I thought NeNe's instructions were clear -- say what you feel, because she will say what she feels. How then did you end up apologizing? The good thing about being an adult is knowing which friendships to keep and which to never get started...
Cynthia does not need to follow Nene's "instructions." An apology is a beautiful thing to offer if your thoughtless words have hurt someone's feelings or implied something inaccurate about their character.
You don'y even know Kim! How presumptuous of you to make such a stupid statement. I notice you are in less and less episodes and they are making you less and less relevant....don't think we'll be seeing you next year.....Thank God!!!!!
No body with any class cares about an opinion that you may have in regards to playing nice in the sandbox. Its called being lady like. Something you haven't discovered yet. Your so full of yourself you probably never will
You just made it VERY clear that you and Sheree do indeed take your orders from NeNe by using the phrase, ...NeNe's "instructions" were clear. When a person says something out of line and hurtful, they should apologize. regardless of NeNe's instructions.
Hold up! NeNe's "INSTRUCTIONS"? Huh? Say what now? Are you saying that NeNe "instructs" Cynthia on ALL aspects of how to run her life? Because why? Cynthia has no mind of her own? Okay, we have all THOUGHT that, but you basically confirmed it. Now what does that say about YOU? That NeNe is indeed the "boss" of the talls? You seem excessively worried about carrying out NeNe's "instructions"....Being an adult is also knowing how and when to apologize for foul remarks that hit below the belt, and I am proud of Cynthia for doing so. Hmmm, "me" thinks I detect some insecurity, and dare I say envy over Cynthia and NeNe's friendship? :-) Just continue to concern yourself with your "labels" that you have no clue what to do with, and your "material" things that you have to cuddle up with, and KEEP reading your "etiquette" books, one day you may actually get it! Feel me?
Does Cynthia take her orders from Nene? Maybe Cynthia was feeling like she doesn't want to fight, and actually said what she was feeling.
What happened to the upcoming new cast of RHOA? NeNe and Kim are not listed. Does that make Phaedra and Kandi the new leads? Marlo, everybody knows with you on board this cast is tanking in popularity. Bravo, did we really need to follow an ex-con's, (Marlo's) life?
For once you and I have the same view on something! This is what "the smalls" and the viewers have been saying about Cynthia. She is two-faced and she wants to please whomever she is accompanying. If Cynthia wanted to keep cordial and keep the peace because she sees herself working with Kim in the future, there is a way to do that but still be honest. She was not honest at all with what she said and I think you summed it up best all in those few sentences.
Hey Marlo. I just want to say, you are so funny. You and NeNe together are hilarious. I'll be looking to see more of you on the show.
Who cares? Marlo could not tell the truth if she had to...watch the first season and NeeNe is fake as fake can be. She walks the path that Vicki on the other housewife show does. Negative negative negative
Cynthia made a wise decision. Instead of adding to drama she ended it. Choosing to apologize to Kim in the parking lot was a mature thing to do, because Kim clearly wouldn't let it go. I'm not sure if them going out for drinks was needed, but it didn't hurt. They may not be friends, but now they aren't enemies.
Somebody needs to teach Cynthia to be continuously assertive. She definitely fears confrontation and never learned to say what she thinks truthfully. The way she responds is not diplomacy that is fear. Cynthia needs to learn and learn quickly, or Peter will make her a rag doll before the next Anniversary. I however kinda like her and wish her well.
How 'bout you mind your own business? I'm glag the two of them sorted things out. An adult conversation is much nicer than watching 2 grown women scream at each other like bad mannered fools (you & Sheree).
What people seem to forget is that Cynthia never said that she couldn't see Kim holding any black babies. She said "African" babies or in an orphanage, there is a HUGE difference. As we all know Africans aren't just black. I think she was being specific as to the environment and orphange. It was her opinion just as Kandi's was when she stated she didn't think she would come and agreed with Cynthia. As a matter of fact, so did Sheree.
I am so tired of these folks on the BLOGS; do they pay close attention to the episodes that air; Cynthia did make the comment; she also said that she could be wrong; but she just can't see it. What's wrong with her stating her opinion? That is not a racist remark. Say what you mean and mean what you say!!!! Kim always have a trashbox mouth about everyone.
Honestly, Marlo. Every housewife on this show needs to apologize to each other for being so rude and crass. Please stop with the righteous indignation.
Why why why this woman has a blog? She is not a housewife. I don’t get it. I hope we don’t have to see her next season.
to sunflower Cynthia did not hurt her feelings nor the statement was inaccurate regarding Kim's character.Marlo I agree with you. Cynthia is nice but she is trying to play both sides of the fence and she is going to get burned by these ladies. I don't understand what it is about Kim that everybody can't see the real
How can anyone come to the defense of any of these women. They are vapid, self-absorbed, pretentious, uneducated and ridiculous. They make for great TV, like watching a train wreck.
Love me some Marlo....and Team Talls. I hope Bravo keep you for next season and let Sheree go off and play with Kim.
hey first of all i love me some marlo and ne ne i must say you ladies are the show marlo i love your style fashion and the whole package i see your game tight anyway i hope you and ne ne be the best of friends you guys are the best on the show marlo im your fannnnn
Cynthia said it ,and she did the right thing! They all talk about each other,and I'm a firm believer if you said be a big girl and say you said it and be ready for what ever comes your way.As a woman you should be able to stand your ground without anybody holding you up.Marlo your ok,and you dont seem to be be big bully like your friend NeNe!!!!! But remeber you didnt admit what you said either a few weeks ago!!!!!!
Hate to say this but Marlo you are so right. what i don't understand is why Cynthia would be acting hard when talking to Nene, the get to the front of Kim and then say 'sorry' 2ce! SMH! im WEAK! I am so embarrassed for Cynthia. She must really feel so stupid watching that episode yesterday...
OMG seriously Nasty Nay Nay and Marlo (meant to spell it wrong ha ha) you two are lazy. Marlo you were so disgusting in Africa laying on your bed eating your ice chips (how stupid) and telling that poor girl how to pack for you. Goodness you received your money being a HO right Cynthia showed some class by speaking for herself (not that you would have any idea what class is) at the restaurant and NOT following Nay Nay's "instructions" I might just begin to like her now, good for you Cynthia maybe you are not Nay Nay's lap dog afterall!!
Regardless of what was said, she already apologized in the parking lot at the church. Why have lunch and just reiterate what you said, it was useless and a waste of time. Kim is not about to be your friend. Marlo I like you and NeNe my girl
Marlo is right. Cynthia should have taken Nene's advice, followed Nene's instructions, or whatever words you wanna choose. Like Nene said, Kim is going to say what she wants so Cynthia should say what she wants. She didn't owe Kim an apology and shouldn't t have apologized. Forget Kim!
An apology is always the best way to have the last word. Cynthia no longer owns the issue.... over and done.
Marlo is right. Cynthia should have taken Nene's advice, followed Nene's instructions, or whatever words you choose. Like Nene said, Kim is going to say what she wants so Cynthia should say what she wants. She didn't owe Kim an apology and shouldn't t have apologized. Forget Kim!
Why are you blogging? You are not a housewife, thank God. Bravo - PLEASE don't add her - she is ridiculously annoying! And as such, I could care less about your opinions ... at least NeNe is funny in her "fabulousness" and keeps me watching - I turn it off when Marlo comes on, ugh!
YES I agree I would never apologize to Kim with her raggedy mouth! Kim thinks she can say and do anything because at one time "she had black friends"! I'm sick of the apologies with a lot of Ppl, say what you mean, stand what you do and be like "and what"!
I love you, and NeNe. I hope they replace Sheree (or Kim or Kandi or Phadra)with you, I would then actually watch the entire show. I turn the channel If NeNe or Cynthia is not on, and YOU!
And, let the first without sin (or a past) throw the first stone.
It's not weak to apologize. It's ok to say sorry even if the person you are apologizing to is a piece of trash which we all know Kim is...
Cynthia has her own mind. She said she has no problem with Kim. If she felt the situation would be diffused by saying 'sorry' for that comment about African babies, then more power to her.
Once a person apologizes it's over. And that's what she wanted... for the chatter to end.
Marlo, your pic on this Bravo site looks better than those of all the other RHOAs! . . . Some people could learn a LOT from your sense of style!
I love YOU MARLO ! You Nene, & Cynthia are my favs on the show... very real and upfront about everything is the way to be! I could care less about Kim and Sheree....those two can go....Team Talls all the way!!!
Yes, you may be annoying to some, overly materialistic to others, but most importantly you are yourself and not trying to be somebody you arent i.e. Sheree living in a 850 sq ft apt/ "building" Chateau Sheree and Kim "owning" a mansion.
Yes you are gaudy, over the top and you bring the drama but you are one fab REAL woman and i applaud you for most importantly being yourself.....there's ONLY one you in the world.
Why be a copy when you are the original?
Ecstatic Bravo finally came to their senses and added u as a cast member for next season!!
First off it doesnt cost anything to smile or say I am sorry. Is Nene the leader here or what. Cynthia wanted her slate cleared and she did it like an adult. I am a fan neither of Cynthia, Nene or Marlo but I think Cynthia moved up out of high school (this week anyway) and acted like a woman with some class and dignity.
Please let Marlo COMEBACK, her and NeNe are GREAT together. Everybody except Kandi, Cynthia and Phaedra has made their own money. NOBODY else can question Marlo about How she earned her money. Let it go and BRING her BACK next season! I'll be watching.