Cast Blog: #RHOA

Kenya Plays the Victim

Phaedra doesn't understand why Kenya was so bothered by Walter's appearance at Kandi's party.

Some of us always have to play the victim in order to be the center of attention. In this week's episode we see that in epic fashion with our resident twirler Kenya. As always, she assumes that every event is about her. This week is no different.

Atlanta is a major metropolitan city; however, as in any town or city, there are small social circles. It isn't unusual to see many of the same faces at every event you attend. While I've known Kenya for approximately six months, I've known her alleged ex-beau Walter Jackson for well over a decade. He has been a fixture in Atlanta's social scene since I met him. Since he and my husband met, they have enjoyed a blossoming friendship. When he and my husband spoke as we were en route to Kandi's party, there was no reason to call anyone to alert them that he was coming as he was their invited guest. Please know that Apollo and I would never invite anyone to someone else's home as that is socially tacky and uncouth. It's very egocentric to expect someone to adjust their guest list according to your preferences. Kandi's estate is large enough that everyone at the party could've played hide and seek and never been found, so why did Kenya assume he came with a date to find her? It was obvious he didn't want her when they were allegedly together, so why would he want her now?

It was my hope that Kenya sincerely wanted to bury the hatchet, but everybody knows anything too good to be true usually isn't and that adage applies to this situation as well. I am thankful that I am richly blessed with a busy and engaging life, which keeps me focused. I don’t choose to take time away from my family, work, and school to engage in name-calling and participate in petty arguments for the sake of pacifying someone’s ego. However, I will not stand by and let my husband and myself to be made out as villains without a response.

Xoxo,
Phaedra

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3 #RHOA Reunion GIFs for Your Everyday Life

The 'Wives leave you with one final GIFt this season.

Welcome to our weekly GIF-cap, where we provide the 3 best GIFs from each episode!

We may be closing the book on Season 7, but never fear, the Housewives have delivered some GIFs to use in your everyday life until they return.

Is your bikini bod not quite where you want it to be for summer? Don't worry, Kandi's got you covered:

This is what caftans are for, people!

Worried about getting stuck next to old Uncle Walter at a family function? Send this GIF as an SOS to your friends so they know to come rescue you:

Also useful when you're stuck next to a particularly chatty stranger on the train to the Hamptons.

And finally, the GIF you need when it's all just too much:

We can't believe this season is over either, NeNe

And don't forget to ease your #RHOA withdrawal with Kandi's Ski Trip this Sunday at 8/7c!

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