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Is Kordell Controlling?

NeNe shares her opinion on Porsha and Kordell's marriage.

Sin city baby! This is where it all goes down! So we left Hollywood and headed to Vegas. A girls’ trip is just that -- girls hanging out, shopping, partying, and enjoying cocktails are definitely all in the mix. Pure innocent fun!

I arrived in Vegas around 10pm after a long day of work. I was told the plan was to head to a strip club, ride a bull, and have a sex toy party -- none of which I would normally do on a girls trip! I came on this trip, so I was willing to do whatever; as long as it didn’t involve doing drugs, having sex, or breaking the law, I was cool! So I got dressed and headed out on the town with the girls.

Once we were in the limo, Porsha said loud and clear that Kordell would NOT be happy if she went to a strip club and that he had already LET her go from Cali to LA! (Which is around the block I guess, LOL!) Now let me break it down to you this way -- I have been to strip clubs and worked in one when I was in my early twenties. Now I have moved on too much bigger and better things! I really like Porsha, and even feel like a big sister to her. If Porsha didn’t want to go to the strip club herself, that's fine! The message I think we all were trying to send to her was to use your own brain and let this be your decision. We’ve all been around her and heard her say things that sound like she's being controlled. Maybe Kordell feels the need to control her, because he knows what he's working with. Porsha also said she was a Christian, and I have to agree with Phaedra on this one -- going to church doesn’t make you any more of a Christian than going to a strip club makes you a stripper or a sinner! Maybe Kordell thought she would dance like a stripper, because we've all seen that too. I have been in a relationship with the same man longer than any of these ladies have been in their relationships. I don't want to judge Porsha's relationship, because I obviously don't live with them. I can only tell you what these eyes and ears hear and see. I watch the show just like you do, so based off everything I've seen and heard myself, it appears that Kordell is talking to his daughter and not his wife! Porsha can't seem to do much without getting permission from Kordell. This is not my relationship, so if Porsha likes it, I love it, and I really don't give a sh-- what Porsha and Kordell do! I’m entitled to my opinion!

I personally view a marriage as an equal partnership. I think you should treat each other with respect, consider each other’s needs, and support one another’s dreams and goals and work together as a team. This is NeNe's point of view, and I'm sure you have your own opinion too! Being on a television show is not the place to say "don't judge me," because we are all putting ourselves out there to be judged! I have stated my opinions, and none of them are facts. I will never talk to Porsha about her relationship again, but if she ever wants to talk to me, I’m here!

Here are my laugh out loud moments of the show:

1. Me saying Phaedra looked like she wanted to take a bite out of Hello Kitty! I was rolling on the floor laughing!

2. Me saying, “If you wanna jump over the moon, your husband should support you jumping over the damn moon!” LOL! You know I love a good laugh!
Continue to watch The New Normal every Tuesday night at 9:30pm on NBC! For all of you gleeks out there, Coach Roz is back on Glee! I'll let you know my air dates!

P.S. I’m all about girl power!

Hugs and lots of kisses,
NeNe

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Claudia: Porsha's Been Stank All Season

Claudia Jordan fires back at Porsha Williams for coming for her at the reunion.

Bravotv.com: Were you nervous going into your first reunion?
Claudia Jordan: Not at all! I was so looking forward to it. I thought there would be more drama and it would be more difficult for me, but it was a piece of cake. I thought everyone for the most part looked great in their all white outfits, and the set was amazing!

Bravotv.com: Were you surprised Porsha came for you?
CJ: Absolutely not. She's been quite stank all season. The last time I was surprised at her actions was when we met for lunch way back in the very beginning of the season, because up until a week prior, I thought we were cool enough. Not friends, BFFs, or besties, but cordial acquaintances. But when she kept doing little catty things, I saw what it was. Looking back I understand. I was the new girl, and when a new girl comes on the scene, not all the women will embrace new energy and new personalities; some will automatically feel threatened. I for one love meeting new women and making friends. I think there is nothing more powerful than a group of talented, beautiful, and intelligent women. Check out my Instagram and see the crew I roll with on the daily. It's clear that I live by that. I've never been intimidated or jealous of any other women. I embrace my lovely friends, because I respect them and how they handle their business. I love meeting new people and look forward to learning new things from new acquaintances I make. So to be so closed minded about another person right out of the gate and create a "reason" for it after the fact is just dumb. But at this point, dumbness does not shock me nor does ignorance.

I do want to address one of the lies Ms. Williams told about me at the reunion. I never asked around town for the tea. Porsha started making it clear to the world she had an issue with me, even though I had no idea why. I then heard some completely unsolicited gossip from my friends, but I kept it under my hat -- I mean it was juicy, but it was really none of my concern outside of gossip, and I certainly was not seeking it out. And it would have remained there forever had she had not become so nasty to me. At the end of the day, I don't care what and whom that girl allows to enter her bat cave. But just keep it polite and cute towards me. Don't get caught out there loudly running your mouth about me in hallways. Don't be shady at work. Don't make statements to NeNe slandering me and Kenya, talking about our legs being up in the air and criticizing us for not being married, then complain that folks are slandering you. It's quite simple. And if you know in your real life how you get down, it might be in your best interest not to poke fun, egg on, and laugh at another woman being wrongly accused of doing what you do, because you might mess around and taunt someone that will get with you and spill your room-temperature tea. #DropsMic


Bravotv.com: Are you going to continue to pursue stand-up?
CJ: Yes, I am. I actually did a show that Bravo recorded. They showed a brief snippet of it on the reunion, but I really wish they would show it all, because it was funny! I had a great reception from the audience, and a lot of the girls came to my show -- Cynthia, Kenya, Demetria, and my best friend, Auta. Also most of the morning show came and supported me, and they all gave me props! It felt amazing. It was very empowering and exhilarating to be on that stage and see all those people in the audience cracking up and getting my sense of humor. I've already got some calls and requests for bookings just from people hearing that I want do stand up. I will keep you guys posted when I do some more shows!

Please follow me on Instagram and Twitter @ClaudiaJordan for all the updates on my career. I have been getting lots of bookings, hosting concerts for Ginuwine and Tank. Please check my Instagram for upcoming tour dates. Also I have two films coming out this year called The Hills and Love is Not Enough. I am in talks right now for a third movie to start filming in the fall. This past weekend I got the chance to catch up with a dear friend of mine that got me started in radio-Mr Jamie Foxx. His album drops on May 18th and we were there to support him at his album listening party. Just wanted to share some photos from all the fun times I've been having lately! Life is good and I am happy and feeling loved!

xoxo, CJ

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