Hello everyone and welcome back to another drama filled episode of RHOA! I'm in NYC working all week, so I am going to try to make this short and sweet. Wish me luck! LOL!
Let’s go! In my opinion, ALL the ladies were excited to go on the girls’ trip to LA to visit NeNe. We all flew from Atlanta to LA (Phaedra and Kenya were on different flights) like one big happy family. After we landed, we went to the gorgeous house that NeNe laid out for us and settled in. It was an early flight, and we were all tired and hungry! By the time we got there (with the time difference), it had already been a long day. There were some snack foods at the house, but no real food-food! We did not have a lot of time before our 9pm dinner, so I got my snack on, jumped in the shower, and started to get dressed.
Now what you guys don't know is that I make every effort to always be on time whether it is a business meeting or just meeting up with a friend for coffee. I am known in this group for my punctuality, and if I am running late, I always call. Mostly everyone is always late, period! I find myself slacking as well now, because I'm always first to everything and have to wait for everyone else to arrive. This does gets frustrating, because it's not like I can come, do my thing, and leave! Regardless of how on time I am, I still have to wait for everybody else.
Sorry Cynthia but you still did not give a reason for you guys being so late to NeNe's house. Did the ladies oversleep? Did you guys go sight seeing? If you were waiting for them, where were they and what were they doing. Thats what we want to know.
Cynthia- Hey, lovely one! I was wondering if you noticed that you come across more "hood" than in previous seasons? This is not negative observation; I LOVE it! It's the way you're speaking, specifically, that I took notice to. I was wondering if I was the only one who has pointed this out to you this season :) Keep up the optimism and inner & outer beauty!
While I admire your many talents, I am suspect in your choice of life mate. Peter's behavior toward Kenya regarding his comments on film is not that of a mature male of his age and stature. He should be embarrassed and thus unfortunately so should you. He certainly is does not set a positive example for the other husbands which seem to be younger than himself. While he could have easily shut down the crass comments he seems to revel in the drama of it all. Don't you think you deserve to spend your life with someone who knows how to conduct himself appropriately?
All I can say is think for yourself, In several episodes I noticed that you look to Nene before making a statement especially in Anguilla. I noticed that when Kenya gave you the book, you looked at Nene and she nodded her head and then you made a comment/statement. I noticed this again in an episode when Porsha asked if you and Nene would be apart of the feed the homeless business in which she mentioned that T.I. and others participated you again looked at Nene before making your decision and I was glad that you did say that you would participate because Nene looked as though she was checking to see if you would say something on your own. You come across like you are not able to make a decision without some one else's opinion and that is not good..
Cynthia, why is it that you ladies can have a Porshia intervention regarding her marriage but you can't have a Kenya intervention regarding her out of control behavior? Rather it's about Walter, Phaedra or Porshia. You ladies are helping her look like a fool. You embrace her when you know you shouldn't and indulge in her vulnerable behavior when you should be telling her the truth. It looks like you guys are setting her up to fail. She is unstable and if you guys were truly her friend you would pull her aside and talk to her deeply. Porshia is not the one who needs the intervention it is Kenya but truth be told, I don't think any of you really care.
Cynthia, you are in he wrong profession. You need to be a politician , and a republican. You have the lying, flip flopping back-stabbing down to an art. And as for women's rights, you are working to set us back 60 years. Let me help you understand the word "RIGHTS". It means everyone is free to make their own choices. As a female you should respect and support another woman's choice, even if you don't agree with it. A lesson the GOP also needs to learn.
I have lost a great deal of respect for you and your husband. Not cool what he has said about Kenya, his attitude and action. Not cool how you've handled it. If only 'class' remains...you may be in a great deal of trouble.
You are TWO-FACED, plain and simple.
In the "real world" no one would be your friend. Perhaps after you get cut from the show (and you will, because you're "boring"), both you & Kenya can try out for "Iyanla Fix My Life".
Thumbs up Bossgirl22. I am so sick of her. I really wish they would get someone interesting in her place.
Taking sides with friends is something I have regretted in the past. When I have, I felt a great deal of regret. Unless they are like Hitler or something I don't feel people are all bad. If they are they usually have a valid reason as to why they are that way.
LOVE LOVE LOVE YOUR COMMENT! I thought I was going crazy.. Sometimes it's best to remove yourself from a situation... I know I wouldn't want to be in the same room as a BITTER EX everytime I turned around.. SMDH... I can't believe these women don't understand that... Which is why I can count on one hand how many female friends I have...
MzChelleowell Simone_12 i think kenya is the one who is bitter. walter has not said shameful things about her on national tv... she is constantly doing all of the bashing..
tori11 Simone_12 exactly my point! If Kenya is soooo bitter why would WALTER want to be around his CRAZY "PRETEND" EX-GIRLFRIEND? Does that make any sense to you?
@MzChelleowell @Simone_12 I agree with you both. Kenya can get a little unordinary at times, but for the girls to keep inviting Walter to events and acting chummy with him as if they are friends is too much! He is vindictive and thinks too highly of himself, comparing the women he dates to rims on a car, than the "date" he brought to a freakin HOUSE Warming party just to get a reaction from Kenya, was super weird. Walter is friends with no one and for the husbands to act like they formed some tight bond over a couple of days is ridiculous. When did this show start focusing so much on the men anyway?? So glad his old egotistical self was not invited to the reunion. He makes me cringe whenever that storyline is brought up.
Peter is definitely a little instigator as seen in tonight's episode regarding the drama between Walter & Kenya, and Apollo w/his silly young self was just loving it!!!!!
Also.......love your hair, especially the "fro"! You look great in all the styles you do!
Cynthia, I didn't like you at first. I thought that the only personality you had was Nene's. But the past season's I have changed my mind. I think that you are one of the few housewives that is genuine and honest. So please be a friend to Kenya. Everyone thinks she is crazy because of the way she reacts to things, but really.....how would anyone react to the backhanded remarks that miss dumpling Phaedra makes. She is lucky that Kenya hasn't back slapped her. I would have already smacked her and took Apollo away from her. I'm sure he isn't devoted to Phaedra, just her money! And Phaedra's video......seriously! What a joke. I think that you have been a good friend to Kenya and I know you have to see through the snyde remarks that Phaedra makes. And the remarks she makes.....makes her look like a DONKEY'S ASS!!!!! Stay true to who you are, tha's what turned me around to liking you! And be a friend to Kenya, she needs a friend around all the other faky bitches on there.
Cynthia, you are so two-faced its ridiculous. You are always going back and repeating things. I hope you are the next one to leave the show. You are so annoying, I have started to change the channel when they are showing you like I do when they show big mouth Kandi.
Love your blog Cynthia. You are truly a classy lady that knows how to throw the shade when needed - sometimes w/o them even realizing it. Lol I find you to be very entertaining and I love your demeanor.
Also, I think it is very kind of you to promote your fellow cast mates projects and to be fully supportive of it.
Keep being you.
"We came together and we got put out together". I was literally roflamo! That pretty much sums it up. You did the right thing as usual. You are a lovely woman and lots of wonderful things happening for you. Someone, (hello Nene) needs to start singing your praises. Success, like aging, suits you well, very well.
Greg was a gentleman to give her a plate of food. Very impressed! (Of course, Kandi complains about the quality of the food he gave her later.) I wouldn't have been so gracious as Greg. Meanwhile, Kandi's attitude reminds me of when a beggar on the street walks up to you and says... "hey, can I have two dollars?" Seriously?
Its nice to see an apology for showing up 3 hours late for a nice dinner party. Who does that?! Kandi was the worst though... demanding a plate of food for the road and peeking in the windows!!
Cynthia, you are the most two faced, fork tonged backstabbing Atlanta housewive. I used to think better of you but I guess you do what you do to stay on camera. I hope losing your integrity is worth the money.
I use to be a fan of yours. But these past 2 seasons, its as if you're only good at sucking up to Nene and running back & forth spewing backstabbing info.
Shame on you Cynthia. You are really the last person who should be talking about class. Cos class is not just about looking good, its about being a good person too.
Used to like you a lot but I think Nene is rubbing off on you and not in a good way. Please go back to the old Cynthia - smart, classy and beautiful! Stop the back stabbing and talking behind each others back. Classy people don't do that. How can you talk about empowering women when you backstab your "friends" and attack others because of what they choose not to do (i.e., Porsha)?
Classy people don't go to strip clubs either. Hmmph!
Kudos to Porsha for sticking to her values and standing up to you bullies. She may seem "slow" to some, but I would accept her in my circle of friends before the rest of you vipers.
I saw you on Sunday at Las Vegas. You looked FABULOUS with your hair, dress, etc.!! The way you had your hair styled is the way I have seen Diana Ross have the same style when she made Concerts and Presentations all over the world.
God Bless You and Your Family,
San Juan, Puerto Rico
Kudos, Cynthia. You have more of a backbone (and sense of humor) this season. Keep it up :)
Cynthia, where is your sister? They need to bring her back on the show, cause i get tired of you being two faced and arrogant. You didn't like it when your sister was always putting peter down or in ya'll marriage. Are you being ugly so they will keep you on the show. You can't get any closer in NeNe butt. Can't wait till the reunion and everybody can see how your going back telling everything that those ladies told you in privite. Bravo needs to bring your sister back on, cause she will shut you down in a heart beat! Your no friend of none of the ladies not even NeNe cause your scared to tell her the truth when she out of line talking about Porsha's marriage.
I still do not get what the "excuse" for being late to a friends dinner party is. My best friend and I have been together for 35 years and we both agree the reason we have lasted so long is we are respectful of each other time. Neither of us are ever late for any event we are attending together. You girls seem to use tardiness as a measurement of how important you think you each are. The longer you make so one wait the high in the pecking order you are.
i dont know if you are doing stuff because the show asked you or what but you are so two faced and always in somebodies business. what in the world?
Cynthia, really disappointed in you this season; you've become extremely two faced and arrogant. Nothing about you is classy any more. if anything, based on the experience you had with your family in the beginning of your marriage, you should have respected Porsha's decision to respect her marriage values.
Really like you Cynthia but cannot figure out for the life of me why you would "hook your wagon" to Kenya? You have witnessed her bad behaivor and been a victim of the same, and are now giving her a pass to do the same to others in the group. I know you have no love loss of Phaedra, however, Kenya's actions regarding the dvd are just plain ole wrong.
bravoliscious I don't understand it either. I think that Cynthia has a lot to offer without resorting to such antics. I also could not understand why she got so upset with Porsha when she could not hold a meeting at Porsha's house when there were so many other places to hold a meeting. I think it's wonderful that she has her own agency and is doing some positive things, but she needs to take a step back and reflect. Wish her much success.
NeNe needs to eat humble pie! And since when did it become a crime to not want to go to a strip club?
Seriously! This is the first time I have really respected Porsha. She is young and already being scrutinized, and she took a stand...pretty impressive. Strip clubs are DEPRESSING to a lot of us!! I wouldn't be caught dead in one.
Respect is the key word. NeNe was justified in her stance. She took the time to plan a very nice gathering for the ladies and they should have been there within a "reasonable" time (i.e. show apperciation). She clearly stated that they should not come over at the point she was finally contacted because it was very late, therefore they got what they deserved! I don't really think the girls considered NeNe's feelings in this instance and only focused on her anger about the situation that was duly warranted if was any of them.
Cynthia is such a hyprocrite. How dare she goes back to Kenya to tell her what Phaedra said about her when she didn't have anything nice to say about Kenya after the Bailey Agency incident. I wonder how she would have felt if NeNe went back to Kenya and told her about all the things she said about Kenya. I'm sure would not have appreciated that. Just because you don't have any business of your own doesn't mean you can involve yourself in other's. SMDH!!!
Watching the Vegas episode now, and I have to say I'm very disappointed in how you all reacted to Porsha. She simply has respect for her husband as he does her. While some feel it's okay to hang in strip clubs she and her husband do not. That should have been respected if you all were truly friends. I think you are just a backstabbing Cynthia. You do like to play both sides, and run to drama anywhere you can find it. When you and Peter we getting married, your own family was trying to sabotage it, you of all people should back anyone wanting to respect their union!
Most everyone has felt what Nene did was the right thing. Now how she handled it and the way she spoke to you ladies was very very rude. And I would had not stood there and took that for nothing.
Cynthia.......that pagent must have really did you in, as you looked so tired & irritated on the LA/Vegas Girls Trip!!!!!
Cynthia you have been lighting fires everywhere than act like you didn't spread or start the drama, what's up with that?
Kenya may be nuts, but you are a snake, and that's worse. It is disgusting watching you "infiltrate" each person (except NeNe, who you are afraid of), and act as a concerned friend, when all you are doing is trying to get information so that you can run like a roach and go spread it so you feel important. You are more fake than the wig you had on in Vegas. And ain't nobody got time for that. Fast forward over Cynthia-she's always the same, disingenuous and a bore.
Cynthia I have been watching this show from the beginning and it's my favorite. I just don't know what to say you about you!!!. I am sure you have noticed the difference in yourself. Unless of course you have been like this all along and it's just now coming out. But, I pray that's not the situation. Please, stop being the messenger of drama...you are so above that. Cynthia, Elegance does not go with gossip. You are to Graceful for that. Lots of love....Kim
kimmyMS, I agree with what you wrote to Cynthia a 100%. Sometimes, I think that the Executives that conducting this kinds of program, has their participants behave in a different way so they are comfronted by the others and have Drama.
San Juan, Puerto Rico
Cynthia, your two-faced ways are going to back fire! Be very careful. What goes around comes around!
I thought that Cynthia was really a cool chic at first but now I find that she is just a backstabbing mess maker the author of confusion and I can't wait until she slips and crosses Nene the wrong way so she can get her told..Cynthia is just not cool this season she is Messy...
Msdiva2u Nene won't turn on Cynthia as long as Cynthia keeps being her lap dog, and if Cynthia should become more popular than Nene. Should Cynthia be offered a starring role in something, Nene would dump her fast as possible. Nene is all about control, and right now Nene controls Cynthia and Kenya.