I thank God everyday for the strength and courage to endure the disappointment, pain, and often critical, constant judgment of those who do not know me. To KNOW me is to love me. I have so much love to give and only want to share that with a man who is deserving of the woman I am when the cameras are on and off.
I may not have a husband yet, but I know what love is. Love is kind, long-suffering, patient, forgiving, it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, and it keeps no records of wrongs.
I wish everyone love in his or her lives, whether that is the love of a mother, child, animal, husband or lover, friend, God -- everyone deserves to be loved.
I wish you all love! Take the time to be with your family and experience unconditional love.
Happy New Year!
Just watched the show last night . . and my face was burning in embarrassment for you Kenya. You looked like a desperate fool. And what is funny is that several people in the group openly said that you 2 do not look or act like a couple . .which is true. There is no chemistry or loving gestures at all between you two, and the only conversations you have with him is when is going to ask you to marry him. You never say, I love this man with all my heart . . all you talk about is getting married, not loving the man. You clearly are not in a loving relationship or it would show in your actions and your words. This is all so silly anyways, as I heard months ago that this was a sham for the TV show . . .but boy you sure made yourself look like a very, very desparate woman . . and please . . .you did NOT make history ! You won a beauty pagent 20 years ago for heavens sake . .you didn't cure cancer, you didn't got voted President, you didn't fly to the moon ! You truely embarrass yourself.
Thank you Kenya for ending this relationship. I am repulsed by this (?). Cant call him a man. hence the reason for the question mark.
I see you growing with each blog i read, i hope you find love....there is someone for everyone and your dream is out there.
I think females should really read your first two paragraphs because you are spot on. No one is perfect but when we know better, we do better. The last page of what you wrote is so true. It happens to a lot of us but, never give up being truthful to yourself.
Kenya make women look desperate. Even though Walter told her he knows how she acts is part of her branding herself, he is not going to marry a woman who is acting like a "TRAMP" on TV for the whoe world to see. This is why we (women) get called out of our names and treated like trash. If she wants a man she has to learn to conduct herself like a respectable woman. Not only has she been a disgrace to the UNIVERSE but to brag about making a way for other black women. HOPEFULLY she hasn't set us back. AGAIN, black women like her is why we do not get the respect we deserve. Instead of bragging about making "HISTORY" and putting herself up there with MLK, and the others she mentioned, she should find and some etiquette classes to attend, then brag. One last thing, she's not all that.
Hello kenya u have a long way to go because u don,t push yourself on no man let him find you and u have to be friends before u can be anything else then the friendship will blossom but u put walter in a difficult postion because u put pressure on him to marry you and u brought up the conversation about eloping while you,ll were on the beach alone then he said well we got three days and u don,t know what would happen he never said that he would purpose to u then u invited yourself on the trip anyway and got mad about the room it wasn't your room in the first place then u crossed the line with your so called new friends that you had just met by flirting with their husbands u don't do that get your own man u are very insecure but u need to leave your past in the past and move forward walter didn't do nothing wrong ms kenya that was all you
Hello Miss Kenya, you are a beauty, i dont think Walter nos that, please you are the kind of womn every man dreams to have dont push it let him go, because you are stopping your dream man from coming, like you know release it to the univers and let hi know you are ready for that. there is nothing wrong with you but something is definatly wrong with walter, he is not ready to be commited and it hurts me to see that you are not seeing. keep your distance date other men, he will be ruing back like a mad dog to you. you have a beautifu life, please enjoy it. i promisse you the moment you let him go, there will be a lot f dream men on yur door asking for your hand in marriage. you are just a beauty remember tat and enjoy your beauty and your worth.
walter want say it but I will ur behavior on the trip that u invited ur self was out of line flirting, flirting & more flirting not once have I heard u compliment ur man but u did with apollo & other men HELL 2 THE NALL U DON'T LOOK LIKE BEYONCE u would be beautiful if u had a better ATTITUDE u need some serious HELP & u r 1 of those people that r not 2 be TRUSTED I'M TWIRLING OUT NOWWWWWWWW
What I wanted to say is already done, yet others are a bit cruel. I'll add- I feel sad for you. No, seriously, I'm genuinely sad. You are showing outstanding instability and it's all being filmed and broadcast across the world. You have a strong need to be validated and cherished by someone and it probably stems from your childhood. Your previous role as a national figure does not seem to be enough to qualify your need to be worthy. This is a stronger concern than any other housewife on these series. Please - take a step back, get a professional's opinion, ask your Aunt's advice- find some guidance. You are a beautiful woman - yet your entitlement issues are steering you in the wrong direction. You are correct to give thanks, yet it needs to come from humility. Whatever your childhood hurt, everyone is wounded in some way- this requires your understanding, humble restraint, and graceful behavior- as a former United States role model. For example- when you were incorrectly announced at the fundraiser (I will add- that girl needs speech classes to properly represent her grandfather's legacy. Her presentation ability is low) it would have been correct to show grace; grin and bear it. Your presence as a graceful and humble woman would have spoken for you- giving the guests the idea of true elegance. What you did was self-motivated forgetting the reason you were there - rise above. If you represent your crown for what YOU can get- the world will only respond negatively. That also goes for your dating life. I hope this helps. I get the impression many of the housewives on these shows are too confidant to read opinionated comments on these blogs, yet I have a feeling you do. Hopefully, you will take care.
I don't think that its insecure women who point out the physical imperfections of other women. I think that when a woman, such as yourself, is so conceited and acts as if she is so above all other women she needs to be shut down and told that she has flaws and is no prettier than the next. Your mad at Porsha for calling you names, but you put her down for "not making a name for herself" and instead carrying on the charity of her grandfather as well as marrying a former football star. What she is doing by continuing her grandfather's charity is hard work and wonderful heartwarming thing to do. And your obviously jealous that she is married and is still young enough to have time for children.
This is a blog, not an acceptance speech. Quit it with the "I want to thank..." The Miss USA pageant was years ago.
Kenya.........all I have to say is that if I see your face @ President Obama's Inauguration, I won't be thinking or saying that "she looks just like Beyonce", but instead will be running in the opposite direction, as to avoid the crazy chick from the RHOA!!!!!!
If you re-read your description above of what real love is all about, you are opposite of everything you wrote. I've been married for 34 years and I think if you truly are who you have shown yourself to be then you don't even have a clue what marriage is or what it takes. Maybe you need to take a serious look at yourself and stop looking for others faults. It's never too late to get help.
You're growing on me. People need not get it twisted you still have a lot of around the way girl inside of you!
Kenya, I feel so sorry for you. You are struggling to become as relevant as you hought you were 20 years ago.
Kenya, You are a beautiful, funny, strong and intelligent woman --- you do not need ANY man that acts like a jerk to you! Walter may have been whom you thought you wanted in the beginning but I think it is clear he just wants a friend in you not a wife. It is a shame he was not man enough to come right out and tell you the truth from the start. Kick him to the curb, girl! Do not waste one more second on him as there are many more "real" men looking for someone like you. As for Porsha ---- consider the source.
Kenya some of us know you did not start the fight with Porshe so don't worry. If anyone had half a brain they would remember you told Porshe you were over what happened but Porshe continued talking about the incident and of course things got heated. Porshe was at fault and called you a tramp first but I guess she conveniently forgot. And so did the ladies. It seems to be some jealously in the air on you. You are beautiful from head to toe and anything they can find to put you down they will but I'm sure you are accustomed to the hating behaviour from some women.
Get rid of Walter, don't understand your attraction to him but you had me crackiing up when you said, "country man fishing in gucci." lol.
I enjoyed your personality while in Anguilla. You were having fun thats all. I also like the fact that Phaedra got over your flirtacious ways toward Apollo fast and was there for you after you had an argument with Walter.
BTW, I do not really believe you were flirting with Apollo, just having fun. If Phaedra had a big problem with that, I'm sure she talked to Apollo since he was the one who picked you up and threw you in the water. All the other ladies were afraid to get their hair, oops I mean their weaves wet. lol
I really like Kenya, she's accomplished and well established as an actress director producer etc. .. What I didn't like was that you couldn't understand that you WERE disrespectful at the Jet open call. Later you refused to apologize . Also, you were disrespectful to Cynthia at the party Enough of that Clown Stuff or whatever you said. The feud between you and Porsha keeps getting bigger because clearly she needs someone to dislike and be relevant on the show. She is the one I could do without 265 days a year she's an airhead. Drop Walter like a hot potato let LOVE come to you don't try to force it. You're beautiful you don't need his lame butt
thank goodness for nene leakes. she called you and walter out today on wendy williams for the liars both of you are.
Kenya, my opinion is that you came on way too strong and desperate (it wasn't a good look for you) and didn't let up with your not-so-subtle hints about getting engaged/married and having children. If I were a man, I would have felt pressured too. Every time you got ready to say something pertaining to a proposal when you were with Walter, I'd be in the background chanting "Don't do it, don't go there"!! But you went there anyway and realistically, the more you did it, the more you were pushing him away. You were overly saturating him with it. I believe you even went there about wanting a 5-1/2 carot diamond ring. What?? If that was the beginning of something big in terms of how high maintenance you are, I'm sure that made him see things differently too. I have to admit that he's now behaving like a complete azz hole, speaking to you like he no longer cares, is being curt and sarcastic, looks at you differently, didn't give a damn when you were "lathered up" and he decided to go to sleep without so much as a goodnight kiss. What? Dang, Kenya, the bells and whistles should have been blasting off in your head then. Stop crawling -- yes girl, "crawling" after this man, badgering him for answers -- answers that will further hurt you, 'cause they're not going to be what you want to hear. He already told you one day at lunch that he didn't love you that way yet, and I doubt at this point he ever will. You once said that you know you're "Gone with the Wind Fabulous, so if that's the case, give it time and one day someone who's worthy of your love -- if it's true love you have to offer without all the flirting you tend to exhibit with other men, will blow into your life. I realize your clock is ticking, but you really can't hurry love, 'cause you can't MAKE someone love you. You just can't. Consider moving on with your life for someone better while you still have some self-respect left. Walter certainly isn't the last man standing!!
conishkee GREAT Post!!! I was thinking when Kenya gave him the size 5.5 she was talking about her ring size, not the caret size for a ring... I do recall at the microwave dinner she said, it's not my shoe size, and it damn sure not my bra size... Then she said do you get it now, and Walter said I get it, but did he??? Then Kenya once said to one of the girls that he has even asked her for her rings size, but I don't believe that because why would he when he'd stated to her face he was not in love with her enough to marry her to even put a ring on it...!!!
Hello Ms. Moore, : )
If you or any of your people read this... I'm sure you get this all of the time, but have you ever thought about getting on an episode of The Millionaire Match Maker? I believe a New Jersey "housewife" and her two adult sons were on that show. You never know. Maybe you'll find a better match with Ms. Stanger. Just a thought. : )
Kenya, I kind of like both you and Walter, but this is just not going to happen. He is actually a pretty typical guy who doesn't want a woman who's high drama or high maintenance and that's who you are, at least in part. I see where you are both coming from and unless both of you want to change, you should give this up. Best wishes.
Walter came across more like someone on the down-low getting his 15 minutes of fame. The other ladies hinted at this. Loved his Gucci ensemble at the fishing hole, but his arrogance was offensive to women.
MelaCWalter has a GIRLFRIEND currently. Kenya was someone he hooked up with for about 3 months. She needed an excuse to be on this show and move out to ATL so she HIRED him. Jusr cause a man don't want her raggedy behind don't mean he's gay! riddle me this, how is that Kenya has been dating him for over 2 years as she claims but moves half way across the country to be closer to him and NONE OF HER FAMILY OR FRIENDS HAVE HEARD OF HIM. shut up.
Kenya gurl please....Let him go you are a very attractive young lady that can get a good man that will as your girl says it "Put a Ring On It" Stop selling yourself cheap. Your spirit is bigger than that. Even when dealing with Miss Porchia. That is right check it boo she did not have to chase you down to continue her pointless story about your claim to fame. Boo you did it no matter when it was done. In the history books yes boo The Black Wonder Woman and for that I am proud of you. However as for that Walter let him go back to hauling cars and dumping dirt. His mood when confronted is the worst. Boy bye...This is why I am by myself cause I dismiss them at the first glimpse of disrespecting the Queen...Cause that is what we are and NOTHING LESS...Good luck
It honestly seems as if you may have some mental issues of your own Kenya. You don't seem very stable, or even sane at times. You come across as very strange and needy.
I think you need to move on from Walter, he definitely isnt as invested as you are/were. However, I think you pushed so bloody hard, you are the one who pushed him right out the door. When you spoke to him on your "fishing trip" (pun intended), he was answering your questions, you didnt seem to hear the answers, because you did not like them, so skipped right over them and reasked the question...telling him he wasnt answering you. He answered, he was telling you you were putting way too much pressure on him. I think I have to agree with Nene on this one, what you were in with Walter wasnt really a relationship, and you knew that, even in Anguilla, or you would not have been all over every other male there. I think you have a lot of sadness in your life, so you look for attention to take focus away from that, and unfortunately are mean to the other women because of that pain too. I hope you find what you are looking for.
I do think Walter is a complete jerk. However, your interpretation of the conversation on the beach is not what anyone else saw. He was being distant and trying to avoid a more serious discussion. I think you just missed the cues and saw what you wanted to see.
I'm not your biggest fan, but, I think you need to leave Walter in the dust and move on with your life. He knows what he is doing and I think he likes that about himself. He made you look like a fool and I really believe he enjoys seeing you humiliated. He is not cute and you are beautiful. You can do much better. Money might be able to get him someone younger and just as beautiful, but you and I both know, that girl is only after one thing, and once that is gone, she will be too.
To Kenya It was sad to see your realtionship with Walter. I know you are eager to have children and get married but dont be so thristy to take someone , who is just not in love like the way you are. It was not nice how you were confronting and wanting Walter to communicate with you when you were went fishing. You are a very attractive woman and can get someone to love you the same way you love them. But I dont think you believe that. Your wounds will eventually heal and you will meet someone so much better than Walter.
Good Luck Kenya dont forget love yourself first then you will get love back.
Lol! We all knew it never even began Kenya! Who you kidding? Your truly a delusional liar! As for saying people mistake you for Beyonce? Wow! Bet Beyonce is shaking her head at that one and asking Jay-Z if she looks that bad!!!
Walter doesn't deserve you Kenya - he's a jerk and will grow old alone. You'll find someone who thinks you walk on water, I just know it!
If you were as hot as you think so ... boy you would be one hot woman...but you are "not". No one is leading you on but your self. If Walter is saying something different off the air you need to put it on the air so we can hear him. Until then we all think you are living in "Kenya world". .. you see/hear what you want.
Walter is mean, condescending & crazy. What a loser to treat a woman like that on national tv......a-hole!!!
Am sorry you were victimized by an idiot that does not appreciate your value and played with your emotions. He is not a gentleman. You deserve to be loved and not be stringed along, the confusion was obvious, he has been playing a game of promises for years with you had he not? but once you call him on a deadline he starts shaking and calling you demented and pushy. It is a good thing that you get rid of him. The women that do not enjoy your zest for life and do not see how magnificent you are will miss on a great friend who on her own merits has accomplished much. I admire you regardless of what any haters have to say, I understand the frustration you have dealing with ignorance. And I do not think you look like Beyonce, your eyes are so much more beautiful, you are more beautiful than her. This is my humble opinion. May you be blessed.
Kenya is a boring person on the show.. no good story line for her and her life .. what does she do now anyways... she is stuck up and just full of drama... she needs to go off the show!!
Yada Yada Yada.. Give it a rest.. You were wrong at the original event. You were wrong in Anquilla, and you are wrong now.. You are also a mess.. But of course you will block everything out because I disagree with you... Listen, Walter is not into you.. The girls tried to tell you, Walter has told you this.. You were only interested in getting married, and Walter was the guy of the moment... I don't know where you women get this stupid idea that if you flirt with other men, ask about their sperm availability, that this will make a man jealous and coming running to you.. When a man sees this, he says "why am I here".. She doesn't care about me, she just wants to be married.. and instead of reading between the lines, you just kept pushing more and more.. If you let a guy treat you like dirt, he doesn't respect you because you don't respect yourself.. Like NeNe said, she would have been gone.. As would I and majority of women, who have men who put a ring on it...Beyonce lookalike...
kenya, you have been quite rude to other women and yet I sympathise with you. Your Aunty has been a saint to you but the way you behaved at the Bailey Agency was deplorable. You were quite rude to those girls. I understand they may not have been what you were looking for but you were quite blunt and offensive and yet u cried when your aunty told it like it is. I feel for you that you suffer from adult acne but you still look amazingly beautiful. You have a gorgeous smile. I just wish you would realise that you have been nasty to other women.
Kenya, you said that you and Walter were dating on a long distance relationship for two years before you moved to Atlanta, however, I heard Walter speak on a radio station and he said that you all dated 3 years ago for about 3 months. So either one or both of you is lying or the truth lies somewhere in the middle. Walter also said that you called him and asked him to play your boyfriend on the show and his friends encouraged him to do it and to get his 15 minutes of fame. If that is the case, then you took that opportunity to get him to be with you again and marry you. But he was not serious about you and he said on the radio show that he was suprised when you started talking about marriage because he didn't sign up for that. I believe Walter because when you heard what he said on the radio, you never denied what he said. All you said was that he had an agenda and you called him gay. So you are very delusional to ask the man to play your boyfriend and then expect for him to marry you. You need some real serious help for your psychological issues. Until you get that, you will not attract a decent man who will love you enough to marry you. And you can take that to the bank.
Swanie You are right. Her little ploy/plot blew up in her face so she retaliated by calling him gay. That is why he went on the radio. He is a business man and father. What he should have done is told her NO then maybe she would never have gotten on the show!
I find Kenya to be somewhat of a bully, She went after Porcha knowing she hasn't developed relationships with any of the other ladies, thinking she would be the easiest target without really making the other girls as mad. I really hope that this is just her tv personality becase if not i really do feel bad for her and hope she changes before she is alone with no friends and no man.
well said "goodcade"...This woman is from another world. She must have some mental issues she needs to address. What man will want to marry someone like her. She's so jealous of Porcha and the other women and it will all come out soon. Walter run!!!!