Hello good people, I hope your week is going as you planned so far. Let’s jump right in. This past weekend I sat down with a bowl of popcorn and enjoyed watching RHOA just like all of you. I was ready for a crazy episode, and boy was I not disappointed.
Arriving at the airport, I was so excited to go to Anguilla with the ladies and thankful that Cynthia and Peter had extended the invitation to me and my husband to accompany them there. I love traveling with my hubby, and any chance to have a great time with some romance involved, no need to ask, you can count me in! LOL! It was great to meet all the ladies and their better halves. You know how it is when you meet a person and then you meet their mate you think, "Yes you all definitely match each other." That's how I felt about the couples in this group, well, except for one I had to *side eye*.
The atmosphere was just perfect for any loving couple and just the type of place to bring someone, seal the deal, and get engaged. Yay! For me from the outside looking in, I would have guessed it would be Kandi and Todd or NeNe and Gregg. As for the odd couple, I must say the prospect of a blissful marriage seems no closer to happening than hell freezing over. LOL! But I still wish you luck. Everyone deserves love.
Anyway, let's get into the Big Buns or Double Side of Mash. Child, Miss Pheadra showed up and showed out. I definitely feel like she was showing Kenya what's been holding my hubby down. Get it, girl! But as for me, I would have done it a little differently. I just feel that my reaction to another woman pushing my man would have been to kindly shove her in the lovely pool as a return favor instead of allowing my husband to return the playful gesture. Boom! I simply feel it was in bad taste as she said, and for me watching that again on TV, I completely see why Ms. Parks felt disrespected. However, I have to give Ms. Parks credit for shutting down the indecent proposal offered by Kenya, asking whether she and a friend could have a go at her husband. Side Bar: It’s funny who thinks they’re a great role model.
mrs parks-has a mind as well as a body shes a go getter---and family-shes a force to be reckon with. that outfit she wore was just a reminder to her husband what he had at home---if a woman was that bold to flirt with my husband i would of done as mrs parks did show class--but dont get me wrong---i belive mrs. parks can get down and dirty at the right place and right time--shes no push over.
Pay no attention to the insane Kenya. If Bravo has a brain they will not have her back on the show next season.
Porsha, listening to you and your story last night about Cordell blindsiding you. I can truly sympathize with you. My ex did the exact same thing. 20 years later, he never came clean on why he wanted this divorce. My advice to you is to get him out of the house now. I lived with my ex for 3 years and it was total hell.
Good luck to you and I do hope things work out for you. You deserve better. Maybe Kenya and Cordell can get together...that would be something they both deserve.
I have already said that I think you are a refreshing addition to the show. When you said "265 days a year" it was cute. Anyone can make a mistake like that, and they will never let you live it down, but don't let it worry you. The more people see of you, the more they see an intelligent, sincere, and sweet young woman. If anything, you might be a little too nice, so don't let anyone insult you.
When Kenya starts to push your buttons (and she does), don't stoop to her level. Rise above. Calling her "Ashy" is not rising above. You can think all you want about Kenya, but once you say it, it puts you in the arena with her. You are far better than that.
Kenya is a person I "love to hate". She adds so much drama to the show, and therefore, contributes to the success of the show. So in a way, everyone should be grateful to Kenya. She's either a really good actress, a real crazy bitch, or a little bit of both. Whatever the case, thanks, Kenya, for doing your part, and thanks Porsha for being who you are.
And thanks to all the cast of RHOA for the entertainment you provide to us, your audience!!!!
Hey Porsha! Love you, girl! You are so refreshing to watch each week. I just hope you steer clear of that nut Kenya! I just watched the episode where Kenya had the nerve to call you for lunch for a bunch of mess she's trying to start - the whole divide and conquer thing! It's a good thing you put her in her place!
Love the blog Miss Lady!! I am pro #TeamPorsha! I think you have done more than enough trying to be nice to Kenya Moore. It's sad that you being younger she does NOT embrace you. I'm young and I have older friends and these ladies are the BEST!! Yes, they have corrected me when I make mistakes but it has not been to the point of down right rude and nasty as Kenya has been to you. I think Kenya has MISSED a certain season in her life and she see that Porsha (you) are embracing where you are at this time and Kenya is jealous. Porsha has a fabulous home, married to a great guy, young and vibrant, working on adding to her family and her grandfather did leave an inheritance for his children's children. We have heard the saying, "A WISE man leaves an inheritance for his children's children," so we understand and guess what I'm NOT mad at all. It worked for The Hilton's so why not The Williams' family?! I liked when Cordell said Porsha don't owe Kenya anything else. Porsha has a LEADING man, he will lead his family. Love it!!!
Porcsha ... oh, I'm sorry, Porsha ... without a 'C'?? Funny because you can't seem to say the proper word 'PICTURE' in your intro ... it's P I C (as in K) T U R E ... not P I T C H E R ... which is how you say it. Now, I'm not exactly a fan of Kenya ... but at least she can speak like a grown up!!!
Funny! And that's why they're together. She's not concerned about a prenup, she brought nothing to the marriage, and has nothing to lose. Of course she's not leaving her husband - her entire identity is based on MRS. Kandi on the other hand, is a business women, with 'assets'! Big difference!!!
yvonnegraham I was listening to Steve Harvey's radio show this morning, and he said that he also has NO PRE-NUP., because he doesn't need one, never plans to do anything wrong nor leave his wife... With that said and done, KORDELL isn't the only man for you to call dumb dumb in your world of thinking... It's a wonderful thing to have a man love you just that much by his personal choice without one...SMH
SweetHarts I think that a page can be taken from Paul McCartney: before divorce, his net worth was over a billion dollars. He had no pre-nup and I am sure did not plan for his marriage to end. Yet, it did. Now, his ex has HALF of his fortune. Yah, I call that dumb! ;)
thank you nastybaby. thats what im sayin. i forgot about paul mccartney. how can you be worth millions male or female and not have your furture husband/wife sign a prenup. no one who gets married thinks its gonna end in divorce but things happen.
Nastybaby Well things happen in the world of marriage... People who make money realize it, and they still choose what they want, and if it's not to have one so be it...
Money makers usually can make more money only those who have a problem with it will get a pre-nup... The ones who don't have a problem about having one in place will consider their move out of LOVE...
AIN'T NOTHING WRONG WITH DOING WHAT YOU WANT ABOUT MONEY MATTERS FROM THE HEART...!!!
SweetHarts "...only those who have a problem with it will get a pre-nup..." Again, I disagree (respectfully, of course). Call me cynical, but I've seen too many broken marriages wherein one person was naive, loved blindly and lost significantly. Now, Paul McCartney will obviously recover some--if not all--of his loss, as he is a Beetle, afterall. However, there are many people who, if they lost half of their worth, would not be so lucky. I have a brother who is married to one of the laziest, trifling women I know. If they were to divorce, he'd have to pay a heap in alimony. A pre-nup would have protected him. Like I mentioned, "dumb".
russell brand and katy perry russell got 20 million, kelsey n camille gramer, kelsey making 1.6 million an episode for frazier, camielle gets half, mel gibson n robin gibson robin gets 90 million, madonna n guy ritchie guy gets 92 million. just to name a few IN MY WAY OF THINKING. like kandi said when its over they come for your pockets
yvonnegraham The men who have a problem with it, will do so, but the ones who don't never will... I can give you some good stories about the industry, many couples of old I do know... I'll be 66 years of age this year... We'll have the PAFF next month here in Southern Cali, and they will be in town once again from all over the world for two weeks... If you are here, join me and you can hear about it first hand, instead of reading about a few... Like I said, it's a man's personal choice... Kandi should do so because of her rep and track record with men... :D
u r right kordell isnt the only man i can call dumb dumb as u will see in my next comment
Sweet Porsha ~ don't worry about all this here hate... Kenya once again have devoted so much attention to you on her latest written blog, yet she say's she's over it... SMH
If she was so over you, why doesn't she have a closed mouth about anything she's saying about you every time she blogs... Is this really the mature example of herself she claims to set for all the younger girls to see ...??? IJA
SweetHartsPorcha seems to be way more focused on Kenya then vice versa. Porcha is the foul mouthed classless one. Her calling Kenya raisin face and such is like junior high level.
Hello Porsha, I am enjoying watching you on the show. You and Kordell are "Barbie" and "Ken".. so cute together. However, please stop calling Kenya old, Kenya may not be perfect but she is still a very attractive successful sister. Don't downgrade her. It is blessing to age gracefully with health and strength. You would be blessed to age as well as Kenya has. Fight fair, don't hit below the belt. As the grandchild of a humanitarian and civil rights activist, I would think that you would appreciate Kenya's place in history as the first black Ms USA. Your grandfather as well as thousands of Americans fought for freedom, equality and opportunity for all Americans.
@MsValley WELL SPOOKEN. I HOPE YOUR ADVICE WILL HAVE A POSITIVE EFFECT ON HER. HOWEVER, I DON'T GET THE "Barbie" and Ken" THING THOUGH. ANYWAY, A CARING MOTHER WILL CALL HER CHILD ALL THE BEAUTIFUL THINGS IN THE WORLD JUST TO PERSUADE HER TO EAT HER FOOD OR TAKE HER MEDICATION. I CAN RESPECT THAT.
Technically no. Carol Gist got it by only as runner up and by default when Vanessa Williams was disqualified. Kenya was the first black woman to be selected as Miss USA after Vanessa.
lianna12 yvonnegraham MsValley Um, nope. Vanessa Williams was the first African-American Miss AMERICA. Carol Gist was the first Miss USA who was African-American. Two different pageants. Kenya was the SECOND black woman to be selected as Miss USA after CAROL.
what. these are two different pagents. carol gist, kenya moore won miss USA. vanessa williams won MS AMERICA
Why in the world is every one being so mean to Porsha. She has gone out of her way to try and connect with fake Kenya Moore. Fake Kenya Moore is the one who keeps being rude and disrepecful to Porsha. Porsha invited her to her grandftathers home to a charity event and Kenya showed her ass. That is why she left. She has no common courtesy. So freaking what if Porsha got the title wrong. She apologized! Get over yourself has been beauty queen! Regular people aren't into titles. Only fake people are into titles hense Fake Kenya Moore!
Porsha thinks she's 'pitcher' perfect (LMBO), and Kenya ...well, like she said - she won miss usa, not miss congeniality. Fact is - they tell us who they are in the shows intro - and they both are being judged based on how they've descibed "themselves".
Hello Porsha, I first want to say you do look like Solange a litte, both of you are funny looking. Secondly, you were disrespectful to Kenya. Your husband wouldn't want someone mistaking him for another football player so you should understand Kenya's point. He wouldn't want someone mistaking him for a quarterback when in fact he played another position, so get a clue. Kenya won Miss USA not Miss America and for the record, the MIss USA title is under the Miss America title. That should tell you that Kenya was not willing to accept being called Miss America which is actually a higher title, she was being honest. As an African American woman, you should be proud to have met Kenya, someone who done something that is rare in our community. You also started the fight in Anguilla. Kenya told you she was over what happend but you continued until things got very heated, not cool. Kenya is not jealous of you, why would she be? She's way more beautiful than you, naturally beautiful. You are all horse sweety but I will admit I believe you have a beautiful body and you should be the one doing the donkey booty video, not Phaedra or Kenya.
Yes, you are wise. I'm still not getting the 'Kenya is jealous of Porsha thing'. Why? Because she has a rich husband? Chile please, men come and go - just ask all them ex basketball/NFL wives. What intelligent women is jealous of an airhead? Beauty fades - dumb is forever.
Ms. Porsha, you are a beautiful, young and rich lady and Ms. Kenya has jealous written all over her face. Do your thing and don't look back.
beautiful?------- kenya has proved she is more beautiful by winning a crown for just that. kenya is aging beautifully. lets check out porsha in about 8 yrs.
Young----- 32 yrs old? alright if you say so.
Rich-----in what way. she doesnt work( no resume) and her husband will soon leave her so where is this rich thing coming from?
@love4me So all what you see in this little girl is her beauty and riches? With all due respect, will you and others stop misleading this poor thing?
Porsha when you open up your mouth the wrong thing flops out. You do not like Kenya and if anyone is jealous is YOU! Your actions have clearly stated this. Remember you seeked Kenya out she did not seek you out. You continue to go after her with a vengence. I remember you telling your husband half truth about why the fight started. You basically liked to your husband. You my dear are an undercover trouble maker with that innocent smile of course. Kenya makes no apology for who she is but you...you try to create this wholesome, happily married doe eye 32 year old (oooops 12, I forgot you do not age) child. You need to change Porsha, you have to change your heart and grow.
@TristateFan Thank you! That little girl can not change. She feels the whole world revolves around her. Gradually she's getting exposed of her devilish mean spirited dubious ways towards Ms Kenya, the other cast mates and even towards his own husband. If she can't tell husband a simple truth, u can imagine what she's hiding from him. She is a NO GOOD giirl who has BAD INFLUENCE on our young viewers. Left to me alone, she should be kicked off the show!
am sorry but am still lost with the porsha is young thing. is she not 32 yrs old?. in 8 yrs she will be in the dreaded, nursing home bound 40's. i think she's got all of you guys drinking out of her kool aid and believing in her 265 dys calender. dont worry aggie69 i've got your back. i am praying for you and you will soon be freed from her 265 dys a year calender.
Porsha is immature. Why did she even approach Kenya again at Nene's going away party? Because she is unwise...and doesn't know how to discern when to just leave well enough alone. Kenya shut her down, granted it was rude of Kenya, but heck I was thinking the same thing....like lady - just go away from me! Notice Porsha hasn't blogged again? She has nothing to discuss nor insight into any other matters other than Kenya........O, and her husband, and eating yams n thangs.
I have never commented on these shows, but I have to right now... Porsha, please read & LEARN; Tina Turner relinquished all assets she earned while married to Ike Turner in order to be awarded the use of her married name, TURNER, once they divorced. In other words, despite it being a painful reminder of bad marriage she new that she had help make that name become a valuable commodity.
tina turner already had a musical career and was known around the world by the name turner so it made sense that she kept that name.
nursenj malow96 OMG ~ nursenj you're so young, but even at your age of age 28, should know that many women all over the world return to their maiden name's after divorce with or without making a name for themselves... Mainly because they wish to no longer carry the ex-husbands name...!!! SMH
NOW WHO'S ACTING LIKE DUMB DUMB !!!
This shows how people don't really listen. Turner was Tina's MARRIED name which she kept because of "the commodity" as one comenter posted. Porsha merely stated she wanted her name "Williams" back which is also a very much PRIZED COMMODITY. If anyone didn't know she was wealthy before marriage, married a wealthy sports figure,is the grandaughter of a FAMOUS POLITICAL activist, they do now. I'd say she has very vauble commodities too. Oh, and being on RHOA showing her true sweet Southern self has increased the value of that commodity too. !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel sorry for Kenya because you can see it in her face when ever she looks at Porsha that she despises her because she is a very beautiful young lady (whose skin is not horrible),she is younger,she was born into a prestigious Georgia family with a silver spoon her mouth, married a sport star (who the Americans prize more than gold...atheletes) and wealthy with good sense who loves and protects her at that,and lastly has a spot on a popular tv show which she probably did not have to beg for. It shows on Kenya's face every time. Poor Kenya.
Porsha has been shown to be an ignorant woman on this show through her comments and lack of knowledge. Her fight with Kenya reflected that, she called the man who owned the resort who was talking to Kenya (Chinese) as if it was some sort of thing to be ashamed of and a “insult” to Kenya. The man himself said he is Filipino which just proves her ignorance. Get this woman off the show!
Hi Porsha! There is something about you that have grown on me. I find you to be hilarious in a cute and corny way! Although you may think that there are 265 days in a years, I believe that all of the ladies (married and non-married) can stand to learn a few things from you when it comes to how to get a man, keeping a man, getting proposed to, and being a housewife. And I totally agree with what you expressed to Kandi about the prenump topic!! I love your response to her. Women like Kandi etc. will never understand the mentality of a women who bases their love and marriage on Biblical standards....with that being said, you are right..there is no need for a prenump because our Heavely Father is your prenump! But like I said Kandi and probably the other ladies as well will not understand that mentality! Smooches doll!
"At the lunch, when she sat down with me, I’m excited. I’m a newlywed. So, I’m talking about my husband, kids,” Porsha said. “I’m looking at another adult in her 40s who should be married and have that. So, I’m talking about it with her like it’s normal, and she getting offended"
the above is porsha's quote in her own words. you can listen to it on eurweb dot com. The heading is that kenya is envious of porsha.
in other words kenya is envious of porsha's marriage status.
when a woman says nah nah to another woman over something like marriage (or having children) which can end in divorce this makes me very angry. porsha that is nothing only that she got married is now the envy of people that actually have real resumes.
porsha the universe have heard your boasts and will answer you accordingly with time. you can try and retract your statement like you tried to do on twitter or you may do at the reunion but you have already said what is in your heart , you may deceive human beings but you cannot deceive spirits. the universe has heard you and will answer you accordingly