Sheree Whitfield

Sheree dishes on her confrontation with NeNe.

on Nov 9, 20110

Boy does it feel good to be blessed to come back for another season! I thank you guys for watching and supporting, even though at times it does get a bit crazy.

During my time off I spent a lot of time with my family and friends, I’ve traveled a bit, I’ve been getting booked for events/appearances, I’ve been doing a little dating, and I’m super busy with my kids’ extremely active schedules! I am officially Kaleigh, Kairo, and their friend’s chauffeur! I say that jokingly, but they are very athletic and talented, so their schedules are pretty hectic. But I don’t mind because you know what they say about idle hands. Keeping family at the center is always a great thing.

272 comments
Really?
Really?

Sheree it's always some one else who is at fault. NEVER you. Where does this sense of entitlement come from? You married an NFL player...that's it...Yet you feel everyone owes you, or should bend over backwards for you. It's puzzling. Haven't you ever heard of " you catch more flies with sugar", Sugar? Nene turns on the charm. Kandi and Cindy drip with sweetness, and even Kim is nice, in some ways. But you? I haven't heard a nice thing come out of your mouth except when you say it in a condescending way, or when you've got some hidden agenda. It seems your only nice when IT suits you. And lying to your lawyer isn't a way to get Your child support.....REALLY?

Emina
Emina

Another great post! You’re aleslutoby right about everything. I have been married for 12 yrs & it is way too easy to assume your spouse knows how you feel. Do husbands want to hear those things? Sometimes I think my husband does. So I say things like: “You’re such a good provider; Our kids are so lucky to have you; I’m so lucky to have you.”Your posts always give me much to think about. You’re a brilliant writer.

Rilldill
Rilldill

Sheree, you're my favorite. Keep doing what you're doing. No, I don't agree with everything you do, but so what! I do agree with how you handled NeNe (she ran her big behind out of that place and was afraid to look back, because she is only TOUGH when it comes to someone like Kim (whom I like okay as well). NeNe is so hateful and jealous. And so, so very fake. And this thing of teaming up with Margo (whom she really doesn't like, she's just afraid of her as well) is somewhat like what she did with Diana, however, she and Margo won't be hanging very long either, because NeNe is gonna MESS that up like she does with EVERY woman she gets close to. Her issues lie much deeper (I am no psychiatrist, but I believe it has a lot to do with her Mom leaving her as a child...preferring that man over her child). Anyway, the only one who gets along with NeNe is that WEAK as hell, Cynthia. She's like 'clinging'. It's not a good look. And watch out for Kandi.. I use to really like her, but she is a sh--t starter. And then she turns right around and says "I'm not in this mess... I don't like drama..., etc.,etc." I like Phaedra because she's --- different. And, I think I'd really like Margo, because she seems to be one who puts on no airs. She is what she is..which is why NeNe is trying to cling to her. Again, she can't bully you or Margo so... I didn't mean to go on and on, I just wanted you to know that I think you're cool- and I'd love to meet you AND Phaedra AND Margo. But the rest of them - smdh! :-)

cexy cin
cexy cin

SHREE,SHEREE,SHEREE,, GET A LIFE,WELL JUST STOP IT EVERYBODY KNOWS YOU HAVE NOTHING MUCH, STOP HATING NE-NE BECAUSE BIG GIRL GOT IT GOING -ON AND YOU AND KANDI CAN'T STAND IT ,, YOU COME OFF TO BE THE MOST FAKE BI#$H ON THE SHOW..NE-NE MAKES THE SHOW FACE-IT IF YOU, KANDI, PHADRA LEAVE THE SHOW THEN ,WHO WOULD CARE? YOU KNOW YOU NEED THE MONEY AND EVERYBODY'S RIGHT' YOU ARE JEALOUS OF NE-NE ,KANDI'S IS ALSO, CYNTHIA IS THE ONLY TRUE FRIEND NE-NE HAS THAT DON'T HATE ON HER...PEOPLE SAY "IF YOU'RE TALKED ABOUT YOU MUST BE IMPORTANT" SO YOU GUYS ARE MAKING NE-NE IMPORTANT AND RICH, ...........VERY RICH,BI*^H.......THANKS

Travis James
Travis James

First of all, I don't know NeNe on any level other than reading her book, seeing her on the show, etc., so I can't say that NeNe did or did not do what she was accused of.

I adore Nene, BUT IF she did what was said, shame on her-----however, regardless of whether she did or did not do it, Sheree you did some low blows. The hatred that you gave NeNe was obviously based on something other than what you first accused her of, something that has been burning you for a long time now. You handled this encounter with extremely poor taste. i am sure that there are more than a few things that NeNe could have shot back at you, but didn't.

Just sayin'......

frenemy
frenemy

sheree.....seriously, thats foul what you said about pheadra losing in court to ur x....number one it was a continuance predicated upon the fact that you are harboring some of his personal belongings.....second of all ....you went against her legal advice from the gate.....she wanted to move forward with a petition to put him in jail and request monies for back child support, which, you would have had a check by now if you had taken her advice...then you let your guyfriend with the red lipstick on bash her on andy's show....thats not right when she was obviously looking out for your best interest..if you were a true friend you would apologize to pheadra......

SicknTired
SicknTired

From one single mother to another: First of all your Mom is absolutely right..your main focus needs to be on your kids and not getting what you think YOU need to have but getting what you need to support them emotionally and financially...Secondly, your kids are watching both of you and they see what he's putting you through and even though they dont say anything eventually they will and it will be directed towards their "father". Get any money you can and get another lawyer who will not flirt with your ex because the phone number she got from him you dont know what theyre talking about when the cameras are not rolling...wake up and realize the people you call your friends are really not and want to see you fail so they can have something to talk about..and forget about NeNe because she is a hater on the highest scale..love yourself and your kids enough to fight for what you know is right

AO
AO

OMG; I hope this is all just for TV but sadly I am guessing NOT; I can not believe grown women are in such daily drama- just reading it is exhausting!!

High school over ??

S&L
S&L

Sheree girl your gonna have to start doing better by your kids. Stop worrying about other people and get yourself together. You talk about NeNe every chance you get and she does not mention you and the other hw's unless somebody brings them up. You evidentally haven't bought your son any shoes in a while because the shoes he had on were very old and you didn't even know his size. This is probably the reason why you haven't received any child support yet, you need to spend more money on the kids. I am not bashing your kids i'm speaking of your mothering skills, they are awful. If you take note you had to beg your kids to say they were going to miss you and NeNe's son said that he didn't even want to leave her. Stop worrying about NeNe she has her junk together, get yours together.

Em from BK
Em from BK

I've really enjoyed you the past two seasons. Nene is a fool. Keep doing right by your children.

Jackie L
Jackie L

What in the heck is wroong with you people (haters) this is a TV show (especially directed towards the latino woman). Seriously! seriously, you need to get a freaking life and leave that woman alone. I am not necessairly a fan, but I am a realist. I do not think Sheree is trying to keep up with Nene, like many single parents, she is trying to survive and give her children the best of things. It is not like you are paying her taxes and her rent so get a life. I am sure not one of these women on this show wants to be like Nene; Nene is a sure fit for the profile that is set for black women (loud and ignorant) and if by chance Sheree faces hard time you all should be lifting her up not down. I know she signed up for the show, but really. Really! Latino woman, God bless and may you get eveything in life that you deserve.

Whatsitfor1
Whatsitfor1

I still like NeNe and watching the show with all of it's cattiness is just surreal at times. However, I can say this NeNe seems to be the topic of conversation at each "Fake Housewives" gathering but I have rarely heard her mention any of the others in her conversations. Unless prompted by someone else NeNe does not engage in the insults that the other cast members do. The Bar One episode with Charles "whatshislastname?" eyeballing NeNe and saying that she didn't speak, what was that all about? I was taught that a general hello included all within earshot. That was a tense situation and she handled it well. Unlike the rest of the fakers at the club. I am disappointed in Kandi this season and Kim and Sheree are simply par for the course. I was hoping that Phaedra would be different but I guess fakes of a feather flock together.

prettyeastTexan
prettyeastTexan

Sheree tried to present herself as being so much better than NeNe in the first season. The tides have turned, and NeNe has ventured out and is the most popular of all the housewives on the Bravo network - Google her! Stop hating Sheree! Want some advise? Get an education, then a job, because if NeNe quits RHWOA, the show is a bust!

AMY D.
AMY D.

shout out to you from san francisco. sheree, i love you and you are beautiful inside and out. i see that now. your children god bless them are beautiful too. my heart is breaking when i hear you talk about their father and the way he has ignored them. he looks like a big old pig anyway. you are better off without him. nene is sooooooooooo jealous of you she wil never be a lady like you and phadera.

happy holidays,

Viewer2
Viewer2

An execise dvd may be right up your alley. People would buy it. I know I would if the price wasn't off the charts. Designing workout attire may also be something to look into. Also, flattering workout attire for full figure women, may be a winning situation if you decide to take that route.

Let's face it, so many wives/ex-wives/baby mama's of too many affluent/wealthy men all of sudden aspire to be in the fashion game, and seem to have the same ideals. I can't think of one who really made it or didn't go down in flames. Remember Baby Phat? Uuuuggghh!!!

Whatever you decide to do, do your homework. Meet with people who have the education, experience and reputation to help you with your endeavors.

Sean G
Sean G

Ive been an avid fan of this show since the start, and i must admit the first season i was not impressed with you Sheree i was more of a Nene fan. but i kept watching and now i all turned around, i feel like you are so real, and Nene is now so Fake. this show has transformed you all into regular moms and housewives to Stars, but for Nene she has let it go to her head, from this show to Apprentice which she couldn't handle and quit, and the news station spot which she was let go i heard. i truly admire you and your stuck with it values, keep it up Sheree, your the best .

LeilaSan
LeilaSan

You could really take a note from your own mother who has been and is very successful. It's a shame that you pretend the house that your mother is building is your own. Go get your own. You are very capable. Also, I sure hope for your children's sake that you do go after Bob for back child support. You have an obligation as a mother to do so.

tawnyt23
tawnyt23

Sheree you are my girl. NeNe need to sit her old man loving (no) ass down and think about how she look on the inside as a person, you and Phaedra are my favs. Tell Lawerence I said I love him also!

Jackie_SC
Jackie_SC

For some odd reason I never was a big fan of Sheree but did not dislike her. After the last show I related to her so much and have so much respect for her for taking care of her kids all alone and has still kept her shine that just goes to show she is the strong woman that she plays on tv. I feel as is Nene is just a ghetto classless female with a bank account. I have always loved Kim and so glad she has found true love and happiness. I don't really understand why everyone is on Sheree's back all the time I believe that the viewers are just jealous that she has been able to be mother and father and still kept her same lifestyle way to go girls (excluding Nene) this season is really showing off how strong the women really are with or without a man to support them

Latina women
Latina women

Sheree all of the rhoa should thank NeNE, for all of you staying emploed. I for one wouldn't watch this show if it wasn't, for NeNe. I wish you would stop trying to keep up with the jonese. It is begining to look ridiculous. A blind person can see that you don't have any money. Everything you get, get's taken away. What you really need is a financial education and how to manage money. You aren't building a house. Your mother owns the property and she is building a house to sale it. It is in her name not your's. Bravo is paying the rent on your townhouse. Stop worrying about what NeNe is doing and take care of your business. When the show ends you will be homeless, because bravo will stop paying the rent.

BRANDONIN305
BRANDONIN305

I love you Sheree!! You tell it like it is!! Don't let these haters get you down. NeNe is trashy new money! Keep taking the high road girl...oh, and I still youtube the clip of you going off on your party planner!! "Who's going to check me boo?" I use that all the time! HAHAHA

Viewer Girly
Viewer Girly

My heart broke for you last night when I watched the episode!! Girl you need to take him to court and yes you are correct you have made it easy for him the last four years! I would of waited a few days! I could not believe he said you had hatred for him... he was so manipulative that I was sick to my stomach!!

Like I said
Like I said

Sheree that impression you did of Nene was too funny, "I HAVE NEVER, NEVER DID YOU WRONG! Oh my lord, that voice you made was too funny.

bella216
bella216

Sheree, watched you on the show concerning your x-husband's child support - I think that you don't want to wish ill will on your X - but he created 2 children just as you did....his participation to help support them is for them....so don't feel this is doing something against him - as much as you are being an advocate for your children - for him to help in the care and financial support of them. His choice to have a home for them to come to would be a choice he would make without having them.....he would not choose to live on the street. His view is the money would not be used for them and you make money so why should he give it to you.....that is not his choice - if the court rewarded sole custody to you then his responsibility is to help with financial support and that be sent to you. Don't feel bad - alot of mothers are in your position - fear taking a man to court to get what they should be already paying to help raise the children they helped create. You owe it to your children to see that he does the right thing as you are doing by raising them financially solo at this point. Good Luck to you.

KaTrena
KaTrena

Grow up! This tit for tat that going on between you and Nene is childish. You have more important things to worry about like getting back child support. What is it to think about? My kids are grown and I still get a check monthly because he's so behind. Quit talking about Nene and deal with your own jacked up life! Sheesh

Michelle Blakely
Michelle Blakely

Sheree, Your ex is just mad. He lost a good thing and is trying to punish you. By hurting the kids he's hurting you. Take it from someone who felt what you are (were) feeling (not wanting to threaten him with possible jail time). And now 19 years later, my ex has my son and 18 years of child support. I never go a dime, not even a pamper. Your ex is taking you for a loop. You are trying to do right by HIM, dispite your kids. Now that's not right. You did not birth those kids by yourself. Take Phedras advise. Listen to Phedra. Fair is fair. Right is right.

Lisars
Lisars

Yes, Nene has blessed you all with another season. Since she is not really filming scenes with most of you this season, it really shows just how boring you are without her. I wouldn't normally come off so mean, but you just seem so nasty in your interviews..especially about Cynthia. Besides being a friend to Nene, what did she do to you personally?? People usually dislike someone for no reason because they are jealous. Bloop Bloop. LOL

no drama
no drama

Sorry, I understand about the child support issue between you and Bob, but a man will only get away with what you allow them to get away with. Furthermore have anyone taken the time to look at how she reckless spend money, his probably question whether or not the money would be used to support their children or just to maintain this extravagant life she wants to portray to the public and her friends. It is the responsibility of both parents to take care of the children. You do not need Bob's permission to sue his behind for child support. He challenges you because you make idol threats. Stop threatening him and do what you feel you need to do as a mother to assure the well-being of your children. Grow up why are looking out for him. The children are not a concern of his. I believe that you and Bob are both using the children to hurt each other. Your threats of taking him for child support and him daring you and not offering not only financial support , but no moral support. This is so typical in broken homes in the black community. I'm so over it! Stand up for children, if he can't support them morally, make sure he supports them financially.

Amy1080
Amy1080

Sheree, I'm an avid housewives fan and you (especially this season) are one of my favorites to watch in Atlanta. I've never written before, but after seeing the heartbreak that you are going through with regard to your ex-husband, I had to say something. I am so impressed by you. I am married to a man who has two children from a previous marriage, which sometimes means our pockets are a bit thin after the support check is cashed each pay period, but we both know that it is his RESPONSIBILITY to his children to make sure that they are financially and emotionally supported by ALL of thier parents. How awful and shameful that this burden has been completely on you, and it really says something about your character that it is such a difficult decision for you to move ahead with a lawsuit. I trully hope that it all works out for the best. Stay the strong beautiful woman that you are!

Fabulouswon
Fabulouswon

Sheree - I think you have an obligation to pursue child support for your children, not a choice. As for Bob, he is a stereotypical black man who thinks everyone else should pay for his kids! Disgusting. Also, I agree with you that NeNe is the hater - BIG TIME. She is so full of herself over nothing. She is a big, mean moose.

honeygirl
honeygirl

My heart broke for you last night when speaking with Phaedra regarding your decision to (or not to) take Bob to court for child support. It was nice to see a softer side of you. I couldn't imagine how it would feel if my children's father neglected his children physically and financially. I pray it all worked out well for you and hopefully Bob stepped up and did the right thing by his children (and avoided the jail cell).

Pretty wise
Pretty wise

Peter is right Sheree is not cute or Pretty. Her face is to long and there is nothing she can do about that. i guess keep putting more fake hair in her head.

Glori
Glori

Sheree you're great. love it when you kim, kandi and Phaedra get together sooo funny. keep up the good work and don't worry about crazy nene she already has the model up her butt. lolol

Lilimoo
Lilimoo

Hi Sheree, can I ask you where did you get those really elegant and chic looking earrings that are so long they go down almost to your navel ? My friend would love those, and if they aren't out of my financial reach I'd love to buy a pair for her !

Orange12
Orange12

Pretty girl rock!, Forget about Nene, child anyone who has to make it nationally known that she is rich has some sort of problem! Do you girl, you have a huge following here in Florida. Love ya!

APags
APags

Sheree - Who makes that big gold twist necklace you wear in your interviews? I LOVE it.

Dee08
Dee08

THANK NENE. There would not be a show without her. Also, you were very immature at the meeting with Nene. How do you know the guy was being honest? SHE DID NOT DO THE SHOW therefore there remains a possibility that he was upset and wanted to start a conflict and You fell into the trap. Walking down the street screaming obscenities at someone is FAR from classy... My friends and I thought Nene acted like an adult... Rewind and look at how immature you looked

As for the baby shower. Peter did not start the argument Phaedra did. She should have chosen a different venue to bring up negativity. But again you all think you do no wrong. Stop pointing fingers and look at yourselves..

Dee08

kimm1
kimm1

Sheree, Don't worry about NeNe because she don't know the difference between being Rich and being Wealthy. Nene is only a thousand-aire and for someone who has never had that kind of money just goes to show you that she has forgotten where she come from. remember just like God Bless you with money and fame and can take it away in the blink of an eye. the viewers like all of you not just Nene, she is only one person and not the whole show.

vanessa wesley
vanessa wesley

Sheree I have watch the show from the beginning. I think you have grown so much. Keep doing you. I Believe all of you ladies are bless because there are so many people out here down and out. So I would like to see you guys come together at least once and do something to show that as women you can disagree and still do something positive. I also want to know if you even came out with and excise tape. If so were can I get it. A lot of women our age want to look great too. I also want to know how do I get my hair to look as great as yours. I really like all the women on the show but I do believe that Nene head got so big it can't fix in the room lol.

dcw
dcw

Sheree, get your money first before you go any further. Your ex is not paying you. You have sold everything for your fashion line and for your new Sheree Chateau. You are digging yourself in the hole. We all see it. Get your money first. Its crazy that you keep digging into a hole. And the people you trust to help you with your business, you learn the hard way. Look originally who tried to do your coming out party. Look how your viewing went. Look how your samples for your sample lines turned out. I know you care alot about your kids. But stop getting into big things when your ex hasn't paid you jack. You will be off the show shortly before you know it because you will go broke.

msliddy
msliddy

I'm still trying to figure out why you're even on the show. You add no value. You are very pretentious. All those things you yelled out to NeNe about remembering when she couldn't afford name brand was silly. Do you remember when you couldn't afford name brand? You women on this show makes me ashame to be a black women. Sophisticated women don't behave the you you all do. Saying you're classy and sophisticated doesn't mean that you are. Don't tell us, show us. I have one word to describe you: IRRELEVANT!

Pattie
Pattie

I am glad to watch and see that the show addresses real issues that many people can relate to like child support. How can men like your husband not take care of their children. I am sure Peter doesnt support his 5 children either seeing as he used his wifes money to support a failed bussiness and is fixing to do the same thing again. Throwing good money after bad. I am sure your ex-husband drives a fine car and eats out ath fine restraunts yet does he feed his children or pay his support so they can eat. This is not a man. A man does for his children because he loves them and is responsible for them regardless of what he thinks of their mother.

chosen79
chosen79

Sheree I really wish you had not called the guy about the NeNe situation if you and her are or were cool you should have taken her word for it.You know how people love to see a fight why give them what they want?

FanfromAfar
FanfromAfar

Sheree...thanks for being woman enough to confront NeNe directly. NeNe started the conversation with a defensive comment and already projected her BLAME on to you before it all began. I wasn't privy to any of the conversations but based on the phone call that was made, it was evident that NeNe was lying. Even with a trump check, making money is NeNe's goal..even it that means trampling over her friends. If her motive was to have a fair deal. There would have been no other kind of negotiation and the fight would not have taken place. Everything is always someone else's fault when it comes to NeNe..no matter what it involves, she yells, argues, curses, talks bad about people even if it is the truth. A happy person does not do that. So, I pray for both of you to start over again and be honest with each other and be true friends....not HATERS.

 Penelope
Penelope

What was up with all of that animation that you and Phaedra were giving the viewers when Nene showed up at the party? The fact that Kandi had to talk to both of you about your behavior was quite telling. Girl, Phaedra knows that you are not her friend and that you are using her. That's what you do Sheree, because you cannot accomplish anything on your own and you require assistance from others. Me thinks that you have become the most irrelevant person on this show, and you proved it at Kandi's birthday party. You just love to hate Nene and cannot help but continue to badmouth her. So again, who is a big girl? Who has class? Who's gon check you Boo?

Georgia Peach
Georgia Peach

Sheree, I think that you need to really choose a career that interest you and stop going from one place to another. You need to put "GOD" first, of course, then your two younger children. They need a stable home. I know you have expensive taste, but you need to be practical if the money is not there right now. That expensive home that you are trying to build is going to cost!!! Especially, on that side of Metro Atlanta. I know how you feel about not receiving child support from the father, but you need to concentrate on providing a steady income for you and your children. Sometimes smaller is better, but practical. Mr. Whitfield will realize one day that is hurting the children not you.

Be Blessed, Georgia Peach

P.S. You need update your blogs.

msbaketball47
msbaketball47

I really think you change again this season last season you was so down to earth.But truely i know you miss NENE and she diffently miss you.IF you 2 can keep the messy people out of your business you can move forward.come back to reality and be like you was last yr.

Shantell
Shantell

Sheree love u!!! So much class and I love it!!!

whogonnacheckmeboo?
whogonnacheckmeboo?

I love you Sheree! You have THE BEST one-liners of any of the houswives.

whogonnacheckmeboo?
whogonnacheckmeboo?

I love you Sheree! You have THE BEST one-liners of any of the housewives.