Porsha, your charity event was off-track on at least a couple of fronts: (1) it became the Porsha and Kordell Show about the dress Kordell bought you and all the money he wanted everybody to know he donated; (2) unless Kenya was to give a presentation she should not have been introduced, thus giving you the opportunity to botch her title then add more tackiness by discharging her from the event. She was there on the same level and for the same reason as all of the other guests - to support the cause for the children. Jumping right back in to stir the pot in Antigua about the charity event fiasco after things had calmed down was more than enough. Refusing to hear Kenya out when you met with her and called her "ashy" was ridiculous. But putting Kenya down with "Maybe you'd understand that if you get a husband" after she commented with the "let me" remark in Vegas I believe was, for your Heavenly Father, "the straw." Fast forwarding to now, tell me. After Kordell "let" you go to Vegas only to not long after find out - from others - that you are to no longer have your husband, how much do you REALLY understand?
All of the above times and others not mentioned (i.e. Reunion Pt. 1) were wellsprings of opportunities for you to STRAIGHTEN UP AND FLY RIGHT, lil' sister, in making SINCERE efforts to mend fences with Kenya, as she has done with Cynthia., Our Father does not like ugly; He giveth - and taketh - away.
I sincerely pray and hope for you that going through this divorce process will cause you to WAKE UP, BE HUMBLE. STOP JABBING AND BEING SO WILLING TO DIG INTO OLD WOUNDS YOU CAUSE OR REJOICING WHEN SOMEONE ELSE HAS A BEEF WITH SOMEONE YOU DON'T GET ALONG WITH . Life is short.