You need to put your "Big Girl Panties On" and send that man to jail. Phaedra asked you to play tough and you backed down. Now he is getting his lawyer friends to help him stall the case. Your Ex is not that smart or he would be paying you the money the boys are entitled too. If you were as smart as Phaedra you would know that the two cases are seperate. One is concerning ability to pay in the future and the other is "PAY NOW OR GO TO JAIL!"

It also appears you have no respect for the knowledge of a lawyer to pay for the services provided. Phaedra is trying to help and you are blasting her on TV. GET REAL and GROW UP. Stop spending what you don't have until you get it. If the boys need support show that what you earn is going to the boys whole heartedly not on YOUR PALACE HOUSE, A FANCY CAR AND EXPENSIVE CLOTHES FOR YOU!

Sheree, I usually don't comment on shows/blogs, but I had to comment about your comments in regard to your ex's lawsuit. YOU'RE right about him paying his child support and being a role model to his children. However, you can't blame Phadera for not being on "top" of her game because she advised you about how to precede with this issue. But, women are so concerned with keeping a "positive" image for the child's father and not willing to examine the TRUE reason for the pursuit of support. Children are a blessing and either you need to make an example of their father or continue to take care of your children like the Lord has allowed you to. You're blessed and don't waste that pain and tears on that man again. You tried, so now let it go or FIGHT! But the decision is yours, not Phadera's. She's only paid for what HER CLIENT WANTS TO PURSUE!!!!

Sheree why you did not listen to Phaedra about sending to jail your ex?????? By not listening he hits you first.....Men are terrible creatures and they will always take advantage of women if we let them do it! This contempt was your fault not your attorney, you have to listen and think with your head not with your hearth! Besides you spend money like crazy, I do not if you are under your means or not! I'm worry for you girl!

We like you Sheree, but seriously, stop blaming your attorney for your hesitation in choosing a precise direction to solve you $$$ problems with your ex.

If you could use the same energy you do putting others down, you could really have a better life with less drama.

Nene is a good friend to have on your team, and a bad one for an enemy.Be smart! Don't spoil a friendship over foolery. HOWEVER, NeNe will not be used. You cannot use her celebrity to MAKE your money. She is the STAR of the show. It's just the way it is. Get on board, but don't be fake about it. Humble yourself, before you lose everything. That's real talk!

Sheree, I love you alot!! Your an elegant and classy women. I disagree with some of the people when they say your jealous of NeNe. First of all you take care of yourself and you definately don't need a man like NeNe does. Secondly, you didn't have to get a boob job like NeNe did(YOUR NATURAL). Third, NeNe had to go on a television show to get noticed like who does that. I feel like you stand on your own two feets and take care of your kids everyday. I do believe she tried to take money from you honestly come on now it's NeNe. I will say that you proved your point. She gone go and cry to Cynthia like what can she do to help her please. Only you, Kandi, and Kim keeps it real on the show. Im stuck on the fact that NeNe thinks your jealous of her wow she really thinks that. All of ya'll have money but i guess she wants to prove that she has more. she's a grown women like grow up seriously i want her to do that. For a women to be walking around saying "I'm Rich" its says a whole lot about her character as a lady. Alot of people call themselves rich but you don't need to go around telling people that you are cause WHO CARES. Team Sheree alll day!!!!!

Sheree, file the papers, if you haven't already. You need to find that inner diva. Not the one who wears desinger clothes and drives expensive car. Not the one waving her finger and throwing her weave back and forth. The real diva who stands up for herself and teaches her family to do the same. A lot of women are looking at you and how you handle this situation. Bob laughing and telling you he will not pay...girl please. They will not even fingerprint him before his real lawyer pays you all the back money you have coming and more. You are building the wrong muscles, build up the one between your ears.

Sheree please! Calling out the names of designers, an expensive purse and a Porche to be parked at a apartment building. You are supposingly building a home with a skating rink, I know you like to pretend but that is laughable. Look you can do rentals if that makes you happy but it makes you look like a fool when everything you do get exposed. Just do like we all do, live within your means, put your husband in jail, love your kids and yourself, explain to them the situation about their Dad and the finances; and please quit pretending aka lying.

Phaedra gave you good advice but you didnt want to use it. That is the risk you took because no lawyer can make a client take his/her advice. It becomes obvious why you have so many problems.

Quit playing around and just send deadbeat Bob to jail. He needs to work out HIS issues while you take care of your children's business.

Sheree,

Don't waste time with NeNe, she is rude, crude and socially unacceptable! You are twice the women she will ever hope to be. She makes all these "claims" about herself being rich, successful, ect... Yet the only thing we viewers KNOW for sure is that she is an ex stripper who married a sugardaddy, then tried to act all that! Please, once a stripper ALWAYS classless!

Hold your ground with your ex. If you won't fight for your children's future who will?? If he has to be thrown in jail, that's HIS choice, not yours. He knows what the court documents say and he's ignoring them because he believes you don't have the guts to have him jailed. Show him he's mistaken!!!

You, Kim, Kandi and are the best!!! You are real. You own what you do and say and don't try to pretend to be something your not, unlike NeNe and Cynthia and even Pheadra! I like Pheadra but I do think she is fake. I even like Cynthia but believe she lowers herself by being friends with NeNe.

NeNe thinks just because she was on with "the Donald" she's all that, but get serious, she was kicked off because everyone saw her for what she really is, a BIG mouthed ignorant women who bullies people to get her way because she's NOT SMART enough to get it any other way!

Take care of you and your kids!!!

Sheree, where do I start! First of all I think you and your childish attitude stinks!!! Also I had absolutely no pity for you on last nights show, 12/13. You should have been had his sorry self locked up for not helping take care of his kids!! But you being you, having to worry about your pride and other b.s. got you in the shape you're in now! Looks like he was the smart one after all!! You got what you deserved! I felt the cameras wasted too much time onyour sorry self breaking down every ten minutes!! I almost turned the t.v. cuz you and your life are BORING! You don't have any money, if you did why did they have to look for you to get a retainer check!? Seek help for your son because something is not right! He appears to be affected by whats going on with you and your DRAMA!!! You can talk the talk, but can you walk the walk!? NeNe is far better than you on her worst day and you can take that to the bank!!!!

i see that bravo reps didnt post my comment! i guess i keep it so real, it even hurt their feelings, so imma be modest about this, and hope i dont bunch up their panties!! sheree, there is no way that you can blame phaedras work ethic, because she asked you to play hardball and put the man in jail, but you said what, "well let me think about it"!! WHO DOES THAT WHEN IT COMES TOTHEIR KIDS???? now the man is in court looking like a raggamuffin, and you let the man outwit phaedra because you failed to let her take action. two different situations ma, him asking to modify the terms of support due to his financial status now, vs, him paying BACK CHILD SUPPORT that is already PAST DUE!! phaedra knows this, so take the handcuffs of of her and let her do what you retained her to do!!

i totally agree with the nene situation she did hit below the belt first she was upset because she thought you would back down she can famous and rich but she will never be truly happy treating ppl the way she does belittling others her reaction to your talk was proof that she did it and was mad she was caught she thinks because her mouth is big she is right but her talking over people just proves she is wrong and know it and dont want u to get your point across

Please Please do what you need to do to get your support. I've been fighting this fight for 17 years. In the beginning it seemed to be set up for him to pay very reasonable amount. He never did. Not a dime. I worked multiple jobs to raise our kids. I never wanted to send their dad to jail either. Now, 17 years later, he had the full amount modified because the Prosecutor thought he was adorable (not lying) without a Judge present, wrote off over %50 of what was owed in back support. Written in stone.... Done. All that money for Doctors bills (co pay) plus I carried Insurance, Dentist, Schools functions, it goes on forever. Don't let him off girl. The fees never stop and they get away with all that if you don't have it written on paper in Court. Do it down to the price of a hair cut. I'm serious. Take him down girl. Keep your head up. And don't feel bad for having a nice purse or taking a nice vacation. Ain't nobodies business.

Sorry to see what you are going through right now with the legal issues. Keep fighting for your children's rights to be supported by their father.

Now I have to point something I noticed in last night's episode and I looked again when they did the rerun. You mention rather meanly that Nene should make sure wherever she moves next to place art work and furniture in it, yet last night it hit me that all I see of your apartment is that kitchen and living room area. When you were headed out the door and you told your son you would be back, he headed into his room and it looked like a suitcase was sitting on the floor along with an air mattress and some bedding. I then took note that your apartment is not that furnished either, its about the same as where Nene is currently living. I know you are building a house and planning to move in but from Sunday's scene of the progress, all I saw was just dirt and not even a foundation of a house. So I think you should not talk about how others are living when it looks like you are not living the way you say they should.

Also, where is your smaller daughter, I have not really seen her at all this season?

First, let me start by saying that no matter what all of you are going through it is called a part of life. Why do you all continue to drag for each other? The bottom line is this no one on the show wants to see anyone be successful. In each endeavor that any of the ladies have tried thier hand in one of you had something to say that was negative. No matter what the situation is if you are true friends you wouldn't be so critical of each other. As long as the ladies of RHOA continue to fight each other it will be hard for any of you to reach potential in whatever it is you do. Kudos to Kandi and Cynthia for keeping to themselves and trying to keep friendship with all the ladies no matter the situation. As for your situation looking at your house your funiture is scarce so close your mouth when discussing someone's else situation. BTW do you really rent cars and purses?

Sheree, you lost damn mind. You hire Phadrea to help you with your lawsuit, she tells you to send Bob to jail, you don't do it, and then you are upset with the outcome? It's madness. Grow up, take responsibility for your decisions, and act like an adult. Between you and your ex, someone has to be the adult to those children. I am sure you must hate all the negative comments we post on this blog but guess what you put your life out there, what do you expect?

I usually enjoy watching these episodes, but your court drama seems to be your own creation. Phaedra was not just gossiping with you. She told you to file for your arrears and YOU chose not to listen. You would not be the one sending him to jail, he would be sending himself. Also, how do you expect her to work for you when you pay her the day before the court date... hello???? To do what at that point other than to represent you the date of the hearing. Your expectations are unrealistic and you are not living in the real world. You have to fight for yourself because no one is going to do it for you.

Wow..

hello..just wanted to say that i hve 3 children who i had to raise b/c their father refused to pay..so i placed him on child support he didnt pay so i didnt make a big deal about it b/c it wont affect me it will affect him b/c the children will see for themselves as they get older what type of father they will hve..ive never said one bad thing about him and now my children are in college b/c i made the sacrifice and did what i had to do..but my children sued him for the back child support and won..you cant care what happens to him b/c 4 yrs he hasnt cared about you..stand up and keep moving forward..

Sheree you should have more confindence in Pharadra, she knows what she is doing. Your ex is using stall tatics to postpone, this happens all the times in court cases. There are procedures you have to go through in court and the worst thing you can do is make a judge mad. They will bury your case. Of course Bob is so mature re: sticking his tongue out behind your back and running like a stupid child! And what exactly did you see in him?? You can read up on the same things he has looked up. Where he went to school doesnt have anything to do with it. It is called the internet!

Sheree I use to like you, but all you do is talk about NeNe. Instead of you taking about the other ladies on the show you need to handle your own business. You should have been took Bob to court, but I guess instead you thought you were to rich and did not need it til now. Your problem you need to live over what you do not have.Yes Bob need to pay child support, but I need to be in a separate account so Bob can have control over it also. He needs to make for sure that he is paying for his children to live when they turn over a certain age. If the court do not handle the funds then you will take the money and put it toward your house, car, and other personal items for your self. Stop talking about every one else and take care of yourself and kids. Then you will be alright. Remember when you hit people beneath the belt it will always come back on you. Watch what you do and say to people.

Sheree I respected you until you let Bob get away with the child support thing. I am in the same situation so I know what you are going through but I wouldn't for one minute not put my ex in jail if thats what it took. He wouldn't be in jail laughing and sticking his tongue out. Believe me your kids won't care if you put him in jail! Come on be the strong black woman I always believed you were. Stop hating on NeNe she is just trying to do her thing to get ahead like everyone else after all you are friends with Kim and all she is, is a golddigger! You see she went and found some other man to take care of her. Those the kind of people you should be hating on atleast NeNe is doing it herself!

Dear Sheree I feel your pain about your ex not taken care of his children he should step up an be a father to them but on the other hand don't waste your time on chasing behind a dead beat dad if you are doing it all your kids will see who was there for them. An as for you an nene you an her have been friends to long to let money an fame come between you to.

Sheree it was so hard for me to watch the episode displaying the antics of your ex. It hit close to home, I have seen this play out in my life with my father and my ex-husband, as well as other women around me.People are so focus on what you have-instead of looking at the fact that this man needs to contribute to his children. Whether you live in mansion or cardboard box. Just because people may disagree with your personal views or lifestyle -this has nothing to do with your ex not doing his part. It is so easy for us to judge being at home-away from the public eye. You have given us a window into your life. We are all human, and have made mistakes- now its time for your ex to step up and make things right finanically with your kids. I pray for courage and endurance. Keep your head up.

Sheree, Phaedra wasn't outsmarted by Bob. He's playing games (all within the legal system), and you failed to take Phaedra's advice when she told you to send him to jail. Instead of complaining all the time, I think you should be listening to your lawyer. After all, she is giving you a reduced rate...

I can't figure out where you get your money, building a new house and new Porsche. You said you didn't get what you deserved in the divorce, so where do you get the income to live like you do. Just wondering, it must be nice.

Dear honey girl, Sheree.......it kill me to see you brought to tears in this episode with the courtroom and that neandrathal masquerading as a man, your EX. What a moron, what a pitiful excuse for a human being. You are like I am, a barker not a biter, but honey you best get your choppers ready to go because this is going against your grain, I can see that. He is the father of your children, and of course you have feelings for him because of that, but he is a bum and don't you forget that. I don't know what you can do because of the court system, but girl you've got to show no mercy, if for no other reason than he's gloating and all puffed up about you can't get him, so you go for the throat now. It's not only because of the children he had no problem sireing, but it's for your own self esteem. You do whatever it takes, and if it doesn't go the right way, then you will know that you did your best and the court system in GA is crooked, and there's nothing you can do about that. Cry your tears, I know you are hurt and frustrated and blown away by who this man really turn out to be. He is nothing but a big ignorant lump, nothin' more than that. Good for Kairo and Kahleigh that you have them, otherwise he would make a mess of them. Big hugs (((((((((Sheree))))))))))

Sheree, it was your tears and not wanting to put your kids father in jail that caused Phedra not to be able to properly represent you. Watch the previous episodes. You cant blame Phedra and also sheree, I know its all for the kids. thats what i have heard all my life from exwives who want to live above their means and then demand support for the children. My suggesstion is that you raise your children and if he doesnt pay then let your children sue them when they turn eighteen and let them have the money. Or have your ex sign over his rights as a parent and keep him out of their lives. But Sheree you cant start building Chateau Sheree and then turn around and expect the child support system to all of a sudden have him pay. You let him slide for 4 years! I raised my daughter very nicely on a nurses salary. We lived week to week but I did it on my own. Stop waisting the courts time and just support your kids and leave space for the single mothers who work two jobs and cant make ends meet who cant get a court date because of your wanting to live high on the hogg.

Sheree you owe Phadrea a HUGE apology and if you keep saying things about NeNe and everybody else you'll owe them an apology too! Grow up and stop blaming other people for your problems and stop being so jealous about what others have or pretend to have. Everybody in life has been burnt by somebody. Move on. Take the high road above NeNe, not go down in the gutter with her and say all these things about her house. Nobody cares. Talk about you and your life, not others? Again, apologize to Phaedrea. YOU were outsmarted, not her, own it girl!!! She told you to file it and you wouldn't. How is that her fault? If I were your attorney I would tell you to go find someone else after talking about me like that when it was your own fault. You need to apologize before she walks off and makes you pay a lot more money for someone else to represent you at their regular rates.

Sheree,

I have been watching the show for the last 4 years and it seems that every season you've lost something or people are claiming you are broke, in debt, or lying about something. You were one of my favorites but you seem to be like all the other pretenders who want to be wearing and carrying fancy bags and clothes that you can't pronounce. Last season you were in a house. This season a condo. Last season you had an Astin Martin this Tuesday you showed up at Phaedra's with a Porsche. I am confused as a successful black woman as to how you cry about child support and needing things for your kids yet you want to show up in court with a Gucci suit and Hermes bag. Maybe if you stopped self indulging, paid your bills and actually took care of your responsibilities then that lot where there is supposed to be a house ( I have a new home built from the ground and it took my builder 5 months) and stopped doting on Ne Ne who is a bigger celebrity like or not, then maybe you could get somewhere and stop pretending. My question is what if Bob gave you the money would you pay your bills and do for your kids or would you go but more Louboutin's?

I couldn't wait to see the "court episode" to c what Bob did to Phaedra,who i admire. The only person out smarted by Bob is YOU! Phaedra advised you right and you hee- haw around feeling sorry for Bob and didn't take her advice. I like you but you have shown that you are not smart girl..even Bob knew to dress like he didn't have any money to court, but you didn't have sense enough to dress like you needed the money to court until Phaedra advised you..Girl you are very blessed to have an attorney as a friend but you don't have sense enough to appreciate her..I thought you were sharper than that but your priorities are not straight! If I was Phaedra I would charge you the full rate or not represent you at all cause I can see you are ready to blame her for your MISTAKES!

It's sad that Bob's own children have to be witness to how selfish and uncaring he is. The flippant way that he talks about the unpaid child support on the show is truly shameful. Every woman reading this, if you have a man who stands by you and your children; appreciate, praise and love your good man!!! Not all men are bad, some are wonderful, but that Bob Whitfield is about as low as a man can get. This is not a game and it's not cute nor funny the way that he tortures Sheree and their beautiful children.

Sheree what the hell are you waiting for. Send that lousy ex-husband of yours to jail and you'll get your money honey. Listen to Phaedra she is trying to get you to stop being so dumb and naive and keep you out of the court system. For christ sake's what is wrong with you? Stop loving a man that don't love you nor care about you or the kids, you deserve so much better than what you are going through stop trying to do what you think is the least amount of hurt for him and start thinking about YOU and your hurt and your pain and your kids hurt and pain over his vicious behavior.

Sheree... there is no need for you to blame phaedra for your court mishaps!!!While you were whining,your kids father was WINNING!!!Next time move faster and show no mercy to the enemy!!!

P.S Listen to your attorney she know more than you do.

I cant understand why you would not send the guy to jail if he hasnt paid support in four years.???? That just baffles me. Obviously he's playing games and has no interest in caring for the kids. It was so immature of him to stick out his tounge. That's just unacceptable. Phaedra advised you to file the petition for contempt and ask for a purge. She knows what she's talking about. She's the lawyer! I think theres more to the story.....

I cant understand why you would'nt take Phaedra's advice and file the petition for contempt. I would have put him away so fast he would not have known what happened. How do you allow someone to go four years without paying? Thats unacceptable. He obviously has no intention on paying. He stuck out his tounge like a kid! How ignorant of a grown man. There has to be more to the story. Maybe you were afraid to put in jail because he has something on you!

Sheree, you need to get real - and then stay there.

I love, love, love watching you girls. Total entertainment. One thing however, why always so sinister, sarcastic, and tough? You are such a beautiful, smart woman and yet you come across as mean, defensive, and almost masculine. Lighten up. Your ex looked like the biggest loser on the last episode and despite all the rumors, anyone could see how painful that was for you. Forget about Cynthia, noone listens to her anyway. Nene however, is one that will stick around and perhaps you should reconcile.

Sheree,

I like you, but why are you blogging on petty nonsense? You are above that. Who cares about the way NeeNee furnished her apartment (mind you - when yours is barely furnished) and Cynthia coming late to the baby shower. All you ladies seem to find negative things to write about the cast mates you don't care for and positive things to write about the cast mates you do care for - which comes across as immature. How about that proverb, if you don't have anything nice to say about someone, don't say it all?

Also, you seem to be a good mother which is admirable, but girl, spending huge amounts of money on expensive things (Porsche, $10k handbags, designer clothes) for yourself when you are trying to seek child support is not wise.

Hope you stay grounded and good luck to you!

Sheree, you are my favorite on the show. I know exactly what you are going through with the child support issue. But, you really need to trust Phaedra more. Believe me when I say if I had a lawyer telling me what to do in order to get my back owed child support (meaning having your ex-husband arrested) I would have done it in a minute. I won’t have to think anything over. I know he cares about his kids but he don’t care about them enough to do the right thing. I thought him asking your daughter for her birthday gift card was just the lowest thing anyone can do. I have been in your shoes and I am still in your shoes with trying to get back owed child support. I believe Phaedra has a good heart and is only trying to help you. Please have your ex arrested. Make sure Bob not only see you but he HEAR YOU!!! Get you babies their money!

My comment is for Sheree, you were one of my favorites on the show until this court situation for child support. Phaedra told you to throw is ass in jail and you got all teary eyed, then you have the nerve to be upset because he came to court and outsmarted YOU, if you had listened and put him in jail he couldn't have pulled a fast one. I also really admire Kandi she is my shero, because she shared her child support story and proved she didnt need nothing from her daughter's father and she has provided for her sex toys or not. Sheree just let go and let GOD and he will provide you should be able to see that in Kandi.

Sheree plzzzzz....you need to quit with all this pretense about NeNe....why do you even care if NeNe can purchase furniture or not for her Miami home? Why are you such a bitch?? So you claim you know all NeNe's mistruth's and misleading yet you were still very close with her, what does that make you? Everybody in the world has worms so stop acting like you have a clean slate.... Go ahead and let the worms out, this is exactly what NeNe was talking about...not because you are no longer friends with someone you bring up their secrets Sheree.....that is very immature....and remember that NeNe is the one that doesn't want to reconcile with you...

I suggest that you focus on you and keep a positive energy that will bring you even more success.

Don't hate because NeNe is the star for this show lol.....

First, I'd like to say that I think Bob should pay the child support because it is his responsibility. She should receive the back pay the he owes his children. I just can't believe how she says she struggling because he hasnt paid it and has bought expensive things. She is rebuilding a house, bought a new car(more expensive than what judges get paid), expensive-shoes, clothes, and accessories. When ppl get divorced or the spouse dies you have to adjust your lifestyle sometimes and downgrade. I think maybe Sheree needs to drive thru the areas of GA that are REALLY struggling. There are single mothers living pay check to pay check, on welfare, and living in low income homes. What does Sheree do for a living? She had the nerve to be upset bc Phaedra wasn't ahead of the game but, she had no way of knowing that he was going to pull that contempt paperwork. And how is she not going to have the money for Phaedra? IJS

You really don't know what you're talking about, legally. You dragged your feet about filing a motion against your ex with Phaedra. He just beat you to the punch, don't blame Phaedra. Why are you housewives living like you are rich? You've bought an expensive car each season and can't seem to keep them. Now you're building an expensive house. You're not going to be on the show forever and your fame won't last forever because it's not real. You guys don't have real talent, like Kandi with her music, Phaedra has your legal profession and the rest of you are doing appearances because you're a hot item now, but it won't last. It would be wise to invest your money.

What numerous business opportunities, you can't seem to get your clothing line off the ground. You are surely not an actress.

Love to you and yours....be strong but listen to Phaedra .Get what your kids deserve!What was with Bob sticking his tongue out in a Federal court building??Really what kind of man behaves so poorly?

Sheree-You really disrespected Phaedra on how she was handling your case. She probably was giving you a break financially to defend you. If you had taken her advice before, you wouldn't had this problem. Buying a luxury car and building a new home is not very sensible for you because of your cash flow. You need to talk to financial advisor to help you learn how to budget yourself. I know that you are not the "budget type", but you realy need it. From what I saw on TV, you look like you live in a apartment complex. Please use common sense and discretion. Peace, Georgia Peach