Cast Blog: #RHOA

What a Difference a Year Makes

Kim still can't believe how much her life has changed since last season.

It's been a long summer of filming, but we're back! I want to start off by saying I appreciate all of the love I've been getting since Season 3 ended! All of your tweets and Facebook posts really got me through this season! So with that being said, let’s jump right into Episode 1!
 
I can't stress any more than I already have about how life can change in just one year. I wouldn't have guessed in a million years that I would be so in love, pregnant, getting ready to move into my dream home, and now be officially engaged! Last year, you all witnessed Kroy and I meeting for the first time, and ever since then my life has been a dream. I couldn't have asked for a better soul mate. He's a wonderful father and most of all he makes me and the girls so happy.
 
As you all saw, I'm getting ready to move into a new home. Living in a three bedroom townhouse just wasn't going to work any longer since I'm about to give birth to my son. And besides, I was so ready to get my stuff out of storage. My belongings have been there for five years. I can't wait for you all to see more about our BIG move! (It could have been a show in itself.) Kandi is doing a sex toy line: SHOCKING! I mean we all know Kandi loves anything having to do with sex, so why not? I think it's a great idea and I support her all the way! And the idea of having a music-based vibrator is golden. Just imagine: "Don't be tardy (buzz) for the party (buzz)." Love it!
Now let's talk about this whole NeNe and Sheree ordeal. Sheree reached out to let her know that Diddy was hosting an event and wanted us to host as well. Sheree, being the kind-hearted person she is, invited NeNe also. As celebrities we all have fee's that we charge to do any kind of appearance, and Tyrone (the promoter) knew their fee and accepted. So it was a deal. NeNe, being the money hungry woman she is, went behind her back and called Tyrone saying that Sheree is boring and they should just pay her more! In the end, Sheree did the appearance, made her money, and everyone went on with their lives. At the end of the day, Sheree caught her in a lie and NeNe went crying and running to Cynthia. Seemed to me that it was all for show! NeNe is so money hungry and she's constantly trying to present a life that she really doesn’t live! If NeNe is such a "rich bitch" like she says she is, why would she have tried to take money from Sheree? She is on this episode bragging about how she is writing a check in cash for her son’s new car and that "ching ching ching, her haters should be mad."
 
Well when I wrote a cash check for my car on Episode 1 of Season 1, did you see me going around talking about how "rich" I am? No! In fact I was incredibly thankful I was able to do that. People who truly have money don't need to go around talking about it. God can take it from you as quick as he gave it to you, and people need to remember that!
 
Over the years I've learned being rich doesn't really have anything to do with money. That's being wealthy. Being rich in life is what she's aspiring to, and that requires having things money can't buy. Thing like happiness, health, family, etc. And if NeNe is rich, then I'd rather be broke.

Until next week,
xxoo
Kim

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Kenya: "I Will Always Be a Queen"

Kenya Moore dishes on the truce with Phaedra Parks and the non apology from Porsha Williams.

CLOSURE
The reunion represents closure on all levels. I believe most women need closure. Reunions are tough because you live through filming, then through seeing it on TV, and then again during the reunion. You can feel you have moved on from something difficult and then you have to discuss it and rehash it. I felt good about this reunion, because I have grown so much. I am stronger now and nothing or anyone can destroy me.

Speaking of opening old wounds, I was respectful toward Phaedra during the conversation, but it’s clear that after our truce, she still wants to call me a whore and liken me to other “whores in the bible.” God doesn’t like ugly. Maybe sitting alone on the sofa now is confirmation.

THE NON APOLOGY
There was a part of me that was hopeful about getting an apology for being physically attacked at the last reunion, since that would mean the past was behind us. You have to own what you do wrong in life. Children are taught that you don’t hit anyone first or at all. Whether provoked or not, isolated incident or not, physically attacking someone is legally and morally incomprehensible. As such, doing the right thing should be easy. But this is the same person whose grandfather was a greatly respected civil rights activist who fought for non-violence, yet thinks the Underground Railroad was an actual train that took people to freedom.

In typical fashion, Phaedra attacks my character in a preplanned soliloquy. But in her own words, her “THOT” friend thinks that spreading your legs wide open and accepting gifts from married men is admirable. Yet, it’s basically teaching young girls that having a square card reader between your butt cheeks is how one becomes “blessed” and “successful.” That’s why I will always be a Queen, literally and figuratively, because when I am wrong, I can apologize, forgive, and move forward. I can love, though I have not always been loved, and I can be talented and successful on my own merit without needing men to finance my lifestyle, and I can be the bigger person when others try to bring me down.

SINGLE VS MARRIED
Some viewers ask why there are single women on a show about Housewives. It’s simple -- every Real Housewife franchise has single women, from Beverly Hills to OC to NY to Atlanta. With that said, there are only two Housewives on RHOA that are currently not married, Claudia and myself. In fact, approximately 43 percent of all Black women have never been married. My journey is not unlike the many Black single women who watch our show. Nearly half of Black women want to be married and find true love but are not willing to settle or can’t find the right man. NeNe and her puppet would like everyone to think it’s better to be in a horrible marriage rather than be single.

Having said that, I have never received so much love from the viewers as when I was featured on The Millionaire Matchmaker. It made me realize is that I am no different from all the single women around the world looking for real love. My journey is their journey, and ultimately they want me to fall in love with them rooting me on. It happened for Kandi, Kim, Bethenny, Tamra, etc. and it will happen for me too with all of you by my side. Therefore, having single women as Housewives is good for the show. Everyone deserves a chance to be happy. And we can inspire and give hope to those looking for love.

Rumor has it that someone said single women should be fired from RHOA. As such, we wouldn’t have witnessed the beautiful rekindling of NeNe and Gregg's love or her wedding special. Therefore, those people clearly didn't create the successful model for this show. If it's a play to get me fired... Try again. #CatchThatShade

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