Cast Blog: #RHOA

The Kenya, Walter, and Kandi Connection

Kandi explains how she knows Todd and why Kenya has nothing to worry about.

There are only two things I feel the need to address this week based off of what most people tweeted me about.

First is Kenya and Walter. I thought the whole thing with Walter admitting he asked me out was a little awkward. Especially now that he and Todd are cool. I mentioned to Todd that Walter had asked me out before, but I'm sure it’s different for him to hear Walter actually say he was attracted to me. It was weird for me to hear Walter say it because, truth be told, he never asked me out himself. It was always our mutual friend asking me out for him. So I never heard Walter say out of his own mouth that he wanted to take me out. Back story is that one of Walter's best friends and one of my best friends are married to each other. They are always having something at their house, so I have ran into Walter many times over the years. In my mind, him asking me out wasn't anything to talk about, because we never actually went out. It definitely isn't anything for Kenya to worry about. Moving right along…

Second let me address NeNe. I'm not sure why you're bothered by me questioning your motives. You know good and well that you and I have never had the best relationship. You have said crazy things about me on many different occasions. You're not supportive of me or anything I do. If so, you never let me know it. Why would I feel you genuinely want to invite me to your party? And please understand that I wasn't the only one shocked when it was said that you want to uplift other women's success. I was just the only one who said it out loud. How about we just respect the fact that I will never be fake with you? You have your lane and I have mine, which I have been managing successfully for 19 YEARS now. I'm very happy for your accomplishments. I say all the time that I love what you're doing, because I have no problem giving another woman her props. Never have. As a matter of fact I'm always promoting my other female friends, helping their businesses, helping them get jobs, using my platform to help boost theirs, etc. I have never heard of you doing that up until now. Maybe I missed it the times that you have, but I can only go off of what I've seen or heard you do in public. So I'm sorry if I've over looked it. Just know that regardless of if we get along or not, I am always happy for your every accomplishment. I personally think you have changed for the better, and lately you seem to be in a great place and it shows in your personality. Overall, I think we've been getting along as of late and I would hate to start falling out again and start having Twitter beefs... That is sooo something the old NeNe would do, not the sophisticated, accomplished woman you are now. But then again...

Much Love,
Kandi

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Kenya: I Felt Vindicated Yet Again

Kenya Moore weighs in on the dramatic confrontation with Phaedra Parks.

MOVING ON
I’d moved on and forgave Phaedra for all of the lies she single handedly fabricated about me. When Cynthia told me of Apollo’s latest findings, I didn’t doubt it, as I have experienced what she is capable of first hand. My emotional reaction was based on anger not pain. I thought, "The nerve of her!" She went on a slut shaming, whore-calling campaign without any proof, and now that Apollo caught her with sticky fingers dipped in chocolate, I felt vindicated yet again. I don’t care about their relationship or how many men Phaedra chooses to sleep with, that is her cross to bear.


FOGO De CHILE PLEASE!
I arrived at dinner with an open mind and just tried to stay focused on my future and not my past with these women. I have been to Brazil many times and made friendly talk with the waiter and was accused of flirting. I’m not above being nice to a waiter. And even if I was flirting, which I wasn’t, there is nothing wrong with a good man making an honest living. I wasn’t raised to only give my attention to married man that can buy my affections.


When Cynthia reluctantly brought up the Apollo accusations, I kept quiet. To those who say I’m in Phaedra’s business or marriage, let’s get one thing straight -- Phaedra brought my name into the conversation by saying "the text messages with Kenya and that supposedly didn’t happen either," in effect still calling me a whore and a liar. Of course I had a right to respond in kind. Classic Phaedra, divert attention from the real issue and lie on someone else, namely me. She tried it!


YOU WANT THE TRUTH? YOU CAN’T HANDLE THE TRUTH!
Apollo and Phaedra are both liars. Facts are indisputable. However, we are not talking about a rumor but an accusation. Whether you choose to believe it or not, it comes down to the facts whereby Apollo presented proof. Yet, it’s OK to believe him when he lied about me. Remember the lie is a lie? But don’t believe him about Chocolate and the proof he presented. In fact, Phaedra to this day is still trying to get the public to believe there was an "affair." The hypocrisy and contradiction! LOL!


But the truth will always come to light. Phaedra claimed she wasn’t called a "head doctor" in high school, even though it was her new BFF who stated it. Oh, and didn’t Chuck also say Phaedra was a "jump off"? She also lied about the phone call with Cynthia until Cynthia presented hard evidence. And let’s not forget she even lied about her due date to everyone -- the timeline doesn’t lie. Phaedra has so many skeletons in her closet, and they are not from the dead people she embalms.


MY REAL OBSESSION
I’m obsessed with my life and all the amazing things that are happening. #ThatIsALL


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