Kandi Burruss

Kandi explains how she knows Todd and why Kenya has nothing to worry about.

on Nov 14, 20120

Second let me address NeNe. I'm not sure why you're bothered by me questioning your motives. You know good and well that you and I have never had the best relationship. You have said crazy things about me on many different occasions. You're not supportive of me or anything I do. If so, you never let me know it. Why would I feel you genuinely want to invite me to your party? And please understand that I wasn't the only one shocked when it was said that you want to uplift other women's success. I was just the only one who said it out loud. How about we just respect the fact that I will never be fake with you? You have your lane and I have mine, which I have been managing successfully for 19 YEARS now. I'm very happy for your accomplishments. I say all the time that I love what you're doing, because I have no problem giving another woman her props. Never have. As a matter of fact I'm always promoting my other female friends, helping their businesses, helping them get jobs, using my platform to help boost theirs, etc. I have never heard of you doing that up until now. Maybe I missed it the times that you have, but I can only go off of what I've seen or heard you do in public. So I'm sorry if I've over looked it. Just know that regardless of if we get along or not, I am always happy for your every accomplishment. I personally think you have changed for the better, and lately you seem to be in a great place and it shows in your personality. Overall, I think we've been getting along as of late and I would hate to start falling out again and start having Twitter beefs... That is sooo something the old NeNe would do, not the sophisticated, accomplished woman you are now. But then again...

Much Love,
Kandi

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118 comments
NativeStar
NativeStar

Kandi you r so talented! I  like how you and your Mom  interact   She is a wise woman  I like what she said about the way Kim treated her mom   it was true!

WestCoastGal
WestCoastGal

Kandi ROCKS!       Always has.  Always will.       The end.

 

erica8123
erica8123

I know this is old but as a mom to 5 children I get behind :)

Walter did that to make Kenya jealous.  He CLEARLY isn't on the same page as her. 

As far as Ne Ne goes, I like her too but ya you guys don't click personality wise.  It happens.  I think you both seem to be in a happy place in life and it shows with both of you.  Everybody isn't going to get along with everyone all the time.  So forget the haters.  Kandi is one of my favorites for sure

Ceci2468
Ceci2468

I don't understand this animosity towards Nene. From what I've seen, Kim has talked/done way more sh*t to Kandi than Nene and yet Kim is like Kandi's bff. Someone, please explain this to me???

deonkia
deonkia

omg i love kandi.. she  keeps it real and fresh... i like how no matter what she doesnt let these women make her become a jealous monster..lol each season she takes the higher road and now look where she is.. getting married new house and man she is looking exceptionally good... thumbs up Honey YOUR BLACK IS BEAUTIFUL...

missdunn1234
missdunn1234

I dont even understand what she got mad. He said you turned him down. Somethis is wrong with her.

PrettyEastTexan
PrettyEastTexan

Kandi, why can't you take some of the energy that you use to roll your eyes, make ugly faces, and comments about NeNe, and use it to defend yourself with Kim? I have several issues with you, but I'm only going to list a few. 1) You're messy!! You came on the show taking sides, and formed an opinion of NeNe based on what the others fed you. Correct me if I'm wrong, but the argument you and NeNe had was due to YOU approaching HER regarding some hearsay. NeNe was loud, true enough, but she was defending herself. Had you not approached her, there would have been no argument! You were trying to take up for Kim on the sly, who you didn't even know! 2) You're a problem  starter! It was you who visited Phaedra @ the hospital & then went back to report that she was full term. It was you who questioned Charles, in Marlo's presence, about he & NeNe's so called courtship. You were into Marlo, and even invited her to that bullshit show of yours-KKNs. You went back and reported that she stated she gets her $ from God. Marlo quickly put you in your place when she called you out for being a Suga Moma- which has been circulating for years- which is why your mom couldn't understand why you wanted to marry AJ (RIP), who had 6 kids, drove your vehicle around the city, and shacked with you along with 2 of his 6 kids. I've read reports that your current Boo, Todd, left his girlfriend for you. Which was a no-brainer being that he probably heard you like to take care of your men, thus less he has to do. 3) You're country and slow! Yet, you have the audacity to bash NeNe. Open your mouth when you speak. Stop using your hands during a conversation. Stop worrying about who Phaedra works out with- very petty! Hire a stylist! You are always the tackiest out of all the women. Stop blaming others for Kim's ignorance! You really looked like an idiot crying on national tv about the $ Kim owed you! But you call yourself a Boss.... Stop the presses already!

mrterrycash
mrterrycash

These nene stans amaze me evrytime,you can forgive but not forget thats the bottom line. and until nene comes to kandi like a woman and have a adult convo like a lady then some 1 can take her serious.Nene is doing great things now that she is on a real platform on nbc so its only right for her image to change

gypsyladyinbr
gypsyladyinbr

Just wanted to say....We love you Kandi!!!!  Don't let the other women bother you at all...you are a successful beautiful woman that did it on her own....And watch your back with Kenya...she is mean, rude and ugly from the inside!  Take care girl!

Angel_23
Angel_23

 KIM IS NOT YOUR FRIEND HONEY! AND I FEEL YOU AND NENE ARE ON A GOOD PATH TO BEING TRUE FRIENDS ITS ALL ABOUT LETTING GO OF THE PAST FORGIVENESS PEOPLE SEEM TO HAVE FORGOTTEN THAT WORD IN RHOA!

Picou
Picou

I really try hard to stick with you. But you make it really hard. You cry over Kim and let her talk about you like a dog. Sweetie made her say this and that. I almost threw up when you were on Andy's show repeating that silly mess about Kim. You wrote this long thing about Nene, what about Kim? You roll your eyes about anything regarding Nene and let Kim slide. Wow! When you start getting on Kim like you do Nene we as fans will return to your team. Another thing stop shacking up with every man you date. Geez what an example for your daughter. Start talking more about marriage and less about names for babies out of wedlock.

LfromBAMA
LfromBAMA

Don not even stress about Kenya,she has nothing on you.Is she as loud as she is talky?Is she the one who appeared on that Bridezilla show with her sister years ago wearing her crown at a cake tasting at a bakery?

xxxemxxx
xxxemxxx

Kandi,

Your new house is beautiful. Congrats on the new honey. He's cute. and you make an awesome couple. Don't listen to the haters. You are very accomplished and very young and still going. I wish you nothing but the best. You are one of my favorites. Watch out for Kenya she's a very jealous and mean woman. Her laugh has got to go she sounds like a physco. Just keep up the good you do

X0XX0

WOWWOWWUBSY
WOWWOWWUBSY

here's the tea onn Kandi you guys.  Kandi desired so much to be a cross over artist with her group escape but was unsuccessful so now she's determined to be a cross over reality star.  Kandi, the white people will not turn against you if you read Kim.  In fact there are a lot of white people rooting for you to stand up for yourself just like us because you look down right stupid!  I really don't know how much more I can take of you so unless you get it together, I will have to use your camera time for bathroom breaks...... REAL TALK!

1truefan
1truefan

Since you came on the show you have never missed an opportunity to throw shade in NeNe’s direction. I’m happy you’ve found happiness, have a new home and seem to be at peace.  Now you should try keeping some of the negative remarks to yourself.  You do have a habit of talking out of both sides of your neck.

pianogal6
pianogal6

Kandi,

Where was Todd when you had your relatives helping you move to your new digs?

RileyRoo
RileyRoo

Kandi!  I like you so much and hope you are so happy with your new guy and house.  I think you are authentic and smart:)

TSan
TSan

I don't think you are two faced. I think you state your opinions behind people's back and also to their faces. How does that make you two faced? As for Nene, she talks smack about everyone but when someone does it to her then they are hating. Nene obviously can't take the heat so she should try staying out of the kitchen. Glad you don't back down when it comes to her. The one thing I'm getting tired of is you always making excuses for Kim. Kim's visit and Phaedra's visit were night and day. Kim was negative and Pha was uplifting and positive. It makes you look kind of crazy when you don't check Kim and put her in her place.

Dallas81
Dallas81

Kandi,

Nene has lifted and promoted 2 of the women who were on the show and both later stabbed her in the back.  If it wasn't for Nene, Kim nor Sheree would have been on the show and no one would even know them.  Remember they were not looking for a white girl and they thought Sheree was boring.

pjbeaudry
pjbeaudry

Kandi I think its more like you heavy weight bash Nene!! Stop trying to re write your actions on a blog, its not working! we all watch the same show.. Also please stop making excuses for your girl Kim! She is blatantly disrespectful to a lot of people! Nene has really never done anything to you! You say she doesn't support you, yet on a lot of different occasions she has stated that you are a true performer! She has always said your performances are great, unlike Kim!  So what, she doesn't support your sex toy venture, get over it!! Its just not her thing..

katiez23
katiez23

Kandi,

OMG will Kenya shut up already! She get on the show and act like she really doin somthin out here. So you did a pagent or 2 in your day BIG DEAL!! She needs to be taken off the show ASAP!! She lied about the Jet thing with Cynthia. They didnt envite her....matter fact they wanted her to leave it was lookin like. And who cares if the guy she talkin to asked you out back in the day. Obviously you said no and kept it movin. I can't stand Kenya. Moving on....I used to like NeNe when the show first started but her ego is bigger then her head these days. I am happy she has stuff goin on but she definitely acts like she better then everybody now. I love your toy line and it looks like its goin good for you. You and Todd are so cute too!! You all look so happy together. P.S. I love the house!!!

lovelymimi
lovelymimi

Hey Kandi,

 

You seem like a sweet girl. BUT, it seems that you have some resentment toward NeNe. Now I understand that the first season, she was very disrepectful to you, so I'm not sure if that is what's bothering you or is it something else?? Last season I agree that you played both sides of the fence with the whole "rich" comment. Also, I wonder if you don't like NeNe b/c she wasn't into your sex toy line. Not all women are into that, and some are very uncomforable about that subject. I don't think it was personal against you.... But then again, maybe you did.

goodcade
goodcade

You have always been my favorite hw from any of the series because you say what you think and don't try to lie yourself out of it when someone approaches you on it. I can't wait to see what you have to say about Kenya in the upcming episodes because we know you are going to say what you think even if you are her friend (which btw I don't know how she would have friends) so i hope you don't dissapoint because we can already tell she is going to get out of line all season!!!!

luneeqDee
luneeqDee

you are  likable woman Kand I had nothing to blame you for last season. I get it Nene talks smack about you, you talk smack about Nene, makes it even. as for Kim, why do you want to be friend with Kim so badly? I start to think that you feel powerful when others seek your help. Kim needs you, you like that so you keep her around to be your ego stroker. and i believe Marlo's claims that you are a sugar mama. you've never been with men more successful than you,here again you like peole who needs you inluding your man. hey you take care of men and still is responsible with your money. stand up to kim for the money she owes you, for stealing your baby's name, for trashing your beautiful home and ear some respect!

divadeb59
divadeb59

Hi Kandi,  Congratulations on your new relationship!  Walter doesn't seem to be your type, so I'm glad you never went out with him, Kenya can have him.  But if she doesn't continue to take her meds she won't have him either, she a nut case!

 

dlsapp
dlsapp

Kandi, I still haven't figured it out : NeNe can make you so mad that your veins pop out the side of your neck and Kim can come into your home and make snide remarks and all you do is smile, teeth clenched.Kim doesn't pay you and you cry. I think you are still 2faced.I liked your mom, but I hope she doesn't come back on the show and get freaky with you. And.....what does your daughter think about your sex toy's?

Dbianculli
Dbianculli

Kandi....you rock girl! You are definitely the most "Real" ATL cast member.....by consistently demonstrating compassion for others, laughing at yourself, working and struggling like the rest of the world with every day challenges!

keturahp
keturahp

i felt like Kenya TOTALLY over reacted! that was extremely weird of her to be that upset about it. i mean is Walter not allowed to have past attractions to someone BEFORE he met Kenya... so silly

socialbutterfly908
socialbutterfly908

I'm watching the show where your showing Kim your house. Kim is so green with envy you can see it all over her face. She threw a wet towel over everything you had going on. I know people like Kim. Like my gran always said,"a fool and his money will soon part." Kim was even competitive with the moving and storage. With moving and storage, you'd think she'd want people to think she got a good deal, but no, it was though she was bragging, she has so much money, so much she can throw it all away on storage. Any smart person would know, you don't invest money on a rental. It's foolish to invest money on interior design on a rental, that would be like,"I'm going to rent this house and before moving in spend 100k on a new swimming pool when you don't even own it. Now she spent 100k on moving and storage? Kim just doesnt make sense. You BOUGHT your house in a nice area of Atanta. For Kim to say other wise was just out of plain old jealousy.Kim needs to learn some manners and not have such a inferiority complex.

ladymorgan
ladymorgan

Here we go again with another season of Kandi trying to create division between Phadrea and NeNe.  Don't like the comment you made about NeNe and Phadrea working out together; also don't like the comment about how the drama for NeNe was not that long ago.  NeNe is trying to move forward without all the drama and gossip from people like you.

 

Shifting gears, never move in with a man before he puts a ring on it. Don't shack-up with a man you deserve better.

kjones0160
kjones0160

Kandi, I's so happy for you now that you have Todd. Please Read Kim and Sweetie the next time you see them!

 

charlie@company
charlie@company

Kandi......I Iove you doll, but please take a crash-course or something in elementary subject/verb agreement!!!! Hearing you say "I had ran" & "I had saw", etc, etc makes me cringe!!!!  If Beyonce can do it....so can you Kandi!!!!!!

 

Kenya is a nut-case, as she asked Walter to be honest & when he did, she went postal on him!!! If I were Walter or any man, I would run as far away from that crazy chick as I possibly could!!!!

nananina
nananina

I love Kandi! She keeps it real all the time. Don't stoop to any of the haters level and keep doing your thing. I am so happy for you and the new turn your life has taken. Wishing you much happiness!

geniam
geniam

Why hasn't anyone question Todd??? Especially when his past involves another women he left for kandi.. He seems shady...

Yolanda1
Yolanda1

Kandi, WELCOME BACK!!!!  Love to see you all.  I missed you.  I am so happy for you Kandi, that you have a boyfriend and look so happy.  You deserve it.  I am awaiting for the next episodes within the next week.  Say hello to Mama Joyce and your baby.  Take care, I will be watching closely.

 

Regards, from San Juan, Puerto Rico

Yolanda Garcia Berdecia

Isee
Isee

I don't get the hate towards you. I don't know you, but you seem fine to me. All I can say, is yeah, tell Kim where to shove it when you need too. Some people will call you crass, its a catch 22 on reality TV, but if you are thinking it, and commenting on it, well say it to her face! Just sayin.

jonesin4rh
jonesin4rh

Kim and that assistant of hers just waltzed through your house throwin shade all over you and you got nothing to say about that? They are obviously jealous but Kim is not your friend carrying on like that! On a side note~ so happy you are so happy! You BOTH look so in Love! 

Twinstakeova
Twinstakeova

I think Kandi did not have to explain Jack! In this world you will always be an X to someone and this world is small! I know Kenya can't possibly think that Walter waited his whole life for her and would never date or ask a female out! She is NUTS!!!

mmcgill63
mmcgill63

You seem to be really fake.  You constantly speak about others except will not take on Kim.  Come on Kandi, you know better.  Stop behaving like you are afraid of Kim, but can only take on Nene and the other woman of color in the show.  Be real!  You are a disappointment.

Call_It_Out
Call_It_Out

Soooooooo ... Kim and her trifling employee can disrespect you in your own home, but...

never mind. You're sometimey.

Do you need hugs? Gold stars? Cookies?

Every chance you get we have to hear about your accomplishments... Have you not received enough accolades? We KNOW you're a musical miracle worker because what you did with Kim was nothing short of a miracle and you got no credit from HER for it, but everyone else knows that. YOU unlike Kendra or whoever have a legit claim to fame & notoriety... so stfu already. womp womp womp

 

IF you have unresolved concerns with Nene don't attend her event and throw shade. 

shade shade shade shade shade shade shade

Hypocrite, every season.

Watch yourself on the show three times

 

Alabamachic
Alabamachic

@PrettyEastTexan Damn girl!! Do you have a life of your own??

RHOAlabama
RHOAlabama

 @Picou

 THANK YOU I FEEL THE SAME WAY. SHE ALWAYS TRYING TO SAY STUFF ABOUT NENE BUT LET KIM JUST DO HER ANYWAY. MAKE ME WONDER WHY. WERE THEY CUDDLE BUDDIES LOL. SOMETHING NOT RIGHT

woodgoat8
woodgoat8

 @TSan

 I agree with your comment about Kim! I'm not sure why Kandi continues to give Kim a pass. Kim has done Kandi wrong on all types of level however she continue to give her a buddy pass or make excuses for her behavior. Kandi when people show you who they are believe them. Kim doesn't value your friendship at all!

Tan09
Tan09

 @TSan Kandi is very two faced and constanly talks out the side of her neck. Why show up to support if you don't believe their is a change. Ok you voiced it, so that's your real thoughts, but if your intentions were real you would stay away from negativity. Period, the end. 

Isee
Isee

@charlie@company I agree witch you..da talk is not only hard to understand, It ain't translatable, know what I mean? But that how she got where she IS. Yes, ending a sentence with a preposition It is who she is. Would you ask a Cuban to remove their accent for your sensitivities? I don't think so. Get real.

TSan
TSan

@Call_It_Out Nene does the same thing. It's hard for me to side with her. Remember she showed up to Kandi's event, didn't show support, made nasty remarks the entire time, then left without saying goodbye.

fabulousfierce.divo
fabulousfierce.divo

 @Call_It_Out kandi was always like that from day one, she is messy and needs attention thats why she started the toy line, she feeds on the attention.  

Call_It_Out
Call_It_Out

 @TSan  @Call_It_Out  Siding, to me, isn't the point. But i agree, and i remember, Nene has some funny acting ways too

 

Kandi said in her convo with Phaedra that Nene's always throwing sideways shade at her. So it's pay back time!? really!? 

 

But for KANDI to have accomplished all this stuff she keeps going on about only to "stoop to low levels" is a REALLY!? moment 

Kandi needs some something that she's not getting.