Just would like to add (better late than never) , that you should never take advice from divorced people. They can never see their fault in the failure of their marriage. Just because someone is loud, appearing to be strong and successful in their job, does not mean they can handle a personal relationship. I was very young when I married and still am to the same guy. You picked a terrible time to go on television. You were new into your marriage and just figuring out where and how you guys would progress as a couple. If you really took your vows as seriously, as you have been stating, then it was recoverable before you got on the television and slammed your husband. Plus, implying he is gay, just because he doesn't want to have sex with YOU. Great example...Holly Berry. Please take time to yourself (away from everyone) and decide what it is you really want. From what I saw on the new episode, all the people around you are making you second guess your decisions. Out of love for you they think they are championing your cause, not good. I wish you the best, but if you want to fix your marriage, get OFF the show!