Gosh ladies (viewers) you are being unusually hard on Phaedra.  This is a show, entertainment, a money maker, period.  For anyone who chooses to watch HWOA, I'll assume that we're consenting adults.  I think they all have good, bad, positive, and negative images, just like in real life.  We all know the difference between right and wrong, and I don't think there is not one of us who has said something that we regret.

To Phaedra, I appreciate this blog regarding your health and you wanting to assist other people or at least reminding people to pay attention to their health.  I thank you.  Keep up the good work both you and your husband!  And to you and the other members of HWOA, GREAT SHOW!!

I hear people say all the time " you gotta meet people where they're at" while this is a true statement, some choose to use it as an excuse for bad behavior. Phaedra, you are a perfect example of this person. Yes, Jesus would sit with anyone deep in sin to show them the light and love. He would not pour dollar bills onto a strippers vagina, and complement how it was so prettily shaved and condone such sin. I can agree with you that the naked body is a work of art, but once again you take things out of context. The naked body is a work of art, strip clubs however are not artistic, it's a sad way for men and women to earn money. Just because there's a smile on the outside doesn't mean there's one on the inside. 

I think it's pathetic how you continue to take jab after jab at Kenya. Even though I'm not her fan, you constant jabs are showing that you're not better at being a good person than she is. 

I find it odd that you haven't blogged about anything recent. The Vegas trip, being ultra late to NeNe's party, Kandi's housewarming party,  Peter's event, the shoe dazzle event......nothing new from you. Could it be because you've shown your true colors. As I'm sure you know, there's redemption for everyone, but you have some explaining to do.

I liked you last season because you seemed to find your own lane from the other cast members and bring humor to the show but now you've shown you're a hypocrite with a mean streak. 

You say that Kenya is always bringing drama to the get-togethers, but then you intentionally mention Walter to get under Kenya's skin.  And then Kandi reveals that you and Apollo took it upon yourselves to invite Walter so that you could antagonize Kenya further.

You are nothing but an M & M, Ms. Parks: Mean and Messy.

Phaedra, thank you for showing all of us just who you really are.

Yes, we believe you!

Phaedra.....when you enter business ventures strictly for how much money it will make you.....it shows!!!!! From the funeral business, to the exercise video, to taking cash payments from your clients in a parking lot.....you look so foolish & just money hungry!!!!!

Phaedra, I hope you, one day soon, learn to work well with your co-stars. In previous seasons you did not seem comfortable with them. Instead you spent a lot of time doing your own thing with out them or spending time with Dwight planning stuff to try to wow the ladies into liking you. Going over the top with your baby shower and your son’s 12 cakes at his first birthday party. You try too hard.  You have a great job, an opportunity to be on RHOA, a husband and a baby and lot more. Be thankful for that. And most of all, stop showing us how insecure you are regarding Kenya. I guess you  can’t see what you are really revealing about yourself when you constantly criticize her. I know it must be hard to be around Kenya’s hazel eyes, the pretty hair, the boobs and the butt and especially the height. I also have the hazel eyes, the boobs, the thighs, the hair,  the small waist and big butt, caramel complexion and the height so,  I can understand how Kenya might feel when people automatically want to disregard your God given beauty. Like you telling people Kenya’s booty is fake and injected with stuff from home depot. Every single time they put the camera on you, you always say something negative to say about Kenya. Then you make sure you always bring up Walter and the last straw is when you invited him to Khandi’s house warming. Let go of the girl crush you have on Kenya. All of America knows who she is and only people in Georgia knew you until this cable show so go and focus on being some one you can be proud of when you go back and watch these episode by yourself or someday with your son.

Apollo was acting like a high school student waiting for something to go down between Kenya and Walter. He had this dumb looking smirk and smile on his face the entire time. Grow up and get a story line.

Phaedra.. Love your hair! You're always sharp as a tack. Do you and don't let the others get to you.

I WANT TO ASK U FOR A BIG FAVOR ,PLS STOP PUTTING UR FACE LIKE U DO, WHEN U TALKING SOMETIMES LOOK LIKE POPEYE... AND U BEAUTIFUL,PLS STOP.

Phaedra I freaking love you!!! I laughed my ass of when you said 'LOSER"!!!! I'm loving your one liners this season!! You definitely need to write book about being a southern belle!! write about all things southern!! southern wives tales, southern sayings!! And make sure to include all your one liners!!! 

I believe you are letting Kenya get to you. Stop you are by far a much better person than she is. Do not try to compete with her on anything. You have God on your side.(When you respect him) and she has the pure devil on her side, it shows. I think you are getting carried away to make sure your viewers like you more than her, you dont have to do that. Go back to being you, Kenya is already below you, people like you more, when you are being you.

Ye-eeeeeee-uck!

First of all, I am not a fan at all of Porsha. However, I did admire the way she stuck to what she believes by not going to the club with ladies. It must have been really hard to do with all the ladies putting so much pressure on her. I was a fan of Phaedra until she misrepresented Jesus. Yes, he did love and hang out with "the least of these" and prostitutes, and ministered to them all. How dare Phaedra compare that with going to a strip club and shoving dollar bills down some poor girls g-string. Also, I did not see her "ministering" or trying to help out one of those dancers. She was just interested looking and having fun with her friends. If some one wants to go to a club, then go. But don't misrepresent The Lord, in an effort to justify yourself. In the words of Camille Grammer, "That's not cool."

Phaedra, Jesus was among sinners to save them not "make it rain on them" and essentially encourage them to continue in their sin. Phaedra is getting a lot of backlash because of her hyprocrisy. If she waves a prayer cloth and walks around like a church lady, she can't be surprised that people will criticize for going to a strip club.  That's probably why she hasn't posted a blog in weeks.  She can't justify the hyprocrisy.

Phaedra, you're my favorite housewife.  You're so much smarter than the others (although I really like most of them).  I wish you would show your strengths more.  The exercise video is good, but it's not really you.  You need to become more cerebral on the show, that's where your strength is.  Also, forget about Kenya, she's not worth your time. 

Phaedra, it's ok to reach down to pick someone else up, But don't get down in the mud with them. Using the word to vindicate your morality maybe a bit hypocritical. I find your views about Jesus somewhat self-serving.

Phaedra was right it doesn't matter where you are Jesus was among the sinners.  Many christians are too judgemental and think their s*&6 don't stink.  If more folks went to these places maybe they would consider cleaning up some of their acts.  and on another subject Phaedra was there for Kenya when she was crying on the side of the road when Kenya's guy didn't propose to her....how quickly Kenya forget who was there for her.  And Kenya alway asking for an apology when she is calling someone out of there name.  And....she represents America as Miss USA???????????????????  Phaedra keep you man away from her and keep doing the great things you are doing with your businesses and community.  Oh, you son is so cute!

Phaedra,

I don't think people get what you really did to Kenya. She confided in you about personal and private family issues about the woman that gave birth to her and you used that against her. I say the person who gave birth to her, because I am just going by what she stated. A person can give birth to a child and not mother or be a mother to a child. I can't imagine that what that is like as a young child and that does carry on to the adult. I understand that you feel Kenya was wrong about the exercise video and imitating you, but I personally feel you hit below the belt. Regardless of what a person does to you, you don't have to stoop to that person’s level. This showed a different side of you. In my opinion, I would never want to confide in someone like you. You don't have to really be a person’s friend when someone feels a connection or feel they feel safe to tell you something so private - you don't go there and use it to hurt them. That makes you no better than the person you have issues with.

I know some people don't like Kenya and that is okay, but for the hatred and remarks makes them no better than what they are accusing Kenya of being.

I personally feel that Kenya should have handled the hurt different with you. I think she gave you power, because you are taking too much enjoyment of what you did. Again, it should not have been taken to a private/personal level.

I also think what is also sad, is that I know most that are with hating is coming from Black/African Americans. Will we ever learn? Let’s remember what is said about Blacks/African Americans about the crabs in the barrel and Jim Crow.

Phaedra, I think you are fabulous but in my opinion you were WRONG WRONG WRONG to come down on Porsha for avoiding the strip club because she of her faith. Being a patron of places like that sends the message that there is nothing wrong with what they are doing. It's NOT a witness to go dive in and party along with them in their iniquity...it just sends them a message of approval. Porsha was right on in her view of it, IMO.

i dont know how anyone can stand to listen to phaedra's annoying talking, she tries to talk so slang that i can barley understand her and those facial expressions please. are you educated or not? if so speak like it. kenya is way ahead of phaedra in sales on the exercise video...

I have no problem with what Phaedra says to Kenya she deserves what ever she gets. Am I the only one who saw the episode when Walter asked Kenya had she took her meds cause she was tripping, out but its not ok for Phaedra to say shes mental. As for going to the strip club that woman is rich sucessful and MARRIED. The sin is in indulging all she did was look. NO HARM NO FOUL.

Pseudo Southern Belle Phaedra’s use of Religion/Spirituality as a pretense to charm the viewer is beyond wicked and hypocrisy at its finest.

I used to find your confessional comments hilarious.

Now I just find them to be fueled by jealousy and bitterness. Also, the constant licking of the lips, discussing sex, and "diving in" to the stripper experience has gotten really disgusting. You're no southern belle, Phaedra. 

I like you for the most part. I do think Kenya was wrong for doing a video focusing on the buttocks". Nothing wrong with doing a video, but the focus point did not have to be the same. It was very vindictive on her part.

I must say however, that I am really confused by you this season. One minute you are a "southern Belle", you are educated, the next you are in a strip club telling a woman how pretty her kitty kat is. I have to agree with Nene, I thought you were going to dive in the kitty kat. lol

You are my favorite.

on WWHL the viewers voted for you at  76% . Kenya should feel real small.

I am sure you are not thinking about her, but she can't get you out of her head.

Phaedra, i about died laughing when you made the "Enjolie" comment last night!!! Too funny. Probably went over the head of the younger viewers, but you crack me up.

Phaedra, the "rabbit" test to detect pregnancy is when a woman's urine is injected into the rabbit.  If the rabbits ovaries swell and begin to produce hormones, then the woman was pregnant.  The "rabbit" died because it had to be autopsied to view the ovaries.  This was also done in mice and both were 98% accurate.

As for Kenya, well I gotta say I am on your side.  That girl is mean, vindictive and more crazy than I have seen in a long time.  Best to stay away from her.  Women like Kenya who don't get attention tend to go away  and we would like her to go away!

Glad you won the poll--as you should have.  Kenya is a mess.  She's proven to be a thief and liar with no integrity or ethics at all.  I was more that surprised that all the ladies attacked Porsha because she chose not to go to the strip club.  She is entitled to have her own beliefs (as all women should) so why the attack?  Also, I was beyond appalled that you actually tried to justify (and demean) Porsha by saying that Jesus kept the company of prostitutes thereby trying to say he condones it.  Are you serious?  I am a child of God and even though Jesus embraced all people, he healed them of prostitution--again, he didn't condone it.  And too, are you seriously trying to say that Jesus would have gone to a strip club for the show?  Aren't you a Minister's daughter - is that what your parents taught you?  Its insulting to all who believe in Jesus.  Its stupid that you thought that was a good argument to use against Porsha because she chose to stick to her beliefs and integrity.  Since you were so emphatic about being right, please tell us what part of the Bible says that Jesus went to strip shows for entertainment.  You need to hit your knees and ask for forgiveness and apologize to Phaedra and the viewers who believe in Jesus for those despicable comments.

I ride for you! Why? Because when all of this is over, you are well educated and able to move on with your life. Your behind the scenes credentials precede you, and you really don't have to do this, you choose to! Don't be swayed by others who need this! Keep doing YOU! The Real educated, married and stable women got your back!

You really showed your true colors last night.  If all of your talk about donkey booties, the male strippers you represent and tongue flicking action were not enough proof, most people understand by now that you are not a southern belle but a superfreak.  Your parents (the Pastors) must be so proud of your actions on tv. smh

Oh Phaedre.......Kendra's comment about you having unprotected sex w/a man fresh out of prison & lying about it has to sting!!!!! I don't think you're that dumb & surely Apollo had an HIV Test before the 2 of you became intimate.

Phaedra.....you cracked-me-up tonight when you made the statement about doctors, lawyers, & dummies, when referring to Porsha, & last week's housewife & whore comment in referring to Kenya!!!!! Where do you come-up w/this stuff?!?! 

But Honey.......I must say that you like going to Strip Clubs a little too much for my taste!!!! I guess it's a "Preacher's Daughter" thing!!!! Even commenting to the Strippers that you like the way they shave is just too much Honey!!!!! Nene was right.......I too thought that you would be taking a bite next.....lol!!!!!!

Phaedra, you are such a hoot to watch.  You have what all women want.  A handsome husband, a beautiful child.  You are successful at everything to put your mind to.  Your comfortable in your own skin.

Kenya is a pitiful person who apparently doesn't have an original idea.  Who would want to do business with this person who copies ideas.  She owes you an apology for copying your idea. She sounds like a fish wife.  She drove me to distraction trying to get Walter to propose to her. She clings to her beauty title which was over 20 years ago, its really sad this is all she can say about her life.  All her twirling, hair flipping is really pathetic..

For some reason Phaedra is my favorite, I don't care what the others have to say. She's does the same thing they all do but she just does it in a way without convicting herself.  Love that..

Phaedra you are too funny. I laughed this whole episode. Thanks for the laugh.

Phaedra, I don't see anywhere in scripture where Jesus made it "rain". He went among sinners because He said that , "The well don't need a doctor". He said, GO AND SIN NO MORE. How much of your parents' sermons were you actually listening to?