Some of us always have to play the victim in order to be the center of attention. In this week's episode we see that in epic fashion with our resident twirler Kenya. As always, she assumes that every event is about her. This week is no different.
Atlanta is a major metropolitan city; however, as in any town or city, there are small social circles. It isn't unusual to see many of the same faces at every event you attend. While I've known Kenya for approximately six months, I've known her alleged ex-beau Walter Jackson for well over a decade. He has been a fixture in Atlanta's social scene since I met him. Since he and my husband met, they have enjoyed a blossoming friendship. When he and my husband spoke as we were en route to Kandi's party, there was no reason to call anyone to alert them that he was coming as he was their invited guest. Please know that Apollo and I would never invite anyone to someone else's home as that is socially tacky and uncouth. It's very egocentric to expect someone to adjust their guest list according to your preferences. Kandi's estate is large enough that everyone at the party could've played hide and seek and never been found, so why did Kenya assume he came with a date to find her? It was obvious he didn't want her when they were allegedly together, so why would he want her now?
Well, come to think of it Phadra this statement does make sense. Walter has shown such a lack of interest towards Kendra that it has made people question if they are really a couple. So I would like to know how do we get from this to thinking this man is trying to be around you and he is a groupie??????????????
No offense or anything but honey this is why people are saying things like you need therapy. It is like you are out of touch somewhere. Cmon, Kendra get it together you keep acting like a woman scorned. According to you your relationship with Walter was never consumated.MOVE ON!!!!!!!!!!! You can't just say you have moved on and then act like you have not moved on. You should totally be able to be in a room with Walter and not be phased by him what so ever. Here is when you have to put your big girl pants on, it did not work out, he was man enough to not waste your time knowing he did not feel the same way so move the hell on. When you speak poorly of him that really makes you look bad, and don't know how it just do. I hate to see you doing this looking like this man has got all in your head and get you off balance just because he is in the same room with you. Girl are you serious??????? You not serious you just acting right?
Phaedra: I think you are too good for this whole show. Kenya is scum and NeNe is a hateful, nasty narcissist.
Phaedra, you've hit the nail on the head. Kenya does have a problem, and she attempts to make herself "relevant" by going into all the drama about Walter. After all, this is the man that she all but begged to marry her when all of you were in Anguilla...and YOU were the one to offer her moral support when she stormed out of the room during dinner. I think the fact that her mother doesn't recognize her is a big part of her problem. She feels neglected, and is looking for love wherever she can find it. The girl needs therapy and a lot of prayer!
Phaedra threaten Kenya first at the re-union and Kenya threw it back at her. Kenya said "don't come for me unless I send for you". Phaedra said "you better bring something besides that fan". Phaedra threaten her. Kenya said "you'll be picking up your teeth pregnant and all". So Kenya throws the threat back to her. Obviously, it was empty threat cause she never moved towards Phaedra. If you and Apollo separated/divorced, you happen to attend a party where he's at, you may feel a little uncomfortable. Kenya may still have issues with Walter, because he's talking to people about her. Personally I would totally ignore him. Who is he?
firstname.lastname@example.org You obviously have issues also. She wasn't MARRIED to Walter so your analogy doesn't hold water. To threaten a pregnant woman is despicable.
BRAVO, I find it very Disturbing that (Kenya) is allowed to threaten a pregnant woman and a her unborn child. Andy you said nothing at all in Phaedra defense (SHOCKED). When Marlo made a rude comment we haven't seen her since. This type of behavior should not be Tolerated at all! Something needs to be done ASAP! Ooops and I'm sorry is too late. Safety should be the number one priority! In todays world you can't take chances with someone's life. Too many people have followed through with threats. This matter should be handled accordingly.
Phaedra, I pray many blessings to you and your family. Can't wait for your bundle of joy to arrive.
Phaedra, please continue to be the Southern Belle. You have class girl! That definitely shows up the classless, like Kenya. Just treat her with the disdain she deserves, ignore her like the unwanted fly. People like her cant stand being ignored.
Your Comment is HILARIOUS!!!!!!! LOL!!!!!
I knew Phaedra's video wasn't a good fitness video.
Phaedra the bottom line is this. You and the other women picked on Kenya from day one in any way possible. I'm sure Kandi wouldn't appreciate someone inviting her ex to a party she's going to attend. Its distrubing that YOU and the other women were so mean to her and for no reason. Just totally disrespectful. You sid she wears fake hair and contacts..?? Realy?? Did you miss pictures of Kenya as a little girl with long beautiful hair and colored eyes? Or does her past not count as yours did per the reunion show? Funny because you referenced your past in terms of how you've worn the same hair style since high school but Kenya's past can't be reference. Hence: Miss USA, proven pictures that she's had long hair and colored eyes since a little girl. How selective. Such a hater. For the record, Kenya is very pretty and it wouldn't matter is she was bald, she'd still look 10 better than you. You wear weave and you need to lose a good 30 pounds, better yet, get a new body.
tealy Your comment was very mean spirited. It would be nice if we did not result in name calling in order to debate the issues at hand. Kenya has been impossible to deal with on numerous occasions. They all tried to embrace and welcome her with open arms but she showed know interest every time. Walter was Kenya's issue not the ladies. She brought him on, she should have been able to remove him from the show. I had an ex that was very close to my friends and family but when I got engaged to my now husband, I quietly met with him and told him his relationship has now come to an end. As a man who I respected and a women who he respected, never came around again. The respect goes a long way. Kenya had a problem doing that with all involved which is why the outcome was the way that it was.
tealy Kenya is self serving opportunist. She thinks she's the next NeNe. She figures if she acts crazy enough she'll get more camera time. She's nothing more than a media hog trying to stay working as she ages.
Phaedra I love you on the show and always have. Watch out for that Kenya you know she is a snake and will take a bite off of Apollo as quick as you can blink your eyes. She's thirsty for a man and attention. Stay classy like you've always been. You and NENE rock the show to me!!!! Cant wait to see more of you!!!!
Overall, I like Pha Pha only this season you made a lot more twisted facial expressions when you didn't want to own up to something... that did not help you in the beauty department.
Phaedra!! Am really enjoying your "cool as a cumcumber" attitude when it comes to that crazy bipolar nut job on the show. I really think the more you stay cool and lady like it makes Kenya even more upset- just keep doing what you're doing! Kenya will never compare to you & all of your accomplishments- keep your chin up!!
terifairy1 I think you are right "terifairy1" Mrs. Phaedra cool behaivior is killing Kenya but it is also killing me :) Mrs. Phaedra I give you five stars for your composure. Now, something came to my mind while watching the episode. Why any of the others came to your defense to stop Kenya and make her realize that you are pregnant?
hannah79 Yes, I don't know how you kept it together when she told you that you would have to pick up your teeth from the ground! I can't believe that she would say that to a pregnant woman. I think it is disgusting!! Best of luck to you and congratulations on your pregnancy!
Phaedra, I really love you at times, however sometimes you take it to another level. I would like to see you go back to being the intellectual attorney that I know you are. I wish you could be on a show call Judge Phaedra, then we could all see and respect the attorney in you. I think that Kenya is so jealous of you and your marriage with Appollo that is you close your eyes she would attempt to get him. She covets your life and your husband. I would like you not to focus on her because she is mentally unstable. Please I do not want her to snap and do harm to you. Continue to be who you are and do not change for anyone.
Also, Phaedra is all over the place with her businesses. Attorney, Funeral Director, Booty Video(which she had no busness doing), Tazer. Seems like she is throwing out any thing to the fans. KENYA is HONEST and REAL. Phaedra is FAKE and a BIG PHONY.
I am a Phaedra fan, I only wish you could stop from falling into Krazy Kenya's world wind!!! It was hard to listen to the two of you bicker back and fourth. You have more class than that. I hate to see her pull you down to her level. You are a sweet, smart, beautiful mother, wife and child of God and that is ALL you need to be. You DO NOT need to defend yourself from an insecure, jealous, lonely, unhappy woman. who I hope either leaves the show or has a transformation. The best to you and your family!!!
Hello Phaedra yes thank you for letting this kenya know that you were not gonna put up with her BS.Big mistake for bravo having her on the show Lord she thinks she is the star of the show hold on lamo lmao. All the flirting with other man in front of Walter she did at her age speaks volumes of the type of woman she is not cute!! Honey she sits at home thinking about you all day for her to do a music video (Beyonce wannabe) about you honey she has no life she needs you, she copycat your idea.Who is looking dumb she is all the viewers can see her BS.
Later for her xoxo yo you and family keep doing you.
Phaedra, KUDOS to you for handling yourself like a lady. Kenya was a complete idiot...acting like a rabid animal!
Kenya was Beautiful Articulate and Gone With The Wind Fabulous. Don't Hate. Ta Ta Haters.
Kenya did not stand a chance last night lol ! you and Porsha got her together the whole time & i loved it!! Sorry kenya fans she lost that one & got exactly what she deserved !
I would think that Kenya like the other women can also dish Phaedra dirt, but it doesn't look like they are that dirty. I would say Phaedra is full of contradictions and what she seems to do is real dirty and I mean to the core. I have family that lives in Atlanta and one thing was confirmed to me is that Phaedra does like the cameras. So, I do believe what Phaedra did to Sheree when she was handling her case. I know people have problems with Kenya, but Kenya confided in Phaedra and she used that against her and now we will hear what she did to NeNe next week (Reunion part 2). Phaedra has demonstrated what lengths she would go to, even when she knows she had secrets that are worst than what she is pointing out about Kenya. Kandi is defending Phaedra by pointing out why Phaedra feel the way she does about Kenya. I would suggest that Kandi not confide in Phaedra, because it will definitely be used against her. Kandi seems to be trusting of people, which shows she has a good heart, but then the people use her. So, Kandi need to be very careful and if I was her I would not have used Phaedra as my attorney. What she has demonstrated is that she is not creditable or trustworthy. I don't know what is on the website is true about her secret, but I believe that is what the ladies are talking about. If what is being said is not true she should sue the person for defamation. She is lucky that Kenya or NeNe didn't get the person who is spreading rumors about her secret life. The reason I am speaking this way about Phaedra is because I feel that there is truth in what Phaedra is doing. All the women are on the show and using it as a platform for other things. She should not be trying to destroy the characters of the people she is working with; when she is quite aware that she has her own issues. If the rumors are not true, I still feel everybody has things that they don't want others to know, especially on national TV. I just say that Kenya and NeNe is not digging anything up to truly destroy her character and none of them should go to such a level.
I think the reason that you have always been my favorite is because you are the only "housewife" that is actually married and raising a family.
You always look good, mind your manners and get it done.
And, let's be real, it was your idea to make a work-out video and when Kenya couldn't rip you off on the "back end" she totally ripped off your idea.
It doesn't seem like Kenya has much business experience since she hasn't got a clue on how to negotiate. When she came up with the 10 percent and you declined, that was the moment she should offered a lower figure or some other concession. Looks like what's "gone" with the wind, is her brains.
I think that like a lot of woman that have been married long term and have young children you wear the pants in your family and you are the bread winner. But if you want to stay married, stop calling ALL the shots. Apollo is hot and I think, sincere. He just needs to settle down a little and find his way. Underneath it all, I think he just wanted some attention and Kenya, who hasn't got a husband, was only to willing to give it to him.
You are the only cast member that actually listens to what others are saying without interrupting. And I love all the facial expressions you make, don't stop!!
Congrats to you and Apollo on your new baby. Just remember to put Apollo first and you two will be fine.
Phaedra was clearly trying to slick Kenya in to doing the video for free. As a business person, Kenya should have done the video if Phaedra was insulting her by trying to get her to work for FREE. Pheadra is such a Phony and thinks that the FANS can't see through her manipulative ways.
Kenya is REAL. Go Team Kenya.
gwtwf2 AtticusFinch actually she was going to get paid for her work Phaedra didnt want to pay her a percentage of the back end. totally different and she didnt deserve it . she actually didnt even do the deal...the people that Kenya did her video with were the ones actually working the deal. j/s
gwtwf2 AtticusFinch She was not trying to get her to work for free.. look at the reunion again. P explained and Kenya could not dispute the fact that the only question was Kenya receiving money on the backend sales. Two different things... P did not ask her nor want her to work for free... she wanted her to do what she asked her to do and nothing more.
AtticusFinch I love your comment and I have to agree, it does seem as if her brains have "gone with the wind."
Honestly I cannot stand you. Words used by yourself, you are fake and egocentric. It is appauling to me that people would buy your workout video. You are 100% a con artist and god only knows what other cons you have been involved in. It is SHAMEFUL how you have made a mockery of the deceased...I guess anything goes as long as you are making money. You disgust me...go home oompa loompa. Time for you to get off the show.
You show good restraint. You're cool as a cucumber, I give you that. You're a better woman than I am. On your tropical vacation, Kenya completely disrespected herself and your marriage. Then she threatened you and your unborn child on the reunion show. The woman is crazy. Some things you don't say and do...even for a paycheck. I enjoy the show, but I seriously don't like that woman. She turns me off to the point I really didn't enjoy this season. They should put on on the doctors of Atlanta show. She'd be a better fit with those game playing, bipolar women. Best wishes to your family and soon to become new addition.
I am so proud of you you told Kenya off I got your back Kenya is no good and please at the next reunion tell her that we southern people luck but again stand your ground she want your husband and tell your husband that he have a beautiful wife and kids don't be no fool .phaedra don't let her talk to you any kind of way get hard in her she is a no body Oh ya look out for porsha that's my girl to Kenya is jealous of her
Love, love, love you Phaedra!! Hopefully that psychotic cow Kenya will be off of the show soon. Can't stand her hatefulness. She is ruining the show. Maybe she is just insecure because she is a has been and is in no way relevant! So sad.
I wouldn't waste any of my time on Kenya if I were you. She is a joke and a very messed up person. She really does need meds...serious meds. I'm team Phaedra all the way!
For all of you Phaedra lover's, google Phaedra and Angela Stanton. What Nene said early on is true. Let's see if Bravo has the *guts* to get this through moderation so Phay-Phay, Fake Phaedra will be exposed. If even 1/2 of this is true, she is dirty as the hell her mama talks about.
NWViewer13 blah blah blah stop trying to dig up dirt on Phaedra lol you must be a kenya lover too
Phaedra I have a new found respect for you!! You were everything part one of the reunion!! You had it all over Kenya the pathological liar.......