Kim comments on seeing NeNe for the first time and Kandi's words with Marlo.
Posted by Kim Zolciakon Dec 21, 20110
This week's episode was supersized, so I have a lot to talk about. Let's get started.
Moving into a house is stressful enough, so imagine doing it with newborn, a horrible moving company that likes the break your things, and only having a couple of hours!
I like to have my houses fully decorated when I move in so I can actually enjoy them. Nothing's more annoying than trying to have breakfast and having to unpack boxes just to get a butter knife! It's hell! So I made sure that the moving company moved all my things prior to me living in the new house.
My interior decorator, Kendra, had a lot of work to do in a very short period of time! But she pulled through tremendously. I couldn't have done it all without her. All the furniture from my storage units (furniture I had custom made two years ago and never had the chance to put in the townhouse), Kroy's house, and my townhouse was all combined into one big move! UGH!
I get mad everytime I see Kim on camera. Her claim to fame was being a mistress and having her married bf pay all her bills. How is this different from Marlo? I understand people change but come on it was not that long ago!
I am glad to see that you have been blessed with love and a new life, be happy and stop talking about NeNe! Even if things are being said about you be a bigger person, you are a wife, mother, and a public figure. If you don't have anything good to say by all means keep your mouth closed. This is a show that is viewed by millions many of them people of color so you have to look at how things you say will be portrayed to this audience. This is 2012 and you ladies should act like ladies.
First I want to congradulate you on your son, your wedding and your new show!!! Expect the haters to come out of the woodwork. I am happy for you and your family. Your Dad is soo funny. LOL! I agree with what you said when Cynthia married old man Peter. I think he just likes a pretty woman on his arm. He doesn't have much class, that is obvious, and since Cynthia let Nene run her around by her nose, I think that Cynthia is not happy, and the only reason she stays with him, is to prove everyone wrong. One thing is that family is Blood, and for her to turn against her sister and mother, is totally disrespectful, and she looked like an idiot! I feel so bad for poor Mal, All the work that Cynthia expects from her sister and she even brought Mal's husband in on the work. Why not let Peter do the work? He doesn't like to work too hard, that is for sure! Cynthia should just cut her losses and hook up with someone that loves her and has class and his own money. It amazes me that he wants to show Cynthia off, all the time, and gets things because of who Cynthia was, it's just not fair. But you my dear, you knew years ago what you wanted and you finally got it. Nothing but the best to you and Croy, you guys balance each other out. You have changed alot since getting with Croy. You are like a totally new person. I Love the new you!!! I also like you because you are not fake. that is for sure!!! God Bless and Best Wishes!! I cannnot wait to see your new show!!
Kim, I think overall the whole situation was blown out of control by Ms Sheree. Khandi was totally truthful in what she said and as a woman who speaks her mind I didn't see anything wrong with what she said, it's an opinion. The rest is whatever!
I love to see that you have so many people ready to judge someone they see for 1 hour per week. Isn't jealousy amazing? lol I love me some Kim and Kroy and wish you both the very best. P.s. read one comment about Kroy being a Montana racist...lmao I almost peed my pants! Wish you and all the family blessings for 2012.
Kim i'm so proud of you & i know it's late but let me say congratulations on your new baby, home & getting married to a wonderful man. You deserve all the happiness you're being blessed with. I had to comment that you've grown & i loved when you walked away from Marlo when she made her big poppa comment towards Kandi. You were a true lady, you made an grand exit which had me lmaooo....love ya girl. Keep up the good work.
you are the most authentic of all, I like you the most and I like what you have become with Kroy next to you.I am the mother of a 6 month girl and I appreciate the relation between you and your daughters.Congrat's!!
Kim, do me favor and stop the NeNe bashing. What level are you on? Isn't NeNe the one that got you the spot on the show? Since you're on a new level, pay Kandi for writing those songs! Then you have the nerve to talk about Marlo!!! Bravo must have asked you to make those comments, because you were Marlo in the first 3 seasons!! Furthermore, you are no better than NeNe. You may think you are, but you're not. By the way, how old are you really?
You are my favorite housewife !! I am so happy for you, it seems without all the negative people around your life has changed. You are very funny and real! They need to have a show just with you and croy and your family. Like who the heck wants to watch bethanny ever after? God bless you and the baby and, your girls and croy ! I am so glad you are happy!
Kim how do you act like you are all that now when you really had nothing but Big Poppa in the beginning and now Troy. Pay attention to your family and your new husband or you gonna lose again. PLEASE stop talking about people and pay MORE attention to your daughters and spend quality time with them because if you don't someone else will. Good luck on the new chapters of your life.
I think you and Kroy makes a fabolous couple!!
On NeNe: I think you trash NeNe to much. You are a grown lady and I feel like you had a part in the down fall of the relationship. If you dont care about NeNe then why do you keep bringing her up or taking part in a conversation about her with the other girls? If you dont care, then nothing about her should come out your mouth. I dont know what goes on behide closed doors, but I never here NeNe talk trash about you on the show. I feel that NeNe is real and that you and the other girls dont like that about her. I believe that NeNe can be over the top but she is just expressing her feelings.
On Sweetie: I am going to need for you to stop talking to her like that. I am sorry but no matter who a person is rather your husband or your best friend, you do not speak to them that way. I dont believe you are treating her like a slave, but I do feel like you are disrespecting her by talking to her that way. I have a best friend and we fuss and fight but I would not dare talk to her that way. Of course, sweetie dont see it that way. But everyone else on the outside does.
I feel that you have grown throughout the seasons but you still have more to grow. Best of luck to you and your family!
LOL LOL. Okay if you not on Nene level and she is so beanth you, what level is that puttin you at? LOL LOL, I mean you say that like there is suppose to mean something. Glad you have the the life you always wanted, now that is the love of a real man
First let me say I ABSOLUTELY LOVE YOUR NEW WIG!!!
I love that you have found a great husband in Kroy. I'm very happy for you. I hope the two of you are very happy and that they pyschic is right again and you and Kroy have that baby girl. Seeing you, smiling and happy and the love between the two of you is wonderful you have definately hit the jackpot with him. Great job!!!
But Kim just because your circumstances have changed and you have changed into a much happier and peaceful person, doesn't give you the right to talk trash about the other ladies. Before Kroy came along you were right there with the ladies talking trash, arguing and cursing during earlier seasons and episodes. Instead of talking about how old they are and how they were acting you should have took the high road and said I can't believe I use to do that too. Remember the restuarant scene with you, Sheree and NeNe how explosive that was? The one were Sheree tried to pull your wig off your head?
And the many episodes before that? You acted just like them.
I was so disappointed in reading your comment about Marlo and listening to you on WWHL talking about her. I don't even think you are the person that needs to make a comment on Marlo and her "Big Poppa" unless it's "That's Marlo's life let her live it like she wants to live it" In other words Kim I think your Marlo comment was way out of line and you were being a hypocrite. You said she mentioned her Big Poppa and bragged about it. You had a Big Poppa and you bragged about it, flaunted it and defended your relationship with a much publicized married man on the show. Let's not forget the cars, the jewelry, the shoes...etc. How many times did we hear you say Please Big Poppa, or Thanks Big Poppa! You shouldn't knock Marlo for doing exactly what you did.
It wasn't that long ago you wrote in your blog I believe it was in 2009 when you explained who Big Poppa was and how you were crazy about him and how he treated you and your girls like queens. Why are you knocking what Marlo is doing when you did the same thing? Like I said I believe thats called being a hypocrite. It was your life and you lived it the way you wanted to live it, so why can't Marlo?
It seems because you have found love and happiness and it just so happened to be with an NFL player you feel like you are above the other cast members now. At least that's how you are coming off. I like you, you are definately one of my favorites on the show, I have like you from the first season but come on now, you can't be a hypocrite. I just want you to remember what you said, what you did, how you acted before Kroy came into your life and don't knock someone else for what they are doing. Everyone has a past even you.
I like you too kim but u need to learn how to talk to help better,because they are help not your left overs,please be advised that a dirty mouth makes u less attractive need to learn how to love with humility
It had been so amazing to see the wonderful changes in your life and how they have affected you. I have enjoyed seeing you with your girls, new husband and new baby. You have grown so much since the past seasons and seeing this different, nurturing, calm side to you is the best part of the show for me.
I have watched the show for several seasons and you have changed so much. I can see that since you have developed a relationship with Kroy you are a very happy lady. I could see that even though you had your 2 beautiful girls there was something still missing in your life. I know what it is like to have a man that you love very much, I have loved my man for 37 1/2 yrs and I would not change that for all the money in the world. I am watching the one where Kroy is leaving for camp and the hurt both of you are feeling. I pray that this will go fast for both of you. God bless you and hope things work out for you, Kroy, and the kids for many years to come.
Nene not on your level? Interesting, what level is that? Your husband has morals, appears to be a very decent man but don't mistake his attributes as yours. You are a cigarette and trailer away from your destiny. You're disgusting which shows that money can NOT purchase class. Don't get me wrong I'm not a Nene fan either but at least when you two were friends you were both interesting to watch. I think your real issue with Nene is that you know she wouldn't hesitate to blab all of deep dark secrets to Kroy and you want to erase your past. Everyone has the ability to change I accept that, if you really want to demonstrate a true change, please clean up your language. For all of your money and purchases, everytime you open your mouth a bone from closet filled with skeletons pops out. You show who you really are, classless. And for Pete's sake as much as you guys are in the kitchen at your home, please do a little more handwashing! Just disgusting. Also now that you are truly a Housewife...be leery of ladies w/o morals and boundaries like you once were. Karma....your only saving grace is that you seemed to have married a man who unlike you wouldn't disrespect his or someone else's marital vows.
I don't understand why Kim keeps mentioning her ex-husband cheating on her when she carried on for years with a married man (BP). Two wrongs don't make a right.
Kim went from one man who would fund her lifestyle to another. She's very materialistic and cusses like a sailor whereas Kroy seems sweet and tremendously responsible. Sorry but I don't think they make a good match at all.
Kim please sit down...yes you are married... but hello you were involved with a married man BIG Pappa. NeNe brought you on the show. Its sad that you still talk about NeNe when NeNe doesn't even talk about you or make fun of you on the show. NeNe is bigger than the ATL HW. Its really sad that both of your ladies can't put your differences aside and be at least somewhat friendly.
You are a pretty woman, married to a nice guy, with 2 daughters and a brand new son. Don'tcha think it's time you cleaned up your mouth? You are not thinking of your girls at all! You could be a better role model for them if you'd just try a little harder. No one wants to hear such language come out of a lady's mouth, Kim. It cheapens you and it will cheapen the girls eventually.
Are you laughing up your sleeve or what over the Africa fiasco? It's a shame the 'talls' are actually the smalls in this episode. Small minded, small IQ's, small character, all three of them. Kiss baby Kroy for me, dang he's cute! Like his Daddy!
Love you Lady! You and the fam look very happy! Congrats on the new love and baby! He is Adorable! I'm proud that you have moved passed the Big Papa issue! We all live and learn! You have such a glow since Kry entered the picture. Keep your environment clear of the jealousy NeNe and her followers give..she's damaged and needs counseling! As far as repairing friendships with NeNe, please don't pay them any mind. Some people are better left out of your life! Your children are adapting and your dad said a mouthful your are getting to a much happier place in your life and its showing! You are one I tune if for every week! Now, this issue with Sweetie..I agree you need to have her duties listed, with times on when she can break and where. She needs to be doing a task instead of lounging, looking at you and your husband and listening in on every conversation between you and your parents! Please keep boundaries. Schedule time with just you and her to hang and talk and give Sweetie her space so she can breath as well.It will make the both of you better for the other! Love ya girl!
Kim, hope you don't take this wrong, but when you weren't in a good place you did participate in being a mean girl & you still bash NeNe by saying she's huge etc. I'm not saying NeNe is perfect, but it seems you play the victim & it's all her fault etc. You also wrote about NeNe in your blog saying this & that by putting her down, as if you are better than her. It's strange for a woman your age to do this. NeNe didn't do this in her blog. We don't see everything so there is more to this story regarding you & NeNe. I did enjoy when you two were friends because you both seem to have chemistry & a lot of laughs together. Since NeNe is going through her bad place now she isn't being mean. She seems to be dealing with it well & I have to comment on that because you seem to forget how hard that can be. As for Sheree, I just feel she is not genuine & it shows. She likes that you & NeNe don't speak. Plus Sheree pulled your wig, attacked you & trashed you a lot after that, but you forgave her. Hmmm? In all fairness I know we the viewers don't see everything. I also have to say that just because one gets a reality show doesn't mean people want to watch them. You & Kroy are cute, but in all honesty you guys don't have great personalities. Some people have that extra spark & neither of you have it. I think it's great you're happy, but when it's your segment on the show it's so boring -like paint drying on a wall. I hear that others wonder how you got a reality show & since I am in the industry I know they just give it to anyone today because it's cheaper to do these "reality" shows. Then they see how it rates. Earth to Kim....
Kim, we love watching you on the show! You bring some much needed CLASS to the show and I'm so happy for you and your family! What a precious addition that baby was to your family and I know you are both so very proud of him! You and Kroy seem to be so happy together, and I can't wait to see you all get married and grow within your great relationship! I'm so proud of you for losing your pregnancy weight so fast like you have, you really look great already! Keep staying away from the likes of NeNe and her side kick Marlo; who will do nothing but bring the rest of you all down to the their level. NeNe seems like she should be on New Jersey with Snookie, NOT on the THOA, as she has no class at all; and is so pretentious and is such a WANTABEE that it is pathetic! You and Phaedra and Sherree are my favorites on the show, and are such class acts that it really makes the other's seem like they don't even fit in on the show anymore! (They are so full of jealousy and pettiness that their drama is becoming hard to watch!)
I have only two suggestions, Kim, as your life seems like it could be perfect.
One is plan for family activities and family dinner times as much as possible.
And two it is unclear what Sweeties duties are at least to me and perhaps you too! I would therefore establish what role she is playing in the family, home etc., and what her job responsibilities are. If she does not perform to those than the picture is clear as to what your actions should be.
I always liked Kim and NeNe’s friendship. Kim has remained the same way since season one. NeNe is the one that was getting more and more outrageous. I personally feel that Kim should have let NeNe take part in her “Don’t Be Tardy for the Party”. This is when it start going downhill with their friendship in my opinion.
Addressing this season, I know it is not my place to question somebody’s finances, but a nursing salary doesn’t afford a person to live Kim’s lifestyle. I wondered from last season’s reunion how she can afford to live in the lifestyle that we are watching on Bravo. Her husband is the major league football player, but even he can’t afford that lifestyle.
Now, I would like to address this episode and Kim’s comments about Sweetie. I am no fan of Sweetie, but Kim is now stating that she doesn’t do her job. Last season she stated that Sweetie is her friend and that Sweetie also works for her and she never complained that Sweetie is not doing her job. How on earth is Sweetie not doing her job? Every time Kim yells “SWEETIE” she goes running to Kim. I find this to be strange and wonder is it because she knew she was getting a new show and didn’t want Sweetie to be on the new show. I am just wondering. I would like to remind the viewers that the kids are very close to Sweetie. Does anybody remember when Kim was going on tour with Kandi? Kim was telling her daughter Brielle that she was going on tour. Brielle didn’t have a problem with Kim going on tour, but she starts crying and asked her mother why Sweetie had to go with her. So, obviously this also confirmed that Sweetie did her job in being there Kim and her two daughters.
I also noticed that Brielle’s character is changing, I feel Kim need to nip that bad attitude in the bud. I also feel Brielle should dress age appropriate. I think she is too your to be wearing that bikini. I think her attitude could be rebelling as well. Kim’s focus seem to be on the baby and Troy, seem to be forgetting that she has two daughters that she need to include in the equation. Ariana is also trying to get her mother’s attention. Just in case some of you viewers didn’t notice. When Kim was holding the baby, she didn’t even acknowledge Ariana. She was standing by Kim commenting about her baby brother, Kim didn’t even acknowledge her. The only time Kim said something to Ariana is when she mentioned that she told Troy to put a ring on her mother’s finger. I have to say I was so happy when Kim’s parents arrived at her house, because they were there for Ariana as well.
I truly wish the best for Kim and her entire family. I will tune in to her show.
Kim I have liked you from the beginning and I am happy that you have found a good man all your own to share your life with. You have definitely shown growth in this season. I like Sweety too but I think as assistant she should have a set of duties that define her job description. I do not agree with NatalieP. that she just loafs around. I am sure she has other duties off camera that we know nothing about. That being said, hire a nanny because an assistance job should not include baby sitting. Washing wigs yes, helping with the baby no. You have a wonderfully complete family and I wish you the best of luck in love and life!
Kim is the best ATL HW she kept it real from begining to present! Nene tried to bully her all along BUT Kim held her own.The accusations of her being racist was just a rating plot. Sweetie is getting paid ! The sisterhood between Kim & Sweetie is not any different than Shere & Nene. The only color Kim sees is green! Big papi was more than a sugar daddy, she was in love with him, it was a love "AFFAIR". Now she has a REALL OVE !
I am so glad she met Kroy a real love story, I wish them the best ! Nene eat your heart out ! Hooking up with Marlo cause she knows Marlo will wax her ass!,he,he.
Kim, you need to sit down and make a list of Sweetie's duties. She's gonna do as little as you require of her. I'm personally tired of watching her loaf around your home while you complain about being tired and needing her help. Create a schedule for her and help her stay on track. If you get organized, things will run more smoothly in your home. Sweetie needs to dress professional when "working" in your home. Should she even be eating at the table with your family? I assume you have a housekeeper. If you need more help with the baby, consider hiring a nanny. From where I'm sitting, Sweetie seems more like a friend than an employee. There's nothing wrong with hiring a friend, but keep it professional during working hours.
Love your new family and home Congrats on it all. You have so much more than Ne Ne I think she may have ENVY PROBLEMS. Please tell me what kind of dog is Chanell and how old is he. I have Envy Problems also. I love that dog. You do have it all the guy the Kids the mansion and the dog. I am Happy 4 U.
Kim i am so proud of the growth of you new famili, Baby is just beautifu. THE GIRLS SEEMT O BE ADAPTING WELL. i HOPE YOU THE BEST YOU MAY WANT TO GET A dOULA FOR THE BABY AND THAT WAY HE GET FULL ATTENTION AND CAN STILL INTERMINGILE WITH MOM. bUT THE GIRLS NEED GOOD QUAILTY TIME TAT YOU GOOD BE SPENDING WITH THEM AND THE WHOLE FAMILY CAN BE SUPPORETED IN WHAT THEY NEES AND NO FEAR. jUST ONE BIG HAPPY FAMILY WITH EVERYONE NEEDS BEEING MET AND THE ONCE A WEEKOR DINNER TIME DISFUSS WERE EVERYONE IS AND WERE ARE WE ALL HEADED. GONNA MAKE FOR GOOD STRONG FOUNDATION THAT I ALREADY SEE YOU TRYING FOR. i REALLY LIKE YOU FAMILY AND WISH THE BEST,0
So happy that you and Kroy have found each other. You seem so serene this season. It's amazing how your life changes when you surround yourself with good people. Stay clear of Nene. She is just plain hateful and miserable and gets her jollies from bringing others down. Plus, she seems to have issues with white people and that is not cool! My grandma used to say "I don't care how much money you have, what color your skin is, where you live or who you know, if you are not kind you're no friend of mine." I think that pretty much says it.