, even you Kim. Sheree, she's a gossip monger, a tattletail and I repeat myself, a mean spirited person. Dump her, keep Kandi , then you've got a real friend. By the way, you look FANTASTIC! and as someone else said earlier your house is to die for and two beautiful daughters, now a beautiful son, not to mention the great guy your on the way to the alter with. Truly, you are Blessed

SCS
SCS

Kim,I agree with everything I have read concerning Kandi/sheree. I hope you take heed. There is a old saying; if the dog bites u once its the dogs fault, but if the dog bites u twice its your fault. Ask yourself, are u gonna let sheree bite u again?! This woman obviously has an agenda, worming her way into your life...is your man or your status, watch your back! she is becoming insignificant and she needs to stay somewhat significant. Remember what your psyc. told about your so called friends or the ones u call friends lets not be nieve, dont be so wrapped up in your family, meaning your man that u dont see the bullshit happening around u. And I think u need to work things out with kandi concerning friendship/finances!

Raxana
Raxana

Happy dance! I can't wait for our RHOA party! OMG though I just wcaehtd the trailer and that is INTENSE! I hope they put some fun in this season too and not just all fighting!Robyn Wright of Robyns Online World

harry g
harry g

shree is misarable since she dont have a BFF.She's knows you like Kandy thats why she's bringing all this shit to make kandy look bad. i watched the show and she is a lier. i really like shree but pliz you know kandy doesnt lie.i hope you and kandy can work things out shree is just jelous. if you forgave shree for pulling your hair out you can also forgive kandy. she the only true lady in that show

Temecula
Temecula

Kim who are you fooling? You consider Kandi a friend but you still haven't resolved your financial issues over the 2 songs she produced? You're not all that good of a friend to her either!!! Really????

j briggsViewer
j briggsViewer

Kim, just hang out eith your'e beauitful family, for right now. they should always come first. If the other girls really & truly your'e friends, they will understand that. Keep up the good work & by the way your'e new house is to Die For!

Roe Anderson
Roe Anderson

I usually dont comment, but had to this time. Kandi is a sweet girl, and has been more of a loyal friend, than any of the other girls. Lets face it, she turned your dream of recording a pop song, into a reality and wasn't compensated! You In turn failed to support her during her perfomance.( oh yeah your child was sick) Lets be clear, you havent been a great friend! Kandi has been loyal to you when everyone else had negative opinions of u, she chose to judge you for herself. Now Sheree was trying to start crap by even mentioning the content of the conversation, what did she hope to gain? She shouldve handled Marlo, instead of taking your cause. You couldve declined to make an opinion and instead discussed it with Kandi privately, do you really trust Sherees intentions? I dont think you are a racist, and neither is Kandi, when someone brings gossip, acknowledge and ignore, like a Lady!

1969rain
1969rain

Kim, Sheree played you like a fiddle. She knew what to say to you to get you all fired up. Let me tell you what real friends do. They don't add more stress in your life. When the see you are already have a lot on your plate, they dont add to it. They dont have you in confrontations. They do tell you how they feel about you rather you like it or not (it's their opinion). The real friend is Kandi and you will find that out later. Oh yeah, dont forgot Sheree was just pulling your wig off for the whole world to see. We must forgive but please dont ever forgot.

1969rain
1969rain

Kim, Sheree played you like a fiddle. She knew what to say to you to get you all fired up. Let me tell you what real friends do. They don't add more stress in your life. When the see you are already have a lot on your plate, they dont add to it. They dont have you in confrontations. They do tell you how they feel about you rather you like it or not (it's their opinion). The real friend is Kandi and you will find that out later. Oh yeah, dont forgot Sheree was just pulling your wig off for the whole world to see. We must forgive but please dont ever forgot.

Strikingly Gorgeous
Strikingly Gorgeous

Sheree is misearable, dont have anything going for herself and to me from viewing RHOA from the first season is definitely not your friend!!!! She just see an opportunity of chance and you feel for it. And the way you keep harping on Kandi sharing her opinion about you not coming on the trip because of your falling out with NeNe is just that an opinion. Everyone has one including you. You are questioning Kandi's loyalty to you, but where is your loyalty to her for instantly believing something sheree came back and told you? True fact: A Dog that brings a bone carries one as well! Keep your enemies close and your so called friends closer.....

Viewer25
Viewer25

Kim you were simply wrong to trust Sheree and everyone seems to know it but you. I wonder why?

miss molly
miss molly

When Kandi said she couldnt even see you going to Africa period because of the problems between you and NeNe I agreed and thought it was a compliment to you. You just had a new baby, you have a great man in your life, and you just moved into a new house. You have definately changed in the sence of not getting involved in the petty b.s. this season so when candy made the comment about you not going because Nene was there, I took it as you have better things to do (more important things) than run off to africa where there would be constant bickering and fighting for seven days straight. Yes going to africa could be a trip of a life time but it could also be a nightmare it all depends who your spending the time with. Unfortinately on the africa trip it was sheree that was determined to cause trouble one way or the other and you happened to fall for it. I think had Kandi not been so shocked by Sheree blatanly lying and trying to cause trouble she would have been able to explain it to you better but she was so flustered it wasnt coming out right.

LindaV50
LindaV50

I watched the show and for some reason I didnt feel Sheree to be sincere. I didnt feel that she had your best interest at heart. It seemed as if she were "tattling" She told you while they were in Africa that Kandi made the "black baby" comment when Kandi did not. Yes Kandi had an opinion about the situation, but so did everyone else including Sheree. Sheree just happened to get to you first and it seemed she was all too eager to throw Kandi under the bus. I give props to Kandi for being honest and telling you to your face what she truly said and Sheree to me is just a rat for the rat squad. She has nothing else going on in her life, and everyone knows misery loves company.

Daniele
Daniele

The only Shereeeeeeeee is your BFF now is becuase you stepped up your game and have a new addresss if your still in your townhouse she would have been talking about you as well

Giselle-Southern Belle
Giselle-Southern Belle

Kim, don't forget that Sheree nodded and agreed as well. If Khandi is guilty of not defending you, then, so is Sheree. She is NOT your friend. She's a user and sees an opportunity for her to gain in your new family situation. Don't trust Sheree.

TySan
TySan

I think Kandi is your friend and she is different than the other ladies whom you have called friends in the past. If Kandi says something behind your back she will also say it to your face but I don't think it was meant to hurt you. I think she was just stating her opinion. That doesn't make you a bad person but it doesn't make her a bad person either. I have some friends whom I love dearly and would do anything for but I still have opinions of them that some people may think are negative. I'm sure you have negative opinions about some of your friends. It's life and as much as you would like to think it - no one is perfect and you are not excluded. Therefore some opinions about you are not always going to be what you want to hear. I hope you and Kandi can patch things up. Her making a comment about you is not worse that you screwing her out of money. If she can fogive you for that surely you can find a way to forgive her for this.