Porsha Stewart

Porsha dishes on how it was being on NeNe's bad side for the first time.

on Mar 5, 20130

Hi babes, I hope you all are having a great week! This Sunday’s episode was a shade fest to say the least. In the beginning I was so excited to visit my girl, see how she was doing in LA, and check out her new Hollywood home. We are all super proud of her success and were all more than happy to be there and show our support.

But by the time we got there everything changed. Granted we were late to her dinner, but being stopped in the driveway with a cheese plate? Wow. LOL! We ended up being late, because we didn't want to leave Phaedra and her flight didn't get there until about 10:30 or so. In hindsight maybe we should have just met her there, but at the time sticking together seemed like the right choice.

726 comments
norag
norag

Porscha.  You need to stand up and defend yourself.  Nene had no right to call you ignorant.  She was ignorant to allow the word to come out of her mouth.  She was ignorant not to know, yes a woman can start menopause in her 40s.  People can be naïve Nene.  

ogates
ogates

Kordell is controlling and a JERK!  Move on--your young and beautiful and can do whatever you want--so go want and be and enjoy your new found freedom!

And Cordell--Cordell who???  LOL!

Grageo
Grageo

I get that everyone isn't blessed with intelligence, but a Black woman from the south who thinks that the Underground Railroad involved actual trains is a special kind of stupid.  If it wasn't already clear, it certainly is now -  girl, you are dumber than a doorknob.  

p-note
p-note

Porsha I think its extremely disrespectful that you haven't posted one blog since the season began!! Aren't you'll supposed to be posting a blog every week??!! and to boot your a new housewife!!! Maybe next season you won't be back??!!

Beckyy
Beckyy

Porsha, you need to get up out of your moms house.  You are not a kid.  You are in la-la land......grown up !  You need to start trying to decide what you want to do with rest of your life.  At (24?) you are way too old to be back in that "I'm a princess mode.  Until you get yourself together (for yourself) you'll always be IN YOUR MAMA'S HOUSE ACTING LIKE A LITTLE GIRL.  Why do you think Kordell married you..... you acted like a little girl he could control.  At some point and time you get tired of the little girl. 

ETM
ETM

Porsha - I know what it is like to try to be a good wife and stick for your man.  Thank God he left you like the CAD he is.  You will SHINE now -  you are beautiful and intelligent, and you do have the friends on the show as well as your family and other friends.  And last but not least you have the Lord - who WILL help you through this.  Keep praying and stand tall - you are strong enough to make it on your own, even though it may not feel like it right now - HE will give you strength.

pebblez
pebblez

Please know its ok to be hurt, upset, angry and even bitter. You are human and your emotions are your emotions. But im sure you will overcome this you just have to keep moving and doing you.

GDukes
GDukes

Porsha please stop crying and get off the show  you talk out of both side of your mouth you married for the money and what it got you.

Rebek
Rebek

Porsha, never thought I would drop my .5cents in the bucket to comment about you. However, i must after "listening" to you in this episode where Kordell saga has been revealed. Hon - you surely are not the brightest but you sure are a good girl! I pray that you will find your way to the light because Kordell is your darkness -  He is manipulative controlling and he wants you to be "submissive!"  - Perhaps joining the show blossomed some new wings on you, however, - he is obtuse, narrow minded, and really, i wouldnt' doubt if this man ended up being gay and he is having personal issues within himself. Hopefully that isn't the case, not there is nothing wrong about being gay but you shouldn't take your fears or challenges on someone you said you love and committed too.  Be true to yourself and move forward, there is THE right man out there for you and like your momma said, this one is not it!!! your mom is very beautiful by the way!   Kordell is a troubled soul especially if he has no feelings of regret or remorse on his behavior. Forget him and move on. Even if he calmed down a bit,he will revert to being a d..ck!! - You take care of yourself  that NOW that he is OUT you are going to begin your life, the right one for you. the one that will fulfill you.

Good luck  toots and dont waste tears on this dude..... (but hey! we all cry to release the frustration!) 

B1YB1S
B1YB1S

PORSHA... find yourself, and be true to yourself! Thatz it! It's all albout you!

jillmc
jillmc

Porsha, you are so pretty, inside and out. You have a lot God wants you to accomplish in your life!!  As a 1 time divorcee too, my advice is to not rush into anything to serious right away, be you, and learn from this what you do NOT want in a relationship. You deserve to be treated like a princess, and to be heard and supported in your dreams by a man. I know it may hurt now, but it does go away. I look forward too seeing the good things you do in the future. I know family is important to you, you are so young, that will come when you least expect it. I was once told to not be the type of woman that let a man ruin my life, and I'm glad that seems to be your philosophy as well.  Be strong and much love from Tyler, TX!

bakeyaya
bakeyaya

I'm really late on the take up and only watching the episodes now.  I don't even know yet how the season ends.  However I had to post the following comment...  When you had your blowout with Kenya in Anguilla, you kept throwing her age in her face.  Come on girl, its 2013.  It's no longer an insult to be 40.  If you are lucky, you'll get to be 40 some day too.  I thought that was really disrespecting to all women in their 40s and older out there.

EloiseM
EloiseM

I am just on here being nosey.  I want to wish you and Kordell a very fun filled summer.  Filled with lots of family activities.  Hoping you get a big opportunity to clear your mind and began making the right choices for life.  IMO, Real Housewives of ATL would not be one of them.  Stay sweet and real.  So happy to have seen such a positive young lady on screen like you.

SaraJan
SaraJan

Porsha, you are lucky to be out of this marriage - you are still young, you don't have kids and have your whole life ahead of you. This dude was just to controlling and annoying and insecure, you wouldn't be happy in the long term because he wouldn't have let you live your dreams. Good luck, you deserve a better future than he was ready to offer you

dont_be_stupid736
dont_be_stupid736

Porsha,

You are smart, beautiful etc.  You deserve better than Kordell.  He's controlling and full of himself.  MOVE ON to someone better

hannah79
hannah79

Kordell is controlling.  You can get any man.  What is a young beautiful woman doing with an old man like that?  You deserve better.

Theresa.
Theresa.

Porsha I think you are the best one on that show and the prettiest.  Stay true to who you are don't let the ghetto trash take you to where they are.  I like Ne Ne but she listened to much to back stabbing Cynthia.  She is really jealous of you big time.  She is a snake in the grass. She can't even talk its her second marriage and only been with Peter for a year.  I can't wait for Peter to wake up and leave her and all those ugly wigs of hers.  Phadra I liked her some.  I am sorry to hear about your marriage but believe me with your looks and attitude there is a wonderful man out there just waiting for a good person like you.

snowflakegirl66@gmail.com
snowflakegirl66@gmail.com

LOVED it when you took kenya down on the reunion show. HAHAHA. as far as Kordell, you deserve better. 

Beckyy
Beckyy

HI Porsha, I loved you on the DISH how.  You were very good.  Perhaps they will let you fill in from time-to-time.  Good luck and your career.  I'm I reading it right that Kordell wants to get back with you?  If you get back together, you need to let him know what you want out of the relationship (mother and career) and settle for nothing less.  I had a job and was a mother to two girls and was able to handle it.   It's a two-way street, you can do both....and if you can afford a nanny .....get one !

pebblez
pebblez

Hey Porsha, all I can say is don't try trusting any of these ladies. None of them will ever have your back. As for kordell, he will do whatever to look good in the eyes of others. That's the whole reason he filed for divorce. He is shady. But I think u should follow your heart as as far as whether or not you should give him a second chance. If u do just know what your dealing with.

SHE.
SHE.

I hope to see what Porsha brings to the show. Kordell stands out and Nene seems to be jealous of the relationship. Porsha has that great body while Nene is back n fwd getting her tummy sucked to look ok. Kordell holds it down like a man should for his lady. All some can do is point the fact that he wasn't there to support Porsha, but duh they were going thru things. Some staff is very jealous of Porsha I see and I'd like to see more of the new attitude of Porsha. She's stepping out. She's so real that some staff members tried making her look boring. By far she was not boring. Wish she and Cynthia got along better Would like to see more of Cynthia & her dude with Porsha & Kordell. Waiting for that spin off and new baby. I'd like to see Porsha be a stay at home mom sort of so we can see more of her. Would be great if she could have twins to watch grow up. She seems like a nice caring lady to others. Nene likes to hate on the pretty. Hmm is that where Sheree little pretty self went. I know Sheree & Porsha would have gotten along great. They both seem nice. If you don't kiss Nene bottom, she rips you. Be careful cast members and keep eyes open.

Shonalee
Shonalee

Girl, you need to leave your husband! It's hard to even watch!!!!

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

You came on the show  together with Kenya and she's not asking any of the ladies to uplift her. She  stood her grounds and defended herself where she felt the need to. If you on the  other hand needed their support, you should then learn how to zip it  as it's the only way you could hear, understand and learn from them.

You run your mouth like the parrot and i have to agree how impressed i was  with Kenya ignoring you during the time she was talking about her hair.

OMG! why can't you get over yourself? I  don't get it! What has this lady done to you that is worse than the hateful  name  calling you have directed towards her? What do you really  have to compare yourself to her any way?

At 32 you're not a  child! The world does NOT revolve around you! Enough about you already and for  Christ sake grow up!

EloiseM
EloiseM

Porsha, you come across on television as a very nice (though confused about what you really want in life) person.  I really like you.  I like you and Kordell even better.  That being said........I DID NOT KNOW CYNTHIA WAS JEALOUS OF YOU.  Kordell is a very good judge of character and has your back. Her jealousy came across loud and clear when I looked at the RHOA secrets revealed.  I was truly dissappointed in her, being I only started watching this show because I liked her.  Kordell was right when he said, of all the women, you and Cynthia should get along.  I guess the "Lil green monster" got a hold of her early on.  Not hating on Cynthia, just an observation.  Best wishes to you and your family though.

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

Porsha, Porsha, Porsha!

You're such a beautiful young woman and it hurt to see you just hurt like this with your first and new marriage. Keep hope alive and by HIS GRACE you would find love again. Everybody deserves to be loved and mr right would find you.

With that said, I watched a video of you preaching about GOD'S HELMET OF SALVATION. I thought you were fantastic and, i wonder why have you turned from this young Evangelist into a little monster with so much hate and hurtful words towards someone to the extent of almost getting chocked on your own venom of words?

God doesn't like ugliness, and you must accept that you treated Kenya badly. Despite your differences, she never got personal with you and Phaedra and you know it. 

All season long you tried to make her feel less of a woman because you saw her struggle with a relationship which she was made to believe was based on mutual genuine love. You disrespected her every possible chance you got. From her head to her toes you had something nasty to say to humiliate her but, because she's a strong educated accomplished woman, she was able to handle it with grace.

 Frankly, I think you went on the show NOT PROTECTING yourself with GOD'S HELMET.

 As women, we're not defined by marriage. Therefore, there's nothing wrong NOT being married or being a happy house wife to a rich man who can love, respect, honor and cherish you. But knowledge is power and you need to go back to school to acquire some knowledge so that when you get to Kenya's level, you would understand where she's coming from.

This is a perfect opportunity for you to grow up and to humble yourself. Have you asked yourself how and why you rubbed your marriage in this woman's face, wished her bad and all of a sudden misfortune stroke you and that marriage exists no more? ...And you still have to face her? No i guess. It's because mother universe has a law! I leave the rest for you to think about it.

 GOOD LUCK!

nannan01@
nannan01@

Porsha PLEASE tell me it's not true that Kordell is wanting you to back together and work on your marriage..Lady please do not be so dumb to fall for his BS he does not like it that eveyone is standing up for you and kicking him to the carub. He is a AH and he loves you about as much as you love Kenya.. Please NEVER go back to that bumb he does not derserve to be in the same room with you..IF you take him back thar will be the boggest mistake you ever make in your life, you now know what he thinks and feels about you.. Believe me you can do a hundred times better than Kordell the name alone makes my skin crawl, and you would loss a lot of respect of your friends IF you take him back. Remember 1 thing a lespard does not change his spots and Kordell will not chang except tp make you pay for the way people see the real Kordell and it will NEVER be where anyone but you see it. Than he will leave you again with even wilder tells about you.... PLEASE USE  BRAIN AND NOT YOUR HEART WHERE THIS PERSON (I cannot even call him a man bc it takes more than 3 legs to make a male A MAN)

cbennett1
cbennett1

Porsha I love you because I know that you have a good heart.  I can feel it.  Please learn how to listen.  I used to have the same problem, cutting people off when they are speaking is rude; but I learned that when I listened entirely, I was able to respond in a better fashion.  

jazziegirl58
jazziegirl58

Stop getting into someone else's fight you have the biggest battle of all of them.  While you were talking mad crazy at Kenya, your husband was at the courthouse.  Mind your business, it's the only way you can stay on top of it.

Jodibelle
Jodibelle

I love Porsha's energy.  I think she does all she can to be a positive person.  

Judysea
Judysea

Porsha, I have enjoyed your flair and whimsy on this season of RHOA. But during the reunion part 3 when you made that impassioned plea to the other housewives you kept saying, "I wanted this", or "I wanted that" I, I, I, I.

Go back and view that segment again...not too good a look. Yes...you had expectations but others do too, including your husband. Tears do not always make us right. A little more awareness of other is always a good thing. Looking forward to seeing you grow into the wonderful woman you are destined to be.

 

kcat
kcat

Why dont you let anyone else talk?  You are forever interrupting with your point of view (which isnt very impressive, I might add).  You have no idea what the world i really like and you think everyone should revolve around you -- sure hope you grow up BEFORE you try to have any children!

rcoats
rcoats

Porsha. You are fake. Time to leave the show. You are not a housewives anymore. You are a divorced woman. You failed.

truthisalwaysbetter
truthisalwaysbetter

The one part on my previous comment should say "you both are going" not "you bith are going"

truthisalwaysbetter
truthisalwaysbetter

I feel that you as a woman knew what you were getting into. You stated that you basicly informed him that you wanted to be a housewife. You guys discussed you staying home and taking care of the kids, then you decided to change up.  I believe that it's important not to state anything that you really dont want to  man or woman in a relationship because it causes confusion later on. You bith are going down different paths and you both deserve whomever makes you'll happy. If there was true love then it would not have started off with lies. you want a career and adventure of life. I dont feel you want children at this time in your life and he does of course so you have to except thatyou both were not really ready to accomadate one another nd make it work. You both weren't. No need for sympathy if you both keep it real, and just move forward. and once again truthalwaysisbetter.

SelaLeah
SelaLeah

I feel like we got to know Porsha more during part 3 of the reunion than we did all season.  If she does decide to continue with the show (and I have a feeling she will), I hope she will continue to be authentic and real and not try to play the role of a mindless barbie doll.  I do think the women tried to support her in her relationship by calling attention to Kordell's very controlling ways.  But she became very defensive and insisted she was a happy stay-at-home mom.  I give the other women credit for trying to guide her especially after watching her own family (mother and sister) on the show talking about what a wonderful marriage they have and how Kordell treats Porsha so well by dressing her and giving her access to his money.  It is sad when the truth and real concern comes from strangers and not from your own family.  

Best of luck to you Porsha!

cindy1963
cindy1963

Porsha,

   I just want to let you know that I have been a fan of yours all season. I know a lot of other people think that you don't deserve to be on the show for whatever reason but I do hope to see you on RHOA next season (without Kenya). I'm sure I'm not the only one who wishes that last part. LoL. On a more serious note, I do wish you the best in your life. I do know how difficult it is because I went through the same thing, married someone much older, it only lasted a few years but it turned out that we just did not fit right together. It hurts in the beginning but it does get easier, trust me. You are still very young and beautiful so I know God has a bigger and better plan for you, never doubt that. He always takes care of us. Please don't let anyone (Kenya) bring you down. Stay sweet, cute and most of all HUMBLE. Humility goes a very long way! Don't change who you are because it is very rare to see someone as humble as you are on these shows. Some women let all this "fame" go to their heads and the next thing you know, they are completely different people. Stay true to yourself. Enjoy your summer and I hope to see you on Bravo next season. God bless you and your family today and always!

EloiseM
EloiseM

 @pebblez

 Somehow, I don't believe it is Porsha who is giving Kordell a second chance; rather it is Kordell who is giving Porsha a second chance.  Kordell didn't change his mind as to what kind of marriage he wanted.  Porsha did and still seems to be struggling with her life's desires (if Nene Leakes is truthful about Porsha texting her everyday....all day).  If this is true, then Porsha, whom I have dearly loved since I started watching this show; is TRULY PATHETIC AND STUPID.  Who in their RIGHT mind would listen to the advice of someone on a reality show OR would chose being friends and on a reality show OVER her marriage????

nannan01@
nannan01@

 @pebblez you are so right Porsha better not trust these so called ladies,,and Kordell is a jerk  and the only reason he is now saing he wants you back is because he looked like the a** he is and people took Porsha's side..

EloiseM
EloiseM

 @SHE.

 I caught  that same impression of Nene regarding Porsha's marriage.  She is jealous, and threatened by it.  If Porsha continue to keep in contact with Nene, then she is crazy.  To even suggest someone continue to be on a show, an unflattering-to-women show at that  without her HUSBAND IS  truly ludicris. 

sheila.lopez.967
sheila.lopez.967

 @@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

 The only person who constantly runs their mouth is Kenya because she's very envious of the other ladies and she truly dislike Porsche. Kenya is a 40yr old nut that  that is always creating problems and lying  about things that Porsche supposingly told, like the tall tale that Porsche supposingly that Nene and Cynthia is gay, she made the whole thing up because she wanted Nene and Cynthia to be angry with her. She's a very hateful person it shows in her facial expression, eyes and the way that she treats the young woman. You stated that Porsche runs her mouth like a parrot because she corrected Kenya about all her own hair lie well she was right because she lied period, and by the way that was just wishful thinking on Kenya part with that lie. You ask the question what this lady done to her well clearly unless you're blind you can see that she just don't like Porsche and it's out of her being  jealous and just plain being hateful. You need to tell Kenya the same crap that you're shoving down Porsche throat. Kenya needs to grow up and stop flicking that darn fan and rolling her big eyes before she hurt one of the ladies that have to sit next to her. You need to tell Kenya the same thing that she's not a child at 40 plus. By the way Christ has nothing to do with her messy behavior.

Lo_1
Lo_1

 @@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

 I agree, she had to go after her one last time.  The fact is that Kenya's hair is real and hers isn't.  Porsha is so childish, grow up, what are we in elementary.

 

Posrha, why don't we talk about all yor fakery since you like to point out her Kenya's fake this and that...smh.

 

Tell us what you really have or accomplished on your own????

randrew
randrew

 @nannan01@

 That's funny this is the first post I've read here. Just heard on the Wendy William's show that she knows some guy that owns a website (knows every thing about all the HW's) that they were going to be fired because of no drama, so they made up that divorce story. I hope that's not true... NOT cool if it is...

sheila.lopez.967
sheila.lopez.967

 @jazziegirl58

What are you talking about ?, Kenya is the one who just refuse to be cordial to this young woman okay, and that is because she's jealous and envious period. Kenya  lied to Cynthia stating that Porsche accuse Nene and her to be lovers, now I know for sure she had no such conversation with that witch because she hates her period and she cannot hide it because it shows in her facial expression. You need to tell Kenya the same to mind her business. Kenya cannot hide her outrageous dislike for some of the ladies because it shows in her facial expression and eyes. She have to stop hating and all will be well, any ways she were never married and have no husband..

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

 @jazziegirl58

 I like your comment. You're one of the few on this blog who sees the actual problem she's pretending never existed/exists.

Perhaps, if she had payed more attention to Kordell and, had focus more on what's important in her marriage instead of being obsessed with Ms Moore, she would have known why and when Kordell filled for divorce.

Laying in another room next the another where your husband is and not knowing he's gone to file for divorce, but speaks so ill against a woman you barely know speaks volumes about you Porsha. Not good girl!

@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1
@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

 @kcat

 

Agreed! She comes across like a rude spoiled child who never had any home training what so ever. She wanted the ladies to uplift her when through out the whole season she's shown to the world she was a grown woman who had it all. A picture perfect life as she puts it.

I don't believe a word that comes out of her month. No more a fan!

nannan01@
nannan01@

 @cindy1963 @ love the advice you gave I hope she takes it. I to know what she is going throug. I have been married 37 years and they have not all been easy. The only reason Kordell is talking about wanting to give their marriage is because he has had his ass kicked by Porshas fans. I pray she has learned a lesson and NEVER TEUST Kordell again...

bunnie492
bunnie492

 @Lo_1  @@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1  @GODISGOODALLTHETIME1  She does wear extentions!!! All of that is not Kenya's hair. She has length on her hair but not that much. Shoulder length hair; I saw it in person  at the airport in Atlanta!! Kenya contnues to tell lies!!!

EloiseM
EloiseM

 @Lo_1  @@GODISGOODALLTHETIME1  @GODISGOODALLTHETIME1

 If you really believe Kenya's hair is 100% all hers (natural), then I have a bridge I'd like to sell you.  As for Porsha's accomplishments, who the h............. cares.  It only matters to Porsha, NOT US.  And if she even attempts to validate such stupid questions like that and Kenya's then she is really young and foolish/stupid.  We've al seen enough of Kenya to really know her ACCOMPLISHMENTS, don't we?  Thinbk on that, will ya?

nannan01@
nannan01@

@randew I hope this was not just for the rateings for the show and IF it is I am sure to tell every site I can and we all should boycot Bravo all together and than maybe we can make the shows know we will not take it....